Seeking Arrangements

**Hobbyist420** · 12-30-21 09:40

Originally Posted by JohnTies [View Original Post]

I am not on but have been thinking about it again.

Just saw an email saying Seeking fees going up on Jan 4.

It is getting ridiculous with how much they charge and the site is so much worse than it has ever been from what I can see.

Have been looking around at prospects. It is a total shit show on there. Will be a full time job just to find a good one or two.

Thoughts on this increase guys?

There is a number that will kill the site. I don't know if 109.99 or 119.99 will be it but at some point, enough will be enough. Esp since luck and volume (I. E. Needing more time to weed out that UTG gem since so many scammers + flakers) factors in way more now in finding an SB.

**GangumStyle** · 12-30-21 07:28

I have signed up with SA on two other occasions and although I admit, I don't pursue very hard, I have never had a connection. Even once thought I was getting catfished.

Do I sign up for Diamond to weed out the bs? I have a SO so discretion is a must.

What are the tricks to at least get to the negotiating table?

**Melo Yello** · 12-30-21 05:19

Originally Posted by Mattis1775 [View Original Post]

A girl from Lowell and you didn't expect to get flaked? Never had luck with women, both on SA or providers from Malden up.

I've had great luck north of 95, and many from Lowell. I've had more from greater Boston area flake on me than ladies from the north!

Happy hunting!

**Melo Yello** · 12-30-21 05:17

Originally Posted by RandomChance72 [View Original Post]

Anyone have any experiences with this chick? I did a search but nothing came up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-ac4e4a1406d6

I've seen her multiple times. It did take a while to meet with her. She's a 20 YO college student with a social life so be patient. Really nice person and kind of on the shy side. She's definitely cautious until meeting. She has really nice boobs and a nice body, I would say average. Face is cute with a little acne, nothing major. I've always had fun and would see her again. YMMV and good luck.

**Member #7251** · 12-29-21 23:47

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

You do realize that SA aka Seeking Arrangements is a photo library of ladies that anyone can see? It doesn't take any special access other than opening an account, free or paid. Tinder is probably just as exposing as well considering it's a meet and fuck site.

I'm talking about having girls' pictures posted on this site, in a very obvious ***** context. Having their photos posted on usasexguide is obviously extremely different than whatever you're talking about, not sure why Tinder is even comparable to this. But again, I like to share my good finds, so I'm being extremely hypocritical.

**BR1201** · 12-29-21 23:42

Originally Posted by Wockser [View Original Post]

Is day use good? I always wondered how much it mattered for these hotels to do day rentals for part of a day. Always seemed awkward to check in for a room like that.

I use it all the time. Usually you can get a nice room for $85-105 and use it from 10-6. I don't bat an eye when I check in. I usually bring a computer bag and look like I'm doing some work meetings. I've never really had that much awkwardness except one time this idiot girl I met on SA started chatting up the front desk. She was asking them where room 105 was, how to get there, and if my "alias" had checked in. I was grabbing some waters and just shook my head and told her to knock it off and come with me. After that I started instructing them to be discreet and not talk to anyone. Unbelievable.

You do need to give a credit card and I'd though to the desk for payment. So if you're not willing to do that then it's a non starter.

I was getting a room at a hotel in Revere once and the front desk put me up in the last room down a hallway and I swear every door I passed had the do not disturb sign on the door knob. Never saw anyone enter or leave but pretty sure it was a convention of us perverts and their girlfriends LOL.

**Mfp79** · 12-29-21 21:46

Originally Posted by Mattis1775 [View Original Post]

A girl from Lowell and you didn't expect to get flaked? Never had luck with women, both on SA or providers from Malden up.

At this point I expect them all to flake. I now only meet somewhere less than 5 minutes away so I don't waste time getting to meeting that never happens.

**Wockser** · 12-29-21 21:09

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

Check both Day Use and Hotels By Day for something in the right area.

Is day use good? I always wondered how much it mattered for these hotels to do day rentals for part of a day. Always seemed awkward to check in for a room like that.

**NastySD** · 12-29-21 20:47

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-71df513db1e8

I've seen her before and I am pumped to see she is active on the site again. She is my ATF and was gone for over a year. The first time I met her it was hot and each time I saw her after that it got hotter and hotter. Straight PSE. She is incredible.

**Mattis1775** · 12-29-21 16:52

Originally Posted by Mfp79 [View Original Post]

Flaked on our M&G, tentatively rescheduled for next week, but we'll see if it happens.

A girl from Lowell and you didn't expect to get flaked? Never had luck with women, both on SA or providers from Malden up.

**Bran001** · 12-29-21 16:15

Originally Posted by MamboMikea [View Original Post]

Are there any specific hotels etc in the south shore to Providence range that provide daytime accommodations? Mist require an 11 am check out and a 3 pm check in, which makes them useless for a mid-day RDV.

Check both Day Use and Hotels By Day for something in the right area.

**TheList00** · 12-29-21 15:49

Met a very attractive, shy 18 yo girl from seeking last night. Very innocent next door type. Didn't really want much except to stay over and like a typically girl that age just looking to get out her parents house. I had to check Id after that and yea was 18 turning 19 stayed back a year. No car had to pick up and drop off, it was pretty cool, chilled, got food, plenty of sex and fooling around and she asked for 100 to have for the week I gave her 150. I was expecting to give 300 but fuck if they don't want it then ill keep it LOL.

**JohnTies** · 12-29-21 14:58

I am not on but have been thinking about it again.

Just saw an email saying Seeking fees going up on Jan 4.

It is getting ridiculous with how much they charge and the site is so much worse than it has ever been from what I can see.

Have been looking around at prospects. It is a total shit show on there. Will be a full time job just to find a good one or two.

Thoughts on this increase guys?

**Mfp79** · 12-29-21 12:19

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

Go to dayuse.com. They have reasonable hotels for daytime use. Excellent service. Several in the area you mentioned. No need for a CC until you get to the hotel.

+1 for dayuse. Easy to cancel too if things fall through, unlike priceline.