The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**EcuGuy74** · 07-19-16 13:48

She was one of my first meet and greets. She is pretty, older than her listing states. We seemed to have good communication but then she backed off (cold feet? When I asked to meet her again. But she is nice. I tried a couple more times, but no response.

Originally Posted by GaltGuy [View Original Post]

Does anyone have information about, or experience with, Free Spirit Gal?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...1-92f2039c7540

**GaltGuy** · 07-19-16 13:25

Does anyone have information about, or experience with, Free Spirit Gal?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...1-92f2039c7540

**Robert1744** · 07-17-16 09:51

I alluded to my experience on SA a few months ago in another thread, but now that we have a thread for this stuff I wanted to chime in here.

I've had a couple of great, holy grail type of experiences, a lot of time and effort and some lessons learned. So the results have been mixed.

The holy grails were two different encounters with 19 year olds that I would have never landed or had a chance at otherwise. At the age of 47, to get a GFE from a 19 year old is amazing. The pussy is still tight. And I was able to get it for about $150 a pop, plus a couple of lunch dates.

But it did take a good deal of time and effort to find what I was seeking. The reason SA appealed to me is that I really, really need the GFE to enjoy it and get off. I don't care that it's not real, or they may be faking it, I at least need the illusion. And that is rare to find in the escort world. But it is all over SA and similar sites. There are a good number of girls who are basically escorts and you can weed them out right away because they go straight to the money. The other difficulty is finding girls who aren't flakes and can communicate. Granted, some of that is their age and station in life, but when every other word is "like," and you can't converse about anything beyond current pop culture, it's hard to make the connection.

I got scammed once. I took this girl out 2-3 times and liked her a lot. We agreed on an allowance and as soon as I paid the first time she ghosted me and I never heard from her again. In hindsight, I screwed up by not totally locking down her I'd. None of her story quite added up and I just let me little head think too much. If these girls are legit and want to date you, they will totally let you know who they are.

The other big lesson learned is that these girls do develop some level of legitimate feelings and affection for you. I "broke up" with one of the girls because the sex was a little mechanical and not a GFE. She told me that she was getting there but it takes awhile, and then she chastised me for just wanting her for one thing. In a way she has a point. Yes, we're all there for one thing, but if we're going to have a more personal connection, then we can also do things with our clothes on. So I learned a lesson in 20-something emotional management.

I am semi-retired right now, but plan on getting back in the game soon. There's too much benefit not to.

**GetControl** · 07-11-16 13:46

Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]

SA has been recommended a few times, as a place to find UTR girls, and I just wanted to confirm that it does work well.

I signed up for one month (not particularly cheap, at $69), did a few searches, contacted several girls, I was even approached by a few, and I'm happy to reply that I'm satisfied enough to recommend this approach.

You will need to be careful and weed out some troublemakers (a couple of them started right away with excuses like needing to pay the car before they take it away, etc), but with some patience you will be able to find whatever floats your boat: young college coeds, middle age MILFs, etc. Personally, I found a great woman in her 40's, married and playing on the side. I just bring her something nice, rather than cash, when we meet.

Another observation: the younger ones are more likely to be in it for the money, middle aged for the thrills after missing something at home.

Good luck!

Making sure these tips got into this thread.

**Dsrtp1** · 07-06-16 06:55

Originally Posted by Raltime [View Original Post]

If you want to meet 2 really sweet girls that just like to have a good time. Ask them both to come to Raleigh and they will. They will come to Raleigh as a pair!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...8-fe12d6fc8ce7

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-fcceaef5d3e0

How much did it cost you for each?

**Donatello** · 07-05-16 23:02

Originally Posted by PghGuy2005 [View Original Post]

BTW I am not in one of the major racial groups and if most SBs do not date outside their race then I have a very small bowl to play in!

For what it's worth, I haven't found many POTs that restrict their options by race. In fact most of my best encounters have been outside my own race. A veritable melting pot. I guess that makes me a True American!

**PghGuy2005** · 07-05-16 18:44

Originally Posted by YayaGogo [View Original Post]

I find out their availability when proposing an initial daytime meet for lunch or coffee, and discuss my time limitations during that meet. Because of this I can only imagine whatever problem you are having is due to some other factor, and not your daytime availability. Keep at it!

It appears you do not mention your availability in the first message unlike me who asks about their availability during the day in the first message! Alright hence forth there will be no mention of my availability until the M&G. BTW I am not in one of the major racial groups and if most SBs do not date outside their race then I have a very small bowl to play in!

**Donatello** · 07-04-16 22:37

Agree 100%.

CL was great back in the day. In the Sugar Bowl it's hard to find the 100 set unless they are just nymphos or UTR newbies. Around here 2 is more likely. Just watch out for the GPS gals. They have to be "broken" since they are always looking for the "white whale" guys. Best of luck!

Originally Posted by Amateur11 [View Original Post]

This is a long time coming, and probably should have looked into this at least a year ago. Is the Dunn girl 20? If so, I've talked to her and she is next on my list. What I've learned about SD sites from these posts makes me think CL ca 2007, back when you could find normal college girls for $100 all day long. If that's the case, they can go ahead and shut BP down tomorrow for all I care.

**Amateur11** · 07-04-16 19:55

Originally Posted by MbncMar [View Original Post]

Seeking fun in Dunn and Tristan will do a 3 some. It was great. Seeking fun has a tight body and not tits but has oral skills. Trisatan is nerdy with an amazing body and not orally inclined. I stacked them up and banged both. It was awesome.

This is a long time coming, and probably should have looked into this at least a year ago. Is the Dunn girl 20? If so, I've talked to her and she is next on my list. What I've learned about SD sites from these posts makes me think CL ca 2007, back when you could find normal college girls for $100 all day long. If that's the case, they can go ahead and shut BP down tomorrow for all I care.

**Raltime** · 07-03-16 18:45

If you want to meet 2 really sweet girls that just like to have a good time. Ask them both to come to Raleigh and they will. They will come to Raleigh as a pair!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...8-fe12d6fc8ce7

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-fcceaef5d3e0

**John HandCock** · 06-29-16 08:54

Originally Posted by Emeralddragon6 [View Original Post]

Hi all. I am dropping the BP game and looking to get into the SD area. I was curious which site would be best to start with. I have looked at wyp, sd4 me and sa but not sure which would be legit and best to drop the cash to.

SA hands down. If you decide on SD4 ME use prepaid card as the auto renew till your dead LOL.

**Emeralddragon6** · 06-29-16 08:13

Hi all. I am dropping the BP game and looking to get into the SD area. I was curious which site would be best to start with. I have looked at wyp, sd4 me and sa but not sure which would be legit and best to drop the cash to.

**YayaGogo** · 06-28-16 16:47

Originally Posted by PghGuy2005 [View Original Post]

I have the constraint of being able to play only during the day as I am alone only when at work! And I state the requirement of day time availability only up front. Do you indicate your availability in the first message to POTs? I have gotten very few responses from SBs of any age / race and the ones who responded each one suggested the first meeting in FC and along with their expectation $ and the ones who do not give their expectation $ in their response readily do once I ask them. So it is basically mongering except off a different site!

Your experience is very different from mine may be the reason is once I indicate day time meeting only all SBs assume that I am interested only in FC as a result only the escorts respond!

Like you, I am available daytimes, but have rarely had a problem meeting because of that. Only in the case of fully employed women that work M-F 9-5 (which isn't the traditional SB). I find out their availability when proposing an initial daytime meet for lunch or coffee, and discuss my time limitations during that meet. Because of this I can only imagine whatever problem you are having is due to some other factor, and not your daytime availability. Keep at it!

**Thresh** · 06-28-16 08:19

Originally Posted by EcuGuy74 [View Original Post]

I can't for the life of me figure out what POT and FC mean. Help!

BCG. Booty call girl.

Bowl. Short for "Sugar Bowl".

FC. Fuck Chamber.

GPS. Golden Pussy Syndrome.

HCB -. Hot College Babe.

HYB. Hot young babe.

M&G. Meet and greet.

Nando 1 - lowest level girl with a lot of drama.

POT. A potential SB.

SA - seekingarrangement.com.

SD4 M - sugardaddyforme.com.

SO. Significant other.

UTR. Under the radar (a pro on the down low).

Cheers: Thresh.