Seeking Arrangements

**Longjblues** · 04-12-19 09:18

Thanks TRex. She subsequently got back to me and indicated that I had to pay her via Paypal, otherwise she wouldn't see me.
Her profile is posted with my earlier inquiry.

Originally Posted by Longjblues [View Original Post]

Any info appreciated. Here is her link and profile. Thanks.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e409d...a-b0cd3dd068c3

Originally Posted by TRex69 [View Original Post]

She said she can see me today at her place in Peabody today.

When I started to ask about coming over she said no address until I get paid.

That ended for me so I went to Cleeva's.

**Jyushin** · 04-12-19 01:24

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

Anyone make contact or have info? Asian girl from Randolph, says "no sex" but profile screams sluut LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e84d5...0-ad43ecf9ddb9

Took her out to dinner. Zero sex. No intention at all. Only wants to sell pics and videos and platonic with $$.

**Tostone71** · 04-11-19 17:51

Originally Posted by Spill [View Original Post]

Thanks to you, it will be different for me as I now have no intent to return her message. Thanks again. It is appreciated.

Damn. You guys just saved me. Owe you one. I've been in a conversation with her. Same mode as you describe. Went to text quickly, hadn't asked me for money yet but we were getting close. I'll abort this mission. Thanks. To all others. She's not viable.

**TRex69** · 04-11-19 16:55

Originally Posted by Longjblues [View Original Post]

Any info appreciated. Here is her link and profile. Thanks.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e409d...a-b0cd3dd068c3

She said she can see me today at her place in Peabody today.

When I started to ask about coming over she said no address until I get paid.

That ended for me so I went to Cleeva's.

**Longjblues** · 04-11-19 13:29

Any info appreciated. Here is her link and profile. Thanks.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e409d...a-b0cd3dd068c3

**Nerd29** · 04-11-19 09:57

Heading back to Boston and looking for a fresh face. Here is what I have found so far:

https://www.seeking.com/member/72aee...7-a7508f6ab364

Texting now. Says she wants 5 $ per. Any intel?

https://www.seeking.com/member/a13cb...b-d959194525ca

GPS. Want 5 $ for platonic dates. 1. 5 $ for pictures. Good luck.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b96f5...9-8bd7b73b81d8

Moved to texting. She wants 3-4 compensated platonic dates to build trust. I passed.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d3354...a-bbc3350db2a0

She is good to go and I believe has been reviewed here before. Says she usually gets 3 $ and can host.

I have talked to half a dozen more. If anyone has a recommendations and wants to stay secret, dm me.

Nerd.

**Nerd29** · 04-11-19 08:57

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

Anyone seen this one? She is very difficult to communicate with but claims she's desperate. Then when we do sync up all she wants to do is have coffee.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e184c...4-c74411863fa0

Sent a message, read and no response. Good luck.

**TRex69** · 04-11-19 08:51

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

Anyone seen this one? She is very difficult to communicate with but claims she's desperate. Then when we do sync up all she wants to do is have coffee.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e184c...4-c74411863fa0

Too bad.

Anyone have recs in and Shore?

I have a rare opportunity to host this weekend.

Happy to share.

**PeterBoris** · 04-11-19 06:39

Has anyone had the privilege of meeting this Asian If so please pm me or post a report.

**Aardvarks** · 04-10-19 16:27

Anyone seen this one? She is very difficult to communicate with but claims she's desperate. Then when we do sync up all she wants to do is have coffee.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e184c...4-c74411863fa0

**Spill** · 04-09-19 15:59

Originally Posted by IOnDaStreet [View Original Post]

They're twins? I thought it was the same girl just running a scam.

Through a little research I was able to verify.

**I On Da Street** · 04-09-19 15:56

Originally Posted by Spill [View Original Post]

Anyone ever get by their GPS and actually meet with one of them? Just curious as I'm now getting messages from Ashley (who now goes by Nashvillegirl).

They're twins? I thought it was the same girl just running a scam.

**TRex69** · 04-09-19 14:53

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...4-692bf6cbd316

This one has been discussed but I had a close but not close enough personal experience yesterday. We have chatted through the site. I had time during the day yesterday so I texted and she had me over. She's about 2 miles from and Shore mall. Her place is on the main road but once inside it is nice. She is South American and hot with big boot ons. I told her we discussed $$ in past but she said she does $$$ but would do massage for $$. I told her I didn't have it but I did and I wanted a shorter FS visit. I said I would come back another day thinking she but she held firm as did I. I heard service was good not great so I left. If I hear she does give great service I will reconsider but for now I'll stick to other options. She is attractive and pleasant though.

**TRex69** · 04-09-19 14:45

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

Found this on another SA thread. Guy lays things out pretty clearly and if you are just getting into the game this is, for the most part, pretty solid advice.

Excellent post. Thanks for sharing.

**PaulRew** · 04-08-19 17:34

Found this on another SA thread. Guy lays things out pretty clearly and if you are just getting into the game this is, for the most part, pretty solid advice.

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

I am by no means an expert in sugaring scene. Only had about an year of experience using SA. I got screwed up few times (early on), but learnt from mistakes, and learned skills and art of taking these girls to FC. Many sent me PMs asking for advice, so I thought of writing this.

What I explain below applies only if you are looking for what I call a true SB from SA, and who you want to have repeated dates. I don't look for Escorts or one time deals there. You can find them there, but the approach is different. I know all these girls give pussy for money, but I am looking for a different type of girl than a BP girl.

1. Pay $90 and be a premium member. If you can't afford $90 per month to be a member, you can't afford to be a true SD.

2. Spend sometime on setting up your profile. Make your profile appealing to girls. Be simple and up to the point, but attractive. Don't lie and exaggerate about you in your profile. We don't like when girls lie on their profile, girls do too. Having at least one photo is advantageous. I have just one photo as public photo (with no face identification). But I tell them I can send additional photos after chatting and get comfortable.

3. Cast a wide net, message as many as possible SBs that you are interested. It is a numbers game.

4. Write a good first message. Again keep it simple and short, but enough details to tell what you are looking for. Show that you read her profile and say something specific about her. Make it personable. Be respectful and show that you are not a creep. My biggest challenge is getting them to respond.

5. If they respond, my second message is to set up ground rules (no online crap, set a reasonable time limit to meet up etc). Show that you are serious and you want them to be serious. Most flakes and scammers drop out after my second message.

6. I tell them if they can't meet up within a week, message me back when they are ready to meet within a week. If they agree, now I have a potential SB that I can work on.

7. Try to switch communications to text or personal e-mails as soon as possible. Don't talk about allowance in SA chat. You will get banned.

8. Don't bring up the "allowance" issue yourself. Most girls will bring it up before meet. Say you can't promise anything. If they insist, give a range and say you have to meet her to finalize a number. But, try to avoid it until meet as much as possible. If you are appealing to her, she may agree for a lower allowance. My typical allowance is 200-300 per meet.

9. Set up a meet as early as possible. Communicate date, time, and place properly. Confirm with her day prior to the meet to make sure the meet is still going to happen. Never agree to pay for meet and greet. If they insist, drop her.

10. I always go for a coffee for the first meet. Some girls insist on lunch or dinner instead of coffee. Drop them. They are just looking for a free meal.

11. Be on time for the meet. Arrive on time and present yourself well. First impression is everything. Within 5 min of meeting, she is going to decide if she is going to fuck you or not. Listen to her rather than you talking. You can get clues what she is really looking for. Be upfront and about what your expectations are, and communicate to her.

12. Some may agree to go to FC right after, some may not. Be patient, you may need one or two "platonic" dates before hitting FC with some girls. If the girl is attractive enough, I would do it. But, I never pay allowance for those dates. They may talk about chemistry, getting to know each other etc. Tell them it is Ok, but they can't expect allowance for that. Most girls are Ok with that if they are serious. I of course pay for meal, drinks etc. And Uber charges or gas money. That's it.

13. If you can't take her to FC on the third time you meet, it is never going to happen.

14. Give them a reasonable allowance. Don't be a jerk and try to negotiate to last $5. Treat her well, most girls treat you back the same way. But, always be vigilant, and don't trust her 100%.

15. Give a small present to her once in a while in addition to allowance (flowers, dresses etc).

16. If you have to use a hotel room for FC, don't take her to cheap motels. Show your class a bit and get a decent hotel room. I typically spend at least 2 hrs in FC, and at least 2 pops.

Hope this helps. There are nice girls out there if you take the time and effort to find them.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.