Seeking Arrangements

[Hobbyist420]

No response and she's logged on almost all of the time. So my question is, has anyone else been similarly time wasted by her, or better yet had an amazing time destroying a boxspring with her? If not then just a heads up that so far she comes off as a waste of time. (or that my private pics are super hideous).

There are a few flakes on there who are real, they just never meet anybody. The "online" marker means nothing too because one can be "online" and just have it on the background app on your phone.

I'll have girls fav me and not respond, it's maddening

[Jaristas]

https://www.seeking.com/member/b1218...3-42816052e225

I searched and could not find anything. Older but seems ready to meet.

[BostonJones]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5d638...a-5612c6b86af2

In this very particular order.

She favorites me.

I message her and open my private photos.

She then asked me to open my private photos.

I ask her to open her private photos.

3 days of crickets chirping.

I drop a quick hello.

No response and she's logged on almost all of the time. So my question is, has anyone else been similarly time wasted by her, or better yet had an amazing time destroying a boxspring with her? If not then just a heads up that so far she comes off as a waste of time. (or that my private pics are super hideous).

[Mattis1775]

Anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/e2a18...8-fa89c5431f9f

I reached out, chatted a little and then radio silence.

[Mattis1775]

Sounds like your methodology and attitude have greatly improved. Keep plugging away until you are plugging away!

Tip: I generously us the HIDE profile button to clean up my search results and prevent me from accidently viewing profiles that say "you wallet better be thicker than my body" more than once and the you view the profile and it says "platonic". Give me a break.

Definitely. Cleans up the list for better people. Talking to one right now. But, after a few days, it seems like it's just "talking". Cool woman. But, not in it for chatting only. Gave a few hints to meet. But, nothing came out of it.

[Spill]

Having better luck on this type of account vice the other. Thanks guys for the intel. I forked over the 99 for the first month and using it like hell as it's an expensive one-month subscription. Sent hundreds of messages and got some back. I have to be honest, it's a strange world in SA.

- One member wanted advanced payment in Franklin. She said she wanted to get "pretty" before our meeting. Requested VENMO prior. Yeah, OK. Erased. She said others did it without any problems. That's because they were suckers and since it was so successful, you're doing it again. Nice try.

- One member was just a witch. Asked the normal questions and went full Karen on me, saying guys suck and they're only here for sex. Typical disgruntled bar woman. She ended up blocking me. LOL. Whatever.

- One member was a dominatrix, asked me to buy her over 1,000 worth of equipment for a meeting in Newton. Uh, if you're a dominatrix, shouldn't you have that already? I guess it's the season to freshen up? Yeah, no.

- One member, who was 67 years old wanted 200 or more. She looked OK. But, she's not worth more than a 100. Sorry.

- Conversing with a few right now. Mostly older women who have kids, divorced. Hopefully, it's not going to be a 3-4 week chat before meeting. But, warming up to one right now for a potential meeting.

- One member was a Provider, had a full website and all. Good way to find more Mongers I guess.

The search continues.

Sounds like your methodology and attitude have greatly improved. Keep plugging away until you are plugging away!

Tip: I generously us the HIDE profile button to clean up my search results and prevent me from accidently viewing profiles that say "you wallet better be thicker than my body" more than once and the you view the profile and it says "platonic". Give me a break.

[Spill]

I do think that the monthly fee is worth it IF you're also willing to spend the type of 'allowance' that gets you a sugar relationship with someone you're really into. For those who bottom-feed on SA (not making a judgment) it might not make $ sense.

No disrespect, but SA is probably NOT for a majority of the guys on this site. To each his own.

[Bran001]

I do think that the monthly fee is worth it IF you're also willing to spend the type of 'allowance' that gets you a sugar relationship with someone you're really into. For those who bottom-feed on SA (not making a judgment) it might not make $ sense.

I know why I may have chosen the other option. Membership is 99 for a month vice 19.99 for the other type. Meeyah. I'll have to rethink this. But, seems everyone here is having pretty good luck. Now that I can see more women, I did recognize one from Charlestown, use to post a lot on LC and STG. She's was OK. But, not enough for a repeat.

[TheList00]

Good info and hilarious. Let us know how that one you're working on goes. $100 is a steep investment just to get in the door then have to do all that legwork.

You think 100 is a lot of money to invest to talk and fuck hot, young beautiful woman but rather you would go to STG and spend 100 for a HH with some pimped out, unshowered crackhead who wants you out the door asap to get high off your money. Different strokes for different folks I guess but I just browsed STG now for the hell of it and I wouldn't fuck anyone on there for free nevertheless give them my money for the pleasure.

[ThizzleHats]

The search continues.

Good info and hilarious. Let us know how that one you're working on goes. $100 is a steep investment just to get in the door then have to do all that legwork.

[Fluff]

Anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/e2a18...8-fa89c5431f9f

[Mattis1775]

Having better luck on this type of account vice the other. Thanks guys for the intel. I forked over the 99 for the first month and using it like hell as it's an expensive one-month subscription. Sent hundreds of messages and got some back. I have to be honest, it's a strange world in SA.

- One member wanted advanced payment in Franklin. She said she wanted to get "pretty" before our meeting. Requested VENMO prior. Yeah, OK. Erased. She said others did it without any problems. That's because they were suckers and since it was so successful, you're doing it again. Nice try.

- One member was just a witch. Asked the normal questions and went full Karen on me, saying guys suck and they're only here for sex. Typical disgruntled bar woman. She ended up blocking me. LOL. Whatever.

- One member was a dominatrix, asked me to buy her over 1,000 worth of equipment for a meeting in Newton. Uh, if you're a dominatrix, shouldn't you have that already? I guess it's the season to freshen up? Yeah, no.

- One member, who was 67 years old wanted 200 or more. She looked OK. But, she's not worth more than a 100. Sorry.

- Conversing with a few right now. Mostly older women who have kids, divorced. Hopefully, it's not going to be a 3-4 week chat before meeting. But, warming up to one right now for a potential meeting.

- One member was a Provider, had a full website and all. Good way to find more Mongers I guess.

The search continues.

[Lily1234]

So I can get a wealthy woman pay me to have sex with her? Damn I've been using SA all wrong LOL.

Good to know this is a problem. SA loves to trap you and take your money.

No you can't get a wealthy woman to pay you to bang her (unless you have a horse cock and are much better looking than most of us) Its theorectically an option, but I think there are maybe five women signed up that way, and they mostly did it by accident I think.

[Lily1234]

Great information. I created a new account and now links posted here, I can search now. Also, the list of women are different than the ones that were on my other profile. I searched the Help Center and apparently they can't change the type of account I have. Either way, I created a new one and I'll try searching again. I will ask if I can transfer my subscription to the new account. But, I highly doubted it. They have to make money right? Hopefully, my searches are better now. Thanks everyone.

They did transfer mine and charged me the difference.

[Spill]

I know why I may have chosen the other option. Membership is 99 for a month vice 19.99 for the other type. Meeyah. I'll have to rethink this. But, seems everyone here is having pretty good luck. Now that I can see more women, I did recognize one from Charlestown, use to post a lot on LC and STG. She's was OK. But, not enough for a repeat.

After you set up your account, take some time to get a lay of the land. Picks some favorites, etc. Then when you are ready, make the payment and start contacting.