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**FirstClass1** · 10-14-21 19:39

Originally Posted by Alkalinedio [View Original Post]

Great advice, I concur on that. Sometimes talking to them good on the phone before and get to know them goes a long way. The sharks or hardcore girls who are basically escorts, they won't even entertain a phone call they will just say "when do you want to meet" for me only, I pass on those as it's going to be transactional with capital letters. To each their own, but I can feel that one may suck for me.

Stay safe.

AD.

Being personable, good looking / good hygiene, attentive and good company always pays dividends in the FC: longer dates, lower allowances, uncovered and unlimited access to all holes, etc. Most SBs are looking for value beyond the cash and will be flexible. Only the hustlers and scammers are fixated on the dollar amounts.

As has been mentioned before, different demographics have varying allowance rates too. White and Asian girls tend to ask for a lot more, generally between 400-1 k, though it is still possible to find some willing to date for 200-300. Latinas are the next tier, with mids and uglies being affordable, and the modelesque types commanding allowances around the four figure range. Black girls are in least demand and are the most likely to be affordable, though the good looking ones among them may ask for a lot more.

Seeing HG's posts on his 100 buck dates, I decided to message a few black girls for the sake of satisfying my curiosity.

I was consistently able to have black girls agree to meet for the equivalent of 100-150. I even had a 19 yo college girl agree to 400 a month with two overnights a week. Essentially 50 bucks for all night access to all her holes.

I didn't follow through with any of them, as black girls are not my personal preference. If you want to try your luck with any of these, feel free to DM me and I'll forward the links.

Should you make an effort to be handsome and / or good company, you can still get excellent experiences at a reasonable allowance regardless of demographic.

**Anontt6** · 10-14-21 19:29

Originally Posted by FirstClass1 [View Original Post]

That is exactly why you never provide your real address to someone you haven't even met yet. Chances are they already looked up your address on Google, and will case the place at their leisure.

Never leave any money in sight at the beginning of the date, never give money at the beginning of the date. Don't think like a trick, you are a Sugar Daddy. If you've already agreed upon an allowance, simply provide it at the end of the date. There's an old saying, "The prepaid musician plays a lousy tune. ".

A hotel is far more comfortable than a car date, and safer than your personal residence, especially for a first meet. Always have full control of the environment, don't meet at a place you don't recognize unless you have countermeasures in place, should things go sideways. Personally I don't book a hotel until I know we're heading to the FC. I set up a meet and greet in a public setting, and if the vibe is right, and she's DTF, then a few swipes on the phone and I've booked a room in a nice hotel. We'll simply walk over and have a great time.

These are some really good tips. I lost count of the number of SBs that give me their personal cell and how quickly I can Google their info, family, social media, and other shit from just that. The same can be done in reverse on you if not using a burner. Nothing wrong with Googling and doing your homework, just don't let the other side know you cracked their codes.

I was burned on the hotel recently. Booked a date with a SB and got a room with my points, SB cancelled last minute. Fortunately, I had a backup SB lined up and the room wasnt wasted. I was able to BBFS a 20-something white chick for two hours, all for 2 benjiis. The first SB that cancelled wanted to reschedule, saying she was absolutely sure she was able to make it, she could go to my home, and no hotel room needed. Little head (or big head depending how you look at it) did the thinking and booked ANOTHER hotel room with points. About an hour before we meet she tells me she needs to cut the meeting short to under an hour in the FC. I got the room already, so fuck it: fuck the brains out of a 20-something ABG BBFS for 45 minutes for $. 5.

**Alkalinedio** · 10-14-21 09:41

Great advice, I concur on that. Sometimes talking to them good on the phone before and get to know them goes a long way. The sharks or hardcore girls who are basically escorts, they won't even entertain a phone call they will just say "when do you want to meet" for me only, I pass on those as it's going to be transactional with capital letters. To each their own, but I can feel that one may suck for me.

Stay safe.

AD.

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

Could be good sex, or just doing mundane shit for them, or just be willing to hang out with them, maybe drive them somewhere, . All stuff once you know you are getting your share. Giving advice. Time is money. And a lot of guys don't give these girls any time. Some of them want that.

**Alkalinedio** · 10-14-21 09:39

I like that saying about the musician!

Originally Posted by FirstClass1 [View Original Post]

That is exactly why you never provide your real address to someone you haven't even met yet. Chances are they already looked up your address on Google, and will case the place at their leisure.

Never leave any money in sight at the beginning of the date, never give money at the beginning of the date. Don't think like a trick, you are a Sugar Daddy. If you've already agreed upon an allowance, simply provide it at the end of the date. There's an old saying, "The prepaid musician plays a lousy tune. ".

A hotel is far more comfortable than a car date, and safer than your personal residence, especially for a first meet. Always have full control of the environment, don't meet at a place you don't recognize unless you have countermeasures in place, should things go sideways. Personally I don't book a hotel until I know we're heading to the FC. I set up a meet and greet in a public setting, and if the vibe is right, and she's DTF, then a few swipes on the phone and I've booked a room in a nice hotel. We'll simply walk over and have a great time.

Determining good vibes is a matter of personal perception and picking up on non-verbal cues. I've gone on dates where a girl verbalizes that she's DTF, but then doesn't maintain eye contact, shrinks away from friendly touch, or declines food, drink, or other offers. If she declines to kiss you before heading to the hotel, how can you expect things to go any better once you're there? Obviously moving forward in such a scenario will result in at best a lousy lay, or at worse a rob or other drama-laden situation.

**HollywoodGuy** · 10-13-21 22:32

Originally Posted by PussyPumper [View Original Post]

Could you flesh that out, so to speak?

- Non cash gifts?

- Making sure she has her share of orgasms?

- Or?

Could be good sex, or just doing mundane shit for them, or just be willing to hang out with them, maybe drive them somewhere, . All stuff once you know you are getting your share. Giving advice. Time is money. And a lot of guys don't give these girls any time. Some of them want that.

**HollywoodGuy** · 10-13-21 22:27

Originally Posted by HappyJob [View Original Post]

Talked to her and she's willing to meet up but wants half of the money upfront, told her not going to happen and left it at that.

Too bad, but she was legit when I saw her, maybe 2 or 3 times.

**FirstClass1** · 10-13-21 21:06

Originally Posted by Ajfff [View Original Post]

Glad I could help. Surprised her English was good on the phone, wasn't in person. Maybe she's just good on the intro points. Definitely shouldn't have been so eager to meet her when she was that eager for me. But I asked specific things and got assurances. Which she promptly ignored in person.

Also for the topic of everyone else talking BM, I have had a few things go sour. I just blocked them and they forgot about it or moved on.

The only ones that have thrown me for a real loop are the ones that suddenly ghost on the way! It leaves me wondering if they got cold feet or are going to try a heist / robbery at night. Never had anything happen though, just worries over it. I HAVE had girls that I saw several times take the amount that I left out for them early and run. So I learned to never leave anything out.

I just don't get those that try to cheap out for car dates or cheap the girl out and pay for a hotel. If it's your thing, great, but you're generally going to have less of a good time and run other risks with low quality.

Might post another thing or 2 down the road here before going quiet again for a few years, but just the ones I think you should avoid!

That is exactly why you never provide your real address to someone you haven't even met yet. Chances are they already looked up your address on Google, and will case the place at their leisure.

Never leave any money in sight at the beginning of the date, never give money at the beginning of the date. Don't think like a trick, you are a Sugar Daddy. If you've already agreed upon an allowance, simply provide it at the end of the date. There's an old saying, "The prepaid musician plays a lousy tune. ".

A hotel is far more comfortable than a car date, and safer than your personal residence, especially for a first meet. Always have full control of the environment, don't meet at a place you don't recognize unless you have countermeasures in place, should things go sideways. Personally I don't book a hotel until I know we're heading to the FC. I set up a meet and greet in a public setting, and if the vibe is right, and she's DTF, then a few swipes on the phone and I've booked a room in a nice hotel. We'll simply walk over and have a great time.

Determining good vibes is a matter of personal perception and picking up on non-verbal cues. I've gone on dates where a girl verbalizes that she's DTF, but then doesn't maintain eye contact, shrinks away from friendly touch, or declines food, drink, or other offers. If she declines to kiss you before heading to the hotel, how can you expect things to go any better once you're there? Obviously moving forward in such a scenario will result in at best a lousy lay, or at worse a rob or other drama-laden situation.

**Ajfff** · 10-13-21 08:04

Originally Posted by PhillUponThese [View Original Post]

She definitely talks a good game and her English was damn near flawless when we spoke on the phone-I just decided to pass as she seemed too damn eager to meet up and was willing to drive pretty much anywhere I would tell her. Thanks for sharing.

Glad I could help. Surprised her English was good on the phone, wasn't in person. Maybe she's just good on the intro points. Definitely shouldn't have been so eager to meet her when she was that eager for me. But I asked specific things and got assurances. Which she promptly ignored in person.

Also for the topic of everyone else talking BM, I have had a few things go sour. I just blocked them and they forgot about it or moved on.

The only ones that have thrown me for a real loop are the ones that suddenly ghost on the way! It leaves me wondering if they got cold feet or are going to try a heist / robbery at night. Never had anything happen though, just worries over it. I HAVE had girls that I saw several times take the amount that I left out for them early and run. So I learned to never leave anything out.

I just don't get those that try to cheap out for car dates or cheap the girl out and pay for a hotel. If it's your thing, great, but you're generally going to have less of a good time and run other risks with low quality.

Might post another thing or 2 down the road here before going quiet again for a few years, but just the ones I think you should avoid!

**FarFarAway** · 10-12-21 19:10

We all see girls we've seen on the site before, and we've messaged back and forth with, but never got to the point of meeting, or maybe even of talking to them. Just texting, on the site or off it. Maybe she has seen your real pix. Perhaps they've been away from the site and you recognize them when they come back on. Or you've been away.

What is the best way to approach a girl in this instance? Remind her that you messaged her before and the interactions were good? Act like you are a total new SD trying to connect w / her?

**PussyPumper** · 10-12-21 15:07

Originally Posted by JackMiles [View Original Post]

This is good advice, especially if you have a significant other. But single guys are willing to take the risk by bringing them to their place as it saves on having to pay for a room.

While the need to practice OpSec may be self-evident when you have an SO in the picture, I would argue that even single guys need to be careful:

- Are you affluent?

- Do you have a job where knowledge of your SA arrangements would cause reputational damage? (law, police, politics, secret clearance.).

- Significant social standing?

- Parents, children or friends who would disapprove or be hurt?

- Church membership?

And even if you don't have any of these factors now, what of 6 months or a few years from now?

**ID2468** · 10-12-21 02:33

Originally Posted by BigBear818 [View Original Post]

This chick wanted 500 ppm and she ghosted me when I asked for 400.

I wonder what her normal outcall rates are.

https://www.models-world.com/nevada/jasminelv/

**BigBear818** · 10-12-21 02:19

Originally Posted by PussyDestroyr [View Original Post]

Bareback an option with her?

I hope so for her asking price. She's smoking hot though 😍.

**Alkalinedio** · 10-11-21 23:28

I second all that. Aliases, or wrong spellings of my name.

I do 99% car dates always, I got sunshades and window tint all around. Every now and then I'll get a room but I don't bring any girls over my house, ever unless I really trust them. I met a little hustler I posted about in the OC SB board that when she was with me her boyfriend was bugging her because her "location" was not on, just drama like that I don't need. My house is my sanctuary I want to keep mellow and peaceful. But, to each their own. I made an exception once or twice after hanging out with them a few times and knew they didn't have a boyfriend nearby, or checking their location. One I flew in from another city so not to worry about that one. Burners always.

Stay safe.

Originally Posted by JackMiles [View Original Post]

This is good advice, especially if you have a significant other. But single guys are willing to take the risk by bringing them to their place as it saves on having to pay for a room.