The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[YayaGogo]

So many of the college girls on the site are rinsers, as are plenty of the older ones.

They ask for money as compensation for the initial coffee date. Maybe $100. With no intention of following through later. Some guys get strung along for a few dates before wising up and realizing there is no sex to be had.

They have the right to ask and you have the right to refuse. How hard is it to say no thanks and move on?

[Pubb69]

So many of the college girls on the site are rinsers, as are plenty of the older ones.

They ask for money as compensation for the initial coffee date. Maybe $100. With no intention of following through later. Some guys get strung along for a few dates before wising up and realizing there is no sex to be had.

It's called leverage. They are establishing that every time you see them in any setting than they are getting money, once someone takes the bait then they found a fish and will look to get the most for the least. The easiest way to avoid them is to make your intentions clear from the start, usually they will move on to another target.

[Ral613]

Has anyone else run by this profile (or similar)? Seems to pop up every so often. I tried contacting once before, but it was almost immediately taken down.

https://www.seeking.com/member/028b1...d-836092de0eb5

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Had to look it up, just someone who feigns interest to gain money.

So many of the college girls on the site are rinsers, as are plenty of the older ones.

They ask for money as compensation for the initial coffee date. Maybe $100. With no intention of following through later. Some guys get strung along for a few dates before wising up and realizing there is no sex to be had.

[Pubb69]

What is a rinser.

Had to look it up, just someone who feigns interest to gain money. She is kind of the standard on there pretending to be some kind of exclusive attraction with a high price tag, I lost all interest even before seeing her pics.

[BussaNut]

Oh yeah, she's a pro. Met her. Passed.

Today I met ELizRDU. She's a rinser, and not very good at it.

What is a rinser.

[Raltime]

Some recent intel.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8cef9...d-9e0dd41f3c4b

Been reported on before and is a big waste of time. Seems to never want to actually meet but is back on every few months. Use to advertise massages on BP. Not attractive at all based on some pics.

https://www.seeking.com/member/69401...4-eef7c21140d1

Has had several profiles. One with a friend. Scam. Wants $ to pics then will meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2cfae...5-7192c1e59dc6

Another nut job. Did take her to the FC, but wasn't good at all and then got really wierd. Not worth the effort in my opinion.

This one https://www.seeking.com/member/8cef9...d-9e0dd41f3c4b.

Is also this one https://raleigh.rubratings.com/123067.

I agree with the other post. Pics are old, and years ago her was nice, now just a nut.

This one. I agree with the other post. https://www.seeking.com/member/2cfae...5-7192c1e59dc6.

She is a traveling pro and her pic are either old or fake, now she have a lot more pounds.

[SneakyMan]

Some recent intel.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8cef9...d-9e0dd41f3c4b

Been reported on before and is a big waste of time. Seems to never want to actually meet but is back on every few months. Use to advertise massages on BP. Not attractive at all based on some pics.

https://www.seeking.com/member/69401...4-eef7c21140d1

Has had several profiles. One with a friend. Scam. Wants $ to pics then will meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2cfae...5-7192c1e59dc6

Another nut job. Did take her to the FC, but wasn't good at all and then got really wierd. Not worth the effort in my opinion.

[Dpepsi]

I texted with her a while back but we could never synch up to meet so eventually lost interest. She gave me the same impression as you got as being ready to go so I'm sure it'll be fun. Let us know how it goes!

Yaya.

Have seen her several times dating back to last fall, she's up for pretty much anything.

[YayaGogo]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5618f...c-17f7468c7ebb

Any intel on this one? Been chatting with her and she seems DTF, but thought I would check.

I texted with her a while back but we could never synch up to meet so eventually lost interest. She gave me the same impression as you got as being ready to go so I'm sure it'll be fun. Let us know how it goes!

Yaya.

[SneakyMan]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5618f...c-17f7468c7ebb

Any intel on this one? Been chatting with her and she seems DTF, but thought I would check.

[SneakyMan]

https://www.seeking.com/member/84491...c-482a69cce523

Texted and said she had an apartment near PNC. Then later said she got a room for us near Regency in Cary. Called her on the fake story and she had silly reasoning and lies. Told her no thanks.

Anyone had any dealing with her?

I met her. Yes she is a pro, but I was in need and she performed well. She does have a place close to PNC.

[Saronnie]

I have found SA to absolutely be worth it. I will be on for a month and get some things set up, especially when it is a month in which I have a fair amount of work travel.

If you treat the girls well and are fun to be around, many of them just want to have a fun date with an older, more mature executive. I have mentored some in the last as well.

[VelvetHeart7]

Waste of time and $. I signed up twice but not again. Most girls are fat and ugly. Decent ones don't respond.

I agree there's fugly on SB. As far as the attractive ones, I find that I get a message from almost every one. The problem seems to be either 1. I respond and then there's radio silence or 2. They ghost from the site after looking around for a few days -- especially the ones in their early 20's. I have had a couple of SBs with one currently, a couple of flakes, and one scammer wanting a "small gift" of $ to just have lunch. That's over about 3 months. I'm selective so my numbers are low. Like SA, I think there are bogus SBs who either are bots or employed by the site to suck your credits dry instead of your other assets.

SB is based on credits -- which I like. I spend my credits when I want over as long a period as I want. SA is an expensive monthly or quarterly fee but it sounds like there's a high ratio of guys to gals. So tell me fellow SDs, is the extra cost worth it?

[SneakyMan]

Seems like most of the guys here use Seeking or SA. Does anybody use SB?

Waste of time and $. I signed up twice but not again. Most girls are fat and ugly. Decent ones don't respond.