Seeking Arrangements

[Glennie]

Think of sitting at a bar and chatting it up with a lady. She excuses herself to visit the restroom. On her way back she runs into an old friend (perhaps someone she was chatting with when she was at the bar last week). Will she come back and continue the conversation with you? When? Who knows?

I chat with girls and at times they message me. At various levels they just disappear. They don't read chats, they are online, but just disappear. Am I doing something wrong? I don't even ask for sex, I just ask for their allowance and meeting up.

[Aardvarks]

I chat with girls and at times they message me. At various levels they just disappear. They don't read chats, they are online, but just disappear. Am I doing something wrong? I don't even ask for sex, I just ask for their allowance and meeting up.

First few messages try to flirt.

Then say hey what are you looking for financially.

Then move off the site to text or Kik.

Or:

Say hey my philosophy is to meet up a few times before we agree on a monthly allowance. I'm thinking $1-2 per meet if that works for you. Let's meet soon as I've got a bunch of money to spend and a lot of SBs interested but I think you're special.

Than move to text or Kik. The quicker you get them off SA the better you will be. The app sucks on mobile phones. It looks like tinder but with many buttons and tabs so it's difficult to communicate. I think it's on purpose to benefit the SA owners.

[CoolGuy1985]

I chat with girls and at times they message me. At various levels they just disappear. They don't read chats, they are online, but just disappear. Am I doing something wrong? I don't even ask for sex, I just ask for their allowance and meeting up.

[Aardvarks]

Saw posting on SB for this beautiful and sexy woman. Very appealing. Sent a message complimenting her and said she'd probably get a ton of responses. She answered saying she'd send more photos if I gave personal email. Asked if text would be easier. No answer and I was blocked right away. Even my message to her is gone. Can't give the link, it's gone. She was a hot widow. Just wondering if this is some type of scam.

Seen this before. Wants a personal email. Part of a hacking scheme. She disappeared because someone probably reported her.

[Spill]

Saw posting on SB for this beautiful and sexy woman. Very appealing. Sent a message complimenting her and said she'd probably get a ton of responses. She answered saying she'd send more photos if I gave personal email. Asked if text would be easier. No answer and I was blocked right away. Even my message to her is gone. Can't give the link, it's gone. She was a hot widow. Just wondering if this is some type of scam.

Just a guess but text=phone and she cannot or does not want to do phone. Easier to remain anonymous via email.

[Samuel05]

Saw posting on SB for this beautiful and sexy woman. Very appealing. Sent a message complimenting her and said she'd probably get a ton of responses. She answered saying she'd send more photos if I gave personal email. Asked if text would be easier. No answer and I was blocked right away. Even my message to her is gone. Can't give the link, it's gone. She was a hot widow. Just wondering if this is some type of scam.

[Aardvarks]

"I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.

You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use. ".

Well I'm banned for life, I've tried to find out why and they won't tell me.

You could just get a burner and create a new email address. It's not like they know who you are. If you really can't figure this out PM me and I will help.

[Glennie]

Although it's still early days for me on SA, this hasn't been my experience. In any case, whether or not an experience is an all time top ten should not be determined while in the glow of that experience, but rather after much time has passed. My top ten have been via TER / BP etc. I don't see that changing overnight.

Had a top ten of all time encounter today with a graduate student off SA. Unfortunately, I cannot share her digits or any other information at her request, but I just share this for those who are SA doubters. It takes energy and commitment to succeed on SA, but when you do the rewards are often off the charts. I would say that at least four of my top ten lifetime experiences are from SA at this point. This woman today was a uniquely intelligent and lovely friend. We had lunch once previously with no sex. Today was all sex at lunch time. Two hours of joy for all. I am sure I will get some gripes about not sharing, but those of you who do great on SA will understand.

[BostonMan781]

Come on now, we're not some dumb girls here. While they might not tell you why, I'll bet top dollars you know exactly why you were banned.

I've never paid a girl for sex on SA. I've only offered girls cash for cuddling in underwear.

[Longjblues]

Not asking for Profile Name, just tell us the City / town she is listed under on SA. If its Boston, never mind.

Pleas don't make us beggggggggg! You won't be violating your promise to her, by just the city / town name.

Had a top ten of all time encounter today with a graduate student off SA. Unfortunately, I cannot share her digits or any other information at her request, but I just share this for those who are SA doubters. It takes energy and commitment to succeed on SA, but when you do the rewards are often off the charts. I would say that at least four of my top ten lifetime experiences are from SA at this point. This woman today was a uniquely intelligent and lovely friend. We had lunch once previously with no sex. Today was all sex at lunch time. Two hours of joy for all. I am sure I will get some gripes about not sharing, but those of you who do great on SA will understand.

[Glennie]

I know why. PM me if interested in discussing. It's a good idea to understand the SOP on SA.

Come on now, we're not some dumb girls here. While they might not tell you why, I'll bet top dollars you know exactly why you were banned.

[JohnTies]

Had a top ten of all time encounter today with a graduate student off SA. Unfortunately, I cannot share her digits or any other information at her request, but I just share this for those who are SA doubters. It takes energy and commitment to succeed on SA, but when you do the rewards are often off the charts. I would say that at least four of my top ten lifetime experiences are from SA at this point. This woman today was a uniquely intelligent and lovely friend. We had lunch once previously with no sex. Today was all sex at lunch time. Two hours of joy for all. I am sure I will get some gripes about not sharing, but those of you who do great on SA will understand.

You could post link to her page as if we found her on the site.

[EvilTmp]

"I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.

You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use. ".

Well I'm banned for life, I've tried to find out why and they won't tell me.

Come on now, we're not some dumb girls here. While they might not tell you why, I'll bet top dollars you know exactly why you were banned.

[BostonMan781]

"I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.

You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use. ".

Well I'm banned for life, I've tried to find out why and they won't tell me.

[Banjomania]

Had a top ten of all time encounter today with a graduate student off SA. Unfortunately, I cannot share her digits or any other information at her request, but I just share this for those who are SA doubters. It takes energy and commitment to succeed on SA, but when you do the rewards are often off the charts. I would say that at least four of my top ten lifetime experiences are from SA at this point. This woman today was a uniquely intelligent and lovely friend. We had lunch once previously with no sex. Today was all sex at lunch time. Two hours of joy for all. I am sure I will get some gripes about not sharing, but those of you who do great on SA will understand.