"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Ltnric** · 01-31-15 14:54

So I had scheduled two meet and greets today one was 20 and the other 22. Both of them canceled. The 20 year old just never called back after we both had agreed to day, time and location. The 22 year old suddenly remembered that she had to work. Don't they know that they are only wasting their own time! Stupid young kids!

**LandonR** · 01-31-15 14:03

Gentleman, it's time to pack up shop and close the doors. Games over. HollywoodGuy has discovered SA. We're all done.

**PghGuy2005** · 01-31-15 12:55

Originally Posted by LandonR [View Original Post]

When I've provided sugar to the ladies I typically wait until we are both getting dressed or she's getting ready to leave and I find her purse and just put money in it and tell her "I left you some gas / spending / shopping / grocery / etc money in your pure".

Doesn't make it as awkward.

That was very helpful.

**PghGuy2005** · 01-31-15 12:53

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

Message 1 - send me an email.

REPLY: emails me to say hi and sends her pics (never ask for them if you can avoid it).

Message 2 - three reasons to be an SB.

REPLY: I really am looking for all three. I have always liked older guys and just need help during school too. You seem like a nice guy! What ru up to?

Message 3 - prequalify the donation amount.

REPLY: I'm not greedy. I am looking for more than just money. I think that would be fine. You seem like a sweet guy who just needs a younger girl to be with _.

Message 4 - give the donation amount.

REPLY: Ya that makes sense well I think your handsome and would love to hang out sometime.

If they reply with an outsized donation amount. Go silent or just say "Sorry babe, but you are out of my league". The honesty will be appreciated as you did not waste their time. This one is white, 18 and from a pac-12 university. About a 7 all around.

I have messaged about 10 on SA who are less than half my age! Just one "not interested" reply others are silent. This is making me think if I should just give up on the young ones. Maybe they think a guy old enough to be their father / grandpa must be a pervert.

Also I am in the SouthEast and not white wonder what impact it has on SBs even considering me May be I will try some more until the SA membership expires.

**HollywoodGuy** · 01-31-15 00:49

Message 1 - send me an email.

REPLY: emails me to say hi and sends her pics (never ask for them if you can avoid it).

Message 2 - three reasons to be an SB.

REPLY: I really am looking for all three. I have always liked older guys and just need help during school too. You seem like a nice guy! What ru up to?

Message 3 - prequalify the donation amount.

REPLY: I'm not greedy. I am looking for more than just money. I think that would be fine. You seem like a sweet guy who just needs a younger girl to be with _.

Message 4 - give the donation amount.

REPLY: Ya that makes sense well I think your handsome and would love to hang out sometime.

If they reply with an outsized donation amount. Go silent or just say "Sorry babe, but you are out of my league". The honesty will be appreciated as you did not waste their time. This one is white, 18 and from a pac-12 university. About a 7 all around.

**HollywoodGuy** · 01-30-15 23:55

CHANGE THIS:

But if you want to take less to be with a more chill, better looking guy (for my age that is) then we might be able to make it work.

TO THIS:

But if you are willing to take less to be with a more chill, better looking guy (for my age that is) then we might be able to make it work.

**Bastardo** · 01-30-15 23:41

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

Reading all the newbie questions on here got me to thinking about a copy and paste easy way to get past the donation discussion, while still getting it on the table. Because I hate endless messages going back and forth. Since I have been on SA I have taken a more casual and less direct approach. I figure if the girls on SD4 M want to swim with the UTR's and pros then they can handle a rougher approach. But the girls on SA seem a bit more refined. So far I am only messaging the 18 year olds until I have thoroughly exhausted the pool. So anyway, here it is. With some slight modifications this could work for anyone. New or experienced. I will include an actual response from a POT I messaged today. She is 18 and about an 8 all around.

Haha. So I check in here, see this post, and immediately use it on a 20 yr old blonde that just favorited me. Worked like a charm LOL.

I haven't posted here in a while, just lurking since I recently re-entered the game. I had a wild year and a half ride with the very first girl I met on SA, damn near left my SO for her. Anyway, someday I'll tell the story.

**HollywoodGuy** · 01-30-15 22:56

Reading all the newbie questions on here got me to thinking about a copy and paste easy way to get past the donation discussion, while still getting it on the table. Because I hate endless messages going back and forth. Since I have been on SA I have taken a more casual and less direct approach. I figure if the girls on SD4 M want to swim with the UTR's and pros then they can handle a rougher approach. But the girls on SA seem a bit more refined. So far I am only messaging the 18 year olds until I have thoroughly exhausted the pool. So anyway, here it is. With some slight modifications this could work for anyone. New or experienced. I will include an actual response from a POT I messaged today. She is 18 and about an 8 all around.

Message 1 - me initiating contact. But even if they initiate, you could respond with this.
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After reading my profile if you want to know more, then email me at XXX.

Just lmk its you by your profile name.

I do prefer a per meeting arrangement to start. If you could let me know what your expectation$ are that would be great.

HER REPLY: Hey it's XXX, my username is XXX, .
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Message 2 - you've seen it before, but its slightly more refined.

Hi. Every girl on here is looking for 3 things to varying degrees.

1 - financial support.

2 - physical support.

3 - emotional support.

The greater the need for one reason the less attention is paid to the others.

I try to provide a balance between all three reasons as a basis to meet someone. I spend enough money to say I am not trying to get something for nothing. I need real chemistry (as I am a very bad faker). And I have an understanding and giving nature combined with years of experience in taking care of girls and anticipating their needs.

I don't judge what anyone wants and I don't pretend to be able to meet everyones expectations. I use SA as more of a regular dating site but to meet younger girls that want some help with their bills, have sexual needs and fantasies that can be spontaneously explored in a safe and nurturing environment, and with someone that could be a real friend even if its mostly for the financial and physical benefits. But a friend nonetheless.

Whats your motivation?

Number 1, 2 or 3?

HER REPLY: I understand everything you were talking about and couldn't agree more, I think we would have tons of fun.
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Message 3.

I mean is it number 1, 2 or 3. Or all 3?

Are you looking for the highest bidder? Because If you're going for top dollar, that won't be me. That would be some less attractive, needy guy. And you will get offers of 200 to 300 a date (lots of them). And you'll probably need that just to tolerate them.

But if you want to take less to be with a more chill, better looking guy (for my age that is) then we might be able to make it work.

HER REPLY: Oh, well in my opinion I think I'm looking for all 3 .
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Message 4.

Thats normally the type of girl I date. I pay $100 a date. Which won't cover any ones lifestyle. But it does add up. I need to have a real connection with the person I am with. Like real chemistry. Otherwise what's the point?

I understand some girls will just date anyone if they pay enough. And I don't judge. I just know that for $100 the girl has to like me. At $300 I would never know if it was me or the cash. Does that make sense?
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In this case it led to her wanting a M&G. But if there was no reply, then no problem, on to the next one. If this gets one guy laid one time for a $ it was worth posting. But adjust the numbers to your strategy. I am looking for regulars. Some guys are happy to pay more to get better looking girls or get a higher closing rate. A lot of guys dont want regulars or only date randomly so qualifying on price may not be that important. I will still be sending a sexually explicit message to her to fully clarify what is expected to start an arrangement. I am not giving up that bit of txt as it is specific to me. Just create your own and happy hunting.

**LandonR** · 01-30-15 22:26

Originally Posted by PghGuy2005 [View Original Post]

I read that you guys pay the SBs by slipping the cash in their purse etc When you do that for the first time after FC do you tell them or give any hint? Otherwise they will be walking out thinking that all they got was a good time.

When I've provided sugar to the ladies I typically wait until we are both getting dressed or she's getting ready to leave and I find her purse and just put money in it and tell her "I left you some gas / spending / shopping / grocery / etc money in your pure".

Doesn't make it as awkward.

**Walruscl** · 01-30-15 21:52

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

Depending on their age they may prefer the car. Backseat, front seat on the hood, leaning against the side. Lots of options. Girls love that kinda stuff. Spontaneous. Adventurous. Dangerous. In the UK they call dogging. Very popular.

This. While I think my SB probably doesn't prefer a car, at least partly because it's been clear from day one that I'm more comfortable with more private accommodations, we've had some really wild times when a car date was the only option. One of the more magical things on this adventure-rewinding the clock to relive the youth I never had.

**HollywoodGuy** · 01-30-15 20:49

Originally Posted by PghGuy2005 [View Original Post]

Do SBs (non-GPS) generally don't care about the hotel? Or do they create a scene.

Depending on their age they may prefer the car. Backseat, front seat on the hood, leaning against the side. Lots of options. Girls love that kinda stuff. Spontaneous. Adventurous. Dangerous. In the UK they call dogging. Very popular.

**PghGuy2005** · 01-30-15 19:57

Do SBs (non-GPS) generally don't care about the hotel? Or do they create a scene.

**PghGuy2005** · 01-30-15 19:53

Originally Posted by FyrGuy33 [View Original Post]

Having been a traveling sales rep for 37 years, my experience has been that all the major hotels require you to show picture I'd these days. There are still some inexpensive motels that still do not require any I'd so you can put anything you want on the registration.

Thanks guys. I was able to get a room at Red Roof Inn under an alias and paid with a Vanilla prepaid credit card under the same name. At checkin I gave the alias to locate the reservation but showed my real I'd saying that a friend made the reservation!

Don't know if this will work at a higher end hotel but then again I don't think I will be going to such a place to get a room for a couple of hours.

**PghGuy2005** · 01-30-15 19:45

I read that you guys pay the SBs by slipping the cash in their purse etc When you do that for the first time after FC do you tell them or give any hint? Otherwise they will be walking out thinking that all they got was a good time.

**Donwhite** · 01-30-15 19:44

The dry spell is over, but have you ever hooked up with a SB and then found her on the front page of TheDirty.com? I just did. Well at least I got six rounds in 24 hours to drain the toxins out of my body LOL. It was a great session though. She broke out two new moves this time titty fucking and she would get in reverse cowgirl and instead of inserting me in her pussy, she would rub her ass up and down my member. It was fun.