Seeking Arrangements

[Big Head]

If you not a paying member then the initial messages they let you send, the girls cannot read them, they just receive a generic message that you are interested. Also I noticed that only 25% of the ladies who post there are actually visiting the site, majority of them already gave up. Still Boston has a lot of very active and hopeful ladies, but in the suburbs only a few who are still active. I think their dream of finding a real Sugar Daddy is very rarely realized.

-BH.

[Longjblues]

I haven't had very good luck or experiences in Lynn, but I am forever curious. Below is a screenshot of her profile.

Anyone have info or experience with 5'6, athletic body, in her 30's, MILF on SA.

Nice pics. Can't get link right now. Pm or post. Any info appreciated.

[SpecialOne8]

ALL of these sites, whether SA, AL, Established Gentlemen, etc, all have a certain number of pros that advertise in there. Why wouldn't they? There is little or no enforcement of policies that would restrict such use, so they do. I have gandered upon them and found that a large minority of women there are also UTRs on USA, so there you have it. My BFF and fellow "domesticated" male has been seeing three young ladies he found on EG more than a year ago. He is convinced NONE of them are UTRs. I don't want to burst his bubble, so I keep it to myself that two of them are trolling on USA. You'd think for a gal having her rent paid in a decent apartment complex located in a yuppy part of town, taken to nice lunches and dinners, not to mention nice furniture and weekends on the beach in 5-star resorts would be enough to be a one-SD kind of girl, but apparently not. The amount of money he would save by simply seeing one or two pros or UTRs would curl your toes! But hey, it's only money, right?

There is no honor amongst thieves. As long as you go into such arrangements with your eyes wide open, it's no problem. It's when you look at the same "arrangement" through rose-covered glasses that can cause angst.

You guys can play the way you want. Seeking is a site that does permit those of us who want real arrangements to find them. If there is too great an influx of escorts to the site, it will get bashed by FOSTA the same way CL and BP did. So, please don't screw it up for those of us who can get what we need here. Get yourself another safe, outside the US site for escorts.

Now, I am not holier than thou. I will be in your fair city Friday, and I am contacting gals left and right on Seeking. I make it clear I am a traveler, so it is most likely these will be 1-night stands, but it is also true there is much business to be done in Boston and I might be back, so they don't have to think of themselves as escorts, just on a 'delayed' ongoing arrangement. LOL.

It is interesting to me that many girls in Boston say they aren't interested in married guys. They have more morals than those in southern California, where it mostly doesn't matter, I guess. HA.

[Longjblues]

Anyone have info or experience with 5'6, athletic body, in her 30's, MILF on SA.

Nice pics. Can't get link right now. Pm or post. Any info appreciated.

[FarFarAway]

I assume that a large percentage of these girls will just fuck for a fee. I recognize some faces there from the past. For the most part "sugaring" is just a fancy word for "pay for play". Most of the girls who hope to find a real wealthy sugar daddy will be disappointed. Most of our dreams as well as theirs will never materialized.

-BH.

You guys can play the way you want. Seeking is a site that does permit those of us who want real arrangements to find them. If there is too great an influx of escorts to the site, it will get bashed by FOSTA the same way CL and BP did. So, please don't screw it up for those of us who can get what we need here. Get yourself another safe, outside the US site for escorts.

Now, I am not holier than thou. I will be in your fair city Friday, and I am contacting gals left and right on Seeking. I make it clear I am a traveler, so it is most likely these will be 1-night stands, but it is also true there is much business to be done in Boston and I might be back, so they don't have to think of themselves as escorts, just on a 'delayed' ongoing arrangement. LOL.

It is interesting to me that many girls in Boston say they aren't interested in married guys. They have more morals than those in southern California, where it mostly doesn't matter, I guess. HA.

[Big Head]

The time commitment is the issue for me. Like King I have no interest in sugaring. I suspect many of us. Don't have the time and aren't in the situation where we even could dedicate chunks of time to these girls.

I assume that a large percentage of these girls will just fuck for a fee. I recognize some faces there from the past. For the most part "sugaring" is just a fancy word for "pay for play". Most of the girls who hope to find a real wealthy sugar daddy will be disappointed. Most of our dreams as well as theirs will never materialized.

-BH.

[Member #6503]

I constantly have luck on this site. Met a new 21 year old girl, pretty hot. I don't pay outrageous prices at all. I negotiated $40 an hour to hangout with me. For like 4 hours. You guys just don't do it right.

The time commitment is the issue for me. Like King I have no interest in sugaring. I suspect many of us. Don't have the time and aren't in the situation where we even could dedicate chunks of time to these girls.

[BostonMan781]

I constantly have luck on this site. Met a new 21 year old girl, pretty hot. I don't pay outrageous prices at all. I negotiated $40 an hour to hangout with me. For like 4 hours. You guys just don't do it right.

[Big Head]

Wow man. Building your mongering career on a bedrock of honesty? I do admire you for that. But I also wonder how successful that will be. Please keep us posted on this admirable experiment.

I never give them my number or real name, but I do not invent my biography, if they ask me about my family situation or work I always tell them the way it is. I do not consider it honesty, I just communicate with them like I do with anybody else. But this site is different, to get your money worth you need to represent yourself "properly".

-BH.

[KingOfFours]

If you aren't willing to pay $90 for a month of immersion in limitless amounts of quality pussy, that you will likely be paying 2-3 per for, you cannot afford sugaring.

Some of us have absolutely ZERO interest in "sugaring", sir. There are, nevertheless, some real hoes on SA who will meet up for sex with random strangers like any escort would, for a one-shot deal for sex, just like any escort would. In fact, some I indeed recognized as escorts who are, or were, advertising. And there is one ultra-GFE escort on there near Providence who I've inseminated numerous times for 150/200. I personally prefer to fuck them and pay them to leave. I'm not at all intersted in "sugaring" them. So I'm not willing to pay 90 bucks in order to send just a few messages to those precious few that just want to meet up and fuck an anonymous stranger, with no bullshit.

But I am willing to share the contact info and pics if I have them, for the various local bareback full service escorts I know, if anyone who is a paying SA member, wants to give me some contact info for some of the girls that they know, who are HOES on there, and who are willing to meet up for an hour of bareback sex, without drama. I'm surely willing to pay 200 for those, if they will fuck on the first date, and if its bareback. But with their phone number or email, please--NOT just the SA profile! .

[Glennie]

Wow man. Building your mongering career on a bedrock of honesty? I do admire you for that. But I also wonder how successful that will be. Please keep us posted on this admirable experiment.

Thank you guys for answering my other questions, but unfortunately I have another one.

I hate to be dishonest with any provider, just not my style, but after reading some posts I suspect that you lose 80% of potential connections if you are married. I do not want to drop 90 and not be able to enjoy the experience to the fullest. Should I say not-married? Also does it matter what income I show? Should I avoid using my real town, just Boston for privacy. Does it matter if I have a fake pic or most guys do not use any? Does my age matter?

If I decide to go in all the way I would like to know all the tricks.

Thanks again,

-BH.

[Big Head]

Thank you guys for answering my other questions, but unfortunately I have another one.

I hate to be dishonest with any provider, just not my style, but after reading some posts I suspect that you lose 80% of potential connections if you are married. I do not want to drop 90 and not be able to enjoy the experience to the fullest. Should I say not-married? Also does it matter what income I show? Should I avoid using my real town, just Boston for privacy. Does it matter if I have a fake pic or most guys do not use any? Does my age matter?

If I decide to go in all the way I would like to know all the tricks.

Thanks again,

-BH.

[Mitch672]

I tried to engage her in conversation without any luck, about 9 months ago. I inquired if discreet affair or mutually beneficial friendship align with her interests / expectation, with no response.

Pics are very nice, and she is very convenient for me, if she is actually in Peab. My guess is that she wants to be paid / gifted for being platonically friendly to you, and be your arm candy "for dinner and travel".

She's been a member since April 14th, 2014, that tells you something right their (either GPS or waiting for a Unicorn, which we all know don't exist).

She also states she's a bartender in downtown historic Salem, can't be that hard to actually find and meet, and see what her story is, hard to ignore you in person I wouldn't get too fixated on any one of these women, if they don't respond, there are plenty of others.

[Longjblues]

I tried to engage her in conversation without any luck, about 9 months ago. I inquired if discreet affair or mutually beneficial friendship align with her interests / expectation, with no response.

Pics are very nice, and she is very convenient for me, if she is actually in Peab. My guess is that she wants to be paid / gifted for being platonically friendly to you, and be your arm candy "for dinner and travel".

https://www.seeking.com/member/0e23b...3-3f24027e2b80

Have anyone met her yet? She didn't reply my message but she looks good.

[Mark IV]

https://www.seeking.com/member/0e23b...3-3f24027e2b80

Have anyone met her yet? She didn't reply my message but she looks good.