Seeking Arrangements

[Aardvarks]

Hi guys, with how things are now in escort land since the crap hit the fan am pretty much done with them and all the bs now.

Am going back on SA and going to hunt for some SB's. It has been a few years since I have been on due to having gf and such.

I would treat them well, be a gentleman, and give what I thought was reasonable sugar of 150 on top of paying for hotel, activity or dinner also.

Never had any issues getting some really good girls. How will I do with that tact and sugar price point now?

I have been on looking around and it has changed from when I was last on there.

Lots of I am not a prostitute, etc, etc, etc.

Lots of want you to pay for things and take me out but we're not having sex postings.

Lots of I know what I am worth postings.

I am a princes and you should treat me like one.

WTF! LOL.

So any thoughts, tips, and updates from what I did before that worked without issue?

Thanks guys.

I think any one who says "I am not a prostitute, I want you to pay for things and take me out but we're not having sex, I know what I am worth postings, I am a princes and you should treat me like one. " you should prob block or hide. That also includes the "Strictly Platonic" ones. I do believe we as legit SDs have the numbers right now. I am usually very upfront and state "I'm not interested in dropping a whole month's allowance until I know we like each other. I am going to want some kind of intimacy to evolve starting at the first date (not the meet and greet). " Always use terms like "mutual satisfaction" or "equal benefits".

Ask them what they specifically want financially and if you feel aggressive what they're willing to do. If they want 800 per meet I usually say "Wow you are so beautiful and I really want to meet up but I can't do that amount". And then they come back and say what can you do. I say in the 2-3 range and see what they say back. Most of mine have been in 2-3. 5 range. You'd be surprised how many of the 800's come back a few weeks later and ask if you're still interested and maybe your offer is now okay because they've gotten creeped out or are having no luck.

If someone comes in at 1-2 I usually think something is up. Either a pro, drug addict, or something's not right. But I've heard others have success at that amount.

Other tips:

- Never ever give them money in advance of a date or at a M & G.

- If the profile is blank try being super aggressive. What do you have to lose? They're probably not real right?

- Get their number as quick as possible to do a background check.

Good luck my friend!

[JohnTies]

Hi guys, with how things are now in escort land since the crap hit the fan am pretty much done with them and all the bs now.

Am going back on SA and going to hunt for some SB's. It has been a few years since I have been on due to having gf and such.

I would treat them well, be a gentleman, and give what I thought was reasonable sugar of 150 on top of paying for hotel, activity or dinner also.

Never had any issues getting some really good girls. How will I do with that tact and sugar price point now?

I have been on looking around and it has changed from when I was last on there.

Lots of I am not a prostitute, etc, etc, etc.

Lots of want you to pay for things and take me out but we're not having sex postings.

Lots of I know what I am worth postings.

I am a princes and you should treat me like one.

WTF! LOL.

So any thoughts, tips, and updates from what I did before that worked without issue?

Thanks guys.

[JohnTies]

FYI. A very close friend of mine met Gina. I trust his opinion.

I did meet a pornstar 1 time. I was sworn to secrecy though. That was a long time ago. She was beautiful and it was awesome

I have seen Gina Rollins a bunch of times when I go to NYC and when she used to come to Boston every so often many years ago.

She has never let me down and every visit has been a 10+ time. She is a lot of fun and up for anything.

So, when did Gina Rollins do porn, under what name, and where is it posted?

Did not know she did porn, that must be a new thing. Although when I see her it's like I am in a porn, she is one nasty, fun woman.

[Samuel05]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...1-2164d583105b

Good Luck! Thought about messaging her myself. Really looks good. Unfortunately profile says Marriage Minded.

[Spill]

Close enough. You certainly imply by your statement that you had great sex w / Gina Rollins, whoever that is, or know that it can be had. I have messaged w / porn stars on multiple occasions on SA, and they always expect to be heavily paid, and they're really no different from escorts. I am looking for a SB anyway, I had some visions of turning the one I spent some time messaging, but ultimately decided it was just her marketing tool.

You should also read the discussion about strippers. Likewise, expect to be better paid than any SB, and don't necessarily have better skills. They can make so much in a strip joint, it is 'reimbursement' to take them on a date. LOL.

FYI. A very close friend of mine met Gina. I trust his opinion.

I did meet a pornstar 1 time. I was sworn to secrecy though. That was a long time ago. She was beautiful and it was awesome

[KingOfFours]

Not the first to say they had great sex with a porn star?! Well, maybe I can settle this argument then, and claim priority for this? I'll think I'll try! Here goes:

I have had GREAT sex with a porn star!

And you may quote me on that! LMFAO!

In all seriousness, in MOST of my sessions with actual porn stars the sex was indeed great. And while I've not gone the SA route, I cannot say that about most of my hookups with clueless, drug addicted backpage skanks. As I said, though, there were some well known porn stars like Harmony that were mediocre. But the sex that I had with Breanna Wildman in Vegas has yet to be matched by any backpage skank, in terms of combined looks and performance.

[KingOfFours]

You said "You are the first person who has ever said they had great sex w / a porn star. " For 1, I actually never said that. And 2, if I did, I would doubt that I was actually the first.

I am sure you have had great sex at great prices with woman who look better than many porn stars. I'll bet most of us have.

Personally, I'm not a big fan of seeing pornstars and have only seen one lady over 400 (Meg of NH). My comment was about the generalization.

You stand by "what you have read on this site". Nuff said.

Not the first to say they had great sex with a porn star?! Well, maybe I can settle this argument then, and claim priority for this? I'll think I'll try! Here goes:

I have had GREAT sex with a porn star!

And you may quote me on that! LMFAO!

[JohnTies]

So, am on SA now and it is worse than I have read or thought it would be.

I can't believe how many women on there either think or want a guy to give them money for taking them out to dinner, talking / texting with them, or only want platonic relations.

Also, see so many women there expect you to take them shopping, buy them gifts, or want their bills to be taken care of right away.

Things like that happen after there has been a SB Sd relationship for some time. Where are they getting this idea that they get things like that right away?

All I have to say is wow! Lots of garbage to slog through to find a gem on there now.

[Malibu1980]

Tried to set something up with her for about a week a month or so ago. Back and forth with no concrete info. Finally decided it was all a game and gave up. Hope you have better luck!

Yeah so a member inboxed me her name and facebook and a quick google search came up with a turtleboy article roasting her. So she's def no good. Addict, 3 kids by 3 different dads and went public about being raped in prison by the guards when in fact she was doing it for smokes and trade.

[FarFarAway]

You said "You are the first person who has ever said they had great sex w / a porn star. " For 1, I actually never said that. And 2, if I did, I would doubt that I was actually the first.

I am sure you have had great sex at great prices with woman who look better than many porn stars. I'll bet most of us have.

Personally, I'm not a big fan of seeing pornstars and have only seen one lady over 400 (Meg of NH). My comment was about the generalization.

You stand by "what you have read on this site". Nuff said.

Close enough. You certainly imply by your statement that you had great sex w / Gina Rollins, whoever that is, or know that it can be had. I have messaged w / porn stars on multiple occasions on SA, and they always expect to be heavily paid, and they're really no different from escorts. I am looking for a SB anyway, I had some visions of turning the one I spent some time messaging, but ultimately decided it was just her marketing tool.

You should also read the discussion about strippers. Likewise, expect to be better paid than any SB, and don't necessarily have better skills. They can make so much in a strip joint, it is 'reimbursement' to take them on a date. LOL.

[Oscar13]

Anyone have info on kelly in sturbridge, looks good in her pics but says she lives in a hotel and her phone voicemail is in spanish so it sounds like something is going on.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...4-7c3fe964fdb6

Tried to set something up with her for about a week a month or so ago. Back and forth with no concrete info. Finally decided it was all a game and gave up. Hope you have better luck!

[Aardvarks]

I think we got off topic because there was a porn star on SA. I completely agree with you on the crazy numbers just because they did porn.

FYI Massbarbie finally gave me a quote of 1 k. Said she has other adult friends she could bring. I told her I could afford 3-5 dates to her 1 for that amount.

[Spill]

Kind of off topic of seekingarrangements but on the discussion of porn stars, I don't know why think just because they did porn they should get thousands of dollars, any woman can do porn, they legit take anyone, any age, shape, size it all depends if you want to be on the internet forever or not as in being seen, also back in the craigslist days I met 3 porn stars all for 100 bucks and my ex gf I dated back in 07 was a porn star dated her for a year. Porn stars are regular people like anyone else only difference is there not camera shy, so its laughable when they want 1000 because they did " porn ".

I think we got off topic because there was a porn star on SA. I completely agree with you on the crazy numbers just because they did porn.

[Spill]

I stand by what I have read on this site over the past 2+ years. You are the first person who has ever said they had great sex w / a porn star. I have had great sex at great prices w / women who look better than many porn stars. That's what we ought to be helping people get to.

You said "You are the first person who has ever said they had great sex w / a porn star. " For 1, I actually never said that. And 2, if I did, I would doubt that I was actually the first.

I am sure you have had great sex at great prices with woman who look better than many porn stars. I'll bet most of us have.

Personally, I'm not a big fan of seeing pornstars and have only seen one lady over 400 (Meg of NH). My comment was about the generalization.

You stand by "what you have read on this site". Nuff said.

[OkWhatever]

Any info on this one? She's been flaky.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...6-2ff80140851d