The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**Triptogamont** · 09-03-16 22:02

OK, I'm pissed at the quality of BP these days. I'm finally getting into the Sugar Bowl via SA. Many many thanks to those posting here.

So I have a stupid question. What the fuck is up with these girls marking me as one of their favorites when they live in Butt Fuck Egypt? Did I say I was originally from Butt Fuck Egypt? Did I say I was planning to visit Butt Fuck Egypt?

**Bpr8064** · 09-02-16 10:50

Anyone else having trouble with the site? I am getting no traffic and I think it is from my profile not getting switched correctly from invisible to visible. I set up another account to see if I could find me profile and nothing. If anyone else had this problem, were you able to get it fixed?

**Donatello** · 08-28-16 20:49

Welcome to the Bowl. Your experience is quite common, though better than most. Typically you'll find some of the young ladies in our area falling into 4 categories. First are the straight up UTR girls, who quote a price up front and are clear that they work in volume. Next are the GPS girls, who want to commit to one SD but romanticize about finding their "white whale. " After that come the girls like you describe, seemingly sweet and sincere at first, but eventually become demanding and needy wanting large payouts before establishing anything sustainable. The last group are the "unsure what they want" type, who are sometimes looking for change of pace and experiences. For me, these are the most rare and most rewarding. Often they are cool girls who are just fun to hang with, that also become strong contenders for FWB kind of friends, while only needing essentials. Read this board and also the SugarBaby board in Richmond, and you'll get a bunch of valuable insight. Much like the young babies we chase, we are also required to do some homework to succeed! LOL.

Best of luck to you, and please share your experiences here if you have anything you feel is helpful.

Originally Posted by Ral613 [View Original Post]

I'm testing the waters in the Sugar Bowl, have had pretty early success and now I'm wondering if there are others who have seen a similar pattern in an SB. Cute, white, seems to have her shit together. No discussion of specific amounts at first, but now looking for financial help with some specific procedures. If you had something similar happen, PM me and lets compare notes.

**Ral613** · 08-25-16 19:05

I'm testing the waters in the Sugar Bowl, have had pretty early success and now I'm wondering if there are others who have seen a similar pattern in an SB. Cute, white, seems to have her shit together. No discussion of specific amounts at first, but now looking for financial help with some specific procedures. If you had something similar happen, PM me and lets compare notes.

**YayaGogo** · 08-05-16 09:55

Originally Posted by Triptogamont [View Original Post]

Just curious. Thinking about joining this scene and doing some research. Do you usually get a hotel? Back to her place? I'm not interested in bringing an SB home.

For various reasons, IMO you should never bring a SB to your place until you are well into the relationship and trust has been built. I use hotels (use points to pay or use cc with online pay that SO doesn't know about) or preferably just go to their place. Always be safe!

**Thresh** · 08-05-16 08:14

I use hotels exclusively. Nothing overly fancy and I always pay in cash. There are times (once they are comfortable with me) where I will go to their place. This can be a beneficial as well since most usually have roommates who are intrigued by what's going on.

Cheers: Thresh.

Originally Posted by Triptogamont [View Original Post]

Just curious. Thinking about joining this scene and doing some research. Do you usually get a hotel? Back to her place? I'm not interested in bringing an SB home.

**Triptogamont** · 08-04-16 23:58

Just curious. Thinking about joining this scene and doing some research. Do you usually get a hotel? Back to her place? I'm not interested in bringing an SB home.

**JustFunCoastal** · 07-23-16 07:53

IF you put in the time and effort. There are so many beautiful women to choose from on SA and most are in the 20-30 yr range. I will caution all forum readers that it is a more costly way to approach this world but the quality is far superior. I've actually met some really cool chicks on there as well and have maintained friendships with many. So if you're inclined to spend the time and can part with a larger wallet share, then I would say go for it! It's about all I use these days.

**Dsrtp1** · 07-21-16 18:06

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...f-7a348c8b5e3a

She's been discussed in detail on the b / p thread. Alana, Val, Valencia and I forget the other names she's used. I saw her a few years ago and wrote a review on the backpage thread but figured I try contacting thru Sa to see if anything would be different and I promised myself I would not bareback her. $ $ was agreed. We meet and she recognized me. So much for not barebacking her. I'm so weak. She loves to get fucked in the ass too. And no, she's 100% woman. I don't care what others have reported. Good news is I've been tested and I'm still clean. I'm not doing BBFS anymore. Well maybe on certain special occasions when it feels right, haha.

**Dsrtp1** · 07-21-16 17:42

And requires a lot of time, however, every once in a while you hit a grand slam. I found a bareback full service cum in pussy with a cute woman that hosts in her apartment in Raleigh for $ $ $. I'll be glad to share with certain senior members. Maybe, haha. Depending on what kind of info you've helped me out with in the past or you're currently willing to share. Everyone on here is holding back on something.

**Svt4628** · 07-20-16 15:54

Originally Posted by Dsrtp1 [View Original Post]

How much did it cost you for each?

The one in stripes will visit for 5.

**YayaGogo** · 07-20-16 15:17

Originally Posted by Brneyehound [View Original Post]

Thresh could you elaborate a little more on your pic? Not trying to get you to send it to me but this is my biggest concern with the SD scene. I cannot afford to get caught up.

Just pay to join, which won't require you to post a pic to message girls. I have pictures that semi clearly show my face set to private, which only SB's you select get to see. You'll find that many girls won't even agree to meet you unless they can see some pictures first (just as we wouldn't). Don't get hung up on the pictures though, a well written profile and decent messaging skills are much more important to getting the girls interested in my opinion. Good luck!

**John HandCock** · 07-19-16 21:41

Originally Posted by Brneyehound [View Original Post]

Thresh could you elaborate a little more on your pic? Not trying to get you to send it to me but this is my biggest concern with the SD scene. I cannot afford to get caught up.

If your joining you don't need a pic, just make a good profile as to what your expecting or looking for in detail. . Saves alot of worry for you guys that can't afford to get caught up.

**Brneyehound** · 07-19-16 20:41

Originally Posted by Thresh [View Original Post]

DYoung,

I believe the trial will allow you 10 (ten) correspondences if you upload a primary photo to your profile. Without a primary photo you will not be able to use the messaging system. You can become a premium member and avoid the primary photo all together. I am married as well and uploaded a fairly creative pic that gets quite a bit of attention but doesn't reveal anything facial features.

Cheers: Thresh.

Thresh could you elaborate a little more on your pic? Not trying to get you to send it to me but this is my biggest concern with the SD scene. I cannot afford to get caught up.

**GaltGuy** · 07-19-16 14:17

Originally Posted by EcuGuy74 [View Original Post]

She was one of my first meet and greets. She is pretty, older than her listing states. We seemed to have good communication but then she backed off (cold feet? When I asked to meet her again. But she is nice. I tried a couple more times, but no response.

Ecuguy, you have a PM. How long ago was your meet / greet?