"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**TomDickNHarry** · 04-26-19 10:37

Originally Posted by RVASpider [View Original Post]

I'm texting with her. Her profile just changed to show her city as Charlotte. I'm not sure what to think about her at this point.

That's always a red flag. I've noticed a few lately that change from my city to another, and then another even in same day. When they show up as in my city, I've gotten messages back from them that usually say something like "I'm actually in Minnesota" or the like. At that point I'm done but often the city keeps changing. They're trolling for suckers for some kind of online scam, travel money or selling pics or something like that. Pros will also do that to set up a bunch of dates in a city they go visit for a few days. But the only legit reason for a true SB to change cities is going on a trip or moving.

**Cabsauv1997** · 04-25-19 12:01

If this is on the level, it's amazing:

https://www.seeking.com/member/c8b5c...9-6d8121cab164

**RVASpider** · 04-25-19 11:49

Originally Posted by RappaHannock [View Original Post]

Anyone have any information on SweetBlondeSub 00 posting on SA?

I'm texting with her. Her profile just changed to show her city as Charlotte. I'm not sure what to think about her at this point.

**Makethescoop** · 04-25-19 11:01

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

Last fall she texted every day for a week wanting me to come to her place off of Hull st near 295. Every day I would text back that I could not leave my office. I blocked her.

Found her on tinder with no mention of sugar in our conversation. Claimed to be new in town. SA profile says otherwise. Set up a couple of meet and greets always some crisis that kept her from making it. Seems like a dead fish from our conversation.

**TomDickNHarry** · 04-25-19 10:16

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

Most of my negatives are no shows for dinners. Last one cost me $6 bucks to park in Shockoe Bottom and put up with 530 pm traffic.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1d483...c-822e8a697a5f

I personally avoid dinner dates like the plague. Every single positive that can come from a dinner meet can come for an invite to get a drink, or a coffee. Less obligation, less pressure, more casual and relaxed without a waiter popping over every 5 minutes to refill the water when you're in the middle of talking about allowances or sexual preferences, less expense. If you're both really enjoying the conversation (often the exception not the norm) then just extend the date and order some food. My proposal is always drinks (coffee if not 21), and I think it's actually a red flag when the girl pushes for dinner.

**RVASpider** · 04-25-19 09:30

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

My experience has been the exact opposite but I'm also pretty good with faces (names, not so much). I'm not sure what you're looking for but theres really a new batch of SBs in Richmond every 3-4 months. Once a semester ends and begins theres a solid rotation of newbies. Also, I delete my profile every 6-8 months and start fresh.

Do you delete it or change your profile name? I just changed my profile name but am considering creating a new profile. I guess I lose all my blocks and messages though if I do it that way. The site is blowing up with new girls now that school is winding up.

**RVASpider** · 04-25-19 09:28

Originally Posted by Zcochran00 [View Original Post]

Just saw a profile with this paragraph in it:

I couldn't help but laugh when I saw that, especially since I just got back from another meeting with a fun young college senior who particularly enjoys grinding her pussy on me before we fuck Also cuddles pretty nice afterwards, too.

Some of them are so far off from the reality of the site. They think we are attached to them when we can just move on to the next one. Care to share the profile name of the young college senior?

**JustLonely** · 04-25-19 08:50

Originally Posted by Zcochran00 [View Original Post]

Just saw a profile with this paragraph in it:

I couldn't help but laugh when I saw that, especially since I just got back from another meeting with a fun young college senior who particularly enjoys grinding her pussy on me before we fuck Also cuddles pretty nice afterwards, too.

That is funny! Most of my FC fun over the last year has been with 18-22 college gals. I'm over 60 and not paying them the crazy amounts some want. I treat them with respect upfront but let them know I expect be intimate if they want some funds for tuition or books. More than one has said that seeing me was a lot more fun than they thought hanging out with an older guy would be. Like JeezLizard has said in the past, stay in shape. The last thing you want to look like is their Dads with beer bellies. Nothing like a petite coed doing reverse cowgirl on me for her first time in that position. Makes both my heads swell with pleasure!

Weeding through all the platonic newbies has become a chore but finding one that wants to please makes it worth it. Actually the older ones flake on m&g more than the new ones I contact.

**BookerTNelson** · 04-25-19 08:23

Originally Posted by BigOne73 [View Original Post]

The biggest mistake I ever made was changing my profile. I am now stuck going to meet and greet after meet and greet with the same old girls. It's just caused me a lot of headaches and wound up costing me a lot of time and money. I also have to deal with a bunch of irritate girls who think I scammed them. It's not like there's really new girls on there every day. There aren't a bunch of girls in Richmond Va standing in line to exchange their time for money. It's just the same girls over and over again. I also lost all of the girls that I had previously blocked, so it was a really horrible idea. I should have just kept my old one and then I would know who's really who on there.

My experience has been the exact opposite but I'm also pretty good with faces (names, not so much). I'm not sure what you're looking for but theres really a new batch of SBs in Richmond every 3-4 months. Once a semester ends and begins theres a solid rotation of newbies. Also, I delete my profile every 6-8 months and start fresh.

**RappaHannock** · 04-25-19 08:02

Anyone have any information on SweetBlondeSub 00 posting on SA?

**Zcochran00** · 04-25-19 01:04

Just saw a profile with this paragraph in it:

Since I'm seeing a lot of disrespectful men, Do NOT message me if all you are looking for is nsa fun. No girl would hook up with an older man for fun. I'm looking for a REAL arrangement. To all the fake sds on here, you're cancelled.

I couldn't help but laugh when I saw that, especially since I just got back from another meeting with a fun young college senior who particularly enjoys grinding her pussy on me before we fuck Also cuddles pretty nice afterwards, too.

**PeteMc** · 04-24-19 18:11

Originally Posted by BigOne73 [View Original Post]

The biggest mistake I ever made was changing my profile. I am now stuck going to meet and greet after meet and greet with the same old girls. It's just caused me a lot of headaches and wound up costing me a lot of time and money. I also have to deal with a bunch of irritate girls who think I scammed them. It's not like there's really new girls on there every day. There aren't a bunch of girls in Richmond Va standing in line to exchange their time for money. It's just the same girls over and over again. I also lost all of the girls that I had previously blocked, so it was a really horrible idea. I should have just kept my old one and then I would know who's really who on there.

It can work both ways. I had one situation where the girl went all bitchy over something small and blocked me. A year later I contacted her under another profile. Sent real pics both times and she didn't remember her tantrum the year before (or at least neither of us ever mentioned it), ended up with a nice little short-term arrangement.

**UKnowWho** · 04-24-19 12:51

Originally Posted by BigOne73 [View Original Post]

They're either on that site because they need drug money, or they're on the site because they're addicted to FAST MONEY. Give them the choice between dinner and sex or going straight to the FC and they will pick going straight to the FC every time.

You and I are definitely not meeting the same girls.

**BigOne73** · 04-24-19 10:35

Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]

Read everything you can, experiment, and refine your approach. Use and change your Google Voice or other burner number. Never use the same profile pic twice. And move the conversation off the site as soon as possible. All good rules to live by.

The biggest mistake I ever made was changing my profile. I am now stuck going to meet and greet after meet and greet with the same old girls. It's just caused me a lot of headaches and wound up costing me a lot of time and money. I also have to deal with a bunch of irritate girls who think I scammed them. It's not like there's really new girls on there every day. There aren't a bunch of girls in Richmond Va standing in line to exchange their time for money. It's just the same girls over and over again. I also lost all of the girls that I had previously blocked, so it was a really horrible idea. I should have just kept my old one and then I would know who's really who on there.

**DWinthrop** · 04-24-19 09:38

Originally Posted by WaterBoi [View Original Post]

Not sure about this one. We were texting a bit and then she just blocked me. Didn't say anything graphic. Just chatting about art and game of thrones. https://www.seeking.com/member/de446...c-89c7595a8860.

Profile is gone, probably just deleted.