"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**BuckHead71** · 05-11-21 14:41

After a few days and lots of messages, I weeded out the pay in advanced girls. Set 5 " meet and greets" yesterday and today since I had the days off.

22 year old Sarah. Demanded $50 in person for meeting. Drank her coffee took her $50, stared at her phone the entire time. Cute but looked nothing like her pictures. Pretty sure 10 years older than she claims. Told me $500 ppm. Totally not worth it.

26 year old Mandy. Gained about 60-80 lbs since pics and had cut her hair. Dressed like a **** when she shouldn't have. Tits were saggy. She ate lunch hardly said a word. Other than $400 ppm, I told her I would keep her in mind. She asked for gas money. Gave her $20 for her time.

30 year old Jannet. Looked like her pics but was really ghetto. Felt like I needed a translator. Covered in tattoos smelled like booze and cigarettes and rotted brown teeth. She ordered a margarita and shot of tequila, told me $300 and we could go to her hotel. I just felt uncomfortable and who knows what was waiting at the hotel.

40 year old Morgana. Looks like her pics, Was best looking so far but I think she lies about her height and was way taller than I expected. We had fun conversation felt like a traditional date and she never mentioned money and had an awesome rack. I went to the bathroom and came out and she was gone and had paid her own tab. I sent her a text with? S She replied with "not interested good luck". I replied with $500 and she replied with a laughing emoji.

Another girl canceled on me 30 minutes before our date.

So that's how I spent my days off. Spent about $130 met 4 girls, got nothing. Should've just gone to a massage parlor. That's my Seeking Arrangement review.

Is this an accurate example of what seeking arrangement has to offer? Should I just stick to regular dating?

**Pharmacy470** · 05-11-21 14:03

Anyone speak with this one. Her profile on SA for me at least is blocked. Rdy2 mngle.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c2206...9-3681ab1c6068

We were chatting back and forth and were trying to meet this week. She seemed nice.

Thanks for any feedback.

**Totalcsllc** · 05-11-21 12:58

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

Yep I messaged with her today. No interest in negotiating at all. I assume someone is paying it, but not me.

Her real name is listed in one of the pics.

**Vx333** · 05-11-21 12:51

Current UTR moved to Newnan, so she's up for grabs.

Lightskin, maybe 5'4-5'6. Slight baby damage, but nice DD+ cups that come with it. Super submissive.

I was doing 300 per meet for anything from a full night to a quickie.

Seniors can DM for her snapchat.

Again. NEWNAN. Not Atlanta.

**Uga4041** · 05-11-21 12:37

Little red Atl. Can't share link bc she blocked me. Got careless and sent something on snap to her before verifying. She screenshotted. Make a snarky comment and then blocked me on the site. Of course first thing that comes to mind is blackmail. Hopefully jumping to conclusions. If anyone has chatted with her or met in person let me know as it will ease my mind. PM if more details wanted.

**NewAnonymousName** · 05-11-21 09:57

This one's profile currently says "I have STDs" in the tag line.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5a400...2-a26872106037

**SoonerFan72** · 05-11-21 09:38

Originally Posted by Bobt45 [View Original Post]

A deposit prior to meeting means you send her the money and she blocks you on SA and ghosts you on texts. That's the oldest ripoff ploy ever. Never, EVER, send someone money prior to meeting.

I agree with Bob 100%. I don't do meet and greets, only did it once in the past few years. But if I did, they would get no money for just showing up. There are tons of girls who will show up for a free meal, and as a bonus you give them money. And you never hear from them again. Just another FMH. The only time they get paid is in person, after the deed is done. I also tell them I don't send money electronically, only cash in person. There are just way to many chics out there to be dealing with these silly ho's trying to play games. Think with your big head, and move on if they don't agree to your terms. Good luck bro!

**Bobt45** · 05-11-21 08:49

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

Are you meeting for lunch or play? Two different types of meetings and two different answers.

A deposit prior to meeting means you send her the money and she blocks you on SA and ghosts you on texts. That's the oldest ripoff ploy ever. Never, EVER, send someone money prior to meeting.

**Jims2321** · 05-10-21 22:02

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA and have 2 meetings tomorrow. One is hot, closer to my age and intelligent. The other one is young, might be fat, pics have obvious filters.

My question is, do I pay to meet? Is that customary? The young one is demanding $50 deposit before meeting. Older has not mentioned money, but I'm thinking I'm supposed to.

Sorry I'm new to this. Any help is greatly appreciated.

Are you meeting for lunch or play? Two different types of meetings and two different answers.

**Machintosh** · 05-10-21 21:52

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA and have 2 meetings tomorrow. One is hot, closer to my age and intelligent. The other one is young, might be fat, pics have obvious filters.

My question is, do I pay to meet? Is that customary? The young one is demanding $50 deposit before meeting. Older has not mentioned money, but I'm thinking I'm supposed to.

Sorry I'm new to this. Any help is greatly appreciated.

Never ever pay prior to meet. 99.999% it's a scam.

I personally never pay beyond the cost of the meal for just the meet and greet.

Good luck!

**SilentK69** · 05-10-21 21:36

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA and have 2 meetings tomorrow. One is hot, closer to my age and intelligent. The other one is young, might be fat, pics have obvious filters.

My question is, do I pay to meet? Is that customary? The young one is demanding $50 deposit before meeting. Older has not mentioned money, but I'm thinking I'm supposed to.

Sorry I'm new to this. Any help is greatly appreciated.

You don't need to pay for a meet and greet you can cover any expenses / cover their rides even if they are coming to you and the coffee or lunch or whatever but no money needs to be handed over. As far as the deposit come on man use your brain? If I asked you for 50 $ would you send it to me too? LOL like those are 100% scams never make a deposit that's like giving free money to people and if your that loaded pass it around to everyone in the forum because we all could use an extra 50 $ from somebody we never met LOL.

**BuckHead71** · 05-10-21 21:17

I joined SA and have 2 meetings tomorrow. One is hot, closer to my age and intelligent. The other one is young, might be fat, pics have obvious filters.

My question is, do I pay to meet? Is that customary? The young one is demanding $50 deposit before meeting. Older has not mentioned money, but I'm thinking I'm supposed to.

Sorry I'm new to this. Any help is greatly appreciated.

**2me4Looking2** · 05-10-21 13:10

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

This older chic wants 500 PPM. I have nothing against older ladies, but I don't think she knows what her marker value is.

https://www.seeking.com/member/337be...1-734a0c6e54e3

Yep I messaged with her today. No interest in negotiating at all. I assume someone is paying it, but not me.

**SoonerFan72** · 05-10-21 09:55

This older chic wants 500 PPM. I have nothing against older ladies, but I don't think she knows what her marker value is.

https://www.seeking.com/member/337be...1-734a0c6e54e3

**SoonerFan72** · 05-10-21 09:28

Anyone got intel on this one? Pretty sure she is a pro, DM me if necessrry.

https://www.seeking.com/member/337be...1-734a0c6e54e3

EDIT: Nevermind, see next post.