WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**Dimples572** · 02-09-20 17:34

Originally Posted by TheNewestGuy [View Original Post]

Anyone met this one yet? I don't like going to DC or VA due to traffic but if she's legit?

https://www.seeking.com/member/24260...6-ea99efa776b8

Never met but we messaged back and forth and told me her minimum ppm was $500 so I passed.

**Mongerian** · 02-09-20 15:42

Yeah tinder is a challenge when you can't put your face up.

But there are opportunities on there. Met a few off there, SB types and freebies as well.

Takes more work and I only do the free membership, so can't see all the "likes" that I have. Kinda just kill time on there sometimes. And when you hit your like limit, it is annoying. I also keep my searches in the 18-20 something range, older than that and more likely they have 1) full time jobs (harder for me to meet), 2) want real relationship 3) looks aren't so good.

**Newbie1961** · 02-09-20 13:40

Its work like SA. At my age (58) and looks I am not getting any free 18-28 puss on there. But I am getting some running a SD profile. I use it to supplement my down time and dry spells on SA. Many not even real or local, just wanting to build their SC or IG follower count. But have found some hidden gems you will never find selling on SA and other sites. Many young college girls toying with the idea of having a SD (aka P 4 P). I set my search for 18-28 as it seems to be the sweet spot for me. If your married and / or can't risk exposure it's probably not a good option for you. I average about 2-5 news ones a month. Some I continue to see for years on and off. My gift is typically 150-250 (I'm in the Midwest) with no time limit.

The nice part is it does not cost a penny and if you are banned you can be up and searching again if a few hours with a new free profile. Here is several I met off Tinder and Bumble.

Originally Posted by OskarM [View Original Post]

Tinder is awesome if:

You are not married (I. E. You can't post a photo).

You are decent looking.

You don't mind losing your privacy with essentially a public photo.

You don't mind hooking up with a woman slightly worse looking than you would want to date.

If all three of those are true, you are golden. Easy hookups are coming your way.

3 out of 4 still essentially golden (if you can post a decent photo).

2 out of four you got to work a bit or if no photo you are out.

1 out of four you are back to SA or in for a long slog spelt of dry farming.

**Soldier826** · 02-09-20 12:59

Originally Posted by OskarM [View Original Post]

Tinder is awesome if:

You are not married (I. E. You can't post a photo).

You are decent looking.

You don't mind losing your privacy with essentially a public photo.

You don't mind hooking up with a woman slightly worse looking than you would want to date.

If all three of those are true, you are golden. Easy hookups are coming your way.

3 out of 4 still essentially golden (if you can post a decent photo).

2 out of four you got to work a bit or if no photo you are out.

1 out of four you are back to SA or in for a long slog spelt of dry farming.

Meeting a different one tonight. So wish me luck.

I don't have a photo up. Just a picture of my corgi lmao and getting all the hits.

**TheNewestGuy** · 02-09-20 09:50

Anyone met this one yet? I don't like going to DC or VA due to traffic but if she's legit?

https://www.seeking.com/member/24260...6-ea99efa776b8

**OskarM** · 02-09-20 09:37

Originally Posted by Soldier826 [View Original Post]

With SA have a lot of flakes I recently created a profile on Tinder.

Met someone local last night for drinks. Went back to her place. Easy and no allowance.

Just curious if anyone else is using Tinder just to find girls who are dtf as well with any luck.

Tinder is awesome if:

You are not married (I. E. You can't post a photo).

You are decent looking.

You don't mind losing your privacy with essentially a public photo.

You don't mind hooking up with a woman slightly worse looking than you would want to date.

If all three of those are true, you are golden. Easy hookups are coming your way.

3 out of 4 still essentially golden (if you can post a decent photo).

2 out of four you got to work a bit or if no photo you are out.

1 out of four you are back to SA or in for a long slog spelt of dry farming.

**SirDrDunk** · 02-09-20 00:36

Originally Posted by Soldier826 [View Original Post]

With SA have a lot of flakes I recently created a profile on Tinder.

Met someone local last night for drinks. Went back to her place. Easy and no allowance.

Just curious if anyone else is using Tinder just to find girls who are dtf as well with any luck.

I just put one up a met a school teacher haven't hooked up yet.

**IluvSmellyFish** · 02-08-20 23:53

Originally Posted by DrTravel2015 [View Original Post]

She looks really good. How did it go?

Waited at the bar, ordered a drink. She was a no show.

**Dimples572** · 02-08-20 18:46

Originally Posted by Xyzpdqa [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/50e6f...4-90350214c5ae

Very hot. Brand new profile late tonight. I gently pounced be as suave and subtle as I could, anticipating a brand new desperate SB. She claimed to have been introduced to SA who had success "online only. I asked her if it was what she wanted. She replied yes. I warned her of SA policy about online only. She asked me if I wanted to meet her. After I replied yes, she blocked me. But I saved her private pics and URL 1st!

We have power in numbers. We need these chicks gone. STOP buying pictures!

Profile's gone now.

**Soldier826** · 02-08-20 16:51

With SA have a lot of flakes I recently created a profile on Tinder.

Met someone local last night for drinks. Went back to her place. Easy and no allowance.

Just curious if anyone else is using Tinder just to find girls who are dtf as well with any luck.

**BuffBill75** · 02-08-20 14:32

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

So yeah, I don't know what to make of her. She never once brought up paying before meeting, so hopefully that's not becoming her standard. Going off previous reporting, people say she looks like her pics (jaw-droppingly gorgeous in my opinion! Can host, allows a LOT more than what most other SBs / providers typically permit, and asks for a reasonable allowance. We were trying to set up a meet last weekend when she went offline for several consecutive days. After she logged back on, she apologized for being M. I. A. And took down my number in hopes of meeting this coming weekend. I'm still very much interested in seeing her, but I'm also not holding my breath that this will be any different.

My guess is she's juggling a lot of traffic lately and unable to keep up with it all. But that's why you have backup plans (unless those fail too, in which case I'm just unlucky as hell).

I used to see her when she lived in Towson. She has a tendency to go dark now and then. Be persistent.

**DrTravel2015** · 02-08-20 14:08

Originally Posted by IluvSmellyFish [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/b0c74...3-3626a9ea553c

Anyone with intel? Meeting up with her for drinks later tonight.

She looks really good. How did it go?

**IluvSmellyFish** · 02-08-20 14:05

Also agree with being respectful of the ladies who deserve to be treated with respect (there are some of them who are on the site). I know a lot of mongers on here consider all the ladies who frequent the site to be streetwalkers or backpage "escort," but I've found that there are a tiny minority of them who are young ladies who really just want to experience what its like to be with an older more mature guy and are sick of boys who are their age. When I'm lucky enough to find one of them, in my experience its like basically just like dating.

You'll notice long breaks of months or years between my posts, and when that happens, it means I've found one of those kinds of girls.

Best of luck in all your searches. Unicorns do exist, but boy is it a grind finding them.

Originally Posted by Mongerian [View Original Post]

The creation of Cashapp and Venmo has opened up such a new opportunity for scammers and this has infiltrated Seeking.

It is too easy to send money now and they are taking advantage of this. The M and G allowance mindset is part of this, as they think sugaring is easy money. Also seeing this on SnapChat and other places, girls pushing premium accounts, OnlyFan accounts and other "easy money".

Seeking still is one of the better places to find p4 p and until something better is able to pop up, I'll use it every so often. I need to put together a recap of my month I had on there. Met a few off there and had chances with others that timing / schedule and funding limitations held me back.

To bring up something that always seems to crop up on here, re: sharing digits and such, there is the financial aspect of a monger spending 90.00 a month to gather intel, digits and so forth and then others expecting to get all that info. I think letting others know which girls are scammers, which ones are platonic only and which are DTf is a great tool of this board. But for any monger (especially ones with no posting history) to expect mongers to provide every piece of information about a Sugar baby off one of these pay sugar sites seems entitled. A lot of these sugar babies don't know that they are what they are and to share their digits with a guy they don't know will be contacting them will scare them off and then no one will win.

I asked one recently if she wanted referrals since I couldn't see her very often and she was hesitant at first then pulled back and said no.

Let's keep sharing intel as we get it but not feel like we are entitled. This place is great but it depends on all of us keeping it going.

**IluvSmellyFish** · 02-08-20 13:56

A few years back on the Richmond thread I posted a breakdown of number of messages sent, dates generated and trips to the FC that resulted.

I send a lot of messages. But yeah. Guess that means you and I have similar taste in babies. Best of luck sir. Hopefully your rotation is plentiful and fun!

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

So yeah, I don't know what to make of her. She never once brought up paying before meeting, so hopefully that's not becoming her standard. Going off previous reporting, people say she looks like her pics (jaw-droppingly gorgeous in my opinion! Can host, allows a LOT more than what most other SBs / providers typically permit, and asks for a reasonable allowance. We were trying to set up a meet last weekend when she went offline for several consecutive days. After she logged back on, she apologized for being M. I. A. And took down my number in hopes of meeting this coming weekend. I'm still very much interested in seeing her, but I'm also not holding my breath that this will be any different.

My guess is she's juggling a lot of traffic lately and unable to keep up with it all. But that's why you have backup plans (unless those fail too, in which case I'm just unlucky as hell).

**Xyzpdqa** · 02-08-20 05:21

https://www.seeking.com/member/50e6f...4-90350214c5ae

Very hot. Brand new profile late tonight. I gently pounced be as suave and subtle as I could, anticipating a brand new desperate SB. She claimed to have been introduced to SA who had success "online only. I asked her if it was what she wanted. She replied yes. I warned her of SA policy about online only. She asked me if I wanted to meet her. After I replied yes, she blocked me. But I saved her private pics and URL 1st!

We have power in numbers. We need these chicks gone. STOP buying pictures!