"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**SRH59** · 07-22-21 10:25

I didn't know these things existed. Good post. There appears to be some recognition by Apple about the risk of those with nefarious intent. From the Apple site:

AirTag is designed to discourage unwanted tracking. If someone else's AirTag finds its way into your stuff, your iPhone will notice it's traveling with you and send you an alert. After a while, if you still haven't found it, the AirTag will start playing a sound to let you know it's there.

Of course, if you happen to be with a friend who has an AirTag, or on a train with a whole bunch of people with AirTag, don't worry. These alerts are triggered only when an AirTag is separated from its owner.

Originally Posted by SaTraveler [View Original Post]

This thread is generally regarded as the first and the most widely ready by SD / Mongers.

As such I wanted to post the danger of the new Apple Airtags to the SD / SB lifestyle.

These little things are a bad actor SD / monger / stalker's wet dream. They are so small and can be slipped into the bottom of a SB's bag or even car and never found. The the bad actor can track his SB. Not sure how Apple would react to relinquishing the owner of an AirTag without a Court Subpoena.

IN REVERSE. Those of us SD's that are worried about revealing our true identities can easily be "AirTagged" by the SB and tracked back to our homes and places of work. It is SO EASY.

So in the case of the SD Airtagging the SB -- it will only take one real public and tragic case to explode in our faces. National Press and end of the seeking site.

In the case of an SB Airtagging her SD -- he is so fucked!!

No idea how we can defend ourselves against these things -- does anybody know of a BluTooth scanner that can scan bags / room for active devices?

SATraveler.

**TakesALicking** · 07-22-21 10:15

Originally Posted by ColinRva [View Original Post]

Anyone have any info? Only reports a few years old. Thank you.

I've messaged her off site off and on. Never actually met. Seems DTF but so far only talk and no action.

**Member #6575** · 07-22-21 09:54

This thread is generally regarded as the first and the most widely ready by SD / Mongers.

As such I wanted to post the danger of the new Apple Airtags to the SD / SB lifestyle.

These little things are a bad actor SD / monger / stalker's wet dream. They are so small and can be slipped into the bottom of a SB's bag or even car and never found. The the bad actor can track his SB. Not sure how Apple would react to relinquishing the owner of an AirTag without a Court Subpoena.

IN REVERSE. Those of us SD's that are worried about revealing our true identities can easily be "AirTagged" by the SB and tracked back to our homes and places of work. It is SO EASY.

So in the case of the SD Airtagging the SB -- it will only take one real public and tragic case to explode in our faces. National Press and end of the seeking site.

In the case of an SB Airtagging her SD -- he is so fucked!!

No idea how we can defend ourselves against these things -- does anybody know of a BluTooth scanner that can scan bags / room for active devices?

SATraveler.

**Jcn1965** · 07-22-21 06:57

Originally Posted by Dakota1212 [View Original Post]

How do you use Tender, do you post a picture of someone else? I'd love to use it, I could rack up but I'm afraid someone I know would see it.

I posted a picture of me wearing a mask and a hat so you can tell it's me but you can't be sure. I don't have a SO so I really dgf who sees it. The mask is a good tool to use to say I'm safe and hide who you are all at same time. Be safe.

**GolfMan57** · 07-22-21 06:04

Wanted to meet in just a few hours. Then came the request for $20 cashapp. I politely declined.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a4724...5-9cf8a583899d

**ColinRva** · 07-22-21 05:38

Anyone have any info? Only reports a few years old. Thank you.

**DogBert77** · 07-21-21 14:53

Originally Posted by Lemooky1764 [View Original Post]

Amen to that! I am now inspired to continue the mission. Thank you Dogbert77.

Piece be with you, my son. Now go forth and score thyself a piece.

**Dakota1212** · 07-21-21 14:19

How do you use Tender, do you post a picture of someone else? I'd love to use it, I could rack up but I'm afraid someone I know would see it.

Originally Posted by Jcn1965 [View Original Post]

Absolutely. After 30 days of poor contacts and got one out of 100 I stopped paying. I now only use BLK or tinder and my % of meeting has actually improved. I tracked my progress for 3 weeks. Out of 76 reach outs on BLK I got 10 responses then out of those I got 5 digits. So far I've met one which was successful and I got another meeting planned when I get chance to get to Va beach area. It's free costs me nothing but time. Be safe.

**EasyeOne** · 07-21-21 10:35

Has anyone had any experience or have intel on the two below? Both dtf.

Exoticbby - https://www.seeking.com/member/68fb5...3-11d83edb1937.

Milkacoco3 - https://www.seeking.com/member/4b731...4-7f67a53f88be.

**FarFarAway** · 07-21-21 09:58

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

I would sign that petition. I say we boycott on No Nut November. The only way any company will change is if you hit them in the wallet.

The problem is, there is no real competition to SA. Even with all the chaff, it is the only site with wheat. Almost all of us have tried other sugar sites, they don't have the quality or quantity of women we're looking for.

**Hal1957** · 07-21-21 09:30

I may have misinterpreted your post. So many of these girls create profiles and then abandon them after when they don't land a whale the first few days. Are these girls who continue to be active on the web site? If she hasn't checked her account in the last 3 days, she isn't serious or she's taken.

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I have their phone #s to text, and screen grabs of their profiles in case they have taken them down. That's not the point. I text them to try to rekindle some action, I often get little uptake.

**FarFarAway** · 07-21-21 00:36

Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]

Move the conversation off SA as quickly as possible. It's safer to do your negotiating away from their prying eyes. And you don't lose your contact information when your membership expires.

I have their phone #s to text, and screen grabs of their profiles in case they have taken them down. That's not the point. I text them to try to rekindle some action, I often get little uptake.

**Lemooky1764** · 07-20-21 23:45

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Bless you, my child. YOu are doing the Lord's work and should be sainted!

Amen to that! I am now inspired to continue the mission. Thank you Dogbert77.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 07-20-21 18:55

Originally Posted by RogerOver [View Original Post]

The sad part is, even if someone circulated a petition to get guys to boycott the site until they straightened that shit out, you couldn't get enough participation to have any effect. The lure of the very possibility of pussy is too strong for some / most of the guys on there.

I would sign that petition. I say we boycott on No Nut November. The only way any company will change is if you hit them in the wallet.

**Hal1957** · 07-20-21 18:15

Move the conversation off SA as quickly as possible. It's safer to do your negotiating away from their prying eyes. And you don't lose your contact information when your membership expires.

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Like most, I only get a month's membership in SA at a time, build up a lot of contacts, and try to follow up on them even after my membership expires. However, I find that even if I have had good interactions texting with a POT, it can be difficult when I no longer have a profile on the site (I take it down when I am not paid, to prevent a lot of fruitless messaging) to them to engage. Does anyone have any tricks to get this going?