Rants and Raves

[AceKing88]

In your effort to erase your wife's past you managed to reply to a nearly six month old post and bring everyone's attention to it, well done. I'm legit glad your wife made it out and is clean now, but let's cut the crap.

You're trying to make it sound like she was some innocent babe in the woods and everyone who slept with her was some monster and now she's been traumatized by it. Ok, she may have been.

At the end of the day, no one made her do what she did. She made a choice to sleep with guys to get high. And transferring blame enough to call them monsters is hilarious. Addicts make utterly shit decisions and manipulate and blame other people in order to dodge responsibility and carry on with their bullshit. At some point every addict has to take responsibility for their actions. If you throw chum in the ocean, see fins and then jump in, do you really blame the shark for taking a nibble?

And before you say you don't understand what she went through or what led her to addiction, yes, yes I do. I'm the product of addict parents, was raised in a violently abusive household and went through more shit in my teens and early 20's that led me to fighting addiction well into my 30's. At every step of the way I had options available to me to stop using, the same your wife did. With no money, no job and no insurance, you can be in a treatment program within one to two days in Baltimore and then in recovery houses where you will be basically relearn how to get through the day without shooting dope. And there isn't just one option for this, I can think of about ten programs off the top of my head for this. This doesn't include methadone or Suboxone programs, higher class places if you have insurance or ones that your family could send you to. Every time she got high there was a branch she could have grasped to get herself out. Calling the men she slept with monsters is questionable at best. If we are monsters for funding the addiction, understand an addict will do anything to get high. If she wasn't sucking dicks, she would have been stealing. If you're saying all the men that slept with her were abusive, you're also painting with a pretty broad brush, and it sort of makes her look worse because once again she had every way to get out and chose to associate with the monsters..

I concur on BSW Nikki she just smokes the 420 that's all I don't understand why she out there honestly. There's two chics with pink streaks in there hair on conkling one is Tits she walks with a slight limp she's cool I haven't dated her in years though he twat is mediocre at best. The other pink hair chic is the other Nikki head game is super! Sex is good too she likes to poke. Christina is cool I never had any problems with her. Pr Natalie is nice you have to treat her accordingly she goes all out for me she doesn't come up for air when she's giving me head. She never once rushed me in she's always into it. I guess because I knew her before she became a SW. Natalie was a pretty chic her accent use to be heavier than it is know. She also was on the thick side in her hay day actually a tad bit thinner than thick BSW Nikki. Her cooch stays wet for me in we converse after our sessions. In other news Shannon from Patterson park is now an official Conkling SW her ass is so nice I enjoy looking at the lip tattoo on her ass during our sessions. She is cool too. Also Tiffany that frequents the top of Conkling near Gough st has become a BP Chic. I talked to her yesterday in advised her that I was VIP in wasn't paying those prices she said that was cool. Missing in Action Fee and Lita my favorite snow bunnies on the conkling stroll. As always be safe. FYI be careful by the graveyard doing dates off fayette LE is aware the caught a john and two folks getting high in their truck. they both got arrested so when you guys that pass thru there sees pretty Tammy advise her and Gabby to stop getting high in her car. as always be safe.

[Real Ninja]

In your effort to erase your wife's past you managed to reply to a nearly six month old post and bring everyone's attention to it, well done. I'm legit glad your wife made it out and is clean now, but let's cut the crap.

First of all that was a powerful original post. It is good to hear the stories of the very few survivors who make it out of that life. Having said that we all have to take it with a grain of salt, as there is no real way to verify that this girl has turned her life around, it is possible, that the guy who posted the message is a pimp or a John himself, although it seems unlikely from the quality of the writing, but again nearly impossible to verify. I agree with UMD though, probably shouldn't have posted a reply to an old post. A much more effective course of action would have been to direct message the guy who posted the pics to plead your case without drawing more attention to the situation.

UMD is also right in that you should encourage self respect which starts with accountability, she has to learn to face / accept her past. If she really has become a great person she should cherish her past the good, the bad, and the ugly. If she is still seeking to hide / erase her past she is in danger of committing the same mistakes again. When you are happy with who you have become you realize that you owe it to all the experiences that led you to that point. Especially the painful ones because those are the ones that allow you to grow most as a person.

But what do UMD and I know, we are just monsters, right?

[PellyMason]

To all that replied to this post. It's amazing to me that 1) you keep something that is so old alive. 2) How accurate your information is. While you read this, I hope some of you have a heart. Especially the person that posted the pictures of Bobbie. We all have to protect our identity and keep some things a secret, most people just wouldn't understand.

Bobbie has a beautiful family now. She has cleaned her life up, has a great career, she is well respected at her profession and has two beautiful little girls. I spend hours searching the internet, month after month, year after year trying to clean her past up. Bobbie is not the girl you remember, she is a strong women with her head held high, proud of what she has become. She has done the impossible. She made it out of that lifestyle and is living a full productive life.

So, why should any of you care? I'm hoping that you guys have some honor with you. I'm asking, no I'm begging you. Please remove the pictures of my Wife. I'm so proud of my Wife Bobbie I can't begin to tell you. Those pictures have to be from when she was 24 - 26 years old, She's 35 now and those pictures tarnish her accompliments / achievements. How or what would you do, if the women you loved was posted on here? I'm not mad at Bobbie, I'm not mad at any of you. I'm just trying to protect my Wife, my Family and her career from any embarrassments.

To all the other guys that read this post. Remember what you're about to read. These girls are drug addicts. Most will never make it out of there. Lots of them won't live past 35. They die of drug overdose, they get killed by meeting the wrong person. Not all, but most suffer mental problems later in life. At some point in there life the walls come crashing down and hit bottom. All the good times you think your having with these women are there nightmares later in life.

I can tell when Bobbie is having a bad dream, yes she still has them. It's always the same dream. These dreams aren't about drugs, they aren't about all the close calls she had with dangerous people on the street. There about all you "Johns" out there. These dreams are about the guilt of what she has done for money. So, the next time your with a girl and she tells you how nice you are and how much fun she had, one day you will become the monster in her nightmares.

Like UMDStudent I'm glad your wife turned into a happier life with you. But I also don't understand the logic of drawing attention to an ancient post, or what you're even doing on this forum in the first place. And I doubt that many on this forum have traumatized women in the way you state. There may even be some who have helped girls by sheltering them, getting them into programs, giving them rides to medical appointments, and, yes, sending them money while they're in jail. I'm sorry if you wife had an unpleasant experience, but it doesn't always have to happen. Presumably you won't be reading this reply!

[Essex15]

So, the next time your with a girl and she tells you how nice you are and how much fun she had, one day you will become the monster in her nightmares.

In your effort to erase your wife's past you managed to reply to a nearly six month old post and bring everyone's attention to it, well done. I'm legit glad your wife made it out and is clean now, but let's cut the crap.

You're trying to make it sound like she was some innocent babe in the woods and everyone who slept with her was some monster and now she's been traumatized by it. Ok, she may have been.

At the end of the day, no one made her do what she did. She made a choice to sleep with guys to get high. And transferring blame enough to call them monsters is hilarious. Addicts make utterly shit decisions and manipulate and blame other people in order to dodge responsibility and carry on with their bullshit. At some point every addict has to take responsibility for their actions. If you throw chum in the ocean, see fins and then jump in, do you really blame the shark for taking a nibble?

And before you say you don't understand what she went through or what led her to addiction, yes, yes I do. I'm the product of addict parents, was raised in a violently abusive household and went through more shit in my teens and early 20's that led me to fighting addiction well into my 30's. At every step of the way I had options available to me to stop using, the same your wife did. With no money, no job and no insurance, you can be in a treatment program within one to two days in Baltimore and then in recovery houses where you will be basically relearn how to get through the day without shooting dope. And there isn't just one option for this, I can think of about ten programs off the top of my head for this. This doesn't include methadone or Suboxone programs, higher class places if you have insurance or ones that your family could send you to. Every time she got high there was a branch she could have grasped to get herself out. Calling the men she slept with monsters is questionable at best. If we are monsters for funding the addiction, understand an addict will do anything to get high. If she wasn't sucking dicks, she would have been stealing. If you're saying all the men that slept with her were abusive, you're also painting with a pretty broad brush, and it sort of makes her look worse because once again she had every way to get out and chose to associate with the monsters.

I applaud your wife for making a change and I hope she stays clean, but take it from an addict who's also dated plenty of recovering addicts: Don't do her the disservice of absolving her from her own responsibility in the matter. Learning to be accountable for my actions and their consequences had to be drilled into me, and it's the reason I haven't picked back up.

On to an actual report: Hooked up with Nikki on Conlink. BSW, mid 20's, great tits, great ass, easy to talk to and clean. No obvious signs of drug use in demeanor or body wise. Head game ok, sex is fantastic though. Rates are higher than a regular SW but for the looks and service I'm ok with it.

BSW Michelle on Conklin. Avoid at all costs. Late 30's to 40's, short, 5'3-5'4, seems to have a decent attitude at first. Made the mistake of paying and then she smoked some crack, turned into a nightmare I thought I was going to have to put my hands on her to get out of. Seemed normal at first, 180 when the crack hit.

WSW on Conklin with pink streaks in brown hair. Can't remember her name which is a damn shame, head game was superb and she was rather pleasant.

Puerto Rican Natalie on Conklin. I honestly don't know why she gets so much praise her. She's cute, don't get me wrong but her attitude is ok on a good day, her head game isn't that good and doesn't even pretend to be into it when you fuck her. I've hooked up with her twice, figured the first might have been a bad day. Not a fan.

Crazy Christina on Conklin. WSW, late 20's early 30's, short kind of curly hair, shoulder length, reddish brown, small tits nice ass. Will talk your goddamn ear off. Haven't seen her in a while but she's a blast. Head game is amazing, really gets into the sex, and has this whole kind of crazy hippie vibe that I dig. Just be warned she's a little bit nuts but the pussy is worth it.

[DoorOne]

I don't remember Bobbi every being blonde, but the location and the tattoo match. It's been a long time.

To all that replied to this post. It's amazing to me that 1) you keep something that is so old alive. 2) How accurate your information is. While you read this, I hope some of you have a heart. Especially the person that posted the pictures of Bobbie. We all have to protect our identity and keep some things a secret, most people just wouldn't understand.

Bobbie has a beautiful family now. She has cleaned her life up, has a great career, she is well respected at her profession and has two beautiful little girls. I spend hours searching the internet, month after month, year after year trying to clean her past up. Bobbie is not the girl you remember, she is a strong women with her head held high, proud of what she has become. She has done the impossible. She made it out of that lifestyle and is living a full productive life.

So, why should any of you care? I'm hoping that you guys have some honor with you. I'm asking, no I'm begging you. Please remove the pictures of my Wife. I'm so proud of my Wife Bobbie I can't begin to tell you. Those pictures have to be from when she was 24 - 26 years old, She's 35 now and those pictures tarnish her accompliments / achievements. How or what would you do, if the women you loved was posted on here? I'm not mad at Bobbie, I'm not mad at any of you. I'm just trying to protect my Wife, my Family and her career from any embarrassments.

To all the other guys that read this post. Remember what you're about to read. These girls are drug addicts. Most will never make it out of there. Lots of them won't live past 35. They die of drug overdose, they get killed by meeting the wrong person. Not all, but most suffer mental problems later in life. At some point in there life the walls come crashing down and hit bottom. All the good times you think your having with these women are there nightmares later in life.

I can tell when Bobbie is having a bad dream, yes she still has them. It's always the same dream. These dreams aren't about drugs, they aren't about all the close calls she had with dangerous people on the street. There about all you "Johns" out there. These dreams are about the guilt of what she has done for money. So, the next time your with a girl and she tells you how nice you are and how much fun she had, one day you will become the monster in her nightmares.

[Baltimoronic]

Skin picking and especially face picking in connection with anxiety and drug use, has destroyed the face of one of my ATFs, at least for the time being. It is the saddest thing and it is so self-defeating, because it looks so frightening in public. And all I can come up with is buying her a fidget-spinner.

[OskarM]

I have shared numbers with many, many guys and have never asked for anything in return. Partly because I like finding my own girls. Partly because I like to spread the wealth.

I try to just give out the number, again following the advise of reading the asking person's posts to see what they have been contributing in general. There are times when I think it is appropriate to ask what a person has to trade. There are more than a few mongers that work a number roll. That is they get a number from a generous monger then trade it to the next monger, so on and so forth. CLS finds his own, HoM found his own, Likker found his own. It isn't hard to identify when a person is working a number roll, they will offer a worn path of numbers, photos that are commonly found by reading the forum, etc.

Be careful out there.

[Cls9637]

What is the protocol for sharing information in I'm? I asked cause I asked if I could get a number from a fellow monger and he told me only if I had something to trade. Just wonder if I been doing this wrong as anytime someone needs something I have I gladly provide it unless I don't trust them do to few post or little time on the forum. Just want to know if bartering is the way things are done now?

I didn't move this post to the fight thread because it was argumentative, its a great question and should be asked. However, knowing the disposition of several posters in the Baltimore area I know what's coming.

A2

I have shared numbers with many, many guys and have never asked for anything in return. Partly because I like finding my own girls. Partly because I like to spread the wealth.

[Barraquda22]

The point being I would have fucked anything at that point, even a Big Mac. .

I swear, some days I roll in here just for the laughs hehe.

BQ22.

[Truhersheyman]

What is the protocol for sharing information in I'm? I asked cause I asked if I could get a number from a fellow monger and he told me only if I had something to trade. Just wonder if I been doing this wrong as anytime someone needs something I have I gladly provide it unless I don't trust them do to few post or little time on the forum. Just want to know if bartering is the way things are done now?

I didn't move this post to the fight thread because it was argumentative, its a great question and should be asked. However, knowing the disposition of several posters in the Baltimore area I know what's coming.

A2

I wanted it in SW post to stir the pot. Not to start a fight (why I didn't call him out) but show that we should look out for each other not only look out if there is something to gain. There's a difference in not sharing do to lack of trust and not sharing unless you get something in return. My fear is how many won't share unless they get intel in return and they have intel like STD or rip off and say nothing. Now we have people getting burned and ripped off when it could have been prevented.

[Whistles]

When this happens, or girl is not same as the photos, tell her you left your money in the car, and will grab it, then drive away and block her number. Don't pay for bait and switch.

It's not really the point of my story, but FYI at the Asian orgs (even the better Virginia based ones) you rarely if ever get the girl in the pic, so I wasn't expecting that. I knew going in it would be subpar, the McDonald's of providers. The point being I would have fucked anything at that point, even a Big Mac. .

[Surfing for Fun]

I've tried to share good and bad intel with people, if you're a senior member, there's a better chance I'm sharing and I may take a look at your posts too. I've never shared or posted opportunities just to get info back, but that's just me.

What is the protocol for sharing information in I'm? I asked cause I asked if I could get a number from a fellow monger and he told me only if I had something to trade. Just wonder if I been doing this wrong as anytime someone needs something I have I gladly provide it unless I don't trust them do to few post or little time on the forum. Just want to know if bartering is the way things are done now?

I didn't move this post to the fight thread because it was argumentative, its a great question and should be asked. However, knowing the disposition of several posters in the Baltimore area I know what's coming.

A2

[RichK56]

What is the protocol for sharing information in I'm? I asked cause I asked if I could get a number from a fellow monger and he told me only if I had something to trade. Just wonder if I been doing this wrong as anytime someone needs something I have I gladly provide it unless I don't trust them do to few post or little time on the forum. Just want to know if bartering is the way things are done now?

I didn't move this post to the fight thread because it was argumentative, its a great question and should be asked. However, knowing the disposition of several posters in the Baltimore area I know what's coming.

A2

I'll keep this tame and say it all depends who you ask. Though I know this topic will stir the pot.

[Truhersheyman]

What is the protocol for sharing information in I'm? I asked cause I asked if I could get a number from a fellow monger and he told me only if I had something to trade. Just wonder if I been doing this wrong as anytime someone needs something I have I gladly provide it unless I don't trust them do to few post or little time on the forum. Just want to know if bartering is the way things are done now?

I didn't move this post to the fight thread because it was argumentative, its a great question and should be asked. However, knowing the disposition of several posters in the Baltimore area I know what's coming.

A2

[Jakker]

Partially a rant at myself and partially a warning to fellow mongers.

A very well-reviewed woman visited the area over the past few days. I made an appointment Friday. Her rates are reasonable given her reputation so I went with two hours. There was the usual extensive screening stuff including the (probably fake) persona of an "assistant" sending the emails. I took time off from work, drove out to the suburbs, and twenty minutes before the appointment time she texted to ask if I could do "an hour from now or tomorrow. " I said I could wait and hour but tomorrow was not possible. I went into a restaurant near her hotel to have a drink and wait her out. Then she calls. Her mother had a seizure and she can't do the appointment at all. She offered me a discount on her next visit. (Later she texted "thanks for understanding" and I replied that I hoped her mother was all right. She replied "she's fine. ".

So, you guys know the drill. I started cruising for a backup plan and found an AAMP ad on backpage that sounded a little different from the usual orgs. Called and was given the green light. As soon as she texted the address I knew it was a complex I've been to before. It was one of the usual orgs. But the little head said go forward. Sure enough, for $160 I got the worst toothy covered BJ of my life and a grandma bouncing up and down on my cock. Fuck me.

I've been mongering a long time. But even I can count the number of rookie fucking mistakes I made here. Sometimes you just have to go home and jerk it, fellas.

W.

P.S. Not comfortable outing either the visiting lady or org in public but PM for info.

When this happens, or girl is not same as the photos, tell her you left your money in the car, and will grab it, then drive away and block her number. Don't pay for bait and switch.