"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**BookerTNelson** · 12-18-19 06:13

Originally Posted by EBob1111 [View Original Post]

Maybe you're not married but hopefully someone here is and can advise. Are you able to set up a profile with no pic / blurred pic, or make them private like you can on SA?

Yes, I'm married. I use the same generic pic that I use on Seeking. I try not to send ANY pic and when I absolutely have to, I send it on Snapchat. That way if they screenshot it, I back away instantly and move on.

**HappyHunter44** · 12-17-19 15:38

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

I'm great at convincing most of these girls that they need me more than I need them. If you can do that they are usually quick to drop their panties.

Yep!! None of my SBs even remotely think I need them. I make sure that I come off that way from the beginning. Want them, sure - I make them feel hot and wanted. Need them, never - and they know it. And interestingly enough they seem to get a kick out of the fact that I actually want to bang them.

**ItsAHobby45** · 12-17-19 14:41

Originally Posted by DCSeeker [View Original Post]

Aren't you 31 or 32 and single? I'm sure you're young and fit. With all of the girl's you bang, you must have a young guy's stamina. You're probably walking around with a raging hard-on all day. You're the type of guy that most young girls are looking for on all dating apps. They'll fuck your brains out for free if you make them think they'll get a ring and a bunch of babies out of it. We might not all have your same experience.

You've got me all wrong. I do look younger than my actual age but I'm not the guy in the picture you paint. I'm in shape but more on the thin side. I'm just very ordinary really. I wish my dick worked like you said. I've been fucking hotter girls the past few months than I ever did in my life and I still struggle sometimes to get where I need to be but I blame that on nerves and not something medically. I just sell myself really well. I'd rate myself a 7. 5-8 on a scare as far as looks but I'm great at convincing most of these girls that they need me more than I need them. If you can do that they are usually quick to drop their panties.

**DCSeeker** · 12-17-19 13:50

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

That hasn't been my experience so far with Tinder. Out of all the girls I've talked to only one had unrealistic expectations when I brought up sugar dating but her profile pictures just screamed high maintenance anyway so it was expected and not my type anyway.

My current best candidate is a 19 yo gorgeous girl next door type. She's home in Richmond for holiday break with her parents right now. She was completely naive to anything sugar related but is very open to it as long as things stay very discreet and likes the idea of having guaranteed money every time she comes to visit her family.

Aren't you 31 or 32 and single? I'm sure you're young and fit. With all of the girl's you bang, you must have a young guy's stamina. You're probably walking around with a raging hard-on all day. You're the type of guy that most young girls are looking for on all dating apps. They'll fuck your brains out for free if you make them think they'll get a ring and a bunch of babies out of it. We might not all have your same experience.

**ItsAHobby45** · 12-17-19 12:57

Originally Posted by Sterling44 [View Original Post]

I tried Tinder after my divorce. Any girl on Tinder who says she is looking for a sugardaddy is expecting to be driving around in a sports car and living in a luxury apartment on our dime. Those girls want big presents, like $10,000 breast implants. That's their definition of Sugardaddy. At least the SA girls know the deal. I wouldn't waste too much of your money taking them to dinner for nothing.

That hasn't been my experience so far with Tinder. Out of all the girls I've talked to only one had unrealistic expectations when I brought up sugar dating but her profile pictures just screamed high maintenance anyway so it was expected and not my type anyway.

My current best candidate is a 19 yo gorgeous girl next door type. She's home in Richmond for holiday break with her parents right now. She was completely naive to anything sugar related but is very open to it as long as things stay very discreet and likes the idea of having guaranteed money every time she comes to visit her family.

**EBob1111** · 12-17-19 12:52

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

Depends on your approach honestly. I'm on there looking to turn civi's into SB's, not find SB's that are already in the game or on another site. It's kind of amazing how quickly you can turn one in a simple texting conversation. They all think about it, they're just too scared to put themselves out there.

Last week I had meet ups just from Tinder activity. 3 turned into FC action, the other is a little slower but I'm seeing her tomorrow. Ton of fake profiles but you can definitely just spot who is a real woman and who isn't.

How much sugar did you end up offering to each of them? Did you have to negotiate what activities they would do for that or did it just happen naturally?

**Sterling44** · 12-17-19 12:51

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

I have seen a huge up tick in SB on Tinder. However, I wonder how many of them are real or serious. I chat with a few of them but they eventually go dark. I've also seen a lot of fake profiles on tinder providing their Snapchat and 9 our of 10 times when I go to SC the profile is just a porno site.

I tried Tinder after my divorce. Any girl on Tinder who says she is looking for a sugardaddy is expecting to be driving around in a sports car and living in a luxury apartment on our dime. Those girls want big presents, like $10,000 breast implants. That's their definition of Sugardaddy. At least the SA girls know the deal. I wouldn't waste too much of your money taking them to dinner for nothing.

**ItsAHobby45** · 12-17-19 09:49

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

Depends on your approach honestly. I'm on there looking to turn civi's into SB's, not find SB's that are already in the game or on another site. It's kind of amazing how quickly you can turn one in a simple texting conversation. They all think about it, they're just too scared to put themselves out there.

Last week I had meet ups just from Tinder activity. 3 turned into FC action, the other is a little slower but I'm seeing her tomorrow. Ton of fake profiles but you can definitely just spot who is a real woman and who isn't.

Can you share some pictures of these girls? I only ask because I feel like I do pretty well in this game but finding and getting 3 to the FC in a weeks time just isn't something I'm capable of doing and I spend a lot of time at this. I'm wondering if I'm just being extremely picky with looks which is why I don’t have numbers like that.

I share your interest in turning the girls into sb's though. That's so much more fun than just finding a sb and getting her to the FC.

**EBob1111** · 12-17-19 09:40

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

Depends on your approach honestly. I'm on there looking to turn civi's into SB's, not find SB's that are already in the game or on another site. It's kind of amazing how quickly you can turn one in a simple texting conversation. They all think about it, they're just too scared to put themselves out there.

Last week I had meet ups just from Tinder activity. 3 turned into FC action, the other is a little slower but I'm seeing her tomorrow. Ton of fake profiles but you can definitely just spot who is a real woman and who isn't.

Maybe you're not married but hopefully someone here is and can advise. Are you able to set up a profile with no pic / blurred pic, or make them private like you can on SA?

**BookerTNelson** · 12-17-19 09:16

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

I have seen a huge up tick in SB on Tinder. However, I wonder how many of them are real or serious. I chat with a few of them but they eventually go dark. I've also seen a lot of fake profiles on tinder providing their Snapchat and 9 our of 10 times when I go to SC the profile is just a porno site.

Depends on your approach honestly. I'm on there looking to turn civi's into SB's, not find SB's that are already in the game or on another site. It's kind of amazing how quickly you can turn one in a simple texting conversation. They all think about it, they're just too scared to put themselves out there.

Last week I had meet ups just from Tinder activity. 3 turned into FC action, the other is a little slower but I'm seeing her tomorrow. Ton of fake profiles but you can definitely just spot who is a real woman and who isn't.

**Hal1957** · 12-17-19 09:07

How do you tweak your Tinder profile to shoot for SBs?

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

Tinder has been full of W's for me over the past month. Approach it right and it's the best option yet.

**CandyMan555** · 12-17-19 07:48

Do you need your real address and phone number??

Thanks CM.

**ItsAHobby45** · 12-16-19 23:59

Originally Posted by EasyeOne [View Original Post]

Been chatting and texting with her but gave up after this: "2-3 weeks keep it online with a weekly allowance then we move to meeting in person and that's when the allowance raises and I do amazing things to you). So basically an online arrangement that goes into an in person arrangement".

I got the exact same texts. Almost verbatim. I called her out and she agreed that we could talk with no payment until she got comfortable to meet for intimacy. She then went dark on me for a week or two and then messaged me again tonight.

**Hal1957** · 12-16-19 22:12

I can easily see this becoming a bait-and-ghost relationship that goes silent just before the sugar.

Originally Posted by EasyeOne [View Original Post]

Been chatting and texting with her but gave up after this: "2-3 weeks keep it online with a weekly allowance then we move to meeting in person and that's when the allowance raises and I do amazing things to you). So basically an online arrangement that goes into an in person arrangement".

**EasyeOne** · 12-16-19 21:59

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

This one just screams scam to me for some reason but wondering if anyone has talked to her it actually seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/bf4f9...9-14f552716e91

Been chatting and texting with her but gave up after this: "2-3 weeks keep it online with a weekly allowance then we move to meeting in person and that's when the allowance raises and I do amazing things to you). So basically an online arrangement that goes into an in person arrangement".