Rants and Raves

[Tarl66]

So, has she offered you unlimited free HJ's or offered to see you exclusively? You might try seeing a boatload of other masseuses to get her out of you system.

No, and I think you're right, I need to see some other girls to get her out of my system.

[HobbyMan51]

I know all that. She's definitely not marrying-stock. First she was just another massage girl, then she became the world, and now I just don't know. We're near the end.

I hope that it's an end where nobody gets hurt, ok? Get some counseling too. That will help. You are beginning to sound a little desperate and that concerns me. Hope I am over-reacting but really man, don't do anything stupid. I can't stress enough to you how not worth it it would be to do something dumb at this point.

[Sgt Soros]

?....... she is making a simp out of me, but I'm nuts about her.

So, has she offered you unlimited free HJ's or offered to see you exclusively? You might try seeing a boatload of other masseuses to get her out of you system.

[Tarl66]

She probably stroked most mongers cock here and played with her tits and ass. If you still cool with that then put a ring in her finger and be a happy man. Lolz.

I know all that. She's definitely not marrying-stock. First she was just another massage girl, then she became the world, and now I just don't know. We're near the end.

[Tarl66]

You are right brother, thanks for the safe advice. I just can't tell my heart what to do.

Sorry, sage advice.

[Petey1015]

Yeah, I totally wanted to marry her. Got her to quit for a few days.

Whether it's a massage girl, escort, or stripper, they can never give up the business. Because the money is fast and good, also there are a long line of sugar daddy's waiting to take your spot.

[Niteluvr]

Good advice, she is making a simp out of me, but I'm nuts about her.

Seems you like the attention here. Put a ring on it or move on to greener pastures.

[Niteluvr]

Just remember if it has tits or tires it's EXPENSIVE.

Very classic (smile).

[Tarl66]

You have to maintain your manhood, and stand strong. This is just business, don't let it go to your head. Everything is transactional in this day and age, don't let her make a simp out of you.

Good advice, she is making a simp out of me, but I'm nuts about her.

[Tarl66]

Totally agree on this. Went down that road until I realized I was infatuated by the attention. Back up and rethink your position. I have one I see often who does a great job. She was my first experience and has serviced me many times since. I hoped to see her last week but she was booked already. Hmm, that's twice in the same month it happened. I got another at a different spa and one up the road a ways. Both of those are go to girls that I know will give me what I want the way I like it. So, find and keep several on tap. It's fun to search them out as you get to explore a lot. BTW, my ATF and first experience set me up with the next best available at the spa last week. The alternate and I had a great time.

Tried seeing my first, but it didn't help, even though we did BB Greek. There was another girl I was more attracted to but stopped seeing because she was mental. FS with her and she came and came.

[Tarl66]

Keeping two or three regular ones also helps prevent this.

My mistake was seeing her too many times.

[Tarl66]

And that is why we so often are sucker chumps and they have all the power. Drooling fools thinking with our dicks instead of our brains. Great quote by the way.

I love her more than she loves me, so she has all the power. It sucks.

[Tarl66]

My advice is this: Men love altruistically; women love opportunistically.

Truer words were never spoken, brother.

[Tarl66]

Only cure that works that I know of is find one that turns you on and enjoy. Apply as needed.

There was another girl I was just as crazy about, I'll try to see her again. Seeing another girl helps for a day or two.

[Tarl66]

It's not her you can't get out of your mind, it's what she might be or is doing with all the other customers when you aren't around. Here is the only advice: Tell yourself that she doesn't love you and MAKE YOURSELF BELIEVE IT! Because that is the truth. That and time are the only things that will save you from this mental deterioration. It's not her fault, it's just business, and she is under no obligation to have feelings for you or anybody else if she doesn't want to. You are not alone. Most of us have fallen into this romantic trap at one time or another, even the most seasoned of us out here. Give it time and be real with yourself. You also might want to examine just what it is in your emotional make-up that made it possible for you to do this to yourself.

You are right brother, thanks for the safe advice. I just can't tell my heart what to do.