Seeking Arrangements

**Hobbyist420** · 07-10-21 14:10

Originally Posted by ManDownUnder [View Original Post]

I've probably chatted with at least 100 girls off SA, maybe 3-4 have politely hinted at a meal. I've done a meal twice. One ended up being a keeper and one was a waste of time. I don't recall any asking for $ to meet. Maybe some did ask for $, but I would have just blocked and moved on if they did.

Never agree to pay for just meet and greet; and yes, coffee is the play for the first meet (and maybe maybe even lyft / uber to and from if she's a smoke).

As for dinner: I know some guys say, "don't do dinner!" and that's probably the safe play and standard to go by; but sometimes you got to gamble to get either the smoke / UTR you want. You just have to use judgement, which comes with experience in dealing with these broads.

You have to be selective for whom you offer dinner, and the ROI for said dinner in relation to the hotness / UTR potential of the girl you are talking to. You can also pro-rate the dinner in suggesting places that aren't too expensive or bougie; actually, if a girl does suggest a high end place for dinner for first meet: block her for the reasons below.

The danger is that (and I've been a victim in the past) there are, what I call, "dinner hunters" on the SA where girls are proposing dinner for a meet and greet which they promise fun for later meets, but once you take them out, they ghost your ass for a free meal. I've been had twice and it certainly sucks. One girl wasn't even worth it but at the time I was an SA noob and you live and learn. If a girl is really interested in you, and isn't a dinner hunter, they aren't going to care where you bring them whether its the taco place or the local pub (minus McDonald's or some shit LOL).

I've had great success with other dinner dates however, including a brazilian 10 (which I did have to pay $$$$ sugar for after for the bedroom fun), but we had 4 hours of amazing BBFS. And even sometimes you luck into getting what I'd call "the dinner freebie" (I've gotten twice), where you pay for dinner / drinks, and then smash after, for no additional cost. Rare, but they do exist. Some of these girls are just looking for a good time (although most are money hungry semi pros).

**LordOfThEeyes** · 07-10-21 14:10

Originally Posted by Hobbyist420 [View Original Post]

I was quoted 2, BBFS, but I passed because every pic has a filter and the report below now confirms why 😂.

I mean at this point for her rate and possible non drug user I'm game for anything. Especially when she said car for 1.

100.

**Hobbyist420** · 07-10-21 08:41

Originally Posted by LordOfThEeyes [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/de958...a-845ebb364323

Anyone have expirences with this one?

I was quoted 2, BBFS, but I passed because every pic has a filter and the report below now confirms why 😂.

**BostonGuy781** · 07-10-21 08:38

Anyone have experience with this one. Pictures look so good wondering if real:

https://www.seeking.com/member/0011c...f-be61decf5ef7

I'm working on a few other conversations and will report back anything worth it. So far just been approached by a few well reported pros but looking for younger or at least fit.

**toddywaddy** · 07-10-21 08:30

Originally Posted by CuriosWankah [View Original Post]

I've never discussed exchanging money for sex on SA then this girl messaged me saying the same thing. Before I could even reply I was banned from SA. This ***** is reporting guys as soliciting sex when they don't answer that they are willing to pay her absurd prices. Block her before she gets you banned. I sent a support ticket and email to SA, I doubt anything will come of it but I told them I was wrongfully banned after she solicited sex to me and to look at the messages between us. It's pretty fucking obvious I never asked her for sex or said I would pay her for sex so this is a BS ban but looks like I'll have to create another account on SA.

Same thing happened to me. Created another account paid and then got banned again. Fuck them.

**ClPost045** · 07-10-21 06:18

Originally Posted by LordOfThEeyes [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/de958...a-845ebb364323

Anyone have expirences with this one?

I saw this one. She was 3. Straight up and to the point but way more beat up loooking in person. Smelled like cigarettes, won't repeat.

**ManDownUnder** · 07-09-21 23:55

Originally Posted by ChrisHansen92 [View Original Post]

The sooner all of you learn you meet for coffee and nothing else. Most girls will stop doing this. Please stop. You don't need to take them out and buy dinner.

Please stop doing this.

I've probably chatted with at least 100 girls off SA, maybe 3-4 have politely hinted at a meal. I've done a meal twice. One ended up being a keeper and one was a waste of time. I don't recall any asking for $ to meet. Maybe some did ask for $, but I would have just blocked and moved on if they did.

**NewEngland** · 07-09-21 21:31

Originally Posted by ChrisHansen92 [View Original Post]

The sooner all of you learn you meet for coffee and nothing else. Most girls will stop doing this. Please stop. You don't need to take them out and buy dinner.

Please stop doing this.

Second that motion.

**ChrisHansen92** · 07-09-21 21:22

The sooner all of you learn you meet for coffee and nothing else. Most girls will stop doing this. Please stop. You don't need to take them out and buy dinner.

Please stop doing this.

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

Will never pay for time as mentioned already it's a mutual time investment. Happy to pick up the tab for the a ride or coffee / drinks but that's it. I won't even do a dinner meet and greet as that can run well over a 100. If the lady is serious and finds you attractive or interesting enough them the next move is a get down to business visit. I don't pressure the girls after the meet and greet but I let them know I'm very interested in pursuing an arrangement. It usually takes off from there either a short term thing or longer. I like to keep them around for a while especially if they get relaxed after a few visits and start to really get open minded and fun.

**Joe1223** · 07-09-21 21:14

Originally Posted by Mattis1775 [View Original Post]

How many of you have had a coffee meet and asked to bring a donation, just to meet to ensure future meetings is warranted? This is a hit or miss. Even if the both of us click, she can still screw with the donation. I've been chatting with a woman, wants to meet for coffee and asked for a donation for her time. OK, it's fair. For your time.

Share your success or failure stories.

Will never pay for time as mentioned already it's a mutual time investment. Happy to pick up the tab for the a ride or coffee / drinks but that's it. I won't even do a dinner meet and greet as that can run well over a 100. If the lady is serious and finds you attractive or interesting enough them the next move is a get down to business visit. I don't pressure the girls after the meet and greet but I let them know I'm very interested in pursuing an arrangement. It usually takes off from there either a short term thing or longer. I like to keep them around for a while especially if they get relaxed after a few visits and start to really get open minded and fun.

**NHughty** · 07-09-21 15:35

Originally Posted by CuriosWankah [View Original Post]

I've never discussed exchanging money for sex on SA then this girl messaged me saying the same thing. Before I could even reply I was banned from SA. This ***** is reporting guys as soliciting sex when they don't answer that they are willing to pay her absurd prices. Block her before she gets you banned. I sent a support ticket and email to SA, I doubt anything will come of it but I told them I was wrongfully banned after she solicited sex to me and to look at the messages between us. It's pretty fucking obvious I never asked her for sex or said I would pay her for sex so this is a BS ban but looks like I'll have to create another account on SA.

Apparently she must have gotten banned also?

**Mattis1775** · 07-09-21 09:11

Originally Posted by Hyperion11 [View Original Post]

Happened a couple times. I never give cash for a coffee meet. I did agree to pay for Uber / Lyft sometimes, but I ordered it myself for them, using my phone. And of course I paid for coffee, lunch, etc.

I strongly believe no one should give cash for these meetings. Our time is as precious as theirs.

Indeed. The deal was to always pay for the coffee and / or meal. But, some want payment for their "time". Hell, if they did this 3-4 times a week, they'll make a killing without even taking their clothes off. I'll pass on this one. She said a donation is appreciated, where her asking rate is 200.

**LordOfThEeyes** · 07-09-21 07:48

https://www.seeking.com/member/de958...a-845ebb364323

Anyone have expirences with this one?

**CuriosWankah** · 07-08-21 23:35

Originally Posted by NHughty [View Original Post]

Chatted up this one for a few days.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b2496...7-2ecf484c1da5

Then she hit me with "1000 full intimacy and 500 just head".

Bye Girl!!

I've never discussed exchanging money for sex on SA then this girl messaged me saying the same thing. Before I could even reply I was banned from SA. This ***** is reporting guys as soliciting sex when they don't answer that they are willing to pay her absurd prices. Block her before she gets you banned. I sent a support ticket and email to SA, I doubt anything will come of it but I told them I was wrongfully banned after she solicited sex to me and to look at the messages between us. It's pretty fucking obvious I never asked her for sex or said I would pay her for sex so this is a BS ban but looks like I'll have to create another account on SA.

**Hyperion11** · 07-08-21 21:20

Originally Posted by Mattis1775 [View Original Post]

How many of you have had a coffee meet and asked to bring a donation, just to meet to ensure future meetings is warranted? This is a hit or miss. Even if the both of us click, she can still screw with the donation. I've been chatting with a woman, wants to meet for coffee and asked for a donation for her time. OK, it's fair. For your time.

Share your success or failure stories.

Happened a couple times. I never give cash for a coffee meet. I did agree to pay for Uber / Lyft sometimes, but I ordered it myself for them, using my phone. And of course I paid for coffee, lunch, etc.

I strongly believe no one should give cash for these meetings. Our time is as precious as theirs.