Seeking Arrangements

[PaulRew]

Saw the profile for curvypinkprincess and had a sudden urge for a younger small BBW. What can I say it happens. No indication of platonic or online only. In fact the indications were the opposite. Moved to text quickly then she hit me up to buy her pics. Politely declined and let her know I wanted physical intimacy. Her response, and I could not make this sh*t up, "That would make me a prostitute. " She went silent after that. Ignore this one, she is a waste of time:

https://www.seeking.com/member/2bc43...7-4e95b7c51c3b

The site really has hit an all time low with this one! That fatty should thank her lucky stars if some guy will fuck her for free let alone give her money for the "privilege".

Not sure where SA thinks the site is headed with pushing the platonic nonsense. The fact is if guys don't pay for VIP the site will die. I normally join / pay 2 or 3 times a year but have not since February. I have 300 plus messages sitting in my inbox but the more I read about the current lunacy with platonic, online, Venmo / Paypal / Cashapp prior to dates, and GPS I really have no desire to jump back in.

Rant over.

[Iron8025]

Sorry I post this on the wrong board.

Anyone have any info on her? We're supposed to meet this week.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bd366...d-c00288a83918

[Iron8025]

Anyone have any info on her? We're supposed to meet this week.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bd366...d-c00288a83918

[Mfp79]

Ok, new rant!

A good proportion of girls are looking for "online" arrangements. I always ask them why would anyone pay for that, with all the porn available one Google search away. They say some guys like the pics taken specially for them.

Would anyone really pay for that?!

I'm sure it happens here and there, but not nearly enough to warrant the number of girls expecting it.

[HounDog3]

Ok, new rant!

A good proportion of girls are looking for "online" arrangements. I always ask them why would anyone pay for that, with all the porn available one Google search away. They say some guys like the pics taken specially for them.

Would anyone really pay for that?!

Saw the profile for curvypinkprincess and had a sudden urge for a younger small BBW. What can I say it happens. No indication of platonic or online only. In fact the indications were the opposite. Moved to text quickly then she hit me up to buy her pics. Politely declined and let her know I wanted physical intimacy. Her response, and I could not make this sh*t up, "That would make me a prostitute. " She went silent after that. Ignore this one, she is a waste of time:

https://www.seeking.com/member/2bc43...7-4e95b7c51c3b

[Spill]

I've lost count of the number of times this has happened. I'll make light fun of a girl who's been on for a couple of days because it's all over her profile that she wants platonic. When I politely tell her that platonic is not a real thing she goes on to lecture me how it totally is! Keep in mind, this girl has been on the site for a few hours and I've been on quite a bit longer but it doesn't matter. She'll insist she knows everything there is to know about the bowl and go on and on how it's possible. Predictably, her profile is gone within a week when what she knew to be thing simply never materialized. Girls, never try to reason with them, it's a lost cause.

SA has spent a lot of time promoting this type of arrangement in order to stay clear of LE. This has brought in an entire new crop of SBs looking for "platonic" and "good conversation". This is simply a flag to remind you to hit the HIDE button and move on. Why would you even consider engaging with them? You are not going to change their mind and you may be risking getting kicked off.

[Member #6503]

Has anyone seen this one? She's saying the right things but something seems off.

https://www.seeking.com/member/eca4b...a-8965e068cd71

[Hyperion11]

Ok, new rant!

A good proportion of girls are looking for "online" arrangements. I always ask them why would anyone pay for that, with all the porn available one Google search away. They say some guys like the pics taken specially for them.

Would anyone really pay for that?!

[EvilTmp]

Today I really got annoyed.

I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.

What the actual fuck?!

I've lost count of the number of times this has happened. I'll make light fun of a girl who's been on for a couple of days because it's all over her profile that she wants platonic. When I politely tell her that platonic is not a real thing she goes on to lecture me how it totally is! Keep in mind, this girl has been on the site for a few hours and I've been on quite a bit longer but it doesn't matter. She'll insist she knows everything there is to know about the bowl and go on and on how it's possible. Predictably, her profile is gone within a week when what she knew to be thing simply never materialized. Girls, never try to reason with them, it's a lost cause.

[Nrlmus]

"all her friends" is a complete load of shit; however there are some cases of a guy paying a meet and greet and not continuing.

I'm lurking from California, but I was living in S. Florida and a girl I knew used SA to find a boyfriend; she was offered like $900 to drive down to Miami to meet a guy. She said that the guy didn't like her looks in person (of course; she posted pictures from 15 years ago). I consider this guy like Bigfoot riding on a unicorn; very rare in the wild.

As others said, it's pointless to argue facts; you are offering cash for pussy and if she wants it she can see you and talk about it.

All girls will fuck a guy at the first meet IF she likes him enough; others are like bringing horses to water, maybe they won't drink, but change their minds.

Money is perceived very differently by females; cash is an actual aphrodisiac to them. If they know you have it ready, they get hot for you indirectly.

I love that "cash is an actual aphrodisiac to them". It's so so true, and I don't know if you came up with it yourself but I never heard it being put this way before. I sure am annexing it for personal usage LOL.

In fact I find that many pros are less hung up about money than non-pros, maybe because it's such a direct transaction that after the umpteenth time it kills all the erotica for them. Non-pros or semi-pros on the other hand would often get hot just by the idea of being with somebody with money, or even of meeting somebody who'd be willing to pay them for their pussy.

[Hyperion11]

Guys, don't get me wrong, I'm not spending more time than needed on this kind of girls. I just got annoyed by the idea that some guy would pay to just hang out with them. Although I agree this is probably BS, and I told her that most probably her friends are lying to her.

[Geneva Guy]

Her friends don't have platonic arrangements. They are lying to her, or more likely she is lying to you. With these girls, I just tell them flat out I am looking for intimacy and if they ever change their mind I am interested. 70% end up deleting their seeking profiles, but the ones that don't end up contacting me in a few weeks or more after they realize exactly what this site is about and get comfortable with the idea.

I have not found the "platonic" tag to have any correlation to their willingness to put out. It's often a cover if someone they know discovers their profile, or it's an indication that if some schlep is willing to pay for platonic they will do that LOL. When they write it in their bio, they usually mean it, even so I often contact them and make an offer if they are to my liking.

I go for young, preferably 18-19 but up to 22 and usually hit them up when they are new to the site. These girls often need some time to get used to the idea of selling their p****. A couple weeks on SeekingArrangment getting offered $100 for cardate anal by fat retired gym teachers and I start to look like a gentleman to them haha.

I never pursue the platonic ones that hard, just let them know if they change their mind or need cash I am happy to defile them haha.

Here in Upstate NY, we currently have a huge number of college girls that have joined SA in the last 2 weeks. Of course, they joined cause their friends told them about big money and no sex. I agree, its BS. One girl just asked me "would you be willing to meet and talk a few times". I told her "sure, but no gift, I'll buy the coffee. ". One girl who tagged "platonic" told me "that's not what I'm looking for" when I explained to her what platonic meant haha.

The other thing I have found is the large percentage (I'm guessing 40% of the newbies here) of black and mixed girls on SA. On the Reddit sugarlifestyle subreddit, there is a lot of talk that black and mixed girls are of less interest to many guys on SA to be SBs, these statements are from the girls themselves. I myself had a very dark skinned SB for a year that told me she just could not find an SD cause of her color. Well, I have no prejudice in that regard. I do love the contrast in bed hehehe. What do you guys think about that? Just reiterating what I continue to read on other websites. If this is true, could be lots of girls ripe for the picking (or screwing as it is). I have 4 that I'm chatting with currently and supposed to meet a beautiful brown, tiny 23 year old on Monday for intimate fun.

GG.

[Dash]

Today I really got annoyed.

I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.

What the actual fuck?!

"all her friends" is a complete load of shit; however there are some cases of a guy paying a meet and greet and not continuing.

I'm lurking from California, but I was living in S. Florida and a girl I knew used SA to find a boyfriend; she was offered like $900 to drive down to Miami to meet a guy. She said that the guy didn't like her looks in person (of course; she posted pictures from 15 years ago). I consider this guy like Bigfoot riding on a unicorn; very rare in the wild.

As others said, it's pointless to argue facts; you are offering cash for pussy and if she wants it she can see you and talk about it.

All girls will fuck a guy at the first meet IF she likes him enough; others are like bringing horses to water, maybe they won't drink, but change their minds.

Money is perceived very differently by females; cash is an actual aphrodisiac to them. If they know you have it ready, they get hot for you indirectly.

[DWinthrop]

Today I really got annoyed.

I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.

What the actual fuck?!

Her friends don't have platonic arrangements. They are lying to her, or more likely she is lying to you. With these girls, I just tell them flat out I am looking for intimacy and if they ever change their mind I am interested. 70% end up deleting their seeking profiles, but the ones that don't end up contacting me in a few weeks or more after they realize exactly what this site is about and get comfortable with the idea.

I have not found the "platonic" tag to have any correlation to their willingness to put out. It's often a cover if someone they know discovers their profile, or it's an indication that if some schlep is willing to pay for platonic they will do that LOL. When they write it in their bio, they usually mean it, even so I often contact them and make an offer if they are to my liking.

I go for young, preferably 18-19 but up to 22 and usually hit them up when they are new to the site. These girls often need some time to get used to the idea of selling their p****. A couple weeks on SeekingArrangment getting offered $100 for cardate anal by fat retired gym teachers and I start to look like a gentleman to them haha.

I never pursue the platonic ones that hard, just let them know if they change their mind or need cash I am happy to defile them haha.

[Educated]

Today I really got annoyed.

I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.

What the actual fuck?!

Her friends are lying to her. They don't want her to know what they do behind closed doors. This way they can look very innocent. When they aren't really. Not that that is anything wrong with not being innocent. .