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[DWinthrop]

I always do my best to verify an SB's true identity for a few reasons.
1) want to make sure she is not a scammer / total pro.
2) Just in case I need to fight back.
I had one pro try to out me, then I found her IRL and found her arrests for DUI and Solicitation, letting her know her threats -- which admitted me paying her for sex -- could easily be turned into her 3rd strike got her quiet.
Don't forget, exposing someone without asking for anything of value in return is just engaging in Bad Karma -- nothing illegal about it, so there is no blackmail / extortion on your part.
Girls in college will get cut off by parents if they find out they are whoring around with men who could be their dads!
School teachers, nurses and corporate types also don't want to be outed as cum guzzlers.
Service industry / creative types and self employed have little to lose.

Yup, 99% of the time I go in knowing exactly who the SB is and having seen multiple social media handles. There are only two who are truly anonymous to me and one was my first and the other was my third lol. It's amazing how many girls use their real number or give enough details that a simple google search gives away their whole life/identity. I'm extremely careful, fake name, pics that aren't me but are close enough that when they meet me they won't be sure enough to complain (helps that I'm fit and not bad looking,) never give my real number or let them see my car, I don't link social media or have my phone number attached.

But the hotel piece has always bothered me, it's the one weak link that has my real info. They have to by law. Some don't but they are usually seedy motels and I have a very hard time getting 18yo suburban rich white girls to meet me there. And once you have my name I'm not hard to find. Since I only see young and inexperienced SB's they are almost always too ashamed to even talk to hotel staff and are happy to be getting some money. Avoiding pros, UTRs, and long time SB's cuts down on a lot of the games.

If I use a hotel often I usually test it. A couple times I've called after the fact to request the bill with no info or incorrect just to see how willing they are to email a bill with my info one or two have sent my info to a random email I use. In these case I made a big stink and it didn't happen again.

But with over 100 SB's under my belt it was bound to happen. She's dumb and impulsive, probably thought I'd just pay to make her go away. It clearly wasn't a well thought out plan and I suspect she cooked it up on the spot as she was trying to upsell during out session and seemed to need money. This has been easy money for her, she probably didn't think I'd bat an eye at her request for "a few hundred to keep this quiet. " But I went in knowing who she was and she bit off more than she could chew. It was all of 5 minutes before she was asking ME to keep it quiet. She realized she has a lot more to lose than I did.

I'm always ready for one of these girls to come out of the woodwork, my "list" has full names, ages as well as anything I'd need to find them again. This hobby places us at risk of blackmail etc and you need to be ready to shoot back. I was and what could have been a problem has been mildly entertaining.

[Ernest Ll]

. So I sent her her screenshots of her mom, dad, college dean, and employer's facebook accounts and reminded her about all the videos I took showing what a nice consensual time we had. Also screenshotted her threat and educated her on extortion and blackmail laws. That shut her up real quick. I'm going to wait 8-12 months and then utterly gut and ruin her life.

I always do my best to verify an SB's true identity for a few reasons.

1) want to make sure she is not a scammer / total pro.

2) Just in case I need to fight back.

I had one pro try to out me, then I found her IRL and found her arrests for DUI and Solicitation, letting her know her threats -- which admitted me paying her for sex -- could easily be turned into her 3rd strike got her quiet.

Don't forget, exposing someone without asking for anything of value in return is just engaging in Bad Karma -- nothing illegal about it, so there is no blackmail / extortion on your part.

Girls in college will get cut off by parents if they find out they are whoring around with men who could be their dads!

School teachers, nurses and corporate types also don't want to be outed as cum guzzlers.

Service industry / creative types and self employed have little to lose.

[Ernest Ll]

I would be raising hell with the hotel manager about them giving out your info. I mean they already have you info so its not like you have to give that to them.

Won millions because the hotel divulged her personal info, and since then all brands have allegedly tightened up their procedures. Its a serioius no no. ?Does not matter if you were cheating on your wife -- that's not illegal. Data breaches are. You should meet with the manager and ream him a new one -- at the very least, get several free nights for future banging.

Sad reality, if she is a hot number, Mr. FrontDouch McZitface will pretty much do anything for her to smile at him.

[GolfMan57]

I would be raising hell with the hotel manager about them giving out your info. I mean they already have you info so its not like you have to give that to them.

She's not on there anymore. She's in college, and quickly realized she had a lot to lose. So she won't be a problem for me. But I'm going to be a real problem for her.

[DWinthrop]

Do you mind telling us who the girl is either in the forum or PM me? I'm talking to quite a few although I tend to focus on the verified college girls. The ones who also have something to lose. Still the sounds like one we should all avoid.

She's not on there anymore. She's in college, and quickly realized she had a lot to lose. So she won't be a problem for me. But I'm going to be a real problem for her.

[ItSpi]

Not sure what she said to the front desk but all she had to go on was my room number and a fake name.

I found out because she tried to blackmail me. So I sent her her screenshots of her mom, dad, college dean, and employer's facebook accounts and reminded her about all the videos I took showing what a nice consensual time we had. Also screenshotted her threat and educated her on extortion and blackmail laws. That shut her up real quick. I'm going to wait 8-12 months and then utterly gut and ruin her life.

Sorry that happened to you. It would be nice to know who it was to avoid but understandable if you don't want to share considering she has your personal information. At the very least thanks for the tip on the hotel though. Does anyone have any tips on avoiding this in the future? It's almost like all it takes is an eager front desk receptionist to f your shit up.

[Pathfinder04]

Not sure what she said to the front desk but all she had to go on was my room number and a fake name.

I found out because she tried to blackmail me. So I sent her her screenshots of her mom, dad, college dean, and employer's facebook accounts and reminded her about all the videos I took showing what a nice consensual time we had. Also screenshotted her threat and educated her on extortion and blackmail laws. That shut her up real quick. I'm going to wait 8-12 months and then utterly gut and ruin her life.

Do you mind telling us who the girl is either in the forum or PM me? I'm talking to quite a few although I tend to focus on the verified college girls. The ones who also have something to lose. Still the sounds like one we should all avoid.

[Grafenberg]

I'm going to wait 8-12 months and then utterly gut and ruin her life.

Revenge is a dish best served cold. NICE!

[DWinthrop]

That's a shame.

How did that happen?

And how did you find out about it?

Not sure what she said to the front desk but all she had to go on was my room number and a fake name.

I found out because she tried to blackmail me. So I sent her her screenshots of her mom, dad, college dean, and employer's facebook accounts and reminded her about all the videos I took showing what a nice consensual time we had. Also screenshotted her threat and educated her on extortion and blackmail laws. That shut her up real quick. I'm going to wait 8-12 months and then utterly gut and ruin her life.

[ShortMan22]

Seems like a time-waster.

Was prompt in giving out her number but is never available. I think that a few others here also had the similar experience.

She definitely is a time waster. Other Mongers have confirmed this. Not sure what her game plans are. I would advise to avoid her, just my opinion.

[RegularJoe1985]

Has anyone actually hooked up with this one yet? She's been around for a while.

https://www.seeking.com/member/67fd2...1-210dc23bae89

Seems like a time-waster.

Was prompt in giving out her number but is never available. I think that a few others here also had the similar experience.

[RegularJoe1985]

FYI, had a bad incident here. Gave my personal info out to a SB without asking for what or why. She had no key or any other reason they would think she would even know me.

That's a shame.

How did that happen?

And how did you find out about it?

[Viper301]

Anyone seen her yet. Been chatting. Wants to meet up.

Also. Don't see this one. Pictures aren't accurate. I think she's homeless.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9ccf3...4-09a9fc213dfd

She's a pro. I've seen her on escort post. Or someone using fake pics.

[Reading4]

Anyone seen her yet. Been chatting. Wants to meet up.

Also. Don't see this one. Pictures aren't accurate. I think she's homeless.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9ccf3...4-09a9fc213dfd

[Tophat31]

Got a couple of questions:

1.) has anyone had success with any Asian SBs? I prefer to try to hook up Asians.

2.) Has anyone had success to pay for a membership on SA with a prepaid card? I'm thinking to dip my toe into the SA waters but want to use a prepaid card.

Thanks.

New to SA but the two SBs I have are Vietnamese and Mongolian. The other is half white half Asian. To me Asian SBs have been the most straightforward and accommodating. One SB doesn't even charge me anymore and is 19.