Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

[Mo8888]

Well written and spot on. My experience with SA to a tee. I would add one more and that is those who use a texting app (usually with an out of state area code) or want you to use What's App. I understand some use an app for security purposes, but 9 times out of 10 it's a scam.

So a couple of people wanting help. After being an SD for many years I can tell you that some of it just comes with a bit of experience dealing with crazy situations but I'll try to provide a short list.

1. Never pay in advance, do not send dick pics especially with your face unless you want extorted. Either situation will leave you alone on a date with Rosie.

2. Within your profile just try to be normal, something like "Just an average, chill guy, looking to have fun with one lady, who appreciates a successful man. Looking for discretion, and one on one time with the right lady. " Avoid words like "intimacy, sex, ppm, etc. " just state "I prefer to discuss this stuff off line, if you'd like to text to work out specifics, I'm down for that. " Always speak like you're chill and cool.

3. Hide all Live in Indiana, Indiana. They don't live in Indiana and / or live too far away and have zero good intentions.

4. Just hide the ones that say that they are looking to sell pics and videos or meet in person eventually, there is no eventually.

5. If they text you, don't assume all is good, talk to them like normal, if they say times have been tough (red flag, ask more questions. Chances are it'll lead to asking you for money for a baby sitter, money for their sisters meds, money for groceries, or gas ahead of meeting. Just wait for it, I promise, 90% of the time, they'll reveal that to you and then you'll just end up blocking them, therefore refer to rule number 1.

6. Never pay for a meet and greet. If a woman needs to be paid to simply meet for drinks, she doesn't like you anyway and you aren't getting anywhere but a boner for some hot chick being a ***** to you and checking her watch.

7. Ignore the "My last SD paid me" or "I usually get" because remember, they just said "I'm new to this". So stick to your guns, the average is 2-3 $4 these days, or 4 $$ for top of the line, hosting, no hotel, babes. Fat, ugly chicks, maybe $1.

8. If their first and last call is todays date, feel free to reach out and let us know how it goes. But chances are they are dudes who robbed instagram photos so might as well wait a day or two to see if they get banned or not.

9. Some women despite what I said are real, and just on drugs, so ask for current photos and look for obvious signs of pharma use -- track marks, rotten teeth, extremely skinny, etc. At that point its up to you, just please use a condom with the real women on that site that the rest of us may choose to date. I don't want what you catch from the crackster.

10. Be nice, be real, be sincere. While they are all hooking, basically, some do like to see one guy at a time (most lie but some no) so be cool to them. If they want to meet you and you click with them in text, they probably do find you attractive for your age so be even more nice to them. Just don't start offering stupid money to make them think that's the norm, because they likely aren't just seeing you and our replies will just piss them off and your price will go up as a result (just sayin' Consider your hourly worth and never offer more then that as you surely aren't getting your value at that point. Also consider their hourly rate if they have a job, and meet somewhere in the middle. Mutual means mutual. Last point here. If you meet a good one, stick with her for a while, until things wear off for both of you, as the good ones are more rare these days and as long as I've been on I've had the luxury of once knowing great ones who are still on every single day that are now just bitter and cold.

11. Don't discuss price. I've gotten laid for free simply for being successful and charming the hell out of a woman many times. Just agree to meet, and avoid Starbucks, those dates suck and usually just create uncomfortable situations. Somewhere comfortable for both of you. Also, you don't want to be entrapped for solicitation. So stick to the "we can discuss that once we know chemistry exists on both sides as I want you and I to both be comfortable with one another. " If you meet in person the price normally cuts down considerably.

12. It's best to discuss "weekly until I know you better allowance" and focus the energy on how many times per week, better value that way. Many will want a ball park, just throw it back in their lap and ask them what their ball park is and say "Ok, sounds cool, we can discuss that in person. ".

13. If they need to know price upfront without even getting to know you, just tell them you aren't on Ebay, you're on a dating site, do you want to get to know me or not? If not, then move on, that or fuck with them but caution. You could get reported and banned from the site.

14. I'll stop on an even number. I don't care if a lady is a pro hooker or a lady who is trying to get through college, or a lady just wants a slightly older man to marry, the site is becoming very diverse and is full of crazy ass liberals. So I guess the best suggestion I could give is to not rush the conversation to What, how much, when, and where. Just get to know them as if you wanted to date them, or had interest in considering so. It'll get you further with more incredible experiences then if you treated someone like a peace of meat; as you probably don't want treated like an ATM.

Hope some of this is helpful and I'm sure others will have useful advice.

P.S. -- if you want to know about someone, I only block those that fall into the unsafe category and most of the time when you guys are asking about someone with plans to meet, I've long ago blocked them because either a: they wanted money up front, b: were on drugs c: sent nasty photos compared to their profile, or d: were super GPS (like over 5 $$ . Which I'd pay for a dream chick I must admit but never more). I'll try to do better by just hiding them so I can give advice but will be sure to let you know if I blocked them for those reasons. I never block someone over just being an ass, as they usually forget about me within a couple of weeks and like Ground Hog Day I can attempt a better approach the next time. Just PM me as I don't check in here often enough to reply. Also I would say, trust Mr. P. He's a good dude and knows his shit.

JaX.

[Charming1]

How is she in bed. And what was the damage.

Last May, I banged her few times. She's messed up in the head, would travel to Evansville and work in the banking industry. It took awhile to get that panty to drop for sure, problem is she is train wreck and has more baggage than a Southwest 73X can handle. I don't have her contact any more, anything goes with her and tight kitty.

She's similar to that girl, Lowkey.

[OnlyBlondes]

My point. Women are thinking that it's just a mutually beneficial, no strings attached relationship like it's supposed to be. But instead we, as men, are making it a game. And making the women our prey.

How can you use the term "we, as men " , when you're a provider, Jordan?

[BabbyGirrl1313]

I believe I said I'd likely give her a chance IF she'd ever reply to her texts. But like I said, either she's keeping busy with other guys, or she's not the best at communication, or maybe pharma is in play. Either way, in my personal experience, she has not communicated well. If that is important to a Monger, then maybe that information will be of help to him. I do understand your point, she's been reported as not being very concerned about protection -- and what happened -- more guys wanted her digits. So can't disagree with anything you just said. Doesn't matter, I moved on, holidays are approaching and the best gifts are soon to arrive with more urgent needs.

I will say though, some SBs are touchy regarding changing plans, especially same day, however there are two sides to every coin. On the guys side, maybe a kid got sick, a wife took the day off work, the guy has a health issue, had a business meeting change, or she simply rubbed him the wrong way with attitude; some SB's just flip out and talk shit to their other / future SD's about him. I tend to take those complaints with a grain of salt, and also further validates my points that using the same user name here and there, as well as your point of those reviewing great ladies are probably both a bad idea. Instead I just focus on her and I. What I have seen more of is SD's white knighting to benefit themselves and disadvantaging their perceived competition. It's just a part of the game I guess. Whatever guy your talking about either must be very smooth with words and or deep pockets if they keep going back to what these ladies are stating is a bad situation.

J.

My point. Women are thinking that it's just a mutually beneficial, no strings attached relationship like it's supposed to be. But instead we, as men, are making it a game. And making the women our prey.

[OnlyBlondes]

I've talked to this one on and off. She seems difficult to get together with. And her profile comes and goes. Anyone hook up with her?

Last May, I banged her few times. She's messed up in the head, would travel to Evansville and work in the banking industry. It took awhile to get that panty to drop for sure, problem is she is train wreck and has more baggage than a Southwest 73X can handle. I don't have her contact any more, anything goes with her and tight kitty.

She's similar to that girl, Lowkey.

[Ty Cox]

Have at it boys and girls. 500 a meet for 1 hour. GPS is contagious in Indy, I'll concur with most guys on here, bottom of the barrel SB's lately in Indy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-e9de911c35c8

Hold out until somebody gives them the $500. Then after they actually do it it's not so bad to do it again so they'll drop their price.

[BabbyGirrl1313]

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[Charming1]

I've talked to this one on and off. She seems difficult to get together with. And her profile comes and goes. Anyone hook up with her?

[OnlyBlondes]

Have at it boys and girls. 500 a meet for 1 hour. GPS is contagious in Indy, I'll concur with most guys on here, bottom of the barrel SB's lately in Indy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-e9de911c35c8

[Indyjc01]

A guy I used to know who was a huge player told me once and Ill never forget it. All publicity is good publicity even bad. Plenty of mongers hit on girls and keep them busy no matter how bad they suck. For whatever reason I don't understand the why and it works both ways. Many of the girls he dated he would lie to and they'd find out tell each other but still come running back. The more other guys / girls warned girls of his bad rep, the more girls ran to him.

I know a couple of SB's who visit this forum, I saw a monger give a dam good girl a bad review, he has a habit of that, and as it goes YMMV, etc. No names given, whole nuther story. Anyway she saw it and called me and was so excited she got reviewed. I said but it was a bad review? I'm confused?? She said honey my IN BOX messages just doubled, I went up based on his "bad" review. She said even if he "throws shade" on me. My name is still in everyone's mouth and they go look at my pics. She aint wrong. . no doubt ANY SB / provider on this forum will stay busy with ANY review. The one exception I've seen is when LE or STI is mentioned.

For instance, how many times have you messaged a girl that a link was provided in here that another monger said was, trouble or GPS just to make sure. LOL I rest my case.

LOL I look. Thankfully I'm not a paid SA member so I can't contact them.

[Jax0077]

A guy I used to know who was a huge player told me once and Ill never forget it. All publicity is good publicity even bad. Plenty of mongers hit on girls and keep them busy no matter how bad they suck. For whatever reason I don't understand the why and it works both ways. Many of the girls he dated he would lie to and they'd find out tell each other but still come running back. The more other guys / girls warned girls of his bad rep, the more girls ran to him.

I know a couple of SB's who visit this forum, I saw a monger give a dam good girl a bad review, he has a habit of that, and as it goes YMMV, etc. No names given, whole nuther story. Anyway she saw it and called me and was so excited she got reviewed. I said but it was a bad review? I'm confused?? She said honey my IN BOX messages just doubled, I went up based on his "bad" review. She said even if he "throws shade" on me. My name is still in everyone's mouth and they go look at my pics. She aint wrong. . no doubt ANY SB / provider on this forum will stay busy with ANY review. The one exception I've seen is when LE or STI is mentioned.

For instance, how many times have you messaged a girl that a link was provided in here that another monger said was, trouble or GPS just to make sure. LOL I rest my case.

I believe I said I'd likely give her a chance IF she'd ever reply to her texts. But like I said, either she's keeping busy with other guys, or she's not the best at communication, or maybe pharma is in play. Either way, in my personal experience, she has not communicated well. If that is important to a Monger, then maybe that information will be of help to him. I do understand your point, she's been reported as not being very concerned about protection -- and what happened -- more guys wanted her digits. So can't disagree with anything you just said. Doesn't matter, I moved on, holidays are approaching and the best gifts are soon to arrive with more urgent needs.

I will say though, some SBs are touchy regarding changing plans, especially same day, however there are two sides to every coin. On the guys side, maybe a kid got sick, a wife took the day off work, the guy has a health issue, had a business meeting change, or she simply rubbed him the wrong way with attitude; some SB's just flip out and talk shit to their other / future SD's about him. I tend to take those complaints with a grain of salt, and also further validates my points that using the same user name here and there, as well as your point of those reviewing great ladies are probably both a bad idea. Instead I just focus on her and I. What I have seen more of is SD's white knighting to benefit themselves and disadvantaging their perceived competition. It's just a part of the game I guess. Whatever guy your talking about either must be very smooth with words and or deep pockets if they keep going back to what these ladies are stating is a bad situation.

J.

[WreckItRight]

I've spoken to her several times but her texting skills aren't great. I'll text her and get a reply like 10 hours later. Either she's high volume or pharma is involved. I mean, just being honest. But healthy ladies aren't that skinny, and her teeth in the photos do appear to have some signs of pharma. But I could be wrong. She just acts a bit off her rockers. She does look hot and I'd give it a swirl if she followed through, but best case scenario she has her hands full with a few guys on here and isn't needing the support right now.

A guy I used to know who was a huge player told me once and Ill never forget it. All publicity is good publicity even bad. Plenty of mongers hit on girls and keep them busy no matter how bad they suck. For whatever reason I don't understand the why and it works both ways. Many of the girls he dated he would lie to and they'd find out tell each other but still come running back. The more other guys / girls warned girls of his bad rep, the more girls ran to him.

I know a couple of SB's who visit this forum, I saw a monger give a dam good girl a bad review, he has a habit of that, and as it goes YMMV, etc. No names given, whole nuther story. Anyway she saw it and called me and was so excited she got reviewed. I said but it was a bad review? I'm confused?? She said honey my IN BOX messages just doubled, I went up based on his "bad" review. She said even if he "throws shade" on me. My name is still in everyone's mouth and they go look at my pics. She aint wrong. . no doubt ANY SB / provider on this forum will stay busy with ANY review. The one exception I've seen is when LE or STI is mentioned.

For instance, how many times have you messaged a girl that a link was provided in here that another monger said was, trouble or GPS just to make sure. LOL I rest my case.

[DuckRep]

Been there. Done that. Not for 8. $$5. Anal fsbb.

Didn't go back at $$5. Can't imagine anyone is going any higher.

I am always surprised when a girl has seen someone in the past at a reasonable price $$. 5 and then somehow at a later date thinks that $800 is a reasonable price. I understand that they may get someone to pay gps wages one time, however the remaining time they are on the site constantly looking for the unicorn that will pay that price again. Crazy!! As was mentioned you can visit 2-3 comparable ladies for the same money.

[Jax0077]

Anyone had any experience with these two? Haven't seen any reviews. Thanks in advance!

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...0-a9fcf5fa54c9

Got her to text me, replied, never heard back.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...3-66d5ab95ff4b

This one has a bit of an attitude, started texting, her replies are always rude, I just moved on. I pay her to be polite and pretend like she wants to meet, if she wants to be a B then she can pay me.

[Jax0077]

https://www.seeking.com/member/22497...0-d26b833b571a

Has anyone gotten with this Jordyn here in the last month?

Wondering if I'm wasting my time reaching out.

I've spoken to her several times but her texting skills aren't great. I'll text her and get a reply like 10 hours later. Either she's high volume or pharma is involved. I mean, just being honest. But healthy ladies aren't that skinny, and her teeth in the photos do appear to have some signs of pharma. But I could be wrong. She just acts a bit off her rockers. She does look hot and I'd give it a swirl if she followed through, but best case scenario she has her hands full with a few guys on here and isn't needing the support right now.