"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Zcochran00** · 04-25-19 01:04

Just saw a profile with this paragraph in it:

Since I'm seeing a lot of disrespectful men, Do NOT message me if all you are looking for is nsa fun. No girl would hook up with an older man for fun. I'm looking for a REAL arrangement. To all the fake sds on here, you're cancelled.

I couldn't help but laugh when I saw that, especially since I just got back from another meeting with a fun young college senior who particularly enjoys grinding her pussy on me before we fuck Also cuddles pretty nice afterwards, too.

**PeteMc** · 04-24-19 18:11

Originally Posted by BigOne73 [View Original Post]

The biggest mistake I ever made was changing my profile. I am now stuck going to meet and greet after meet and greet with the same old girls. It's just caused me a lot of headaches and wound up costing me a lot of time and money. I also have to deal with a bunch of irritate girls who think I scammed them. It's not like there's really new girls on there every day. There aren't a bunch of girls in Richmond Va standing in line to exchange their time for money. It's just the same girls over and over again. I also lost all of the girls that I had previously blocked, so it was a really horrible idea. I should have just kept my old one and then I would know who's really who on there.

It can work both ways. I had one situation where the girl went all bitchy over something small and blocked me. A year later I contacted her under another profile. Sent real pics both times and she didn't remember her tantrum the year before (or at least neither of us ever mentioned it), ended up with a nice little short-term arrangement.

**UKnowWho** · 04-24-19 12:51

Originally Posted by BigOne73 [View Original Post]

They're either on that site because they need drug money, or they're on the site because they're addicted to FAST MONEY. Give them the choice between dinner and sex or going straight to the FC and they will pick going straight to the FC every time.

You and I are definitely not meeting the same girls.

**BigOne73** · 04-24-19 10:35

Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]

Read everything you can, experiment, and refine your approach. Use and change your Google Voice or other burner number. Never use the same profile pic twice. And move the conversation off the site as soon as possible. All good rules to live by.

The biggest mistake I ever made was changing my profile. I am now stuck going to meet and greet after meet and greet with the same old girls. It's just caused me a lot of headaches and wound up costing me a lot of time and money. I also have to deal with a bunch of irritate girls who think I scammed them. It's not like there's really new girls on there every day. There aren't a bunch of girls in Richmond Va standing in line to exchange their time for money. It's just the same girls over and over again. I also lost all of the girls that I had previously blocked, so it was a really horrible idea. I should have just kept my old one and then I would know who's really who on there.

**DWinthrop** · 04-24-19 09:38

Originally Posted by WaterBoi [View Original Post]

Not sure about this one. We were texting a bit and then she just blocked me. Didn't say anything graphic. Just chatting about art and game of thrones. https://www.seeking.com/member/de446...c-89c7595a8860.

Profile is gone, probably just deleted.

**JustLonely** · 04-24-19 09:30

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Our negative experiences so that others avoid such time-wasters.

Most of my negatives are no shows for dinners. Last one cost me $6 bucks to park in Shockoe Bottom and put up with 530 pm traffic.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1d483...c-822e8a697a5f

**WaterBoi** · 04-23-19 20:24

There aren't that many in Richmond on the site. I'm sure we're all messaging the same ones. Let's share info.

Pic seller. Online / text only. https://www.seeking.com/member/d47b6...5-1e69fc9790a7.

Meet and greet only. Takes your cash and then ghosts you: https://www.seeking.com/member/4a4a6...f-c38b58f62005.

Not sure about this one. We were texting a bit and then she just blocked me. Didn't say anything graphic. Just chatting about art and game of thrones. https://www.seeking.com/member/de446...c-89c7595a8860.

Horrible mic skills and can't math. Just an overall poor experience. https://www.seeking.com/member/ab538...5-d28b40617c76.

Has anyone met up with this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/44537...8-e151df05254e.

Seems down for almost everything but haven't been able to meet.

**RegularJoe1985** · 04-23-19 20:07

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

Last fall she texted every day for a week wanting me to come to her place off of Hull st near 295. Every day I would text back that I could not leave my office. I blocked her.

Our negative experiences so that others avoid such time-wasters.

**JustLonely** · 04-21-19 18:33

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Don't know if this profile has been taken down or I have been blocked.

This is a time waster and a flake.

https://www.seeking.com/member/54538...7-d2154b9682a8

Could be a SA hired and maintained profile to jerk us off.

Last fall she texted every day for a week wanting me to come to her place off of Hull st near 295. Every day I would text back that I could not leave my office. I blocked her.

**DWinthrop** · 04-21-19 16:55

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Could be a SA hired and maintained profile to jerk us off.

I doubt they would fake a 35 yo.

**RegularJoe1985** · 04-21-19 16:15

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

Yes you're blocked and yes she's a time waster. I'm assuming she stood you up? That's what she did to me. Kept saying she was on her way and I never saw her.

I think I blocked her and that's why I cannot see her profile and seems that one cannot unblock a profile.

As soon as she made the first excuse, I stopped 15 min into commute, went and had coffee while she texted a slew of excuses. Told her I'l wait for hours and hours in the parking lot and it still didn't dawn on her that I might be playing her as well.

No way I was going to make the commute to see her. I came back and she was still making excuses. I saw another SB and finally blocked her number and her profile. Completely forgot that I'd blocked her profile as well.

**Geechie Dan** · 04-21-19 14:08

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Don't know if this profile has been taken down or I have been blocked.

This is a time waster and a flake.

https://www.seeking.com/member/54538...7-d2154b9682a8

Could be a SA hired and maintained profile to jerk us off.

Yes you're blocked and yes she's a time waster. I'm assuming she stood you up? That's what she did to me. Kept saying she was on her way and I never saw her.

**EumYang** · 04-21-19 13:42

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Don't know if this profile has been taken down or I have been blocked.

This is a time waster and a flake.

https://www.seeking.com/member/54538...7-d2154b9682a8

Could be a SA hired and maintained profile to jerk us off.

Profile still up for me, so I guess you've been blocked.

**RegularJoe1985** · 04-21-19 13:38

Don't know if this profile has been taken down or I have been blocked.

This is a time waster and a flake.

https://www.seeking.com/member/54538...7-d2154b9682a8

Could be a SA hired and maintained profile to jerk us off.

**BigOne73** · 04-21-19 07:43

Originally Posted by TomDickNHarry [View Original Post]

I always do M&G's but similar philosophy on dinner for several reasons. There's the expense, hate spending 100 on dinner and over an hour with them when I often realize as soon as I sit down I'm not interested, and it's true some of them are torture to talk to so you have to make small talk longer. Many I've met are fun to talk to and interesting, especially when I'm in pursuit, but you never know for sure until you get there. Drinks, coffee, maybe an appetizer at a casual cafe, that's the way to do this. Keep the commitment of both time and money minimal upfront, you can always ramp it up.

Dinner? These girls don't want to sit through dinner unless you're going to pay them to eat. They're either on that site because they need drug money, or they're on the site because they're addicted to FAST MONEY. Give them the choice between dinner and sex or going straight to the FC and they will pick going straight to the FC every time.