Seeking Arrangements

[Hyperion11]

Ok, new rant!

A good proportion of girls are looking for "online" arrangements. I always ask them why would anyone pay for that, with all the porn available one Google search away. They say some guys like the pics taken specially for them.

Would anyone really pay for that?!

[EvilTmp]

Today I really got annoyed.

I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.

What the actual fuck?!

I've lost count of the number of times this has happened. I'll make light fun of a girl who's been on for a couple of days because it's all over her profile that she wants platonic. When I politely tell her that platonic is not a real thing she goes on to lecture me how it totally is! Keep in mind, this girl has been on the site for a few hours and I've been on quite a bit longer but it doesn't matter. She'll insist she knows everything there is to know about the bowl and go on and on how it's possible. Predictably, her profile is gone within a week when what she knew to be thing simply never materialized. Girls, never try to reason with them, it's a lost cause.

[Nrlmus]

"all her friends" is a complete load of shit; however there are some cases of a guy paying a meet and greet and not continuing.

I'm lurking from California, but I was living in S. Florida and a girl I knew used SA to find a boyfriend; she was offered like $900 to drive down to Miami to meet a guy. She said that the guy didn't like her looks in person (of course; she posted pictures from 15 years ago). I consider this guy like Bigfoot riding on a unicorn; very rare in the wild.

As others said, it's pointless to argue facts; you are offering cash for pussy and if she wants it she can see you and talk about it.

All girls will fuck a guy at the first meet IF she likes him enough; others are like bringing horses to water, maybe they won't drink, but change their minds.

Money is perceived very differently by females; cash is an actual aphrodisiac to them. If they know you have it ready, they get hot for you indirectly.

I love that "cash is an actual aphrodisiac to them". It's so so true, and I don't know if you came up with it yourself but I never heard it being put this way before. I sure am annexing it for personal usage LOL.

In fact I find that many pros are less hung up about money than non-pros, maybe because it's such a direct transaction that after the umpteenth time it kills all the erotica for them. Non-pros or semi-pros on the other hand would often get hot just by the idea of being with somebody with money, or even of meeting somebody who'd be willing to pay them for their pussy.

[Hyperion11]

Guys, don't get me wrong, I'm not spending more time than needed on this kind of girls. I just got annoyed by the idea that some guy would pay to just hang out with them. Although I agree this is probably BS, and I told her that most probably her friends are lying to her.

[Geneva Guy]

Her friends don't have platonic arrangements. They are lying to her, or more likely she is lying to you. With these girls, I just tell them flat out I am looking for intimacy and if they ever change their mind I am interested. 70% end up deleting their seeking profiles, but the ones that don't end up contacting me in a few weeks or more after they realize exactly what this site is about and get comfortable with the idea.

I have not found the "platonic" tag to have any correlation to their willingness to put out. It's often a cover if someone they know discovers their profile, or it's an indication that if some schlep is willing to pay for platonic they will do that LOL. When they write it in their bio, they usually mean it, even so I often contact them and make an offer if they are to my liking.

I go for young, preferably 18-19 but up to 22 and usually hit them up when they are new to the site. These girls often need some time to get used to the idea of selling their p****. A couple weeks on SeekingArrangment getting offered $100 for cardate anal by fat retired gym teachers and I start to look like a gentleman to them haha.

I never pursue the platonic ones that hard, just let them know if they change their mind or need cash I am happy to defile them haha.

Here in Upstate NY, we currently have a huge number of college girls that have joined SA in the last 2 weeks. Of course, they joined cause their friends told them about big money and no sex. I agree, its BS. One girl just asked me "would you be willing to meet and talk a few times". I told her "sure, but no gift, I'll buy the coffee. ". One girl who tagged "platonic" told me "that's not what I'm looking for" when I explained to her what platonic meant haha.

The other thing I have found is the large percentage (I'm guessing 40% of the newbies here) of black and mixed girls on SA. On the Reddit sugarlifestyle subreddit, there is a lot of talk that black and mixed girls are of less interest to many guys on SA to be SBs, these statements are from the girls themselves. I myself had a very dark skinned SB for a year that told me she just could not find an SD cause of her color. Well, I have no prejudice in that regard. I do love the contrast in bed hehehe. What do you guys think about that? Just reiterating what I continue to read on other websites. If this is true, could be lots of girls ripe for the picking (or screwing as it is). I have 4 that I'm chatting with currently and supposed to meet a beautiful brown, tiny 23 year old on Monday for intimate fun.

GG.

[Dash]

Today I really got annoyed.

I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.

What the actual fuck?!

"all her friends" is a complete load of shit; however there are some cases of a guy paying a meet and greet and not continuing.

I'm lurking from California, but I was living in S. Florida and a girl I knew used SA to find a boyfriend; she was offered like $900 to drive down to Miami to meet a guy. She said that the guy didn't like her looks in person (of course; she posted pictures from 15 years ago). I consider this guy like Bigfoot riding on a unicorn; very rare in the wild.

As others said, it's pointless to argue facts; you are offering cash for pussy and if she wants it she can see you and talk about it.

All girls will fuck a guy at the first meet IF she likes him enough; others are like bringing horses to water, maybe they won't drink, but change their minds.

Money is perceived very differently by females; cash is an actual aphrodisiac to them. If they know you have it ready, they get hot for you indirectly.

[DWinthrop]

Today I really got annoyed.

I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.

What the actual fuck?!

Her friends don't have platonic arrangements. They are lying to her, or more likely she is lying to you. With these girls, I just tell them flat out I am looking for intimacy and if they ever change their mind I am interested. 70% end up deleting their seeking profiles, but the ones that don't end up contacting me in a few weeks or more after they realize exactly what this site is about and get comfortable with the idea.

I have not found the "platonic" tag to have any correlation to their willingness to put out. It's often a cover if someone they know discovers their profile, or it's an indication that if some schlep is willing to pay for platonic they will do that LOL. When they write it in their bio, they usually mean it, even so I often contact them and make an offer if they are to my liking.

I go for young, preferably 18-19 but up to 22 and usually hit them up when they are new to the site. These girls often need some time to get used to the idea of selling their p****. A couple weeks on SeekingArrangment getting offered $100 for cardate anal by fat retired gym teachers and I start to look like a gentleman to them haha.

I never pursue the platonic ones that hard, just let them know if they change their mind or need cash I am happy to defile them haha.

[Educated]

Today I really got annoyed.

I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.

What the actual fuck?!

Her friends are lying to her. They don't want her to know what they do behind closed doors. This way they can look very innocent. When they aren't really. Not that that is anything wrong with not being innocent. .

[Banjomania]

Today I really got annoyed.

I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.

What the actual fuck?!

It's a thing. You can usually weed out the ones looking for platonic through something they say in their profile. I find that almost none of the women above the age of 25 are looking for that. To each his own, but platonic with a 22-year old seems like an amazing waste of time and money.

[Bran001]

I used to get annoyed. . . Still do once in a while. . . But it's not worth it. Block; delete; move on with your life. Once you block them and delete the messages, they are gone from your existence and the annoyance can dissipate. At least that works for me.

Today I really got annoyed.

I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.

What the actual fuck?!

[Hyperion11]

Today I really got annoyed.

I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.

What the actual fuck?!

[ExJock99]

I agree. Going up rates is a dealbreaker to me.

Time was, it was a universal practice for whatever girl you saw to keep you "grandfathered" in at her old rate. Now I see these girls advertising, "See me now before my rates go up in December!

If anything, older customers are better. The girls know they can trust them. They don't have to spend time screening, etc.

I don't know--everybody has their own price range and preferences, I guess. But the precious few times that any hoes who I'd already inseminated several times raised their rates on me, I never went back to them again.

[SniffHer]

Howdy All,

Some of my finds of the day. Thought I would share:

https://www.seeking.com/member/66956...f-1e15e02cb084 - strawberrykiwi1991 - Seems like a pro. Wanted to meet right now, anywhere.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d73db...5-b92e6c917a7e - reeree12 - Seems nice, eager to meet, but in a shitty section of Worcester. I am afraid to commit to a meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8ae52...2-70ae8a94c347 - KaLi_xXx. Very friendly, sought me out. We chatted, but she was hustling for a meet today. Seemed a little desperate.

If you have any thoughts please share!

JW.

The third one will hit you up out of the blue asking you to send money. It's always a phone being shut off, a medical issue or a prescription that is needed. I have only texted with her, no voice communication. She does come across as unstable when she is requesting money.

[James Woods]

Howdy All,

Some of my finds of the day. Thought I would share:

https://www.seeking.com/member/66956...f-1e15e02cb084 - strawberrykiwi1991 - Seems like a pro. Wanted to meet right now, anywhere.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d73db...5-b92e6c917a7e - reeree12 - Seems nice, eager to meet, but in a shitty section of Worcester. I am afraid to commit to a meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8ae52...2-70ae8a94c347 - KaLi_xXx. Very friendly, sought me out. We chatted, but she was hustling for a meet today. Seemed a little desperate.

If you have any thoughts please share!

JW.

[KingOfFours]

I have one regular who hosts for 3, and one for 2. But the one for 2 is just an fwb I found on CL long ago; for her the $ is just a little kink.

We all have our views, but I do believe you're right that in today's market, 3 for someone who can host, allows me to shower afterwards, keeps a very clean apartment, BBFSCIM etc, is pretty good "value. " I keep returning to her for 3 because it works for me. We started at 2 a few years ago but she asked for the 'raise' and it was reasonable to me.

I don't know--everybody has their own price range and preferences, I guess. But the precious few times that any hoes who I'd already inseminated several times raised their rates on me, I never went back to them again.