"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[EasyeOne]

Long time lurker but decided to try the SB world and to start contributing on here when I can.

Anyone have luck with this one beyond her wanting to sell pics? She had a different profile with a clean photo of her face back during the Christmas college break. Can't remember the name. She said she was open to meet once she got to know me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/69ae7...e-1f0e566d7a5c

Online and in person casual / discreet. What she always tells me. But the conversation is always "I need money for bills, please help me!" she wants money upfront or money for pics before meeting but could never tell me when she would be available. Silent after declining her request and a few days later returning with the same. Please help me, I'll meet when I can. Stopped responding last week. Good luck!

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Long time lurker but decided to try the SB world and to start contributing on here when I can.

Anyone have luck with this one beyond her wanting to sell pics? She had a different profile with a clean photo of her face back during the Christmas college break. Can't remember the name. She said she was open to meet once she got to know me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/69ae7...e-1f0e566d7a5c

"got to know me" means that she will ghost you after you send her a bunch of money for pics.

There are 1,000 different ways girls (or guys pretending to be girls) string along guys on SA.

Never give a dollar until the FC has been entered.

The ones who want to sell pics are always scammers.

[Madaboutmax]

This hasn't been my experience.

Initially they don't read profiles, but once engaged in a conversation many do. The type of SB I target typically would.

Any girl that clearly hasn't read my profile during our conversation is a NEXT for me. I have not problem keeping my plate full. LOL.

Escorts and UTRs are all about time and volume and almost never read profiles, so if that's your target you are correct.

I think it's hilarious that you guys think the girls read profiles. If they're not reading the profiles of hot 22 yr olds on their traditional dating sites like Tinder and Hinge, then why would they read ours. Dating sites for anyone under 40, are "swiping" pictures only. Nobody reads profiles. It's almost 2020. I know that a lot of you guys have been married for a very long time, but you need to talk to your single friends about how dating sites work. Profiles are just for clever jokes in case the girl actually reads it. And the girls who actually read it are the lonely, fat, "undesirables."

[DoneThatOnce]

Long time lurker but decided to try the SB world and to start contributing on here when I can.

Anyone have luck with this one beyond her wanting to sell pics? She had a different profile with a clean photo of her face back during the Christmas college break. Can't remember the name. She said she was open to meet once she got to know me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/69ae7...e-1f0e566d7a5c

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I think it's hilarious that you guys think the girls read profiles. If they're not reading the profiles of hot 22 yr olds on their traditional dating sites like Tinder and Hinge, then why would they read ours. Dating sites for anyone under 40, are "swiping" pictures only. Nobody reads profiles. It's almost 2020. I know that a lot of you guys have been married for a very long time, but you need to talk to your single friends about how dating sites work. Profiles are just for clever jokes in case the girl actually reads it. And the girls who actually read it are the lonely, fat, "undesirables."

Exactly correct.

If you have a good pic and a catchy headline, you'll get a lot of attention on SA. Otherwise, anything you write in your profile is missed by most SBs.

No one on SA gives a * about your hobbies and interests.

SBs have only one interest, and that is cash. They don't give a crap that you ran a marathon twenty years ago, or that your daughter just graduated college.

[Ernest Ll]

Banging this, damn she is hot, but most likely GPS. Tried to make convo, never responds at least to me. Haha!

https://www.seeking.com/member/0abe3...9-b6a2dea815b3

Fake, fake fake fake.

[BStreet]

Banging this, damn she is hot, but most likely GPS. Tried to make convo, never responds at least to me. Haha!

https://www.seeking.com/member/0abe3...9-b6a2dea815b3

[BigOne73]

I agree. A veteran out here on the west coast, Hollywood Guy, says that he avoids any profiles that have any negativity in them. It doesn't bode well to find the type of girl he is interested in, a true non-pro who is actually doing this for the first time. Obviously, lots of experience (bad) disqualifies them for that.

I think it's hilarious that you guys think the girls read profiles. If they're not reading the profiles of hot 22 yr olds on their traditional dating sites like Tinder and Hinge, then why would they read ours. Dating sites for anyone under 40, are "swiping" pictures only. Nobody reads profiles. It's almost 2020. I know that a lot of you guys have been married for a very long time, but you need to talk to your single friends about how dating sites work. Profiles are just for clever jokes in case the girl actually reads it. And the girls who actually read it are the lonely, fat, "undesirables."

[FarFarAway]

Interesting strategy! LOL. I don't think it ever helps to put a negative comment like that I a profile.

When I see comment like "Don't messag me if you're a scammer", "Don't ask for my private photos if we haven't had a conversation", "don't waste my time", etc. Its a turn off for me. Makes it sound like they've had a lot of bad experiences, which is not a good way to appeal to someone.

I agree. A veteran out here on the west coast, Hollywood Guy, says that he avoids any profiles that have any negativity in them. It doesn't bode well to find the type of girl he is interested in, a true non-pro who is actually doing this for the first time. Obviously, lots of experience (bad) disqualifies them for that.

[Madaboutmax]

Interesting strategy! LOL. I don't think it ever helps to put a negative comment like that I a profile.

When I see comment like "Don't messag me if you're a scammer", "Don't ask for my private photos if we haven't had a conversation", "don't waste my time", etc. Its a turn off for me. Makes it sound like they've had a lot of bad experiences, which is not a good way to appeal to someone.

Updated my profile to include:

If You think an arrangement involves nothing more than you practicing your conversational skills while someone twice your age imparts life lessons over a nice meal and covers your rent, you're not a sugarbaby, you're a niece. So delete your profile and go figure out which of your uncles likes you better than his own kids,.

Women over 27 or so find it funny, some of the youngen's want a debate!

[CrazySpice]

I meant to say she is Latina.

Post or PM me SA profile link.

[YayaGogo]

Updated my profile to include:

If You think an arrangement involves nothing more than you practicing your conversational skills while someone twice your age imparts life lessons over a nice meal and covers your rent, you're not a sugarbaby, you're a niece. So delete your profile and go figure out which of your uncles likes you better than his own kids,.

Women over 27 or so find it funny, some of the youngen's want a debate!

Classic! +1.

[Dog Rice]

Nice one. Does this help though?

Updated my profile to include:

If You think an arrangement involves nothing more than you practicing your conversational skills while someone twice your age imparts life lessons over a nice meal and covers your rent, you're not a sugarbaby, you're a niece. So delete your profile and go figure out which of your uncles likes you better than his own kids,.

Women over 27 or so find it funny, some of the youngen's want a debate!

[TheHobbyLobby]

Big thanks to all my brothers out there who helped with feedback.

I am staying away from two of the girls.

Has anyone seen a woman by the name Kelsey?

I think she Latand. And works at a restaurant. She sounds like a pro.

I am not against pros but I like the true SB.

Be safe everyone.

I meant to say she is Latina.

[FarFarAway]

From a profile near me:

I currently manage a hotel and go to college. I am studying to major in Forensic Anthropology and hoping to get my first apartment.