Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[DeadLiftSpray]

I personally use Express VPN. Its alittle easier because you can just change your location. When I signed up, I also included fake names and a fake address. Could be anywhere. I used an old address of a friend in Virginia.

Also, I bought a regular Visa Gift Card off Amazon. $100 gift card is all you need.

I was actually banned a long time ago from SA when I first signed up and didn't really know what I was doing. Some of the girls are spiteful. When you talk then down or tell them hell no you won't pay $500 for pussy they turn around and spitefully report you to SA as soliciting.

So when something doesn't work out with a girl on there, and I feel she was trying to scam me, I instantly report her for whatever I suspected the scam was. I used to be reluctant to do it, because I told myself nothing would happen, but it works. They get banned too if enough people report them. How do I know? You see the same girl come back who been on the site since 2015, and she is now a "New" member that started a few days ago! LOL!

So I used to not want to report them, but these girls have no problem reporting you. So report them as well. Especially if you feel she is trying to scam you. What happened to you mate, is that probably a few spiteful girls reported you because they were mad you gave them the hell no.

Two questions: Do they make digital gift cards? And is there a way to remove ads from the side bar, not big into seeing porn pics pop up, adblock doesn't do squat.

[BoredinCT12]

Met Riley she is also in seeking, went out with her a couple of times complete waste of time. She just wants to "date" she told me maybe after a few more dates I'll feel more comfortable. How about no I'll pass.

Monnie0433 is another one that just dates. Xosashax012 will give you one word responses to text and it takes her 2 days to respond. I told her she is not making money is she doesn't communicate. Then blocked her. Both are on SA.

[BoredinCT12]

Hey I used to see Vica a lot. Her prices were out of control at a about 2. 5 k. This was about 12 years ago. I used to pay about 500. Man she was awesome and BBCIP all day long.

All holes are available too. She emails me every time she is in Hartford which isn't that often. Lots of cosmetic work done but she looks awesome for pushing 50. She wanted 500, I told her she was my retirement gift to myself for 25 years in the military. She hooked me up.

[Zombie835]

Met Riley she is also in seeking, went out with her a couple of times complete waste of time. She just wants to "date" she told me maybe after a few more dates I'll feel more comfortable. How about no I'll pass.

[Diapason]

So let me get this straight. You can pay $150 for 450 credits, so that is lets say 30 conversations (I don't get why some are 10 credits, 15,20 etc. Makes no sense to me) You make sure to accept people who maybe you favorite, or you see that are active? Most so far are accepting me from 75 - 150 pretty easily. So you message and go on dinner, but you don't pay until after. Is something sexual basically expected when you go? I don't want to be scummy here but do you pay after dinner and sex is that the implication? Of course you have to game a bit, but do they really think that guys pay to take them out to dinner? Even if they do don't they understand the site's "concept"? Or am I way off course. I apologize for if this has been discussed already but I don't really get it.

So in this case for $150 lets say you get 15 meetups, 10 sex for sub 100 or something sexual seems like a pretty good deal to me. And I am pretty new to all of this, only have dipped my toes into SA. Thanks.

And thanks for the messages about the swap a few posts down, will get back to you guys soon I have been busy.

The cost in credits to you depends on the accepted incentive. And yes, in my experience at least, most of the women on there will actually expect you to pay them for the mere pleasure of taking them out to dinner as they stare at their phone half the time. It's shocking actually, but I have not had good luck there finding someone not completely delusional.

[Tomb8871]

So let me get this straight. You can pay $150 for 450 credits, so that is lets say 30 conversations (I don't get why some are 10 credits, 15,20 etc. Makes no sense to me) You make sure to accept people who maybe you favorite, or you see that are active? Most so far are accepting me from 75 - 150 pretty easily. So you message and go on dinner, but you don't pay until after. Is something sexual basically expected when you go? I don't want to be scummy here but do you pay after dinner and sex is that the implication? Of course you have to game a bit, but do they really think that guys pay to take them out to dinner? Even if they do don't they understand the site's "concept"? Or am I way off course. I apologize for if this has been discussed already but I don't really get it.

So in this case for $150 lets say you get 15 meetups, 10 sex for sub 100 or something sexual seems like a pretty good deal to me. And I am pretty new to all of this, only have dipped my toes into SA. Thanks.

And thanks for the messages about the swap a few posts down, will get back to you guys soon I have been busy.

Credits used are function of whatever $ amount being offered. I forget how it goes, but if you offer 500 they take a lot more credits that 150. I remember 99 was a common offer for that reason-saved on credits.

You are basically paying to go to dinner. I am sure some women fully expect it to lead to more, but my experience was that women mostly want to string you along with the tease for one or more dates with no intention of anything more. That isn't universal, but I found SA much more fruitful, altho takes a lot of work. Also, WYP has lots of scammers on there so be careful.

[DeadLiftSpray]

So let me get this straight. You can pay $150 for 450 credits, so that is lets say 30 conversations (I don't get why some are 10 credits, 15,20 etc. Makes no sense to me) You make sure to accept people who maybe you favorite, or you see that are active? Most so far are accepting me from 75 - 150 pretty easily. So you message and go on dinner, but you don't pay until after. Is something sexual basically expected when you go? I don't want to be scummy here but do you pay after dinner and sex is that the implication? Of course you have to game a bit, but do they really think that guys pay to take them out to dinner? Even if they do don't they understand the site's "concept"? Or am I way off course. I apologize for if this has been discussed already but I don't really get it.

So in this case for $150 lets say you get 15 meetups, 10 sex for sub 100 or something sexual seems like a pretty good deal to me. And I am pretty new to all of this, only have dipped my toes into SA. Thanks.

And thanks for the messages about the swap a few posts down, will get back to you guys soon I have been busy.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Hey I used to see Vica a lot. Her prices were out of control at a about 2. 5 k. This was about 12 years ago. I used to pay about 500. Man she was awesome and BBCIP all day long.

VZ's rates have come down considerably since those 2. 5 k days.

She's still in great shape.

BMD.

[Rich196]

Definitely seeing it as well. I have been able to talk a few of them down when I tell them my last arrangement was 175. They usually come back and say well I won't do anything for less than 200. That's fine with me. There are quite a few that are looking for a thousand a week. I always say well good luck to you! Meanwhile thinking to myself you are not that hot! The most I ever paid was 350 and that was for Victoria Zdrok and she was a pet of the year as well as a playmate of the year.

Hey I used to see Vica a lot. Her prices were out of control at a about 2. 5 k. This was about 12 years ago. I used to pay about 500. Man she was awesome and BBCIP all day long.

[BoredinCT12]

I have talked to at least 5 girls on SA this week that are asking for 400+.

Its unreal what they think they can get for a date. They all told me that is the going rate. They must think if they all say it that it will happen!

Anyone else seeing this trend?

Definitely seeing it as well. I have been able to talk a few of them down when I tell them my last arrangement was 175. They usually come back and say well I won't do anything for less than 200. That's fine with me. There are quite a few that are looking for a thousand a week. I always say well good luck to you! Meanwhile thinking to myself you are not that hot! The most I ever paid was 350 and that was for Victoria Zdrok and she was a pet of the year as well as a playmate of the year.

[DeadLiftSpray]

Hey, if anyone knows any good clean private locations (outdoors like a park, lake, etc.) that are in the hartford area (preferably south west like Bristol / Waterbury area but doesn't have to be exact) I'm willing to give away a number or two of some quality SA contacts that I have gotten that are cool for $100. I'm not too keen on doing any more invites to my condo, if possible. PM me to chat.

[XxMarkXx]

I have talked to at least 5 girls on SA this week that are asking for 400+.

Its unreal what they think they can get for a date. They all told me that is the going rate. They must think if they all say it that it will happen!

Anyone else seeing this trend?

[CTPilot9876]

Hello would you mind share the names or trading of the one you have had good luck with at least these 2.

Thanks.

Ctpolit.

Sorry fellow Mongers about my lax of posting but I have been lazy lately. So, not to long in the distant past (since my last post) I have had several fun encounters with the ladies of SA.

My most memorable evening was when a sweet 20 something came all the way up from the Norwich area just to visit me. She was built, large breasts and hips but not fat. If I was a critic I would say she could use to loos about 15 pounds but I am not, and it didn't stop me at all. We had a drink at a local pub, engaged in a bit of flirting, then I took her to my trailer. Her clothing was off within thirty seconds and I was ravishing her perfect DD's. My cock was throbbing with anticipation as she stroked me to even greater hardness. Finally, when I couldn't take it any longer I jumped on top of her and started pumping like I was an 18 year old with his first woman. In and out as fast as I could. Her moans and movements drove me to an even faster pace. I tell ya that young stuff is like crack!

I regained my control after the first two min. Thankfully I didn't explode early. My head stopped spinning and I once again took control of the situation putting her through the paces. Doggy, side, top, other side and back to missionary. It was a good 30 min when she finally asked me when I was going to cum. I told her I was holding out for her pleasure wanting to make sure she was happy. She said that she had already cum three times and now " I want to taste yours"!

A gentlemen never argues with a woman so I indulged her request and pumped her mouth full of my German sour kraut which she said tasted sweet. We lay together cuddling and touching, laughing and making future plans to see each other again real soon. She dressed and I asked her how much would she like for our time together and she requested 200 which I happily paid. She had a 1. 5 hour drive each way and spent 2. 5 hours with me. She was definitely worth the price of admission. Unfortunately our schedules have not aligned since but I am still hope full to see her again soon. She left at 9:30.

At 9:45 my Bat phone beeps. It's another friend who I had been chatting with earlier in the day. She had a free evening and wanted to know if she could spend the night. WTF? When it rains it pours. Nadda for the past four days then bam. A second offer.

Now this young 23 year old is the quintessential example of Tiny, Tight (OMG Tight) and White. Perfect ass, small a cups and cute as an innocent virgin which she was not. She arrived at 10:30 and was from the Bristol area. We sat for a bit getting acquainted and comfy with each other. I to be honest was stalling giving my self time to recoup. It gets harder the second and third times when your in your 60's.

With my batteries recharged and juices refilled I took her up to my remade bed. Yes I wanted her to feel special and WoW, she felt special. I took my time with the fore play tasting every part of her lilly white sweet body. Perfect, smell, taste, sequels. All delightful. I had her wet creamy and ready for me. I entered s l o w l why. She was tight. Probably one of the tightest kitties I 'v ever pet. Self control is / was the key to my ending up deep inside of her. Once she loosen up I was able to pound her with as much enthusiasm as I did with my earlier friend. She came loudly so I pulled out just to taste her sweet juices. It was like being in a candy store when your 12. Fucking awesome barely covers it.

After I has my fill of sweetness I re-entered one of my now most favorite places and filled her with what ever I had left in my sack. To my surprise she went down on me tasting our combined wetness. She said she thinks doing that is hot. She wasn't as experienced in the sack as I would have liked I was in control of every movement. I prefer a woman who has some intuitiveness of what my need are. I am certain she will eventually learn.

We feel asleep cuddling. I was awoken at 3 am by he tiny hand pulling on my hard cock. Uggggg, I was tired but already hard so I took charge again and rolled on top of her. I did the lazy pump until she started complaining I was a bit heavy so I rolled her to her side and fucked her like a Rock Star until I came. Poor girl was complaining it hurt, but she was wet and didn't ask me to stop. She made an excuse to have to go home at 3:30 which was fine by me because my shift at the fire house started in a few hours and my hose needed cleaning before I went in.

She took all that I had left in my wallet which was 170. She seemed happy, I know I was. It was a good night! Mrs. Poo was away at Bible camp, I had the trailer to myself and made two new friends!

Poo. Loving life one new friend at a time!

[Hapcj7]

Hey all. So, my Premium membership expired (the $90. Mnth, is downright silly), I was able to view my inbox messages I recieved while I was a Premium member for a few days after expiration. Now I cannot view the message. "upgrade to read". Seeking does this to us?. Delete our previous privileges that we had paid for?. TIA.

[BoredinCT12]

ExoticbrunetteK https://www.seeking.com/member/d071f...-ed4aac1f9c9a. Not sure if anyone of you guys have seen her yet. I started messaging and then it went to text. And now she texts me every two or three days saying when are we getting it together giving me sob stories. She said that I can come to her work and meet her during her break out in the parking lot for fun she text me a day ago and says I need $280 for rent can I borrow it from you? She's very desperate highly doubt those are her pictures. Caref with this one guys I think she is a little off her rocker.