Seeking Arrangements

[TSmithers24]

It's not too hard. A few guidelines:

1. Don't talk about transacting on the site. Ie, don't ppm, don't use keywords that you would use on this site.

2. Talk AROUND sex, if you have to. Ie, netflix and chill, mutual benefit, intimacy, etc.

3. If interested, take the conversation off SA as soon as possible. Get a text app or Snapchat. Or Kik. Or FB Messenger (on a throwaway account).

4. Be nice to these girls. We want them to talk to their friends about how awesome it was, and not about the weirdos that ARE on the site. (BTW, it's those weirdos that are paying 500+, being not a weirdo is like a $200 discount).

5. Don't pay anything upfront until you have met them irl. Don't agree to pay for the meet and greet (Ie platonic "date".

6. Even if they're "time wasters" or "gps" don't be an ass and burn that bridge. Thank them for their time, but say it's you, not them, and it's not going to work out.

7. If at the meet up they're not what they advertised, walk away!

8. Don't be negative; negativity is such a turn off and you'll scare any potential dates away.

This is right on in so many ways! I have had great success on there being polite and positive. The real SBs (non-pros) want to feel like it's a sugar relationship and not just a one time transaction to bang. Do I occasionally find a pro on there and meet her? Sure but I'm trying to get those gems that are out there which takes work and time and probably a bit more cash. None of it is easy and sometimes not fun searching and messaging and weeding out the crap but as I said, they are there if you make the right moves and have patience.

Someone asked if there is an in flux of new girls. I've seen many new faces on there but many want online only which they won't find. They will either delete their account or give in and look for a real sugar arrangement with sex. My bet is most will delete their account. There seems to be a bunch of women on youtube and tiktok and snapchat who are saying they get paid by sugar daddies just to video chat and send pictures. I think it's all bullshit but many of these young women see that and join because they think they can find that. They won't.

[GlennDoyle91]

It's not too hard. A few guidelines:

1. Don't talk about transacting on the site. Ie, don't ppm, don't use keywords that you would use on this site.

2. Talk AROUND sex, if you have to. Ie, netflix and chill, mutual benefit, intimacy, etc.

3. If interested, take the conversation off SA as soon as possible. Get a text app or Snapchat. Or Kik. Or FB Messenger (on a throwaway account).

4. Be nice to these girls. We want them to talk to their friends about how awesome it was, and not about the weirdos that ARE on the site. (BTW, it's those weirdos that are paying 500+, being not a weirdo is like a $200 discount).

5. Don't pay anything upfront until you have met them irl. Don't agree to pay for the meet and greet (Ie platonic "date".

6. Even if they're "time wasters" or "gps" don't be an ass and burn that bridge. Thank them for their time, but say it's you, not them, and it's not going to work out.

7. If at the meet up they're not what they advertised, walk away!

8. Don't be negative; negativity is such a turn off and you'll scare any potential dates away.

[FairPlay]

Lmao she opening for business with the rest of the state.

See I kind of thought with this virus thing going on and the shutdown girls would be more hard up for cash. And the types of girls to be STG would also not take their personal health very seriously and not care about it. Feel like this should be a feeding frenzy on the usual sites but its a ghost town.

[CornPop]

The issue yo7 may have to deal with in the current mood is this covid shit has many girls freaked out. You may find that they just want online and payment for pics and vids.

You could join now and start collecting contact info and you may find a few open to meeting but don't be too disappointed if no one is willing to meet.

Have there been an influx of regular girls trying to make ends meat that due to job loss in service or entertainment industry.

I've been debating of joining WYP and SA again if there has been an influx of new girls looking to make an honest dollar.

[Bran001]

The issue yo7 may have to deal with in the current mood is this covid shit has many girls freaked out. You may find that they just want online and payment for pics and vids.

You could join now and start collecting contact info and you may find a few open to meeting but don't be too disappointed if no one is willing to meet.

I agree, this is not the best time to join. Still too much social distancing. I'd wait and see what happens in the near future. One of my regulars said she's probably ready to meet up next week, coinciding with the first move to reopen businesses in MA. (She has public health training.).

[Joe1223]

I'm going to give it a shot for a month and see what happens. Expecting to be disappointed but hoping not to get jaded with the amount of girls that want a small business loan from a SD heh.

The issue yo7 may have to deal with in the current mood is this covid shit has many girls freaked out. You may find that they just want online and payment for pics and vids.

You could join now and start collecting contact info and you may find a few open to meeting but don't be too disappointed if no one is willing to meet.

[Bran001]

Also to be honest she is too old to be a sugar baby LOL. Thats a HARD PASS.

LOL worth the price, which as a 'hack' product was $0. Scary!

[Bran001]

Is there any key words to notice to gauge a girls intent on these sites? For example casual or nsa or "mutually benefical" ? Obviously platonic is a red flag but "looking for someone to spoil me" always gets me cringing heh.

I have found it NOT reliable to just go by the language they use. It goes both ways. Some profiles read like they are dtf, and have very suggestive photos, and they message back "NO SEX. " Others say "platonic" or sound really vague. And are totally dtf. "Mutually beneficial" means different things; there is no way to know without starting a conversation.

[FairPlay]

I'm going to give it a shot for a month and see what happens. Expecting to be disappointed but hoping not to get jaded with the amount of girls that want a small business loan from a SD heh.

[Gianni Versace]

Here's an example of one I got early on, thru my hack.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d563e...5-e69d60d125ee

120 hh with DFK and CIP. I posted her before, and I see she's not signed onto the SA site for close to a year. But the key sentence is:

"I'm looking for someone to meet every once in a while to have a little bit of fun with and possibly help one another out from time to time" 😄.

She's a true ho who used to advertise on backpage. But fairly typical of the type of text that the true hos write on SA, based on the 5 others who I also easily inseminated from that site.

Hope that helps.

Also to be honest she is too old to be a sugar baby LOL. Thats a HARD PASS.

[Gianni Versace]

They are of course sister sites, created by the same MIT grad. Neither one has proved satisfactory. Too much work, but in practical terms, I prefer SA, and the higher percentage of non-pros on that site.

There are a lot of ladies that appear on both sites. My experience has been WYP increases the chances of misunderstandings, since you initiate contact with the ladies based on an offer of $$ just to meet for a date, and start communicating. Notwithstanding you stating clearly to them that you don't pay them just to show up to meet, a large percentage of them get upset and irritated immediately, and thus, the likelihood of actually meeting goes to nil. This is true for WYP even though in my opinion, most of ladies are either former SW, or are street walkers in attitude.

This is purely based on my experience, of course. I have not had many successes on SA either, probably due to my inability and refusal to host, but when you do hit on SA, it generally a very nice time with a woman who is not yet jaded, and well worth it. The question is though, is SA worth the monthly fee, plus the real work you must put in to meet anyone, over the long course. In reflecting on my past experiences, I would say no.

I recommend that you not bother with WYP, because, even at the lower price to buy credits, its not worth it, IMO. SA, particularly if you are able to or willing to host, is worth the try.

LJB thanks for the feedback. Is there any other site you would recommend now to find some action? Also you need to clear your inbox. Its full and you can not receive any messages.

[KingOfFours]

Is there any key words to notice to gauge a girls intent on these sites? For example casual or nsa or "mutually benefical" ? Obviously platonic is a red flag but "looking for someone to spoil me" always gets me cringing heh.

Here's an example of one I got early on, thru my hack.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d563e...5-e69d60d125ee

120 hh with DFK and CIP. I posted her before, and I see she's not signed onto the SA site for close to a year. But the key sentence is:

"I'm looking for someone to meet every once in a while to have a little bit of fun with and possibly help one another out from time to time" 😄.

She's a true ho who used to advertise on backpage. But fairly typical of the type of text that the true hos write on SA, based on the 5 others who I also easily inseminated from that site.

Hope that helps.

[FairPlay]

Is there any key words to notice to gauge a girls intent on these sites? For example casual or nsa or "mutually benefical" ? Obviously platonic is a red flag but "looking for someone to spoil me" always gets me cringing heh.

[Bran001]

The question is though, is SA worth the monthly fee, plus the real work you must put in to meet anyone, over the long course. In reflecting on my past experiences, I would say no.

I recommend that you not bother with WYP, because, even at the lower price to buy credits, its not worth it, IMO. SA, particularly if you are able to or willing to host, is worth the try.

What do you prefer, vs SA?

I can't host, and that does limit the options. Many of the SA women will go to a hotel; some will host. But usually neither without meeting (for coffee or a drink) first, which is fine with me; I prefer that.

[Longjblues]

They are of course sister sites, created by the same MIT grad. Neither one has proved satisfactory. Too much work, but in practical terms, I prefer SA, and the higher percentage of non-pros on that site.

There are a lot of ladies that appear on both sites. My experience has been WYP increases the chances of misunderstandings, since you initiate contact with the ladies based on an offer of $$ just to meet for a date, and start communicating. Notwithstanding you stating clearly to them that you don't pay them just to show up to meet, a large percentage of them get upset and irritated immediately, and thus, the likelihood of actually meeting goes to nil. This is true for WYP even though in my opinion, most of ladies are either former SW, or are street walkers in attitude.

This is purely based on my experience, of course. I have not had many successes on SA either, probably due to my inability and refusal to host, but when you do hit on SA, it generally a very nice time with a woman who is not yet jaded, and well worth it. The question is though, is SA worth the monthly fee, plus the real work you must put in to meet anyone, over the long course. In reflecting on my past experiences, I would say no.

I recommend that you not bother with WYP, because, even at the lower price to buy credits, its not worth it, IMO. SA, particularly if you are able to or willing to host, is worth the try.

This Covid 19 situation has put me in a awful Rut. What's everyone's opinion on SA vs WYP? Which site is better to find a good Utr girl for a decent price? Boy do I miss the good old craigslist days.