"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[American314]

My lifelong friend has asked me to check in on his daughter going to college in my city. I already creep her Instagram and this summer she friended me on fb from a second account that her parents are blocked from seeing. She has already begged me to take her to the mall, what I don't know is whether she is looking for a ride or a sponsor. A misunderstanding could be catastrophic but this could be awesome / terrible / FANTASTIC. Updates to come.

Yessssss you will completely enjoy the experience while it is occurring but shortly after the act when all of the endorphins wane, you will experience complete remorse for what you have done. Scenario one. He will end up discovering the tryst soon and you will have lost a "life long friend" for a few moments of pleasure. NO father would ever excuse a friend for this travesty upon his little girl! You lose! Scenario two. She keeps it to herself and you will forever be completely uncomfortable around your friend and will never be able to continue as you had in your past as you are always fearful of exposure. Even if you are never outed, your life will never be the same as your guilt and fear will consume you around these folks. You should draw the line at what your inner conscience is telling you and be the better person and friend. There are plenty of opportunities for this type of leg around without jeopardizing yourself!

PIE.

[JustLonely]

From Stony Creek. Strictly online business in her words.

[EasyeOne]

https://www.seeking.com/member/17546...e-3e1a033bba0e

Any feedback on this one before I pull the trigger?

Nothing in archives I could find.

Thanks bros!

Been going back and forth for some time, sent a few sexy pics but 4 $$ is her minimum so far. The pics she sent are much better then those on the profile. If you pull the trigger do update us, I might go for it next week.

[JimXuper90]

My lifelong friend has asked me to check in on his daughter going to college in my city. I already creep her Instagram and this summer she friended me on fb from a second account that her parents are blocked from seeing. She has already begged me to take her to the mall, what I don't know is whether she is looking for a ride or a sponsor. A misunderstanding could be catastrophic but this could be awesome / terrible / FANTASTIC. Updates to come.

No pussy worth losing lifelong friend for me. I would not do it.

[JustLonely]

https://www.seeking.com/member/17546...e-3e1a033bba0e

Any feedback on this one before I pull the trigger?

Nothing in archives I could find.

Thanks bros!

She wanted 400 Too much for me.

[NeoDude]

https://www.seeking.com/member/17546...e-3e1a033bba0e

Any feedback on this one before I pull the trigger?

Nothing in archives I could find.

Thanks bros!

[TwoDirection]

Anybody have any experience or feedback? https://www.seeking.com/member/49ed0...f-71b30a9794d6.

Overall she wasn't what I was looking for, but she's prettier and sexier than those pictures, IMO. Former swimmer, spinner body with great golden skin, really nice ass and boobs. She's a real sweetheart, too. She's not kidding about being a heavy drinker, though. That's all I'm willing to share.

[UKnowWho]

Curious what frequency you usually get for that allowance?

Always twice a week. Less than that isn't enough for me, and more is too much burden on my free nights. No firm rules about time per visit, but each visit usually ends up being about three to five hours.

she responds that her friend has been doing it for years and been spoiled fantastically without sleeping with a single guy (....) sure enough it was a girl I had 2 or 3 times in a hotel a year ago for a very reasonable allowance

Haha, that's hilarious. I think I'll borrow that story the next time I run across a girl with a story about her friend's SD.

[TomDickNHarry]

I give a 2 K per month allowance and the arrangements do usually only last a few months. Like any other relationship, I think. Current one is at four months and going strong, but the one before that was about three months, and the one before that was just one month. My record was a couple of years, although I didn't find her on a sugar site.

I've found a big obstacle is what girls tell each other. E. g. One girl I met told me a guy from SA gave her roommate $2000 at the start of the semester just for talking to him on the phone. I definitely didn't believe that, but I believe she believed it. Girls want to make themselves look better by inflating the amount they tell their friends they got and deflating what they had to do for it. The same thing happens among strippers who meet guys outside of the strip club.

Curious what frequency you usually get for that allowance?

Ftr, not suggesting SD's like you don't exist, but you are the exception not the rule and people should keep it in mind when negotiating. The guys aggressively offering allowances, at least where I am, seem to be much more about convincing them to get to the FC a time or two, than sincere about it. What you do is at least realistic.

In terms of them embellishing for their friends, which absolutely happens, I posted the perfect example in this thread a couple of months ago. I had a M&G with a girl where it comes out after 10 minutes that she wants to be a paid social companion only, no interest in intimacy and is firm about it. I politely explained that this was going to be next to impossible and she responds that her friend has been doing it for years and been spoiled fantastically without sleeping with a single guy. Said she wasn't having much luck so far but it had only been a couple of days and because of her friend she knew it was possible. I give up convincing her as she obviously 100% believes this, and we spend the rest of lunch chatting pleasantly. Toward the end I ask if she has a pic of her friend as I was curious if I had met her. She whips out her phone, and sure enough it was a girl I had 2 or 3 times in a hotel a year ago for a very reasonable allowance which she requested. In fact, her friend and I first met for a drink for 5 minutes and then went to the FC that very same day. I just smiled to myself and said I didn't know her, but here she's telling this friend she's being paid to go to dinners and shows when she's really hitting the FC with guys after five minutes and a $4 cocktail LOL. The friend figured it out pretty quickly though because the profile was gone in under a week.

[UKnowWho]

But I can promise you guys ponying up even 2 k a month for one girl on an ongoing basis (more than a month or two) are the equivalent of a black swan. It exists but is exceedingly rare and they could talk to 1000 guys on there w / o finding it. And when one of these girls tells you they had found it, they were likely either just led to believe by the site's marketing that it does, or they're lying.

I give a 2 K per month allowance and the arrangements do usually only last a few months. Like any other relationship, I think. Current one is at four months and going strong, but the one before that was about three months, and the one before that was just one month. My record was a couple of years, although I didn't find her on a sugar site.

I've found a big obstacle is what girls tell each other. E. g. One girl I met told me a guy from SA gave her roommate $2000 at the start of the semester just for talking to him on the phone. I definitely didn't believe that, but I believe she believed it. Girls want to make themselves look better by inflating the amount they tell their friends they got and deflating what they had to do for it. The same thing happens among strippers who meet guys outside of the strip club.

[JZLizard]

My lifelong friend has asked me to check in on his daughter going to college in my city. I already creep her Instagram and this summer she friended me on fb from a second account that her parents are blocked from seeing. She has already begged me to take her to the mall, what I don't know is whether she is looking for a ride or a sponsor. A misunderstanding could be catastrophic but this could be awesome / terrible / FANTASTIC. Updates to come.

I read this and was like -- seriously? I can count my combined lifelong friends (made during high school, college, or early career) that are still alive on one hand. In contrast, I lost count of how many pussies I've had my cock in a long time ago.

I'd never consider betraying a friend for pussy. Pussy is easy to come by and real friends are not.

[FarFarAway]

This is a great post Max and it's a good sensible approach.

However, my way of looking at it is thus: she came out of the gate lying and trying to play me. She's bullshitting you in the hope you'll go along and deliver on something that makes no sense. At this point she lost all credibility with me and it gets her an instant "never going to happen". That she comes to her senses later is completely irrelevant to me. NEXT!

Well, I'd just consider the psychology. The same mind that deludes itself that can get / is worth that is the mind that decides it would be a good idea to hook up w / a guy twice her age. Some of this goes w / the territory. If you are toward the transactional end of the spectrum, it's true, this type of girl will take a lot of work you don't have patience for. I am on the other end of the spectrum, don't mind cultivating girls for a while, and like the chase, figuring them out. The girl I am always looking for is the one who is truly interested in the kink of being done by a daddy type, for whatever reason. Adopted, submissive, etc. These girls should be paying me, but I've never found one that would. LOL.

[Madaboutmax]

If she is lying, which most are, I agree.

I think some are just naive newbies that have unrealistic expectations boosted by media hype. When they see reality they either become disolutioned and disappear or adjust their expectations.

I've had it work out well a few times after a girl has had her expectations reset, but not the standard.

This is a great post Max and it's a good sensible approach.

However, my way of looking at it is thus: she came out of the gate lying and trying to play me. She's bullshitting you in the hope you'll go along and deliver on something that makes no sense. At this point she lost all credibility with me and it gets her an instant "never going to happen". That she comes to her senses later is completely irrelevant to me. NEXT!

[EvilTmp]

This has been discussed before. I break it down into 3 areas:

The biggest GPS girls I've seen are constantly on the site looking for the next SD. If they were truly worth it and could get it they would find one or two big fish SDs and stop looking.

Way more girls than guys on the site so i always remind myslef, I have numbers on my side. I'm patient and move to the next one. If she comes back, she will come back on my terms.

This is a great post Max and it's a good sensible approach.

However, my way of looking at it is thus: she came out of the gate lying and trying to play me. She's bullshitting you in the hope you'll go along and deliver on something that makes no sense. At this point she lost all credibility with me and it gets her an instant "never going to happen". That she comes to her senses later is completely irrelevant to me. NEXT!

[BlueFalcon123]

I rejoined SA this month to scope out the newbies starting college. I found a rare gem.

She admits, in her profile, seeking only experience SD. We get to chatting terms and getting to know each other.

I'm short, she's a total virgin and wants to be a woman before college started. Sweet girl, slim and highly intelligent. 18 yr.

Yes I checked ID. Haha!

So, she trusted me and I obliged gentleman. And it was glorious. It was a 3 hour endurance test. But she passed with flying colors. By the 2nd round, we discover standing doggie is her fav.

We are both jumping off SA and we will keep to each other for now.

It's out here bros! Having a ball in the sugar bowl!