Stupid Shit in NoVa

[DogBert25]

Accused / killer said he was addicted to sex and blames the massage parlors for his addiction. If anyone feels like this in here to please get help. We all have spent thousands of dollars and know the it is addicting. This is a mutual thing and you are participating / engaging in one of the oldest profession. You are privileged to even participate. I do wish they legalized this profession to protect workers rights. I pray for the people who died and their family. This did not need to happen.

You got it absolutely right. How many of us have felt shame at our inability to control our impulse? Based on discussions here, regardless of our political beliefs, we hold no grudge against the Asians who work at these places, since they provide services to us that American girls / women refuse to provide.

Maybe move this discussion to the sexual addiction forum, which is pretty quiet right now.

[Eerock]

Accused / killer said he was addicted to sex and blames the massage parlors for his addiction. If anyone feels like this in here to please get help. We all have spent thousands of dollars and know the it is addicting. This is a mutual thing and you are participating / engaging in one of the oldest profession. You are privileged to even participate. I do wish they legalized this profession to protect workers rights. I pray for the people who died and their family. This did not need to happen.

The God squaders inculcated that guilt in him. Those people never take responsibility for their own actions.

[Eerock]

Rhetoric? It is the China Virus, that's where it came from. Just like "Lyme Disease" came from Lyme, Connecticut. If that's the case Chinese food shouldn't be called that any more, or Italian food is that racist too? Or Japanese car? Or is it only racist when it's a virus?.

LOL. It didn't become the China virus until President Shit the Bed realized he had to actually pay attention to it and provide leadership on it, rather than engage in his normal ADHD daily routine, collateral damage--no matter how tragic, like yesterday--be damned.

[Barkeater]

There are lots of different kinds of Chinese Food, and lots of different Virus' that come from China. The Avian flu for one. If you mean Covid just say Covid and stop being dense. You can say 'I had Itallian food for dinner, but until you say what you ate I don't know if you had pizza or pasta.

Rhetoric? It is the China Virus, that's where it came from. Just like "Lyme Disease" came from Lyme, Connecticut. If that's the case Chinese food shouldn't be called that any more, or Italian food is that racist too? Or Japanese car? Or is it only racist when it's a virus?.

[JayCramer80]

Rhetoric? It is the China Virus, that's where it came from. Just like "Lyme Disease" came from Lyme, Connecticut. If that's the case Chinese food shouldn't be called that any more, or Italian food is that racist too? Or Japanese car? Or is it only racist when it's a virus?.

The guy is a total nut job just like every other mass murderer. Gun control or background checks have nothing to with it. But the Politicians will want to punish law abiding citizens because of what somebbut job did!

[LittleGiant]

Rhetoric? It is the China Virus, that's where it came from. Just like "Lyme Disease" came from Lyme, Connecticut. If that's the case Chinese food shouldn't be called that any more, or Italian food is that racist too? Or Japanese car? Or is it only racist when it's a virus?.

It is racist when you call it Chinese Virus when there is a name used by world health organization "COVID-19".

[SlapNutts]

These people were just trying to earn a living and mind their business and some piece of s**t decides to just snuff them all out. We'll see how it all sorts out regarding motive, but my money is on him just being a racist piece of s**t acting out on this weird anti-asian racist sentiment that's suddenly going around. To that end, does anyone know what that's all about? Is it really derived from the whole "China virus" rhetoric the previous administration liked to spew? If so, you have to be a real loser with a real low IQ to get spun up and filled with hate towards an entire race over that.

Rhetoric? It is the China Virus, that's where it came from. Just like "Lyme Disease" came from Lyme, Connecticut. If that's the case Chinese food shouldn't be called that any more, or Italian food is that racist too? Or Japanese car? Or is it only racist when it's a virus?.

[Shinshi]

Again with the holier-than-thou preaching with nothing of substance to contribute. No wonder you have to pay people to spend time with you.

Believe whatever you like. I couldn't care less what your perception of me is. Fact of the matter is you're the one who allowed those earlier posts to cause such personal angst. And what's even more hilarious is they weren't even initially directed at you--not unless you're one of those who are indeed complacent with the current state of the country.

Also I've contributed a fair amount to both this forum and the present conversation. Remember it was you who rolled up in here with the shitty attitude and sarcasm. That speaks far more volumes about you than anyone else here. So spare me your selective outrage and victimhood. You act like an asshole, I'm going to treat you as such. Don't like it? Pound sand.

[Deranged]

If that's all you took from that post--despite me even acknowledging to not have all the answers & recognizing that government isn't perfect--then frankly you are unworthy of conversing with. Some people just stubbornly hold onto their ideals for dear life while looking for conflict everywhere they go. And those people are not worth the headache. Enjoy arguing with yourself, little man.

Again with the holier-than-thou preaching with nothing of substance to contribute. No wonder you have to pay people to spend time with you.

[Shinshi]

It's in our hands to respect each other. Be excellent to each other if you will. Because our differences shouldn't divide us. They should unite us. In order to do that we have to rise above the political bullshit and start seeing us all as Americans first and everything else second.

It's no wonder a hooker can come here to NOVA and charge $$$ for service when she only charges $. 5 in Tampa. One country folks. Not 50 disillusioned states. And it all starts by spitting out the bullshit narrative both parties are spoonfeeding you.

There's definitely a divide in this country which needs to be bridged while basic human decency & respect should be given to those around us. With that being said, there are some who frankly aren't worthy of inclusion at the adult's table. Exhibit A is Deranged--and others like him--who feel the overwhelming compulsion to be a vindictive, sarcastic prick just because they can. I typically treat such a group like children (or ignore them outright) owing to the fact that they've not earned the right to be treated differently.

Yes, that category of folks might constitute a sizable portion of citizenry (35% - 45% ?) . But when such a group is so set in their ways and want nothing more than to keep the status quo while believing their party is the perfect answer to everything? How can anyone even bother wasting a millisecond conversing with such fanaticism? You'd think shaming them by exclusion would hammer the point down & shame them to change some of their ways, but some like Deranged might just wear that as a badge of honor & feel further vindicated in their belief system.

[FloorHump422]

We have all these glaring issues that remain to be fixed but we're too busy maintaining the poor status quo by slinging mud at each other. This bickering and arguing amongst ourselves doesn't serve us at all and as the divide continues to grow year after year our chances of retaking that number 1 slot become slimmer and slimmer. Republicans have failed us. As stated the government was in their hands during this pandemic and while countries initially hit harder by the pandemic recovered, we managed to make it worse. (Ok I guess we are number one in something) but what did the democrats do once they took the reigns? Did they double down on getting the vaccine out? No they spent our tax dollars on another failed impeachment. Why? Trump is gone, get over it move on! Our government should have shifted gears IMMEDIATELY a to get a vaccine ready and instead they wasted a valuable month on stupid shit. Time is money people and WE should be holding our representatives accountable.

Democrats multi-tasked and the impeachment trial took all of a week. The trial didn't even start a month until after Biden took office. They wasted a minimal amount of tax dollars building their case as the evidence was straightforward and easily obtainable from public statements. Regarding whether a trial even should have been held, Trump being out of office is meaningless if he committed crimes while in office. Do presidents get free reign to commit crimes if they do so in their last days in office?

Regarding the vaccine, the companies making it didn't accept taxpayer money to develop it so there was nothing the Congress could do in that regard. Did you want them to rush the authorization process for the J&J vaccine? At this point, the most you can do is improve its distribution, but no Republican voted for the stimulus bill which included increased funding for that purpose.

The Democrats are limited in their ability to act expeditiously because of the obstruction of Republicans. Republicans who took an inordinate amount of time to establish new rules for the split Congress and who invoked every procedural practice possible to stall the stimulus bill and Biden's cabinet nominees.

[TheOuroboros]

Not trying to selectively quote your post, it's just that what I'm about to write will be quite lengthy.

Your first two sentences laid out the unadulterated truth: both parties suck. Which is why I'll never understand why fellow Americans are so hell-bent on maintaining the two-party status quo. Seems most are masochists who enjoy this mess for both themselves & others. You're also 1,000% right that it starts at the local level, but again the majority won't even do that much. They'll blindly adhere to the whole "red vs blue" conflict which resembles bad reality TV.

Are Democrats technically more diverse, modern, and accepting in most of their ideological stances (compared to Republicans)? Sure, I won't refute that. But I've never been one to condone choosing between the "lesser of two evils. " It's a copout and--frankly--a coward's way of voting. All it does is keep the status quo in place. We have third party candidates for a reason. I don't get why we don't vote in the most qualified person who represents our values instead of making it a 50-50 coin flip.


But I also hold Democrats responsible for some bullshit. They didn't call for an emergency vote on an economic stimulus package when they could have. They hypocritically whine about pork-spending in the Republican drafts despite being guilty as sin in their own past legislation (especially during the Obama administration). They wasted everyone's time with not one--but TWO--impeachment proceedings which were unsuccessful.

Again, I write this Bible of a post to emphasize that no political party is innocent. To me, they're both equally deplorable in the manner in which they failed us. I just wish everyone else would be just as outraged as I and vote accordingly. But I doubt I'll ever see the responsible ones ever held accountable. This country is broken, and it wouldn't surprise me in the slightest if we get surpassed as a global superpower and undergo a further recession into obscurity. Frankly, we Americans made out bed and must lie in it. This is what the majority wanted after all. Hopefully, I'll have already moved out of the US before some of the worse shit takes place.

United? United in what? We're supposed to be one country, that is looked up to by the rest of the world as a superpower and yet that time has long passed because we're really not number one anymore. Our healthcare sucks, our education sucks, the middle class has been swallowed whole by the divisional gap between the rich and poor, our job security is failing and social security will be in shambles by the time us working folk retire. We have been surpassed by other countries already and you want to know the irony of it all? This big superpower we proclaim to be is in debt trillions to China.

We have all these glaring issues that remain to be fixed but we're too busy maintaining the poor status quo by slinging mud at each other. This bickering and arguing amongst ourselves doesn't serve us at all and as the divide continues to grow year after year our chances of retaking that number 1 slot become slimmer and slimmer. Republicans have failed us. As stated the government was in their hands during this pandemic and while countries initially hit harder by the pandemic recovered, we managed to make it worse. (Ok I guess we are number one in something) but what did the democrats do once they took the reigns? Did they double down on getting the vaccine out? No they spent our tax dollars on another failed impeachment. Why? Trump is gone, get over it move on! Our government should have shifted gears IMMEDIATELY a to get a vaccine ready and instead they wasted a valuable month on stupid shit. Time is money people and WE should be holding our representatives accountable.

We pay them. A lot. More than we should. Let's be honest? Why? If they are serving our interest maybe politics should be a volunteer position? Someone whose willing to fix this country and not take a penny to do it certainly would have my best interest in mind. As stated before they don't have our interest at heart, it's their interest. Their paycheck, their legacy that they have to protect. And that's why they resort to mudslinging rather than talk about their platform. It's nothing more than a game, a fight for job security. And you can't win elections by explaining why you're the best candidate, you win by trashing the opposition and creating the illusion that you're better by comparison.

Did you know that George Washington, our founding father and first president, was vehemently against a two party system? He warned that the creation of political factions would build a machine solely intent on seeking and retaining power rather than incline the interest of men and public liberty. Well golly gee, 200+ year big brain play that we all just conveniently ignored and now the problem blew up in our faces.

It's in our hands to respect each other. Be excellent to each other if you will. Because our differences shouldn't divide us. They should unite us. In order to do that we have to rise above the political bullshit and start seeing us all as Americans first and everything else second.

It's no wonder a hooker can come here to NOVA and charge $$$ for service when she only charges $. 5 in Tampa. One country folks. Not 50 disillusioned states. And it all starts by spitting out the bullshit narrative both parties are spoonfeeding you.

[Shinshi]

Wow, maybe you should run for president. You really have it all figured out, don't you? Mortals and those stupid government people could not hope to comprehend your infinite otherworldly wisdom.

If that's all you took from that post--despite me even acknowledging to not have all the answers & recognizing that government isn't perfect--then frankly you are unworthy of conversing with. Some people just stubbornly hold onto their ideals for dear life while looking for conflict everywhere they go. And those people are not worth the headache. Enjoy arguing with yourself, little man.

[Shinshi]

Do both parties suck? Yes. However, at least the Democratic Party is ideologically diverse compared to the homogeneity of the Republican Party.

Not trying to selectively quote your post, it's just that what I'm about to write will be quite lengthy.

Your first two sentences laid out the unadulterated truth: both parties suck. Which is why I'll never understand why fellow Americans are so hell-bent on maintaining the two-party status quo. Seems most are masochists who enjoy this mess for both themselves & others. You're also 1,000% right that it starts at the local level, but again the majority won't even do that much. They'll blindly adhere to the whole "red vs blue" conflict which resembles bad reality TV.

Are Democrats technically more diverse, modern, and accepting in most of their ideological stances (compared to Republicans)? Sure, I won't refute that. But I've never been one to condone choosing between the "lesser of two evils. " It's a copout and--frankly--a coward's way of voting. All it does is keep the status quo in place. We have third party candidates for a reason. I don't get why we don't vote in the most qualified person who represents our values instead of making it a 50-50 coin flip.

As for Trump, I never said he wasn't responsible. That piece of shit certainly has a lot to atone for: not having a basic actionable pandemic plan formulated in the first place, bungling those crucial first few months by closing businesses and not offering much in the way of a plan B let alone financial assistance for months, undermining his own health officials publicly, continuing to sling mud at opponents in a petty teenager-like fit on social media, the list goes on.

But I also hold Democrats responsible for some bullshit. They didn't call for an emergency vote on an economic stimulus package when they could have. They hypocritically whine about pork-spending in the Republican drafts despite being guilty as sin in their own past legislation (especially during the Obama administration). They wasted everyone's time with not one--but TWO--impeachment proceedings which were unsuccessful. And it's not like they can claim the moral high ground after then-President Clinton's impeachment proceedings (after all, why would the GOP impeach their man when Democrats didn't do so decades prior?) . Also, some continue to virtue-signal, aim for "moral victories," and get in verbal spats with fellow colleagues instead of doing something of substance without any extra fanfare (*cough* AOC *cough), etc.

All this craziness reminds me of 2012 - 2013. During those years, I worked for the feds and a government shutdown was looming. It partially stemmed from then-President Obama's divisive healthcare reform, what was colloquially known as "Obamacare. " Republicans determined to draw a line in the sand, refusing to pass an increase to the debt ceiling or a national budget until the 11th hour. What will always be seared in my memory was how both parties were pictured that day shaking hands, clapping each other on the back, acting like they did a great thing--despite it being part of their job. But the real kicker? The legislation that passed guaranteed government funding for a little over a month. Yes, you read that right--these motherfuckers thought they had achieved something and were actually proud to have temporarily averted a financial crisis which they themselves brought about.

Furthermore, you realize that when shutdowns occur that politicians can still collect paychecks & have access to healthcare services? Meanwhile, government employees & military still had to show up to work business as usual while contractors went on indefinite furlough. None of those three groups get a single red cent until a budget passes. Take a wild guess what happened after the temporary bandaid wore off a month later? They passed yet another temporary measure. And then it all shut down for 16 long days in October 2013 before they finally passed a working budget (and eventually funding Obamacare anyway, making the whole line in the sand a meaningless farce).

Yes, Republicans justifiably took the brunt of negative publicity. But in my view, Democrats were just as much to blame. I mean seriously, why is our government so reactionary? Where's the proactive measures, the planning, doing shit ahead of time instead of procrastinating? Why be complacent and wait until the last-minute to get what needs to be done accomplished? To me, that was one of the most moronic, criminally stupid things I've ever witnessed. Since then, I determined that every politician who was in office between 2012-2013 will never get my vote ever again. Failing that miserably on so many levels doesn't warrant a second chance in my book.

Again, I write this Bible of a post to emphasize that no political party is innocent. To me, they're both equally deplorable in the manner in which they failed us. I just wish everyone else would be just as outraged as I and vote accordingly. But I doubt I'll ever see the responsible ones ever held accountable. This country is broken, and it wouldn't surprise me in the slightest if we get surpassed as a global superpower and undergo a further recession into obscurity. Frankly, we Americans made out bed and must lie in it. This is what the majority wanted after all. Hopefully, I'll have already moved out of the US before some of the worse shit takes place.

[Deranged]

Perfectly put, 1000% agreed with everything you said! It's borderline depressing to see both conservatives and liberals in this country slinging mud, claiming how their ideology / cause is right and how their party's leaders know how to govern / lead while the other side of the aisle are the "enemy" and whatnot. When in fact the average politician couldn't give two shits about you or me. They care about furthering their agenda, staying in power longer, getting incentives from various interest groups or companies whom they go to bat for, etc. If any of you genuinely believes that your representative, senator, or President is somehow different than all the rest, then you must still believe Santa Clause is real and that hookers actually love you.

Personally, I'm on the fence about whether or not this pandemic is as serious as they make it out to be. Nevertheless I still wear a mask everywhere, got vaccinated twice (had to for work), and see certain family and friends sparingly. And while I'm incredibly fortunate to still be working, I know plenty who are unemployed and at their wit's end as to what they're going to do next. The government shut everything down, but then failed to come up with a viable plan B in the meantime, dragging its feet on a relief package until whatever came our way barely put a dent in groceries (never mind the rent or utilities bill).

I find it inexcusable that the government was this woefully unprepared for this type of scenario. On a slightly smaller scale, it reminds me of when the Bush administration delayed with its Hurricane Katrina relief preparations and engaging in rescues. If you know some type of problem is inevitable, how can the right answer be sit back & do nothing? Or to be so criminally unprepared or inactive? Did they truly believe a pandemic of this scale wasn't possible this day & age? Did they learn nothing from avian flu, SARS, influenza, etc.? And as a side note, why is it that some people can't abide by simple instructions or humor others with a mask, social distancing, and whatnot? I'll never understand those people who essentially give everyone the finger and potentially prolong this never-ending shitshow? This applies exponentially if you fall under the high-risk category. It's one thing to endanger yourself, and quite another to endanger others.

Bottom line: I don't expect the government to be perfect in everything. No one can rightly claim to have all the answers. But this pandemic has been a major shitshow for the history books. Decades--hell, centuries--from now, people will look back and rightfully laugh at our expense. While it won't solve all our issues, voting in leaders who will take decisive action and not be held back / beholden to the top 1% will go some way in helping us move forward as a country. Because what we've experienced these last 10 years? It's no longer a liberal or conservative problem. It's something which affects the 99%.

Wow, maybe you should run for president. You really have it all figured out, don't you? Mortals and those stupid government people could not hope to comprehend your infinite otherworldly wisdom.