"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Mongo1** · 06-03-18 03:44

WTF? Handsome in the eyes of some, not everyone's cup of tea certainly, but I've now encountered this sort of rude behavior a few times. SB initial response to saying hello is show private pic (no public), then no response and you find yourself blocked. Have my looks gone downhill or what LOL?

**CoolPix** · 06-01-18 17:43

Originally Posted by CantWinLosin [View Original Post]

Did you mean nikki52610? Chatting with her now, so any confirmation appreciated.

Hey brother, I've met both Nikki's. The one you want to avoid (Koompa sent the note on my behalf and before I got back on this site) is Nikki000000. She's a great fuck but the girl has mental issues and I got careless.

I met Nikki52610 but haven't pulled the trigger on her. But that's only because I had a couple of younger SBs I was interested in meeting and who are more to my liking. Nikki52610 is a really nice chick, not bad looking and is tall and slender. Being only 5'10", I tend to go for the shorter, spinner types. But I would definitely meet her in private given the chance. I don't think she will because I let nearly a month go by after our M&G and was a bit put off when I contacted her again. Good luck and give us a report if you meet with her. Or at least PM me and tell me what I missed out on!

**CantWinLosin** · 06-01-18 07:30

Originally Posted by Koompa [View Original Post]

Just a warning, Nikki000000 on SA tried to extort a friend of mine in your area. After meeting with him in his hotel, 2nd time meeting she saw his information on a hotel receipt and later texted him saying if he didn't pay her a certain sum of money she was going to out him to his wife, steer clear.

Did you mean nikki52610? Chatting with her now, so any confirmation appreciated.

**Koompa** · 05-31-18 06:31

Just a warning, Nikki000000 on SA tried to extort a friend of mine in your area. After meeting with him in his hotel, 2nd time meeting she saw his information on a hotel receipt and later texted him saying if he didn't pay her a certain sum of money she was going to out him to his wife, steer clear.

**ChiaHair** · 05-31-18 01:52

I am looking for a legit site other than SA to join preferably one which is not intimidating for the average guy like myself.

**S2568** · 05-30-18 13:15

One of my all time fav is looking for an extra SD and asked me if I have any brothers who I can share her with. Let me know if you guys are interested will recommend one of you, she is 23 petite loves to do it and will be satisfied several times with tongue skills and hot look at, she is South Asian.

If you give me some reliable hot spinner college cutie W or Asian or Latina in exchange, latina would be great.

Can send me pvt msg.

**SandPiper540** · 05-28-18 10:14

Originally Posted by Bummm [View Original Post]

I had a sb I was seeing for fuck dates only, no dinners, movie dates, just fun for 1000/ mo. She dropped me for a sd who she swears is giving her near 6000/ month and he has not that much interest in sex with her but does it on occasion, but he likes just talking, dates, having her around, but he required her to have him as her only sd. She has no reason to lie and I believe her and of course understand her dropping me for a 6000 daddy. But tell me why would any dude who is single as he is give out that kind of cash? I mean I would feel like I was a total loser if I put out that kind of money just for companionship. Funny thing is she would have been his only sb if he only gave half that, but he started w /6000 so who will turn that down.

Literally every SB on that site claims they only want 1 SD. Honestly I don't know whether to believe this or not. Anyhow, why the fuck would she tell 1 SD about the other SD? If she would just keep her mouth shut about it she will increase her college donations.

**Geechie Dan** · 05-28-18 09:07

Originally Posted by CantWinLosin [View Original Post]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-eae3c90bf4ed

We've exchanged msgs. She seems legit, pretty up-front about her situation and expectations, but gut says something's not quite right, can't figure it out, so looking for other input. What am I missing?

I actually met her today. That pic may be a little dated. She says she has a child, so that pic may be pre-child. Don't get me wrong, I'd still tap that, she's just got more meat on the bones now. She's well manicured and seems nice and open minded. However, the "arrangement" she quoted me was a bit steep.

**JustLonely** · 05-28-18 07:42

Originally Posted by CantWinLosin [View Original Post]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-eae3c90bf4ed

We've exchanged msgs. She seems legit, pretty up-front about her situation and expectations, but gut says something's not quite right, can't figure it out, so looking for other input. What am I missing?

She just sent me an offer for 150 through WYP today. I have no public photo there and a bio only saying looking for fun. But I still get out of the blue offers for dates. So I am guessing she is a pro like many on there in recent months.

**BagIt** · 05-27-18 22:09

Originally Posted by Kwagmire [View Original Post]

Hey guys, been thinking about getting into the SA game in my area again tried a while ago to limited success (lots of GPS) but with the change in climate maybe I need to give it a go again.

Been reading your "Highlights" thread and TONS of great info there, but much of it is from 2012 - 2014. Has the SA game changed through the years for you all, and if so, how (and how do you approach it these days to efficiently get girls to the FC at a reasonable rate)?

Kwag.

Depends what type you want, I've seen some all types like a bbw would give great dt BBBJ for 50, or a high end gps model type for 500/2 hrs, to a gnd type for 150-200, to hot milfs who just like to fuck, to college cuties who grew up doing BJ like I did giving a handshake, LOL.

**Kwagmire** · 05-27-18 17:52

Hey guys, been thinking about getting into the SA game in my area again — tried a while ago to limited success (lots of GPS) but with the change in climate maybe I need to give it a go again.

Been reading your "Highlights" thread and TONS of great info there, but much of it is from 2012 - 2014. Has the SA game changed through the years for you all, and if so, how (and how do you approach it these days to efficiently get girls to the FC at a reasonable rate)?

Kwag.

**IbDaddy** · 05-27-18 14:50

[QUOTE=CantWinLosin;3805872]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-eae3c90bf4ed

**CantWinLosin** · 05-27-18 14:10

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-eae3c90bf4ed

We've exchanged msgs. She seems legit, pretty up-front about her situation and expectations, but gut says something's not quite right, can't figure it out, so looking for other input. What am I missing?

**CantWinLosin** · 05-27-18 13:19

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-8ae6db0a6614

REally full of her self -- off the wall elitist views, but says she will get private for $300.

Demands to know your real life identiy before agreeing to meet, then wants the $300 cash when you first meet, regardless if anything happens after.

Hard pass.

Plus she's not local. Said she lives an hour and 20 minutes from RIC.

**FarFarAway** · 05-27-18 12:50

Originally Posted by BikeRider [View Original Post]

You can use hangouts. google.com with your GV number as well. It's a slightly nicer interface IMHO.

I can't speak to Epic, but I roll my own VPN with Digital Ocean. Even with a US address, I get blocked by sites that are afraid of being scraped such as Hotel, CL, etc.

So nice to hear from some old bowl buddies again after this pause, like BikeRider.

Another topic of recent interest for me: girls who use phrases like 'don't waste (or "waist" - jeez!) my time'. I was once advised by a bowl mentor out west here that he avoided profiles that have any negativity at all in them. You sometimes see these statements, and to me they are code for GPS. Just like 'I know my worth'. I have gotten into sugar negotiations w / girls in messaging, and when they get pissed off with my offer, I see the 'don't waste my time' comment.

I just have a sense this is related mostly to the $ and not to some of our frustrations on here about time-wasters, such as young ones who are on SA and message, but can never screw up the courage to actually meet.