Non Pro's

[Marc2020]

She texted me and I got busy so I didn't reply to her in a whole evening. I saw my messages at night and wow, she went bananas even calling me names because I did not reply to all her many many messages.

Beware, does not seem to be stable.

Fortunately, I'm very punctual with my text replies!

[Marc2020]

Anybody talked with her? I've exchanged some messages and she seems cool. Ex-Army who cleans up great. Thinking about seeing her.

https://www.seeking.com/member/81ea1...3-07bfea2d9bde

[MyNickname]

She texted me and I got busy so I didn't reply to her in a whole evening. I saw my messages at night and wow, she went bananas even calling me names because I did not reply to all her many many messages.

Beware, does not seem to be stable.

This is the most attractive one on SA for me. Anybody had any exchange with her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/136b3...9-a548ffefec5e

[Member #6729]

LOL, dude seriously. Same very engaged until she was not.

Oh well, I'll move along I guess.

[DelToro]

https://www.seeking.com/member/6f9f2...0-502dee3e0eb8

This girl has been on for a while. Texted her and it seemed to be going we'll and then she just ghosted. Anybody ever meet with her before? Anyways, maybe you guys can give it a shot.

LOL, dude seriously. Same very engaged until she was not.

[Member #6729]

https://www.seeking.com/member/6f9f2...0-502dee3e0eb8

This girl has been on for a while. Texted her and it seemed to be going we'll and then she just ghosted. Anybody ever meet with her before? Anyways, maybe you guys can give it a shot.

[Twister100]

https://www.seeking.com/member/fcf8d...1-ed434e94e913

No major red flags during the initial discussions yesterday but I was still a little too suspicious so I kept my guard up. Started chatting today about meeting up when she asked if she could borrow 300 so I blocked her.

[Twister100]

This is the most attractive one on SA for me. Anybody had any exchange with her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/136b3...9-a548ffefec5e

I haven't but her profile states: "spoil princess the way she deserves" so I'm sure she's going to have a serious case of GPS. Good luck.

[Twister100]

I use the Favorite function only to save the ones who catch my eye that I need to circle around back to.

That's what I use favoriting for as well. I don't see it as very useful as a way to make contact. The SB's I've seen and chatted with all mention that they get tons of messages so a simple "favoriting" is a useless gesture.

[Diver6390]

Favoriting is a waste of time. That may get you a profile look at most. Better to start the conversation and take control of it from the beginning.

As others have said, personalize the response based on their profile. If they don't have much of anything written, that's actually a good sign IMO that they are DTF and ready to get to it, respond with something about their pics or what "looking for" options they clicked. If they are a pro it won't matter, if they are still under the illusion that they aren't engaging in prostitution by selling sex for money this method allows them to keep the illusion intact and your chances go up.

I use the Favorite function only to save the ones who catch my eye that I need to circle around back to.

[Marc2020]

This is the most attractive one on SA for me. Anybody had any exchange with her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/136b3...9-a548ffefec5e

[DelToro]

I usually messaged them with something regarding what's in their profile and then take it from there. .

Yeah that's what I meant by personalized message. Read their profiles and comment about them on your contact messages. Again I am sure many guys contact them with obvious generic copy-paste messages, which true sort of non-pro SBs do not like. I usually mention that I am looking for something mutually beneficial but without mentioning amounts. If possible I usually do not touch the subject until I have met them. But again before we meet at a public venue it is crystal clear I am expecting sex right after, if we match of course, ut so far once we have met we go all the way.

[Morgan Creamin]

Favoriting is a waste of time. That may get you a profile look at most. Better to start the conversation and take control of it from the beginning.

As others have said, personalize the response based on their profile. If they don't have much of anything written, that's actually a good sign IMO that they are DTF and ready to get to it, respond with something about their pics or what "looking for" options they clicked. If they are a pro it won't matter, if they are still under the illusion that they aren't engaging in prostitution by selling sex for money this method allows them to keep the illusion intact and your chances go up.

[Member #6729]

I am sure the hot ones get tons of favorites, so I don't think that is all that effective. I am more proactive and It has served me well. I usually do a narrowed down search and contact the girls directly.

Try to personalize as much as you can the message. Post the information you would think copying and pasting to your profile and ask them to read it.

My profile also leaves no doubt what I am looking for. In terms of time and level of enthusiasm that usually weeds out the one with GPS.

It's a bit of work as I get around a 20% response rate, but from those unless arrangement demand is kind of crazy I usually end up fucking them, has worked beautifully for me.

I usually messaged them with something regarding what's in their profile and then take it from there. I usually chat with them for a day or two and I ask them if they want to meet. If she gives me some excuse I just move on, like DelToro said. It's a lot of weeding out to do but if you do it correctly you'll get some spicy girls. I go through a number girls until I can find one that's just a regular girl with a naughty side and I stick with her for a while. The past 2 favs we had super good chemistry and was a good time. Don't share those and keep them to yourself LOL also, don't ever give more than 300, per date, even if it's an overnight. Unless you want to, if it's your choice and you want to do it, go ahead and do it. I usually just give 200 though.

[DirkMcGurk69]

My first time signing up for SA, and just getting my feet wet.

I've followed this thread for awhile so I know some basics. However I'm curious how you guys are initially contacting these girls? Are you messaging everyone your actually interested in, or is just favoriting there profile enough? I thought if I favorite them, they check out my profile and message me if interested. If you message them, how detailed is your initial message? Tips and pointers appreciated.

I've been on a week and my advice, however limited is, is to be straight up. Have nice flattering pics of yourself. Be honest about what you want. Don't attempt to discuss money at first. Don't mention ppm unless they suggest it. Getting a phone number is key for me. I've gotten some pretty fantastic results so far. Hell, I got one bored housewife I'm seeing with no money exchanged. Best of luck!