The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**Truncated** · 01-31-19 12:44

Originally Posted by Dpepsi [View Original Post]

Time waster. I'm convinced she's one of the members who are either bots or just wasting time. Magically messages me as my membership ends or when I deactivate.

She's real.

She goes by her real name on model sites.

She is or was a doctorate student at a local university.

Her profile pics are a little old. She's looking rougher these days. Due to drinking, I think.

Apologies to the Mod if I violated the TOS by posting the above. I think I complied with the rules. The sugar baby in question isn't shy about her identity being known.

**Dpepsi** · 01-31-19 11:07

Originally Posted by ErkTheOne [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/8586b...a-046352566a44

Time waster. I'm convinced she's one of the members who are either bots or just wasting time. Magically messages me as my membership ends or when I deactivate.

**Truncated** · 01-31-19 06:58

Originally Posted by ErkTheOne [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/8586b...a-046352566a44

She's had several different profiles over the years. That profile pic looks to be a few years old.

It's not too difficult to find her on ModelMayhem and another model site.

She's legitimate. Is a doctoral student.

**ErkTheOne** · 01-30-19 21:33

https://www.seeking.com/member/8586b...a-046352566a44

**SneakyMan** · 01-29-19 14:58

Originally Posted by ErkTheOne [View Original Post]

Just found this profile. https://www.seeking.com/member/2cfae...5-7192c1e59dc6.

Not much info in profile, and pictures look TGTBT, anyone have any info?

Been reported on before. Traveling pro and nut job. Run don't walk.

**Pubb69** · 01-29-19 14:25

Originally Posted by ErkTheOne [View Original Post]

Just found this profile. https://www.seeking.com/member/2cfae...5-7192c1e59dc6.

Not much info in profile, and pictures look TGTBT, anyone have any info?

Pretty sure there was a report on her just scale down a little.

**ErkTheOne** · 01-29-19 07:58

Just found this profile. https://www.seeking.com/member/2cfae...5-7192c1e59dc6.

Not much info in profile, and pictures look TGTBT, anyone have any info?

**Donatello** · 01-24-19 19:37

Originally Posted by Pubb69 [View Original Post]

Actually those requests are not from rinsers, they are coming from mostly college age girls who misinterpreted what the site is really about and are looking for help with everyday expenses without the promise of anything else. As long as the requests were not overboard or scams than I usually would help some of them out once I could verify they were sincere. The rinsers are the ones with GPS and the long and boring profile statements that somehow they think are impressive. They are usually veterans on there for more than a year and are looking for free luxury living on some suckers dime, the ironic part is they usually have disdain for the idiots they manage to reel in.

I've connected with a few young ladies who've had similar "here and there" requests. When focussing on the college demographic it often goes with the territory. BUT I can't emphasize enough, I'm a "seasoned" SD and take reasonable precautions to ensure I'm dealing with a verifiable real girl who has proven herself to be a worthy investment. I never start paying out until there's been actual FC time spent and a foundation formed. From there, it's simply a matter of accounting. Like any other business transaction, I'm happy to extend a little "credit" when I know there is a solid ROI. Fund now, fund later, fund in small payments, or full payments. As long as the balance sheets balance atbthe end of the day, it's all good. And sometimes even BETTER!!

**SneakyMan** · 01-24-19 11:06

Originally Posted by ErkTheOne [View Original Post]

Not new to the sugar game, but just recently found this forum. Wish I would have found it years ago. Anyone have any info on this girl? https://www.seeking.com/member/4fecc...a-2c6c7a4905f7.

Happy to share about others that I have had experiences with as well.

Waste of time. Wants $ to meet, and meet, and meet. Get's back on when she needs $. No intention of ever going to the FC with anyone. To use the term of the month, habitual rinser.

**ErkTheOne** · 01-23-19 21:47

Not new to the sugar game, but just recently found this forum. Wish I would have found it years ago. Anyone have any info on this girl? https://www.seeking.com/member/4fecc...a-2c6c7a4905f7.

Happy to share about others that I have had experiences with as well.

**Pubb69** · 01-23-19 20:23

Originally Posted by Ral613 [View Original Post]

I must get 3 to 5 requests a day for $25, $30, $50, for Pizza, for UBER, for whatever. Treat it all as entertainment.

Actually those requests are not from rinsers, they are coming from mostly college age girls who misinterpreted what the site is really about and are looking for help with everyday expenses without the promise of anything else. As long as the requests were not overboard or scams than I usually would help some of them out once I could verify they were sincere. The rinsers are the ones with GPS and the long and boring profile statements that somehow they think are impressive. They are usually veterans on there for more than a year and are looking for free luxury living on some suckers dime, the ironic part is they usually have disdain for the idiots they manage to reel in.

**VelvetHeart7** · 01-23-19 13:21

Originally Posted by Truncated [View Original Post]

So many of the college girls on the site are rinsers, as are plenty of the older ones.
They ask for money as compensation for the initial coffee date. Maybe $100. With no intention of following through later. Some guys get strung along for a few dates before wising up and realizing there is no sex to be had.

FierceBeauty on SB did that to me, too: $100 to meet for the introduction meeting! She said it was to prove that I was serious. Let's just say for a minute that she was legit. She is missing the fundamental rule of this game: we are in charge. Not her.

**Ral613** · 01-23-19 11:46

Originally Posted by Truncated [View Original Post]

I have no problem with rinsers. They can even be entertaining.

I must get 3 to 5 requests a day for $25, $30, $50, for Pizza, for UBER, for whatever. Treat it all as entertainment.

**Truncated** · 01-23-19 10:17

Originally Posted by YayaGogo [View Original Post]

They have the right to ask and you have the right to refuse. How hard is it to say no thanks and move on?

I have no problem with rinsers. They can even be entertaining.

**YayaGogo** · 01-22-19 23:24

Originally Posted by Truncated [View Original Post]

So many of the college girls on the site are rinsers, as are plenty of the older ones.

They ask for money as compensation for the initial coffee date. Maybe $100. With no intention of following through later. Some guys get strung along for a few dates before wising up and realizing there is no sex to be had.

They have the right to ask and you have the right to refuse. How hard is it to say no thanks and move on?