Sugar Daddy Sites

[TheHuntsman]

The problem is its guys like you that fuel the fire of GPS and create a market for spamming the site with scammers and time wasters. It's both inconvenient to the rest of us and cosmic injustice that these girls just get a free lunch for basically just existing and reciting a dumb script. Obviously you do you but I would ask you to reconsider sending money blind to women you don't even know or have no guarantee of reciprocation from. Just from a purely utilitarian standpoint. However, if you just have a "thing" for throwing money away for no reason then I can't knock it I guess. If you want to be "generous" and actually get your moneys worth, I would recommend actually meeting these girls at their crazy price points (7 $+) but at least guaranteeing some sugar from it. I'd rather that then throwing out little $20 "gifts" to girls that will just ghost you once they think they've drained you for what you're worth.

Totally agree. You should always do you. Maybe we all don't want the same thing but definitely do you. If anyone looks back at my recent posts you can see I have made this error recently. Which isn't my normal MO but more of since my head has not been in the right place.

The influx of girls asking 300 for just head is ridiculous.

[TylerDurd]

Alrighty, that's clear, thanks. And BTW, I've always enjoyed your insightful posts, though I think you and I are different. Even at my advanced age, I'm a bit like the idealistic protagonist in Dostoevsky's great novel "The Idiot". LOL.

The problem is its guys like you that fuel the fire of GPS and create a market for spamming the site with scammers and time wasters. It's both inconvenient to the rest of us and cosmic injustice that these girls just get a free lunch for basically just existing and reciting a dumb script. Obviously you do you but I would ask you to reconsider sending money blind to women you don't even know or have no guarantee of reciprocation from. Just from a purely utilitarian standpoint. However, if you just have a "thing" for throwing money away for no reason then I can't knock it I guess. If you want to be "generous" and actually get your moneys worth, I would recommend actually meeting these girls at their crazy price points (7 $+) but at least guaranteeing some sugar from it. I'd rather that then throwing out little $20 "gifts" to girls that will just ghost you once they think they've drained you for what you're worth.

[RogerOver]

In my hiatus I have been cruising Fetlife to no avail. Great site for swingers and BBW lovers. Kinda leaves me out. On the very rare occasion you see a hot young girl, there is either no reply or a request for sugar.

Had a girl try to pull me on there a few years ago. Not my thing either.

You still in LV or did you head back to LA? I'm thinking about spending some extended time over in LV soon.

[Snake27]

LOL. Not at all. My point is that you're wasting lots of time trying to get a girl to like you, thinking that she needs that time to grow 'attraction'. She knows right away upon meeting you if she's down. Don't waste endless hours to 'nurture' her. Things like diners and fun weekends are rewards for good behavior, not a free ride. Get a quick coffee or drink with a POT and make your move. She shoots you down? No problem, it's her way of saying she's not into you. NEXT!

Alrighty, that's clear, thanks. And BTW, I've always enjoyed your insightful posts, though I think you and I are different. Even at my advanced age, I'm a bit like the idealistic protagonist in Dostoevsky's great novel "The Idiot". LOL.

[EvilTmp]

Are you trying to infer my attractiveness from what I wrote? Well, that was unexpected. But I do agree with you that attractiveness plays an important role in this sugardaddy game. The prospect of having an SB who enjoys herself with you is a motivating factor for staying in shape, maintaining weight, good grooming, and so on.

LOL. Not at all. My point is that you're wasting lots of time trying to get a girl to like you, thinking that she needs that time to grow 'attraction'. She knows right away upon meeting you if she's down. Don't waste endless hours to 'nurture' her. Things like diners and fun weekends are rewards for good behavior, not a free ride. Get a quick coffee or drink with a POT and make your move. She shoots you down? No problem, it's her way of saying she's not into you. NEXT!

[Snake27]

This is just wild for so many reasons.

We all have our own way and own skills at game but this thing about being a doormat can't be that helpful. A girl knows within 1 minute of meeting you if she's attracted to you or not. All of this time invested to get her comfortable gets you one thing, a girl that's not that attracted to you but will give you a turn just to placate you once in a while. The performance you'll get will be her bare minimum and I can't imagine being satisfied with that. If a girl doesn't tell me "I'm all yours daddy, do as you wish" then just I'm disappointed.

Are you trying to infer my attractiveness from what I wrote? Well, that was unexpected. But I do agree with you that attractiveness plays an important role in this sugardaddy game. The prospect of having an SB who enjoys herself with you is a motivating factor for staying in shape, maintaining weight, good grooming, and so on.

[EvilTmp]

I'm a kind and generous man. It comes naturally to me. This does open me up to a certain amount of "scamming", but it also can lead to a big reward. I think that a lot of the girls on SA are scared and don't know what they are doing. But they need money. Most of them drop off the site within a few weeks, which in those cases means they are probably not cunning scammers. It ends up being like a scam when I gamble some money to persuade the type of girl I'm after and don't succeed. I only gamble what I can afford. The girl also did not succeed in the long run.

This is just wild for so many reasons.

We all have our own way and own skills at game but this thing about being a doormat can't be that helpful. A girl knows within 1 minute of meeting you if she's attracted to you or not. All of this time invested to get her comfortable gets you one thing, a girl that's not that attracted to you but will give you a turn just to placate you once in a while. The performance you'll get will be her bare minimum and I can't imagine being satisfied with that. If a girl doesn't tell me "I'm all yours daddy, do as you wish" then just I'm disappointed.

[PropLA]

Just came across this ad on SA: Porn star Jane Rogers.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a4316...7-6fac193652ee

Clearly she's got GPS but she might be a lot of fun for those with deep pockets and big wallets.

[HollywoodGuy]

In my hiatus I have been cruising Fetlife to no avail. Great site for swingers and BBW lovers. Kinda leaves me out. On the very rare occasion you see a hot young girl, there is either no reply or a request for sugar.

[Snake27]

Regarding the topic of catching feelings mentioned earlier in the thread, one thing I find that helps a lot is staying anonymous. Some of the girls on SA invite an anonymous relationship. I've been with my current SB for nearly a year, anonymously. I don't think too much about her, whereas in cases where we had more of a girlfriend / boyfriend experience and knew a lot about each other, I tended to personalize it, despite it being P2 P.

I'm a kind and generous man. It comes naturally to me. This does open me up to a certain amount of "scamming", but it also can lead to a big reward. I think that a lot of the girls on SA are scared and don't know what they are doing. But they need money. Most of them drop off the site within a few weeks, which in those cases means they are probably not cunning scammers. It ends up being like a scam when I gamble some money to persuade the type of girl I'm after and don't succeed. I only gamble what I can afford. The girl also did not succeed in the long run.

[FarFarAway]

No matter how many rinsers, con artists, GPS girls, dreamers, etc. There are on seeking, there are an equal if not greater number of physically, emotionally and financially needy girls looking for some sort of support in exchange for a good time. Sugar dating is a hobby that requires time and dedication to find your groove. But once you do you will never look back.

Due to the complexities of life I have had to bow out of the bowl for a while. But I am looking forward to the day I can re-enter. And happy hunting.

Wishing you all the best, HG. We're all quite indebted to you for your counsel. I agree w / your sentiment, there are always people you must prevent from using you, but that is the price you pay for access to the most incredible SB opportunities of your life. I just love it, am so happy to be vaccinated to get back in the bowl.

[HollywoodGuy]

This is a cross post from the Batimore SB forum. If you guys are wondering why so many garbage accounts have been popping up, there are professional rinsers who are coaching young girls how to make easy money without ever meeting:

https://www.tiktok.com/@callikoa/vid...from_webapp=v3

https://www.tiktok.com/@callikoa/vid...from_webapp=v3

https://www.tiktok.com/@callikoa/vid...from_webapp=v3

https://www.instagram.com/callikoaaa/

This hooker coaches her audience how to lead on their marks on why they can't meet, while collecting allowances. This parasite's socials are dripping with all the things she buys and does with simp money, and she is 22 but claims to be 18 in her SB accounts. Her "boyfriend" is happy to pimp her out as she allegedly "never meets anyone. ".

No matter how many rinsers, con artists, GPS girls, dreamers, etc. There are on seeking, there are an equal if not greater number of physically, emotionally and financially needy girls looking for some sort of support in exchange for a good time. Sugar dating is a hobby that requires time and dedication to find your groove. But once you do you will never look back.

Due to the complexities of life I have had to bow out of the bowl for a while. But I am looking forward to the day I can re-enter. And happy hunting.

[RogerOver]

That account will show up on any credit report. Like when you want to refinance or get a loan.

Asset accounts don't show up on credit reports unless you include them as collateral on an application.

[Leche]

Open an account at another bank, and get a mailbox at a UPS store. Have any docs or statements mailed there, and that handles the ACH stuff since you have a bank account. You'll still get a new ATM card to hide. I don't see how that's avoidable unless you want to go into the bank to handle all your transactions.

Levels of risk depend on how careful you are and how closely watched you are by your SO. I've seen guys set their wife's suspicion off by leaving a fucking piece of candy they picked up somewhere in the center console. He'd probably already fucked up somewhere else to have her antennae up.

That account will show up on any credit report. Like when you want to refinance or get a loan.

[RogerOver]

He says you are a sucker for eternity.

No excuse for your stupidity.

BTW, I have this new challenger to Bitcoin coming out. It's called 'Fool's Gold. ' I'll let you in on the IPO. Just send me $20,000.

I haven't quite fallen for this scam yet, but I have fallen for what I call the "good girl" scam. She's a good girl, won't fuck on a first date, but will date you for a nominal fee until she gets to know you. After several dates she's still uncomfortable having sex, and at that point I realize I cannot afford to continue. Too much investment with no return. I've done this with 4 girls in 6 years. Each time, I swear I won't fall for it again, then another super pretty girl comes along. Admittedly, I'm not as good as some of ya'll. However, at least I got to know a "good girl", LOL.

Another scam I'm vulnerable to is the "emergency expense" scam. Something comes up, she's desperate and needs money, via CashApp or similar. I've fallen prey to this too many times to count. Including with my current SB. But I think I've worked that out with her, as I've threatened to quit. I told her she should not treat me like family if we're going to have an anonymous relationship. Actually, my current SB is pretty good; we've been together since May. So, even though she has "scammed" me a few times, I'm happy. And that's the main thing -- achieving happiness and having fun with the SB. She tells me she "loves" me, but that's absurd since we're anonymous. My interpretation is that she likes me enough to continue to be my SB.

I almost think you must be trolling for some punishment, but hey, it's good to have some verification that someone is falling for these schemes because I've been scratching my head trying to figure out who the fuck would give these chicks money.

Good luck. It sounds like you're going to need it if you don't want to die broke.