Seeking Arrangements

**JakeRabbit** · 06-18-20 17:52

SA sale for 20% off finally convinced me to take the plunge. LOL. Who knows. Once I screen all the random hits from 50 miles away I hope to find a mutual benefit situation or three.

**HounDog3** · 06-18-20 10:56

Originally Posted by TheList00 [View Original Post]

Whats annoys me on seeking besides the online shit. Is that I've messaged like 15 woman yesterday afternoon and as of noon today there all in delivered mode and unread. But these woman have been active today. Why do these woman not read there messages or are they just bots.

Often times women log on to SA using the app on their phones. They'll leave the app open all day. SA shows them online which is technically correct but in fact they may only look at the app occasionally for a brief time. If they know you, they'll shoot a quick response. Otherwise your message sits in their Inbox with all the others until they feel compelled to catch up.

Other times, especially if they recently joined, the women become overwhelmed with the response or have second thoughts, and abandon SA without deleting their profiles. These are easy to detect by looking at their last active date.

Originally Posted by CuriosWankah [View Original Post]

Honestly they might be seeing your messages but what they'll do is just view it from the messages page so they catch the latest thing you write without giving you the read receipt which makes them feel obligated to respond. Besides that they have a bunch of dudes messaging them all the time you're probably getting drowned out among everyone elses messages or you just don't hold their attention enough to warrant a response from them every time they log on.

Make the first phrase in your message as compelling as possible to get their attention and stand out from all the other dudes. Give them a reason to pay attention to you.

**GlennDoyle91** · 06-18-20 10:22

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

Eva elfie or something like that. LOL, you're probably texting with a dude. (the profile location is Nigeria so.... yeah a dude)

Yeah, I figured. I was like, I've seen that face before, just can't place it.

**EvilTmp** · 06-18-20 10:07

Originally Posted by GlennDoyle91 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/1cb6f...5-3fd91bf24f40

That's the SA account. Added are pics that was sent. I've seen that face in some porn before, I just can't put my finger on it.

Eva elfie or something like that. LOL, you're probably texting with a dude. (the profile location is Nigeria so.... yeah a dude)

**Drewonhere** · 06-18-20 08:32

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

Probably a scam, I clicked the link and it shows Dallas Texas as a location. It may change, depending on what the bot is programmed to do.

True, but some of the actual college girls have one account and change their location based on whether they are at school or at home. My college girl changes her SA, FetLife, etc profiles location frequently depending where's she's going to be. Because of that her profile still appears in the "old" location for a while. Eg still appears in NH for a while when she's actually in AZ, until the system catches up.

**Joe1223** · 06-18-20 07:19

Originally Posted by JohnTies [View Original Post]

Been back on for less than a week and already dealing with complete bullshit!

Scheduled four meets, one Sunday, one Monday, Two today. None of them were new to the site.

Sunday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Monday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday first meet no showed even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday second meet, never confirmed they were coming, so I did not go.

She sent a nasty message to me bitching me out for wasting her time for going and I am a rude piece of shit for not telling her I was not coming.

Explained to her that she never responded to me confirming she was coming. She told me we had definite plans.

I fucking quit! Can't win with these fucking!

Add in all the online only, online for now until Covid 19 is over, buy my pictures, etc, etc, etc.

Complete waste of ninety fucking dollars!

SA can be challenging on one's patience and wallet. It's not for everyone and if you are expecting a quick hookup you will be disappointed. These girls are shopping for the best deal and many are either too nervous to actually hookup or so overwhelmed with the hits from guys they can't keep up.

As long as there are guys willing to overpay and accept non contact arrangements it will be a struggle to land one of these ladies. The covid shit is also a problem so if you are not patient or have a regular now it may take several attempts before you meet one willing to do what you want. There are better options as you move closer to a Boston but the cost usually climbs also.

**Joe1223** · 06-18-20 07:12

Originally Posted by GlennDoyle91 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/1cb6f...5-3fd91bf24f40

That's the SA account. Added are pics that was sent. I've seen that face in some porn before, I just can't put my finger on it.

Probably a scam, I clicked the link and it shows Dallas Texas as a location. It may change, depending on what the bot is programmed to do.

**GlennDoyle91** · 06-18-20 02:21

https://www.seeking.com/member/1cb6f...5-3fd91bf24f40

That's the SA account. Added are pics that was sent. I've seen that face in some porn before, I just can't put my finger on it.

**CuriosWankah** · 06-17-20 19:35

Originally Posted by TheList00 [View Original Post]

Whats annoys me on seeking besides the online shit. Is that I've messaged like 15 woman yesterday afternoon and as of noon today there all in delivered mode and unread. But these woman have been active today. Why do these woman not read there messages or are they just bots.

Honestly they might be seeing your messages but what they'll do is just view it from the messages page so they catch the latest thing you write without giving you the read receipt which makes them feel obligated to respond. Besides that they have a bunch of dudes messaging them all the time you're probably getting drowned out among everyone elses messages or you just don't hold their attention enough to warrant a response from them every time they log on.

**GlennDoyle91** · 06-17-20 12:52

Originally Posted by JohnTies [View Original Post]

Been back on for less than a week and already dealing with complete bullshit!

Scheduled four meets, one Sunday, one Monday, Two today. None of them were new to the site.

Sunday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Monday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday first meet no showed even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday second meet, never confirmed they were coming, so I did not go.
...

You only really need to confirm 1 hr before meet. Maybe a little if the lag time is greater than 1 day, ie, initial was Monday, date set for Wednesday. Confirm Tuesday, then an hour prior.

**Joe Parkers** · 06-17-20 12:39

Originally Posted by JohnTies [View Original Post]

Been back on for less than a week and already dealing with complete bullshit!

Scheduled four meets, one Sunday, one Monday, Two today. None of them were new to the site.

Sunday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Monday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday first meet no showed even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday second meet, never confirmed they were coming, so I did not go.

She sent a nasty message to me bitching me out for wasting her time for going and I am a rude piece of shit for not telling her I was not coming.

Explained to her that she never responded to me confirming she was coming. She told me we had definite plans.

I fucking quit! Can't win with these fucking!

Add in all the online only, online for now until Covid 19 is over, buy my pictures, etc, etc, etc.

Complete waste of ninety fucking dollars!

Yeah it's a bad time right now to sign up. I have paused the account since March, best thing I have done and will resume it in August. Yes, I have a bunch of messages I can't read but I don't really care for now. Very few girls are really looking to meet right now. You are literally throwing away money at this point.

**TheList00** · 06-17-20 11:16

Whats annoys me on seeking besides the online shit. Is that I've messaged like 15 woman yesterday afternoon and as of noon today there all in delivered mode and unread. But these woman have been active today. Why do these woman not read there messages or are they just bots.

**JohnB22** · 06-17-20 10:36

Originally Posted by Style20 [View Original Post]

Exactly. If one person start selling pics and vid on SA. Others will follow

Most of the girls I've talked to are video chat only.

**HounDog3** · 06-17-20 10:28

Originally Posted by JohnTies [View Original Post]

Been back on for less than a week and already dealing with complete bullshit!

Scheduled four meets, one Sunday, one Monday, Two today. None of them were new to the site.

Sunday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Monday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday first meet no showed even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday second meet, never confirmed they were coming, so I did not go.

She sent a nasty message to me bitching me out for wasting her time for going and I am a rude piece of shit for not telling her I was not coming.

Explained to her that she never responded to me confirming she was coming. She told me we had definite plans.

I fucking quit! Can't win with these fucking!

Add in all the online only, online for now until Covid 19 is over, buy my pictures, etc, etc, etc.

Complete waste of ninety fucking dollars!

It's been a very long time since I was ghosted at a meet & greet. Maybe I'm just lucky, I don't know. Can you please post links to their profiles so we know to avoid.

SA has an abundance of women seeking online only, scam artists wanting money upfront, occasional fake photos, and other bullshit, but I suspect it's far less than other sites from what I read on the boards here. If you have the patience to weed through it, I find the payoff to be well worth it. To each his own.