NoVA SugarBabies

**BuffBill75** · 11-18-21 11:12

Originally Posted by SexInSTL [View Original Post]

Could be a lot of reasons but I always try to remember it as NOT a real friendship. It may SEEM like it is, but 9 times out of 10 it isn't. No matter how much we get to know some of these ladies, the truth is its just a part they play. A way to make money. When they start giving freebies and wanting more of my time at no extra cost, THEN I'll start to believe there's more to it.

Other than that, they're playing a part, including the 'friendship', based upon what they think we want.

It sucks to get blocked like that. Best to not read too much into it. If it happens with another one, THEN you might want to evaluate if it's something YOU might be doing wrong.

I always tell my girls I'm not your boyfriend and that means you can be totally honest with me. If you found someone else tell me and I'm good. Plenty of girls selling pussy around. I think they are conditioned to think they have to play games. It's so annoying.

**SexInSTL** · 11-18-21 11:03

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

Ever had a SB you've been hanging with for a few months and developed a friendship and understanding with suddenly block you with no warning or explanation? I swear I don't understand these ladies sometimes.

Could be a lot of reasons but I always try to remember it as NOT a real friendship. It may SEEM like it is, but 9 times out of 10 it isn't. No matter how much we get to know some of these ladies, the truth is its just a part they play. A way to make money. When they start giving freebies and wanting more of my time at no extra cost, THEN I'll start to believe there's more to it.

Other than that, they're playing a part, including the 'friendship', based upon what they think we want.

It sucks to get blocked like that. Best to not read too much into it. If it happens with another one, THEN you might want to evaluate if it's something YOU might be doing wrong.

**GMarts018** · 11-18-21 10:51

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

Ever had a SB you've been hanging with for a few months and developed a friendship and understanding with suddenly block you with no warning or explanation? I swear I don't understand these ladies sometimes.

I had an ongoing arrangement with one. She was great. We met a few times a month and really developed a friendship. There wasn't one time where she didn't spend the night. I knew about her family, her past, probably more than I would've ever thought.

We still understood the situation and drew appropriate boundaries. Suddenly, I just stopped hearing from her. I wasn't blocked, just left on read. On texts and socials. Fast forward a few months and she posted a bunch of photos and she was on a trip with her ex which she shared a child with. I suspect a lot of times they may just change their situation. A lot of these girls will only do it if they are single. They have fun, make money, and then when they date the get out of the SB thing. Others don't care and love the money. Others are just flakey.

**BuffBill75** · 11-18-21 10:38

Originally Posted by IronMan40 [View Original Post]

I've had it happen twice. First time it happened I was just ghosted. Had a date setup, reached out the day before to confirm and never heard back. She's still active on seeking and I've seen a review for her. I figure they've found someone they want an unpaid relationship with or a SD that's paying them more. No matter what they are called, SB, escort, etc. It's a paid relationship and it's about the SB getting paid, not making friends.

Ya I guess as you get older you expect open and honest conversations like hey I have another guy I'm dating lets put this thing on hold but when I was young I probably would ghost as well to avoid the convo. I also think some of these girls have huge egos. It's like realize I have a wife that makes money and so do I, if you think I'm going to fuck up my retirement for you because the pussy is good and I treat you right you're crazy. Get over yourself.

**IronMan40** · 11-18-21 10:24

I've had it happen twice. First time it happened I was just ghosted. Had a date setup, reached out the day before to confirm and never heard back. She's still active on seeking and I've seen a review for her. I figure they've found someone they want an unpaid relationship with or a SD that's paying them more. No matter what they are called, SB, escort, etc. It's a paid relationship and it's about the SB getting paid, not making friends.

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

Ever had a SB you've been hanging with for a few months and developed a friendship and understanding with suddenly block you with no warning or explanation? I swear I don't understand these ladies sometimes.

**Itfcd** · 11-18-21 10:17

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-16eae5e87acc

I actually reached out to this one on Benefits, not Seeking. Anyone have any intel? It's a fairly new Seeking account, so I figured there's a possibility she's jumped around from account to account and someone might have already had a bad experience.

**John HandCock** · 11-18-21 09:36

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

Ever had a SB you've been hanging with for a few months and developed a friendship and understanding with suddenly block you with no warning or explanation? I swear I don't understand these ladies sometimes.

She probably figured out it was supposed to be mutually beneficial. You want to hangout and be friends civi date. But really who knows why they do what they do.

**BuffBill75** · 11-18-21 08:56

Ever had a SB you've been hanging with for a few months and developed a friendship and understanding with suddenly block you with no warning or explanation? I swear I don't understand these ladies sometimes.

**Mandane** · 11-18-21 02:41

Meet this one a while ago. She's a bartender formerly in Reston and now in Springfield. Gets hit on constantly at work and posts a shit ton to social media. Probably a bit of a warning to the married guys, she posted twice to social media while on our meet and greet. I bought here some food and boom right to Snapchat video. She's a bit ditzy but with big giant tits. She's one of those chicks who appears to just be bouncing from bar to bar. Has a kid, but she figured that she was tired of fucking dude bros and baby daddies for free and wanted to get paid to bone. Offered $300, she wanted $500. A bit too much of a hot mess for me, so I passed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...c-83803a63a51e

**ShortMan22** · 11-17-21 06:20

Was easy to communicate with and straight to the point. Can't host, would need advance notice to get a nanny. Seeking 500 per meet. I didn't feel like it was worth it so I wished her well.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...4-3070a63f680d

**OutWestGuy** · 11-16-21 21:40

I met her under an old username a while back. I set up a meet with her and she was on her period but said she could bring a friend along who could fuck and she would join but just suck me off. I was hesitant to make the meet but pulled the trigger.

Both showed up to my hotel room. Friend was in a dress with fishnets underneath. Definitely the more attractive one too. After drinking and getting to know each other her friend starts to make out with me and stroking my cock. I pull off her dress and finger her under the fishnets. She takes them off and both start sucking on me. She then is squirting from the fingering and sits on my cock before even talking condoms. I proceed to pound her with Ilovecookiess watching and she took it very well with a rough doggy. I finish inside. After recharging I go two more rounds with her friend. Both were very chills but her friend was definitely the star of the show and the only one I would repeat a visit with.

**FogHorn1** · 11-16-21 14:11

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

A newbie to vanilla credit cards. Appreciate advice from those members who have been successful at this. Sorry for the basic questions. Just trying to learn quickly.

1. do I get an electronic card that comes in an email or go to store and get a vanilla gift card. Does it matter.

2. I am assuming that we have to provide a burner number, alias name and some random address in the neighborhood.

Any other things that I should watch out for?

Hey Jon,

Doesn't matter where you get the card. I find it easier to just get them electronically via email but if you need to cover your tracks with a SO you're better off paying cash for one at the grocery store. I don't understand the second part of your question. You don't need to provide any info when using the card. Are you asking about using the card on SA? If that's the case, I just make up random info (name, address, etc.) when using the card to pay for a month at a time and never have any issues. Hope this helps.

**Tbnovamoco** · 11-16-21 10:37

Originally Posted by FogHorn1 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...6-4ef8dcad2afc

This one looks so familiar, but no reports on her. I would have sworn she's been reported on in the past, am I missing something? Has anyone met her?

She is real. I am guessing she was once a dancer. She has a lot of rules but she is a nice girl.

**Tbnovamoco** · 11-16-21 10:31

Originally Posted by WillTravel [View Original Post]

Dude. There's a report literally on the same page.

Disagree about her looks. She is hot as hell and has a great body. A bit of a starfish though. Anyone else had any experience with her?

**JonFisher** · 11-16-21 08:21

Originally Posted by FogHorn1 [View Original Post]

I used Vanilla just last month.

A newbie to vanilla credit cards. Appreciate advice from those members who have been successful at this. Sorry for the basic questions. Just trying to learn quickly.

1. do I get an electronic card that comes in an email or go to store and get a vanilla gift card. Does it matter.

2. I am assuming that we have to provide a burner number, alias name and some random address in the neighborhood.

Any other things that I should watch out for?