Seeking Arrangements

**Bran001** · 11-30-19 14:13

I have the means, but have an aversion to monthly. Certainly to start off I am NOT giving a month's worth of allowance and then HOPE she doesn't ghost.

I've always said truthfully that I'm open to it after establishing that it works ppm, but one of two things happen: the ppm relationship doesn't last long enough, or it does and she doesn't care and is happy for PPM.

Originally Posted by Lily1234 [View Original Post]

This is not popular here but anyone who has the means to pay for the girls who want a higher monthly allowance want to share?

2 k or more monthly girls is all I want to discuss. Pm me.

**Spill** · 11-29-19 14:43

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**Lily1234** · 11-28-19 23:42

This is not popular here but anyone who has the means to pay for the girls who want a higher monthly allowance want to share?

2 k or more monthly girls is all I want to discuss. Pm me.

**Mfp79** · 11-27-19 22:50

Originally Posted by GlennDoyle91 [View Original Post]

There used to be a category to report users if they had no intention of meeting in person. I guess that changed? Is seeking getting into the cam business, because I've been getting ALOT of those type of girls lately. Don't want to meet up, online only, etc. Maybe it's just fucking dallas. It seemed sooo much easier to get a meet up in boston.

Lots of that here too. I just tell them I'm only interested in in person and move on. Similarly if they're platonic only.

I'm general this thing is a numbers game. Reach out to enough girls with clear intentions and don't try too hard to see if the profile is legit unless they are willing to meet.

**GlennDoyle91** · 11-27-19 17:20

There used to be a category to report users if they had no intention of meeting in person. I guess that changed? Is seeking getting into the cam business, because I've been getting ALOT of those type of girls lately. Don't want to meet up, online only, etc. Maybe it's just fucking dallas. It seemed sooo much easier to get a meet up in boston.

**Bran001** · 11-27-19 14:13

Originally Posted by GenevaGuy [View Original Post]

The other thing I have found is the large percentage (I'm guessing 40% of the newbies here) of black and mixed girls on SA. On the Reddit sugarlifestyle subreddit, there is a lot of talk that black and mixed girls are of less interest to many guys on SA to be SBs, these statements are from the girls themselves. I myself had a very dark skinned SB for a year that told me she just could not find an SD cause of her color. Well, I have no prejudice in that regard. I do love the contrast in bed hehehe. What do you guys think about that?

I've read that on Reddit as well. The girls who post that stuff, for the most part, exhibit a very entitled attitude, and / or a very 'inner city' vibe that is a total turn-off for me.

I've met women of all shapes, sizes and colors on SA and elsewhere. Here in the Boston area, its the culture they exude, not the color of their skin, that is most often the turn-off.

**JohnTies** · 11-26-19 01:39

Odds this girl has ever done this or even knew what I meant when she heard about it.

I am just on there reading some profiles and laughing my ass off.

Every ad as stated before is platonic, nothing sexual, venmo me, etc.

I am hitting favorite on a whole bunch, want to see how many are still on in a week or two. Should be interesting.

This one cracks me up. Lavenderstars.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b46b5...9-baae0010af93

**PaulRew** · 11-25-19 19:02

Originally Posted by HounDog3 [View Original Post]

Saw the profile for curvypinkprincess and had a sudden urge for a younger small BBW. What can I say it happens. No indication of platonic or online only. In fact the indications were the opposite. Moved to text quickly then she hit me up to buy her pics. Politely declined and let her know I wanted physical intimacy. Her response, and I could not make this sh*t up, "That would make me a prostitute. " She went silent after that. Ignore this one, she is a waste of time:

https://www.seeking.com/member/2bc43...7-4e95b7c51c3b

The site really has hit an all time low with this one! That fatty should thank her lucky stars if some guy will fuck her for free let alone give her money for the "privilege".

Not sure where SA thinks the site is headed with pushing the platonic nonsense. The fact is if guys don't pay for VIP the site will die. I normally join / pay 2 or 3 times a year but have not since February. I have 300 plus messages sitting in my inbox but the more I read about the current lunacy with platonic, online, Venmo / Paypal / Cashapp prior to dates, and GPS I really have no desire to jump back in.

Rant over.

**Iron8025** · 11-25-19 09:41

Sorry I post this on the wrong board.

Originally Posted by Iron8025 [View Original Post]

Anyone have any info on her? We're supposed to meet this week.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bd366...d-c00288a83918

**Iron8025** · 11-25-19 09:15

Anyone have any info on her? We're supposed to meet this week.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bd366...d-c00288a83918

**Mfp79** · 11-24-19 22:19

Originally Posted by Hyperion11 [View Original Post]

Ok, new rant!

A good proportion of girls are looking for "online" arrangements. I always ask them why would anyone pay for that, with all the porn available one Google search away. They say some guys like the pics taken specially for them.

Would anyone really pay for that?!

I'm sure it happens here and there, but not nearly enough to warrant the number of girls expecting it.

**HounDog3** · 11-24-19 13:39

Originally Posted by Hyperion11 [View Original Post]

Ok, new rant!

A good proportion of girls are looking for "online" arrangements. I always ask them why would anyone pay for that, with all the porn available one Google search away. They say some guys like the pics taken specially for them.

Would anyone really pay for that?!

Saw the profile for curvypinkprincess and had a sudden urge for a younger small BBW. What can I say it happens. No indication of platonic or online only. In fact the indications were the opposite. Moved to text quickly then she hit me up to buy her pics. Politely declined and let her know I wanted physical intimacy. Her response, and I could not make this sh*t up, "That would make me a prostitute. " She went silent after that. Ignore this one, she is a waste of time:

https://www.seeking.com/member/2bc43...7-4e95b7c51c3b

**Spill** · 11-24-19 13:08

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

I've lost count of the number of times this has happened. I'll make light fun of a girl who's been on for a couple of days because it's all over her profile that she wants platonic. When I politely tell her that platonic is not a real thing she goes on to lecture me how it totally is! Keep in mind, this girl has been on the site for a few hours and I've been on quite a bit longer but it doesn't matter. She'll insist she knows everything there is to know about the bowl and go on and on how it's possible. Predictably, her profile is gone within a week when what she knew to be thing simply never materialized. Girls, never try to reason with them, it's a lost cause.

SA has spent a lot of time promoting this type of arrangement in order to stay clear of LE. This has brought in an entire new crop of SBs looking for "platonic" and "good conversation". This is simply a flag to remind you to hit the HIDE button and move on. Why would you even consider engaging with them? You are not going to change their mind and you may be risking getting kicked off.

**Member #6503** · 11-24-19 10:08

Has anyone seen this one? She's saying the right things but something seems off.

https://www.seeking.com/member/eca4b...a-8965e068cd71

**Hyperion11** · 11-23-19 23:51

Ok, new rant!

A good proportion of girls are looking for "online" arrangements. I always ask them why would anyone pay for that, with all the porn available one Google search away. They say some guys like the pics taken specially for them.

Would anyone really pay for that?!