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[HollywoodGuy]

Thanks, I appreciate that. Quick comment about the market price for sugarbabies that another person made, let me point out that one mis-spending guy like me could not have an effect on it.

We all have our mental models for how sugar dating works, but in the final analysis the model works if we are able to derive happiness from our experiences, and I think it's important to deliver happiness to our partners. My current SB, whom I've called Julia in posts, met me 11 months ago in the parking lot of a low-end hotel. She made her 15 msec decision and we got a room. We have a very good sexual relationship and I'm pretty generous to her at 300 per visit, 3 times a month, which is enough for me, plus sometimes but not always I say "yes" to her emergency requests. As far as I can tell, she prefers older guys and is exclusive to me. At the same time, she is not too clingy. Just about perfect.

Regarding the attempt I've described of dating girls non-sexually for awhile, well first of all it did not work very well, I'll admit. I think we should not be afraid to report our mistakes, even to the detriment of the reputation of our anonymous handles. But the idea was based on my observation that some people like me better as time goes by. It's been true with Julia. Of my four attempts at dating this way, one time I did manage to have a pleasant afternoon of sex in a hotel, but it wasn't worth all the money (about $1000) it took to get there. I think that all four girls were the type that drop off SA without finding anyone. The girl I had the pleasant afternoon with is still a friend and we know each other's name and professions.

Many years ago I would offer girls .4 just to meet up, figuring that was a pittance just to see if it would go anywhere. I tried that a few times with mixed results. Stopped doing it when my game got stronger. As being taken advantage of left a bad taste in my mouth.

[HollywoodGuy]

Had a girl try to pull me on there a few years ago. Not my thing either.

You still in LV or did you head back to LA? I'm thinking about spending some extended time over in LV soon.

Still in vegas. Plenty of girls, just no extra funds to pursue. Lucky I know a couple of girls from the past that still stay in touch.

[Snake27]

Exactly. Snake27 you are squandering excellent resources in this board and in the Richmond, VA SB threads, with which to derive the absolute best possible experiences. It is not high minded or idealistic to throw away your time and resources on stuck up hookers who won't put out. Those "good girls" you've been spoiling for free are nothing of the sort with the broke fuckbois they're manhandled by. Listen to the sound counsel experienced guys are offering you.

Thanks, I appreciate that. Quick comment about the market price for sugarbabies that another person made, let me point out that one mis-spending guy like me could not have an effect on it.

We all have our mental models for how sugar dating works, but in the final analysis the model works if we are able to derive happiness from our experiences, and I think it's important to deliver happiness to our partners. My current SB, whom I've called Julia in posts, met me 11 months ago in the parking lot of a low-end hotel. She made her 15 msec decision and we got a room. We have a very good sexual relationship and I'm pretty generous to her at 300 per visit, 3 times a month, which is enough for me, plus sometimes but not always I say "yes" to her emergency requests. As far as I can tell, she prefers older guys and is exclusive to me. At the same time, she is not too clingy. Just about perfect.

Regarding the attempt I've described of dating girls non-sexually for awhile, well first of all it did not work very well, I'll admit. I think we should not be afraid to report our mistakes, even to the detriment of the reputation of our anonymous handles. But the idea was based on my observation that some people like me better as time goes by. It's been true with Julia. Of my four attempts at dating this way, one time I did manage to have a pleasant afternoon of sex in a hotel, but it wasn't worth all the money (about $1000) it took to get there. I think that all four girls were the type that drop off SA without finding anyone. The girl I had the pleasant afternoon with is still a friend and we know each other's name and professions.

[GoodBoy88]

Just came across this ad on SA: Porn star Jane Rogers.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a4316...7-6fac193652ee

Clearly she's got GPS but she might be a lot of fun for those with deep pockets and big wallets.

She may be a porn star but she's not going to get shit from anyone talking to SDs like that. This bi7ch said quote "if you don't have absurd amounts of money to funnel into my accounts, I simply don't care for you. " She must be out of her ever loving mind, rich guys often do shower women with luxuries but they aren't about to be talked down to like that. Even a guy looking for a dominatrix to whip his ass isn't going to put up with that bullshit. Rude, classless and stupid way to advertise yourself.

[TylerDurd]

I met one SB recently 21 yr old white girl. We had not met yet and were chatting on the phone & she mentioned she lives with 3 girls etc. I started to ask about them and to describe them, the one I thought sounded hot I asked her if she would be down to hang with us, all 3 of us, and spoil them both. Another one was 18 so I asked her if I could speak to her friend to make her more comfortable and trade pics and she shot me her cell and I did a side chat w / the roommate. She said she was really shy and is not on that site and probably won't want to go, or do anything but she would talk to her. But I think me speaking to the 18 yr old directly and trading pics, disarmed her that it was suspect or sketchy. Long story short we all met up and had a good fun romp in the back of the car. I sat in the middle and it was pretty fun I just noticed your post so I figured I'd share that. SA has some gems I am just now learning for sure, but it just takes time to weed through a lot of the BS profiles on there. Thanks for the advice to the Vets on here.

Stay safe.

AD.

What kind of damage $$ can you expect for something like that?

[Alkalinedio]

Great find on the twins.

Enjoy life to the fullest.

Amazing.

Exactly. Snake27 you are squandering excellent resources in this board and in the Richmond, VA SB threads, with which to derive the absolute best possible experiences. It is not high minded or idealistic to throw away your time and resources on stuck up hookers who won't put out. Those "good girls" you've been spoiling for free are nothing of the sort with the broke fuckbois they're manhandled by. Listen to the sound counsel experienced guys are offering you.

Absolutely, the bowl will be here waiting, HG. Guys, if you put in the effort, you WILL get lucky. I must have done some good in a past life, as the sugaring gods smiled upon me this weekend: I was talking to a very hot blonde in her early 20's on the site, and upon building rapport, moved the conversation to text. After closing the date, she mentions she has an identical twin who is also down to meet me! Her profile made no mention of a sister, but it turns out that the one I was talking to shared my info with her sister, and both decided that they liked my looks, and wanted to celebrate their birthday weekend by having threesome creampie sex with me! I spent this Friday and Saturday filling up two young, tall, gorgeous blonde twins' birthday cakes with my frosting over and over again.

[Alkalinedio]

I met one SB recently 21 yr old white girl. We had not met yet and were chatting on the phone & she mentioned she lives with 3 girls etc. I started to ask about them and to describe them, the one I thought sounded hot I asked her if she would be down to hang with us, all 3 of us, and spoil them both. Another one was 18 so I asked her if I could speak to her friend to make her more comfortable and trade pics and she shot me her cell and I did a side chat w / the roommate. She said she was really shy and is not on that site and probably won't want to go, or do anything but she would talk to her. But I think me speaking to the 18 yr old directly and trading pics, disarmed her that it was suspect or sketchy. Long story short we all met up and had a good fun romp in the back of the car. I sat in the middle and it was pretty fun I just noticed your post so I figured I'd share that. SA has some gems I am just now learning for sure, but it just takes time to weed through a lot of the BS profiles on there. Thanks for the advice to the Vets on here.

Stay safe.

AD.

Just wondering but has anyone experienced a SB offering friends for an arrangement? I'm not complaining or anything but I'm just wondering if an agency is behind the works or they really are friends at all. I've met 2 of the friends already. All pretty and bb too!

[FirstClass1]

The problem is its guys like you that fuel the fire of GPS and create a market for spamming the site with scammers and time wasters. It's both inconvenient to the rest of us and cosmic injustice that these girls just get a free lunch for basically just existing and reciting a dumb script. Obviously you do you but I would ask you to reconsider sending money blind to women you don't even know or have no guarantee of reciprocation from. Just from a purely utilitarian standpoint. However, if you just have a "thing" for throwing money away for no reason then I can't knock it I guess. If you want to be "generous" and actually get your moneys worth, I would recommend actually meeting these girls at their crazy price points (7 $+) but at least guaranteeing some sugar from it. I'd rather that then throwing out little $20 "gifts" to girls that will just ghost you once they think they've drained you for what you're worth.

Exactly. Snake27 you are squandering excellent resources in this board and in the Richmond, VA SB threads, with which to derive the absolute best possible experiences. It is not high minded or idealistic to throw away your time and resources on stuck up hookers who won't put out. Those "good girls" you've been spoiling for free are nothing of the sort with the broke fuckbois they're manhandled by. Listen to the sound counsel experienced guys are offering you.

No matter how many rinsers, con artists, GPS girls, dreamers, etc. There are on seeking, there are an equal if not greater number of physically, emotionally and financially needy girls looking for some sort of support in exchange for a good time. Sugar dating is a hobby that requires time and dedication to find your groove. But once you do you will never look back.

Due to the complexities of life I have had to bow out of the bowl for a while. But I am looking forward to the day I can re-enter. And happy hunting.

Absolutely, the bowl will be here waiting, HG. Guys, if you put in the effort, you WILL get lucky. I must have done some good in a past life, as the sugaring gods smiled upon me this weekend: I was talking to a very hot blonde in her early 20's on the site, and upon building rapport, moved the conversation to text. After closing the date, she mentions she has an identical twin who is also down to meet me! Her profile made no mention of a sister, but it turns out that the one I was talking to shared my info with her sister, and both decided that they liked my looks, and wanted to celebrate their birthday weekend by having threesome creampie sex with me! I spent this Friday and Saturday filling up two young, tall, gorgeous blonde twins' birthday cakes with my frosting over and over again.

[RogerOver]

The problem is its guys like you that fuel the fire of GPS and create a market for spamming the site with scammers and time wasters. It's both inconvenient to the rest of us and cosmic injustice that these girls just get a free lunch for basically just existing and reciting a dumb script. Obviously you do you but I would ask you to reconsider sending money blind to women you don't even know or have no guarantee of reciprocation from. Just from a purely utilitarian standpoint. However, if you just have a "thing" for throwing money away for no reason then I can't knock it I guess. If you want to be "generous" and actually get your moneys worth, I would recommend actually meeting these girls at their crazy price points (7 $+) but at least guaranteeing some sugar from it. I'd rather that then throwing out little $20 "gifts" to girls that will just ghost you once they think they've drained you for what you're worth.

His dick, his money. What he does or pays has nothing to do with the rest of us. Any chick that wants to rinse isn't one I'm looking for anyway. The only effect what he does has on me, is how amusing it is to read the posts.

[TheHuntsman]

The problem is its guys like you that fuel the fire of GPS and create a market for spamming the site with scammers and time wasters. It's both inconvenient to the rest of us and cosmic injustice that these girls just get a free lunch for basically just existing and reciting a dumb script. Obviously you do you but I would ask you to reconsider sending money blind to women you don't even know or have no guarantee of reciprocation from. Just from a purely utilitarian standpoint. However, if you just have a "thing" for throwing money away for no reason then I can't knock it I guess. If you want to be "generous" and actually get your moneys worth, I would recommend actually meeting these girls at their crazy price points (7 $+) but at least guaranteeing some sugar from it. I'd rather that then throwing out little $20 "gifts" to girls that will just ghost you once they think they've drained you for what you're worth.

Totally agree. You should always do you. Maybe we all don't want the same thing but definitely do you. If anyone looks back at my recent posts you can see I have made this error recently. Which isn't my normal MO but more of since my head has not been in the right place.

The influx of girls asking 300 for just head is ridiculous.

[TylerDurd]

Alrighty, that's clear, thanks. And BTW, I've always enjoyed your insightful posts, though I think you and I are different. Even at my advanced age, I'm a bit like the idealistic protagonist in Dostoevsky's great novel "The Idiot". LOL.

The problem is its guys like you that fuel the fire of GPS and create a market for spamming the site with scammers and time wasters. It's both inconvenient to the rest of us and cosmic injustice that these girls just get a free lunch for basically just existing and reciting a dumb script. Obviously you do you but I would ask you to reconsider sending money blind to women you don't even know or have no guarantee of reciprocation from. Just from a purely utilitarian standpoint. However, if you just have a "thing" for throwing money away for no reason then I can't knock it I guess. If you want to be "generous" and actually get your moneys worth, I would recommend actually meeting these girls at their crazy price points (7 $+) but at least guaranteeing some sugar from it. I'd rather that then throwing out little $20 "gifts" to girls that will just ghost you once they think they've drained you for what you're worth.

[RogerOver]

In my hiatus I have been cruising Fetlife to no avail. Great site for swingers and BBW lovers. Kinda leaves me out. On the very rare occasion you see a hot young girl, there is either no reply or a request for sugar.

Had a girl try to pull me on there a few years ago. Not my thing either.

You still in LV or did you head back to LA? I'm thinking about spending some extended time over in LV soon.

[Snake27]

LOL. Not at all. My point is that you're wasting lots of time trying to get a girl to like you, thinking that she needs that time to grow 'attraction'. She knows right away upon meeting you if she's down. Don't waste endless hours to 'nurture' her. Things like diners and fun weekends are rewards for good behavior, not a free ride. Get a quick coffee or drink with a POT and make your move. She shoots you down? No problem, it's her way of saying she's not into you. NEXT!

Alrighty, that's clear, thanks. And BTW, I've always enjoyed your insightful posts, though I think you and I are different. Even at my advanced age, I'm a bit like the idealistic protagonist in Dostoevsky's great novel "The Idiot". LOL.

[EvilTmp]

Are you trying to infer my attractiveness from what I wrote? Well, that was unexpected. But I do agree with you that attractiveness plays an important role in this sugardaddy game. The prospect of having an SB who enjoys herself with you is a motivating factor for staying in shape, maintaining weight, good grooming, and so on.

LOL. Not at all. My point is that you're wasting lots of time trying to get a girl to like you, thinking that she needs that time to grow 'attraction'. She knows right away upon meeting you if she's down. Don't waste endless hours to 'nurture' her. Things like diners and fun weekends are rewards for good behavior, not a free ride. Get a quick coffee or drink with a POT and make your move. She shoots you down? No problem, it's her way of saying she's not into you. NEXT!

[Snake27]

This is just wild for so many reasons.

We all have our own way and own skills at game but this thing about being a doormat can't be that helpful. A girl knows within 1 minute of meeting you if she's attracted to you or not. All of this time invested to get her comfortable gets you one thing, a girl that's not that attracted to you but will give you a turn just to placate you once in a while. The performance you'll get will be her bare minimum and I can't imagine being satisfied with that. If a girl doesn't tell me "I'm all yours daddy, do as you wish" then just I'm disappointed.

Are you trying to infer my attractiveness from what I wrote? Well, that was unexpected. But I do agree with you that attractiveness plays an important role in this sugardaddy game. The prospect of having an SB who enjoys herself with you is a motivating factor for staying in shape, maintaining weight, good grooming, and so on.