Rants and Raves

[Tarl66]

Unless you give them enough money to send home, you are unlikely to have them quit. They also want to quit, but need the money. Every one of these girls are doing this for money and 90% of the time they have to send some home- at that is why they are here in the first place. I'm not into becoming a welfare program for unknown people in China.

To extend these comment to questions about getting some 'free' takeout from the CAMP girls. This is what happens. If you start dating-hoping to get some take out, she is going to want something eventually-maybe marriage which really means citizenship / money. If not marriage, maybe move in which is also money. Some girls are better playing it than others, but you get nothing for free.

It's better to keep it upfront and mutually understood- this may thin the heard, but to your benefit. It may also help have fun quicker with a girl that is more legit. She may not provide extras at a store if she is trying to work you as a boyfriend-wants you to think she is a nice girl (maybe some are). Once you get that idea behind you, and you are nice and safe you may find she is open for some fun.

As others have said, have a couple of options and remember, no matter how well you think you know them, on any day they may go on permanent 'bacation' without notice.

All very true, good advice.

[Petey1015]

Very true. It's like an addiction.

Because they're just doing a job and getting paid, no emotions it's just work. NEXT!

[Tarl66]

What else has she done for you to for you to fall so deep? Taken you to visit her family? Invited you to her home and cooked for you?. Taken you to the Dr. S when you were sick?

If it's just sex then you might be in the wrong hobby. Alot of these girls will lie to you to keep your pockets open and alot of these girls are sex addicts that's why they are in this business. Keep in mind for everything she has done with you she has done with most of the guys here and fed the same line of how amazing it was the best she has ever had and how she trust you more then anyone else.

Here's another question? Are you giving her money, gifts? Then stop paying and see how far yall relationships goes. And OMG you guys are spoiling the hell outh some of these girls with your flowers and gifts its becoming ridiculous.

We've done a lot outside the parlor together. It's just that we have really good chemistry together.

[Tarl66]

Ok, good to hear. Just take it easy out there. Things will get better.

Thanks, brother. It's not the first time a girl has broken my heart. I can take the biggest bouncer out in a few seconds but a a little woman can rip out my heart.

[Knock123]

What else has she done for you to for you to fall so deep? Taken you to visit her family? Invited you to her home and cooked for you?. Taken you to the Dr. S when you were sick?

If it's just sex then you might be in the wrong hobby. Alot of these girls will lie to you to keep your pockets open and alot of these girls are sex addicts that's why they are in this business. Keep in mind for everything she has done with you she has done with most of the guys here and fed the same line of how amazing it was the best she has ever had and how she trust you more then anyone else.

Here's another question? Are you giving her money, gifts? Then stop paying and see how far yall relationships goes. And OMG you guys are spoiling the hell outh some of these girls with your flowers and gifts its becoming ridiculous.

We want in the front of their pants they want in the back pocket of our pants. No money no honey.

[Mmnola1]

I know all that. She's definitely not marrying-stock. First she was just another massage girl, then she became the world, and now I just don't know. We're near the end.

What else has she done for you to for you to fall so deep? Taken you to visit her family? Invited you to her home and cooked for you?. Taken you to the Dr. S when you were sick?

If it's just sex then you might be in the wrong hobby. Alot of these girls will lie to you to keep your pockets open and alot of these girls are sex addicts that's why they are in this business. Keep in mind for everything she has done with you she has done with most of the guys here and fed the same line of how amazing it was the best she has ever had and how she trust you more then anyone else.

Here's another question? Are you giving her money, gifts? Then stop paying and see how far yall relationships goes. And OMG you guys are spoiling the hell outh some of these girls with your flowers and gifts its becoming ridiculous.

[HobbyMan51]

No, man, thanks to you and everyone for your concern and support. The worst has been over for a while. I'm good, it would take a lot more than her to crack me, I'm ex-special ops. It's like the 5 stages of grief, and I'm in the last stages.

Ok, good to hear. Just take it easy out there. Things will get better.

[SpaKing]

Unless you give them enough money to send home, you are unlikely to have them quit. They also want to quit, but need the money. Every one of these girls are doing this for money and 90% of the time they have to send some home- at that is why they are here in the first place. I'm not into becoming a welfare program for unknown people in China.

To extend these comment to questions about getting some 'free' takeout from the CAMP girls. This is what happens. If you start dating-hoping to get some take out, she is going to want something eventually-maybe marriage which really means citizenship / money. If not marriage, maybe move in which is also money. Some girls are better playing it than others, but you get nothing for free.

It's better to keep it upfront and mutually understood- this may thin the heard, but to your benefit. It may also help have fun quicker with a girl that is more legit. She may not provide extras at a store if she is trying to work you as a boyfriend-wants you to think she is a nice girl (maybe some are). Once you get that idea behind you, and you are nice and safe you may find she is open for some fun.

As others have said, have a couple of options and remember, no matter how well you think you know them, on any day they may go on permanent 'bacation' without notice.

Truer words were never spoken. I have a gal I have been seeing for about 2 years. She told me she hadn't been with a man in 20 years. Since here husband died. That muff was hot as a fire cracker. Her boss actually believed her. I said, look no woman that hot could go 2 weeks without a dick much less years. I will have to admit though, her skills are getting better and better. Practice makes perfect as the old saying goes.

[Tarl66]

What girl gave you BB Greek?

I promised her I wouldn't tell anyone. She has also done CBJ for me multiple times. She's one of my UTRs.

[Tarl66]

Whether it's a massage girl, escort, or stripper, they can never give up the business. Because the money is fast and good, also there are a long line of sugar daddy's waiting to take your spot.

Very true. It's like an addiction.

[Tarl66]

I hope that it's an end where nobody gets hurt, ok? Get some counseling too. That will help. You are beginning to sound a little desperate and that concerns me. Hope I am over-reacting but really man, don't do anything stupid. I can't stress enough to you how not worth it it would be to do something dumb at this point.

It's just that I thought she was salvageable, but she's not. The easy money is like an addiction.

[Tarl66]

I hope that it's an end where nobody gets hurt, ok? Get some counseling too. That will help. You are beginning to sound a little desperate and that concerns me. Hope I am over-reacting but really man, don't do anything stupid. I can't stress enough to you how not worth it it would be to do something dumb at this point.

No, man, thanks to you and everyone for your concern and support. The worst has been over for a while. I'm good, it would take a lot more than her to crack me, I'm ex-special ops. It's like the 5 stages of grief, and I'm in the last stages.

[Tarl66]

So, has she offered you unlimited free HJ's or offered to see you exclusively? You might try seeing a boatload of other masseuses to get her out of you system.

No, and I think you're right, I need to see some other girls to get her out of my system.

[HobbyMan51]

I know all that. She's definitely not marrying-stock. First she was just another massage girl, then she became the world, and now I just don't know. We're near the end.

I hope that it's an end where nobody gets hurt, ok? Get some counseling too. That will help. You are beginning to sound a little desperate and that concerns me. Hope I am over-reacting but really man, don't do anything stupid. I can't stress enough to you how not worth it it would be to do something dumb at this point.

[Sgt Soros]

?....... she is making a simp out of me, but I'm nuts about her.

So, has she offered you unlimited free HJ's or offered to see you exclusively? You might try seeing a boatload of other masseuses to get her out of you system.