"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

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Is there a thread that discuss how to play this tinder game?

Would love some starting points on how to approach this correctly.

I can tell you what works for me:

Get a burner phone and use it to join Tinder. I would not use my regular phone, nor would I use a photo I have posted elsewhere. Consider posting a pic with only one of your eyes visible. A side shot, for example.

On your profile, add some subtle language about sugar, or being a sugar daddy. Nothing explicit.

Now your bait is in the water.

Wait. The SBs will come. When they do, be friendly and polite. Don't get yourself banned from Tinder for discussing pay for play. Take that conversation to a M&G.

Do the same thing on Instagram. You'll get noticed on there, too, if your profile says something about being a SD.

[TopGun9]

Tinder has been full of W's for me over the past month. Approach it right and it's the best option yet.

Is there a thread that discuss how to play this tinder game?

Would love some starting points on how to approach this correctly.

[ItsAHobby45]

Hey all!

Did anyone catch up with VaPlatinumPrincess on SA or heard from her in the last few days?

We were seeing each other weekly for a few weeks and were having a great time. And we were messaging quite a bit daily.

Late last week she messaged that she would be leaving (this past Tuesday) to have a boob job (Ds! And on her frame they would be unbelievable!) and she wanted to meet before she went under the knife but we couldn't get schedules straight.

Sunday is the last I heard from her. No response to text and she has either blocked me or has taken her SA profile down.

If its over that's fine. Arrangements are supposed to be NSA. But a message would have been nice and I felt that she knew I wouldn't be an ass about it. Or maybe something has happened to her? I just don't know.

But 1 of the reasons I ask is the last time she was here she left her jacket on the nightstand and when she put it on to leave it was wet. 1 of my damn in-heat cats had peed on it. So I gave her my leather bomber to wear and kept her jacket to have it dry cleaned. I don't know now what is going to happen with the jackets. The bomber was given to me by my now deceased ex Father In Law so it has a lot of sentimental value. (Unlike my ex wife he was a very cool guy and a great friend.).

Thanks for any info!

Have fun and be safe!

That really sucks about the jacket man since it has sentimental value but giving anything of value to a prostitute is just asking for trouble. That thing probably went into the trash the minute she got home.

[MineTooTell]

Was texting with her today. Meeting for dinner and back to her place tomorrow evening. 300 for the ppm. Anyone seen her and can provide info? Worth the investment?

Thanks,

[FanRat]

Just checked and no profile for me, either. Never met her so don't know why I would be individually blocked. . . Sorry to hear.

Yeah IDK. Not a word.

Maybe another daddy paid for those boobs if she went exclusive. She has the looks and the skills to make a fine living as a baby for a wealthy guy.

Really sucks about the jacket though. Maybe shell turn up.

Thanks!

[Mark User]

Just checked and no profile for me, either. Never met her so don't know why I would be individually blocked. . . Sorry to hear.

[FanRat]

Hey all!

Did anyone catch up with VaPlatinumPrincess on SA or heard from her in the last few days?

We were seeing each other weekly for a few weeks and were having a great time. And we were messaging quite a bit daily.

Late last week she messaged that she would be leaving (this past Tuesday) to have a boob job (Ds! And on her frame they would be unbelievable!) and she wanted to meet before she went under the knife but we couldn't get schedules straight.

Sunday is the last I heard from her. No response to text and she has either blocked me or has taken her SA profile down.

If its over that's fine. Arrangements are supposed to be NSA. But a message would have been nice and I felt that she knew I wouldn't be an ass about it. Or maybe something has happened to her? I just don't know.

But 1 of the reasons I ask is the last time she was here she left her jacket on the nightstand and when she put it on to leave it was wet. 1 of my damn in-heat cats had peed on it. So I gave her my leather bomber to wear and kept her jacket to have it dry cleaned. I don't know now what is going to happen with the jackets. The bomber was given to me by my now deceased ex Father In Law so it has a lot of sentimental value. (Unlike my ex wife he was a very cool guy and a great friend.).

Thanks for any info!

Have fun and be safe!

[ItsAHobby45]

Again. There's a difference in finding one that is LOOKING for a SD and turning one that is curious or on the fence about even trying it.

This is definitely the case. The girls on Tinder that say they are looking for a sd are the ones that read about it in a magazine or website that makes it seem like they will live this glamorous life if they find a sd so they are expecting $1000 just to be your arm candy for the evening. It's not hard to spot the Tinder girls that have gps. They will typically be wearing a tight long dress and have 1/4" of makeup on their face. Avoid them as it's a waste of time much like seeking. For me, there is no way I'm ever paying these girls enough to change their life. I get bored with them after fucking them 2/3 times anyway so there is no opportunity of consistency with me.

For Tinder you just have to cast a wide net. With the 19 yo Tinder hottie I'm meeting with this evening I matched with her and messaged her some hilarious pickup line I stole from someone else and she ate it up. The pickup line was a mix of funny, mildly sexual but very tasteful so it seems to weed out the prude ones that wouldn't be down for something like that anyway. After a few minutes of chatting I throw out the whole idea of being a sb to them in a half joking way and that's it. You'd be surprised at how many respond with mild interest so you know they are at least open to the possibility. At that point just sell them on the benefits and they are yours.

I was in Delaware last week on business and used this exact method on an 18 yo half white half Latina girl I matched with on Tinder. She was clueless to anything sugar dating but had a clear interest in the money and was open to meeting me. I asked her about money thinking she'd come back with some unrealistic number but after saying she really didn't know what she should ask for I continued to press her and she said $75. She said she would meet me that night but unfortunately I was an hour and a half away so I found something else but I'm back up there the first week of January and I'll be seeing her.

[Rvaexec60]

I have a FC set up with this lady called May. Can someone let me know if you can share your experience with her?

[Cabsauv1997]

I'm great at convincing most of these girls that they need me more than I need them. If you can do that they are usually quick to drop their panties.

Okay, so say more about this. This is where so much of the game is won and lost.

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Aren't you 31 or 32 and single? I'm sure you're young and fit. With all of the girl's you bang, you must have a young guy's stamina. You're probably walking around with a raging hard-on all day. You're the type of guy that most young girls are looking for on all dating apps. They'll fuck your brains out for free if you make them think they'll get a ring and a bunch of babies out of it. We might not all have your same experience.

If I had my 30's to do over, I would have gotten a vasectomy and then hung out at the local church looking for a nice girl with whom I could have babies.

LOL.

[BookerTNelson]

How much sugar did you end up offering to each of them? Did you have to negotiate what activities they would do for that or did it just happen naturally?

I took care of a phone bill for one (85 $? The others were shopping for less than $150 each. I don't negotiate activities LOL, these aren't escorts and the last thing I want to do is feel like I'm negotiating each stroke. I tell them this will feel like a fwb situation that theyre used to but theyll get other benefits besides the orgasms that theyre missing.

[BookerTNelson]

I tried Tinder after my divorce. Any girl on Tinder who says she is looking for a sugardaddy is expecting to be driving around in a sports car and living in a luxury apartment on our dime. Those girls want big presents, like $10,000 breast implants. That's their definition of Sugardaddy. At least the SA girls know the deal. I wouldn't waste too much of your money taking them to dinner for nothing.

Again. There's a difference in finding one that is LOOKING for a SD and turning one that is curious or on the fence about even trying it.

[BookerTNelson]

Maybe you're not married but hopefully someone here is and can advise. Are you able to set up a profile with no pic / blurred pic, or make them private like you can on SA?

Yes, I'm married. I use the same generic pic that I use on Seeking. I try not to send ANY pic and when I absolutely have to, I send it on Snapchat. That way if they screenshot it, I back away instantly and move on.

[HappyHunter44]

I'm great at convincing most of these girls that they need me more than I need them. If you can do that they are usually quick to drop their panties.

Yep!! None of my SBs even remotely think I need them. I make sure that I come off that way from the beginning. Want them, sure - I make them feel hot and wanted. Need them, never - and they know it. And interestingly enough they seem to get a kick out of the fact that I actually want to bang them.