"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**SilentK69** · 05-10-21 21:36

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA and have 2 meetings tomorrow. One is hot, closer to my age and intelligent. The other one is young, might be fat, pics have obvious filters.

My question is, do I pay to meet? Is that customary? The young one is demanding $50 deposit before meeting. Older has not mentioned money, but I'm thinking I'm supposed to.

Sorry I'm new to this. Any help is greatly appreciated.

You don't need to pay for a meet and greet you can cover any expenses / cover their rides even if they are coming to you and the coffee or lunch or whatever but no money needs to be handed over. As far as the deposit come on man use your brain? If I asked you for 50 $ would you send it to me too? LOL like those are 100% scams never make a deposit that's like giving free money to people and if your that loaded pass it around to everyone in the forum because we all could use an extra 50 $ from somebody we never met LOL.

**BuckHead71** · 05-10-21 21:17

I joined SA and have 2 meetings tomorrow. One is hot, closer to my age and intelligent. The other one is young, might be fat, pics have obvious filters.

My question is, do I pay to meet? Is that customary? The young one is demanding $50 deposit before meeting. Older has not mentioned money, but I'm thinking I'm supposed to.

Sorry I'm new to this. Any help is greatly appreciated.

**2me4Looking2** · 05-10-21 13:10

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

This older chic wants 500 PPM. I have nothing against older ladies, but I don't think she knows what her marker value is.

https://www.seeking.com/member/337be...1-734a0c6e54e3

Yep I messaged with her today. No interest in negotiating at all. I assume someone is paying it, but not me.

**SoonerFan72** · 05-10-21 09:55

This older chic wants 500 PPM. I have nothing against older ladies, but I don't think she knows what her marker value is.

https://www.seeking.com/member/337be...1-734a0c6e54e3

**SoonerFan72** · 05-10-21 09:28

Anyone got intel on this one? Pretty sure she is a pro, DM me if necessrry.

https://www.seeking.com/member/337be...1-734a0c6e54e3

EDIT: Nevermind, see next post.

**Uga4041** · 05-09-21 21:56

Originally Posted by Duluthbc [View Original Post]

We were supposed to meet tonight but she stopped responding to my messages and then blocked me on SA.

Sounds correct. She removed me from.

Her Snapchat. I think she tries to lure people into thinking she will meet and has no intentions of meeting.

**BoJackSugarman** · 05-09-21 21:06

Please do NOT message Morganna42. She is well aware of this site and monitoring it and doesn't want to be contacted from anyone from this site. I inadvertently burned a few brothers by my review and I am sorry. Moderator please remove those posts asap.

**Duluthbc** · 05-09-21 00:21

Originally Posted by Uga4041 [View Original Post]

Started strong also. Her story is changing now about when she is moving closer. Talking less about being able to meet in person. Chances of her being a legitimate in person option seem to be fizzling.

We were supposed to meet tonight but she stopped responding to my messages and then blocked me on SA.

**MariettaJoe** · 05-07-21 17:21

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

I just re-upped on SA about a week ago, and already got one under my belt, and a few leads. I've had 2-3 that I could have easily met, but just werent my style. Don't get me wrong, there are still loads of scammers and FMH (free money honey's, I'm coining the term now. LOL), but if you are willing to put in the work, there is gold to be had. I guess it all depends on what you consider "success" as well. If I can meet 2-3 good SB for a one month sign up, I consider that a win. I ride those (pun intended) as long as I can, or until I lose interest, then I sign up again. It is a grind though. If you are willing to put in the effort, and learn how to weed out the fakes, its great a few months a year.

I'm with this guy, I've had some success on SA lately. Oh sure numerous misses and FMHs to be had (I'm so stealing / using that term). It can be a pain at times to filter out the crap but it gets easier.

In the past couple of months I've had 4 successes, 2 ghost me on the day of meeting, and lots of potential conversations that died off.

**MariettaJoe** · 05-07-21 17:17

https://www.seeking.com/member/d51c0...9-8f54cf57e977

Two day old account, claims she's in an abusive relationship and needs money to cover a hotel room. Hard pass. Didn't even offer nude pics, I mean seriously?

Says current location is Cleveland, TN but she's been messaging me on and off all day, may just be fishing for anything within 100 miles.

**BushMaster69** · 05-07-21 15:25

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

I was thinking about giving SDM a try, I actually got lucky and met a chic off of there without paying. You can "wink" at ladies for free, if they have a membership and respond, you can chat without paying. There were actually 2 ladies I chatted with that way, met one, and could have met the other but she wanted a bit too much for her level of quality. I know it was a total luck of the draw though, since then I haven't had any hits in a few months.

EDIT: Forgot to ask, the numbers you posted, was that for just one month? Or longer?

I guess you missed where I said my experience over 3 months. There were points in that 3 months where I had messaged everyone I was interested in in the Atlanta area and I was basically waiting for more to join. Haha.

**SoonerFan72** · 05-07-21 09:42

Originally Posted by CarmelFight [View Original Post]

Nahh it's turned into a shitty shit show. I'm pretty much done with SA, I have one college cutie I'm planning to chill with tomorrow night and let's see if she's legit. If not I'm calling it quits for awhile such a waste of time, money is money but time you can never get back.

I just re-upped on SA about a week ago, and already got one under my belt, and a few leads. I've had 2-3 that I could have easily met, but just werent my style. Don't get me wrong, there are still loads of scammers and FMH (free money honey's, I'm coining the term now. LOL), but if you are willing to put in the work, there is gold to be had. I guess it all depends on what you consider "success" as well. If I can meet 2-3 good SB for a one month sign up, I consider that a win. I ride those (pun intended) as long as I can, or until I lose interest, then I sign up again. It is a grind though. If you are willing to put in the effort, and learn how to weed out the fakes, its great a few months a year.

**SoonerFan72** · 05-07-21 09:34

Originally Posted by CarmelFight [View Original Post]

Nahh it's turned into a shitty shit show. I'm pretty much done with SA, I have one college cutie I'm planning to chill with tomorrow night and let's see if she's legit. If not I'm calling it quits for awhile such a waste of time, money is money but time you can never get back.

I was thinking about giving SDM a try, I actually got lucky and met a chic off of there without paying. You can "wink" at ladies for free, if they have a membership and respond, you can chat without paying. There were actually 2 ladies I chatted with that way, met one, and could have met the other but she wanted a bit too much for her level of quality. I know it was a total luck of the draw though, since then I haven't had any hits in a few months.

EDIT: Forgot to ask, the numbers you posted, was that for just one month? Or longer?

**BushMaster69** · 05-06-21 21:54

Originally Posted by CarmelFight [View Original Post]

Nahh it's turned into a shitty shit show. I'm pretty much done with SA, I have one college cutie I'm planning to chill with tomorrow night and let's see if she's legit. If not I'm calling it quits for awhile such a waste of time, money is money but time you can never get back.

Hey. Thanks for the update on SA I was afraid it also went down hill. I guess I will take a break and go back to my regular girls. It's a shame because so many of these girls could be making coin if they knew how to act properly.

**CarmelFight** · 05-06-21 19:00

Originally Posted by BushMaster69 [View Original Post]

I wanted to report on my experiences with the Sugar Daddy Meet (SDM) site. Quick synopsis is that avoid at all cost. This site is full of time wasters, scammers, and general losers of all stripes. I'm a numbers guy so here is my experience over 3 months:

- 410 girls messaged.

- 111 girls responded to message sent.

- 36 gave their text numbers.

- 12 girls successfully negotiated arrangements.

- 3 girls actually met and had sex (0. 73% success rate).

Background on me 48 YO in good shape and decent looking. Lowest amount offered 250. Highest amount offered 400. Girls offered highest amount flaked out the most.

My overall impression was this site is not a real SD site but an online dating site full of women who wanted to be paid to go on a date with them or just to talk to them. Some women on there were offended I would even ask for sex. HAHA I was on SA back in 2017 and I never met one women on there that didn't expect to put out for an arrangement. I know SA has probably gone down hill from 2017 but I cannot believe it is as bad as this shitty SDM site. A couple things about this site is the girls without membership cannot message you until you (as a paying member) message them first. Almost no women on that site pays for a membership. You can only filter to 100 miles from your location. They do this because there are not enough members on the site. Most of the women on that site never are on the site and never check their messages. Lots of dead accounts. I also suspect that the site admins spike the membership with attractive profiles that are not real to get SDs to join their shitty site. Would appreciate it if someone could let me know if SA is still worth joining as they have raised their pricing since I was last on.

Nahh it's turned into a shitty shit show. I'm pretty much done with SA, I have one college cutie I'm planning to chill with tomorrow night and let's see if she's legit. If not I'm calling it quits for awhile such a waste of time, money is money but time you can never get back.