Seeking Arrangements

**Sitteb36** · 03-15-20 18:00

Originally Posted by HumptyHarley [View Original Post]

Personally I would rather go the WYP route than Seeking. Here's how I do it. I only make an offer to those that put in the "Interested In" section, discreet affairs. If they respond most will ask when you can meet, and I always quickly make them know it was the discreet affairs that is the reason I sent the offer. I would say 90% will meet for the reason you want, but you may have to up your offer as I always put a $100 offer, so if negotiated up to $150 you still got a good deal. Of course there are those that will counter your offer with a crazy number like $400 and the conversation is ended. I've had quite a few that would counter $200 and quickly get back with a $150 offer and most accept it. This doesn't always work but I'd say I've met at least 10 girls in the last year or so and only one was a disappointment, as I agreed to $250 and she was a hottie and let me take pics but she had way too many rules to have a good time. This was one of the first I met and tightened my rules after her. I should also add that this is in Manchester NH area so I can't say it will work with MA girls.

How many credits does it cost to place a bid?

**HumptyHarley** · 03-15-20 16:08

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

I have not tried it myself. I may give it a whirl. With SA I usually don't pay for the initial meet and greet unless I know I am getting the goods afterwards. WYP seems like you have to pay for the initial meet and greet. So I can see a lot of risk for the guys. But I can see how it can be lucrative for the women since they can go on fancy dates and not put out. Am I missing something here?

Personally I would rather go the WYP route than Seeking. Here's how I do it. I only make an offer to those that put in the "Interested In" section, discreet affairs. If they respond most will ask when you can meet, and I always quickly make them know it was the discreet affairs that is the reason I sent the offer. I would say 90% will meet for the reason you want, but you may have to up your offer as I always put a $100 offer, so if negotiated up to $150 you still got a good deal. Of course there are those that will counter your offer with a crazy number like $400 and the conversation is ended. I've had quite a few that would counter $200 and quickly get back with a $150 offer and most accept it. This doesn't always work but I'd say I've met at least 10 girls in the last year or so and only one was a disappointment, as I agreed to $250 and she was a hottie and let me take pics but she had way too many rules to have a good time. This was one of the first I met and tightened my rules after her. I should also add that this is in Manchester NH area so I can't say it will work with MA girls.

**Newbie1961** · 03-15-20 14:54

Could you please provide any links to girls that are accepting 150 for sex, and charging much more on SA? Thank you sir.

**Bran001** · 03-15-20 14:45

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

I have not tried it myself. I may give it a whirl. With SA I usually don't pay for the initial meet and greet unless I know I am getting the goods afterwards. WYP seems like you have to pay for the initial meet and greet. So I can see a lot of risk for the guys. But I can see how it can be lucrative for the women since they can go on fancy dates and not put out. Am I missing something here?

Good point. On SA, "I don't donate for a coffee date other than Uber fare or parking" works almost all of the time. If it doesn't work, I block and move on. I NEVER pay for a meet and greet. I would rather do meet and greets for free, and pay 300 for an intimate second date (with someone I know I'm attracted to after a coffee date) than pay 100 for a coffee date that may or may not lead to more. And the girls who know they won't put out are not all that motivated for the free meet and greets, whereas they are for $100 coffee dates. I want no part of them.

**Spike77** · 03-15-20 12:56

I have not tried it myself. I may give it a whirl. With SA I usually don't pay for the initial meet and greet unless I know I am getting the goods afterwards. WYP seems like you have to pay for the initial meet and greet. So I can see a lot of risk for the guys. But I can see how it can be lucrative for the women since they can go on fancy dates and not put out. Am I missing something here?

**LaterGreen** · 03-15-20 12:36

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

I've not used WYP. Interesting that if its the same girls. . . And they are setting their own prices. . . They seek less on WYP than SA. Maybe they 'assume' that men on SA can and will pay more?

WYP girls do not assume you are a hotshot doctor or lawyer with $12 k a year to blow on pussy, just a guy with around $100 for a vanilla date at a decent restaurant or even Starbucks. They want more $$ obviously and are willing to get physical for it so you can both negotiate a nice unrushed hour or two with an option on going it on the regular.

**Bran001** · 03-15-20 09:30

Originally Posted by HumptyHarley [View Original Post]

I agree 100%.

I've not used WYP. Interesting that if its the same girls. . . And they are setting their own prices. . . They seek less on WYP than SA. Maybe they 'assume' that men on SA can and will pay more?

**HumptyHarley** · 03-14-20 10:54

Originally Posted by EuHunter [View Original Post]

Idk how you guys keep paying 300+ for the woman when the same girls are going for 150 on WYP. I have gotten over 10 girls on wyp for no more then 200 and all of them say they are on seeking. I can't believe people are still using SA when wyp is cheaper and a lot easier to work with.

I agree 100%.

**EuHunter** · 03-14-20 01:18

Idk how you guys keep paying 300+ for the woman when the same girls are going for 150 on WYP. I have gotten over 10 girls on wyp for no more then 200 and all of them say they are on seeking. I can't believe people are still using SA when wyp is cheaper and a lot easier to work with.

**Oscar13** · 03-13-20 06:54

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Any idea what her profile name was / is? Thanks had a similar experience have not heard from her in a while Thanks CM.

Sorry, I deleted everything and do not remember her profile name anymore. If it comes to me I will certainly let you know.

**CandyMan555** · 03-12-20 21:31

Originally Posted by Oscar13 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7d453...d-3918c51304c3

Quite possibly a blackmail profile. Having been victimized before in that regard this girl seemed like she was trying to get me to the setup point. Gave me her number to text, told me how she wanted to make me cum, told me her last name, asked for mine, talked sexually a bit when I said no to the last name, sent me some revealing texts, then more sex talk and said if I sent her a d pic she would do whatever I wanted. Blocked her on SA after I copied the link, blocked her on the text app too. BUYER BEWARE. Cross posted on RI Providence SA board with active link.

Any idea what her profile name was / is? Thanks had a similar experience have not heard from her in a while Thanks CM.

**HounDog3** · 03-12-20 14:32

Originally Posted by BiilionBill [View Original Post]

Most just fade away, or turn out to be platonic only.

Earlier this week though, I was talking to a pair who might actually deliver. They provide stripper parties. They made clear they would provide (sexual) relief. But I wonder if that is just a HJ or BJ? They would not get into that. They do not charge for sex, of course.

https://sugarbook.com/member/profile/515631

Won't be able to check them out myself for a while, so wonder if anyone here saw them?

BB, have you used SA as well? How do you compare Sugarbook to SA? What is the membership fee for Sugarbook and how do they charge: fixed monthly fee, purchase a block of messages, ?

**BiilionBill** · 03-12-20 01:05

Most just fade away, or turn out to be platonic only.

Earlier this week though, I was talking to a pair who might actually deliver. They provide stripper parties. They made clear they would provide (sexual) relief. But I wonder if that is just a HJ or BJ? They would not get into that. They do not charge for sex, of course.

https://sugarbook.com/member/profile/515631

Won't be able to check them out myself for a while, so wonder if anyone here saw them?

**Joe1223** · 03-11-20 21:37

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

Joe, I have pretty much the same approach to using SA. Only I don't insist on "young," as I like women who really know what they're doing and many of the younger ones don't. The hot and tight part is fun of course, but sometimes I want someone to do more of the 'work' than me. I have a couple of UTR, now-off SA 'arrangements' who are in their 30's and 40's respectively who are like that. They focus on pleasing ME, which is a nice change of pace. Because you're right, there is an endless supply of 19-23 yr olds who'll do it for 2-300.

I actually had been very interested in middle age 30-40 and had met a couple. However the few tat I hooked up with were in need of a more serious relationship, in my opinion. I had connected with a very beautiful single mother, widowed girl and we did the meet and greet and then moved to a couple of good sessions of BBCIM and BBCIA. Very sexual but the vibe I was getting was she needed a real relationship even though she said she didn't. I slowed it down and shortly there after she started seeing someone as a "in a relationship" status on her FB profile. She's in a better place with that type of thing and I feel better to let her have that. I really think some of the mature ladies want a more serious thing which is OK but I find myself drawn to the under 30 ladies. It's personal preference but you can find what works for you. In this environment I would hang onto whoever you find that fits your search. The good ole days are gone.

**SniffHer** · 03-11-20 14:19

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

You def should be able to find 300. Under 300 is harder, but if you stick with 300 you shouldn't be going without. Yes some women seem more, but just tell them 300 is your max and if they want to do it for 300 to get back to you. I don't think they are finding a lot of men who go higher; more likely they're just fishing for more if they can get it.

This is a subject that requires educating the SB on the realities of life. 300 is 500,400 is 600, there are no taxes or deductions. I think most of them start off with unrealistic expectations. The numbers that they initially ask are pretty uniform regardless of location. Negotiating and educating is key.