"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[HollywoodGuy]

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[HollywoodGuy]

I guess POF isn't filtering out the obvious pros. LOL.

Creampiekim_2: I love to get a deep creampie.

Don't hit me up if you are not ready to go.

I love to suck*and ball and ride a big*until it cum to book me its 15 before I leave my house and 50 dollar when I get to your house its for 1 hour please have your address and cell # ready if your not bookin me today do not message me please don not message me for convo you will get no reply thanks now let me come milk you.

[Orbits]

I have not, nor will I ever bring a sb home. I know more seasoned veterans like hwg have the ability to pull this off. For me, I have had too many experiences where a jilted past girlfriend end up showing up randomly at my doorstep at the most inappropriate time. Besides my SO probably wouldn't approve.
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Hey everyone, long time reader, first time poster in this thread. I'm not much of a SA veteran, only about a year and a half of experience there. But my take on bringing them home is that it can work just fine. I have no problem doing that myself, have been for about a year now without trouble of any kind. Being single helps though, and so does a rather "spartan" lifestyle (I'm really not worth robbing, not for anyone with even a milligram of common sense. No easy to sell valuable stuff around my place. Heck, if anyone steals my TV, I'll give them a bonus for hauling that POS out of here so I can finally justify getting a new one to myself). Risk factors vary though, so it's best to use your own judgement. And I always do a very thorough "sanity screening" before meeting them. If there is drama of any kind, or she sounds weird, or crazy, or just really stupid, I pass and move on to the next prospect.

[FredMoore]

I have more success taking a girl to dinner, drinks, then back to my crib. I 've had no success doing the Starbucks dance (except once) . It is impossible for them to resist once I get them in my locked and gated apartment which they had to enter by walking past the hot tub and heated pool in the garden. If they are of age it doesn't hurt to get a few drinks into them to loosen their resistance a bit. In my FC I have found most teens do not want a drink anyway, which suits me. Soft music, a slow dance around the room, and a hand or leg massage while sitting on the sofa talking about -well -homework and english class -LOL-does wonders. It is cheaper and less risk of an angry parent tracking you down for feeding their baby alcohol. The girls don't seem to be inclined to tell the parents about taking money for sex but etoh on the breath is a tell tale. Semen is a lot harder to whiff on their kid.

A downer re: teens. In my area a lot of the 18 to 20 yr olds state "no sex" on their profile and aothers have taken their profiles down fairly quickly after some promising texting. BAM! Out of the blue they are gone. Maybe one of my brothers locked them down and the star struck SB took herself off the market. Or more likely, they found they just couldn't do it.

[HollywoodGuy]

Their email filter expires after a week or so. Or maybe it's after you send a certain number of messages? I'm not sure, but it's in place to combat spam and it will be lifted soon if you stay on the site. Are you doing this for sugar dating or "normal" dating?

Sugar Dating. I already found 3 girls from SD4 M on there. One is a girl I dated and one is a very expensive pro that turned me down in the past. But there are a lot of cute girls. Well maybe not as many as SD4 M but some. I just want to see if I can get an NP first timer off of there.

[IluvSmellyFish]

Welcome! I am sure the other members of this board can provide more, but here is my 2 cents:

In my few weeks in the bowl, I use certain sites like hotels.com and priceline to keep hotel costs down. At first my sbs seem to have needed nicer places to get them to the FC, but once they are comfotable and understand that I am more generous with them if they are willing to spend our private time at a lower end place, they quickly become ok with rooms at the lower end places. Plus when you establish trust tat an sb won't flake, you can use the "name your own price" feature on priceline for extra savings. Thank you Capt kirk! Hotels. Com gives you a night free for every ten nights booked.

Also because I take out the cost of the hotel from the sbs per date allowance, they often quickly find ways to send the kids to grandmas or find date times when their roomate is not in the dorm. More for them and less for me: the depending on how much I like an sb, she will get all of what I saved or I might split the difference.

Coffee is overrated, but a great way to tell if the sb posted pics that were from 20 lbs and 10 years ago. I prefer not standing up a girl (since I have no idea if she is communicating with other girls who might also be on the sites I am on, and if so, would hate to develop a reputation that might prevent me from meeting someone that I do want to add to my rotation). There have been two occassions where I skipped the coffee and went straight to a light meal with a pot at her request, and when I saw them, wanted to keep walking. Instead I ended up taking them out and wasting money that could have been better spent on a hotel.

I have found that my sweet spot is meeting for drinks at a bar for happy hour. If I click with a girl, there are cheap drinks early on and its easy to suggest going from drinks to a meal. The problem here is if your sb pot is 18-20. That is why I like sticking with coffee, even though its overrated.

As others have posted, best to be direct up front (at least in the dc MD VA area where I tend to frequent). It eliminates a lot of free meals and drinks. I'd rather not get to date five without ever having visited the FC. If that's what I was looking for, I'd be on match.com or eharmony or whatever. While some profiles list that the girl doesn't want to be propositioned like that, I've found that it helps weed out the field. Besides if they were looking for a different kind of relationship, they should be on match, or eharmony or whatever.

I have not, nor will I ever bring a sb home. I know more seasoned veterans like hwg have the ability to pull this off. For me, I have had too many experiences where a jilted past girlfriend end up showing up randomly at my doorstep at the most inappropriate time. Besides my SO probably wouldn't approve.

Good luck, and welcome to the bowl. Get ready for the ride of your life (figuratively and literally).

Long time lurker of this website, I have a pretty secure (vinyl windows, security gate, etc.) crib and am working on making it crazy-proof I. E *****-proof. Does anyone ever bring them to one's house or should you only

I'm excited to go for this in 2015, so any advice is appreciated. I can help answer any questions to those that help about LV. I've been more of a strip club and AMP guy, but it's time for something new. Thanks in advance!

[DogSun]

So I now have my POF profile stating that I am 25 and I have a real and recent pic posted. I already got 4 girls "that want to meet you". I guess they read the profiles more than look at pics. So. POF will not allow me to give them my email address in the message. So I sent the first cute girl my cel #.

Their filters are lame. I tried to send her my email address, but got an error message saying you cant do that.

So I broke it up as "name at out look dot com" and it went through. Ridiculous.

Their email filter expires after a week or so. Or maybe it's after you send a certain number of messages? I'm not sure, but it's in place to combat spam and it will be lifted soon if you stay on the site. Are you doing this for sugar dating or "normal" dating?

[HollywoodGuy]

So I now have my POF profile stating that I am 25 and I have a real and recent pic posted. I already got 4 girls "that want to meet you". I guess they read the profiles more than look at pics. So. POF will not allow me to give them my email address in the message. So I sent the first cute girl my cel #.

Their filters are lame. I tried to send her my email address, but got an error message saying you cant do that.

So I broke it up as "name at out look dot com" and it went through. Ridiculous.

[TacoLover23]

Long time lurker of this website, 1st time poster. I stumbled upon this thread the other day and am hooked. Hooked because my initial experience with a SB occurred while I was on a date with someone I'd met on a conventional dating website, and we met her male friend up who was meeting one of his SBs. I was fascinated. So much so that the SB hated me because I couldn't stop staring and giggling. Little did my then-quasi-conventional girlfriend know, I singed up to SA the next day to browse. This was about 2 years ago. The SB was pretty hot. My GF had a better face but the SB body was banging and she had that sex-appeal. After consideration, I signed up to SA a few months ago, after realizing hot, 'normal' single woman are the same thing but just not honest about it (at least where I live in a city where it's all about appearance.) I've been watching from the sidelines mostly, a little too apprehensive to meet. So I haven't popped my SA / SB cherry. Valuing my privacy and peace of mind is important to me. I just want the occasional stick and go but one in which both parties may genuinely appreciate and like each other and without any clock-watching (which is why I'm not and have never been into CGs.) So I have a couple of questions for you pros if you wouldn't mind answering as you've been most helpful (I'm only on page 10 on this most useful thread.).

I have a pretty secure (vinyl windows, security gate, etc.) crib and am working on making it crazy-proof I. E *****-proof. Does anyone ever bring them to one's house or should you only go the hotel route? Of course I would only consider that after they are trusted as a regular or after a M&G where the rules are readily agreed to? If hotels are consistently involved, I have to reevaluate finances as they are not cheap where I live and maybe I need to figure out a deal with a consistent purveyor or pony up for a cheap, furnished pad.

Is there anything special in the profile that I should use? I put that I'm not seeking a normal arrangement. Mostly because I think that intruiges them. Then I state that we'll probably get bored of each other after a few months as is human nature, which is my future out.

If I was to M&G for the first time, what is recommended? Coffee seems to be overrated. Time span of M&G? Seems like a tapas bar is appropriate so I can tell if the chick has basic manners and has some decent taste?

Finally, are there any tips or giveaways besides 'batshit crazy' that would dissuade one?

I'm excited to go for this in 2015, so any advice is appreciated. I can help answer any questions to those that help about LV. I've been more of a strip club and AMP guy, but it's time for something new. Thanks in advance!

[HollywoodGuy]

Due to my age I was restricted to a menu of Granny type women. I'm not ready to die yet so I canceled. HG you are on another level so you may find a way to circumvent the age issue.

At the higher ages they seem to have a 14 year spread. So at 60 I can date 46 year olds.

But their algorithm is as follows at the lower ages. Your age/2 + 7 years.

So now I am 25.

25/2 = 12.5 + 7 = 19.5.

But I guess they fudge it slightly because I can now message the 18 year olds.

And lots of them are obviously looking for SD's right in their profile. Some are obvious pros. I hear you can get kicked out if they catch you so I am gonna try to do this low key and see what happens.

[Rouleur]

I signed up to POF before realizing they have an age restriction algorithm built into the site.

Anyone here a member of POF and successfully working around that?

Or should I just charge it back?

Due to my age I was restricted to a menu of Granny type women. I'm not ready to die yet so I canceled. HG you are on another level so you may find a way to circumvent the age issue.

[HollywoodGuy]

I signed up to POF before realizing they have an age restriction algorithm built into the site.

Anyone here a member of POF and successfully working around that?

Or should I just charge it back?

[IluvSmellyFish]

Yep, I heard that song the other day as well. Turns our that it is sung by none other than Taylor Swift.

80% of the girls on the SD sites today and tomorrow (and every Friday night) will be UTR or Pro. Lets all look forward to a great new year. This thread is the definitive guide to sugar dating for the common man. Any rich guy can wave thousand dollar bills and get pussy.

Like the girl on the radio sings "I love the players and you love the game".

Sounds like an experienced SB to me.

[Bowtie]

HWG, I took the liberty of "borrowing" some of your points a couple of months ago as I agree with them. I didn't put it in my postings however I do use it in the intro letter. It has weeded out some pros, but landed a very good 29 yo UTR spinner (my ATF, and probably be the death of me), and 2 nice SB's (21 yo spinner that is flawless but needs some training, and a 29 yo MILF spinner). I appreciate your input to the forum, I've been silently following about a year now. After getting ripped off a couple of times due to being an ill informed dumbass, I found this forum, and now I'm hooked! Learning every day. Challenge for me is time, 50+hr per week woking, SO, plus 3 babies can be a bit of a challenge at times! Thanks to all on here for the great reading, ill chime in every now and again.

Bowtie.

I resubmit this as a pre-screening intro message. I don't really use this anymore as I have a more nuanced intro letter tailored to my specific needs and personality. Although this is me in a generic way.

"Hi. Every girl on here is looking for 3 things to varying degrees.

1 - financial support.

2 - physical support.

3 - emotional support.

The greater the need for reason 1, the less attention is paid to reasons 2 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 2, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 3, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 2.

I try to provide a balance between all three reasons as a basis to meet someone. Enough money to say I am not trying to get something for nothing. Real Chemistry. And I also have an understanding and giving nature combined with years of experience in taking care of girls and anticipating their needs.

I don't judge what anyone wants and I don't pretend to be able to meet everyones expectations. I use SD4M as more of a regular dating site but to meet younger girls that want some help with their bills, have sexual needs and fantasies that can be spontaneously explored in a safe and nurturing environment, and with someone that could be a real friend even if its mostly for the financial and physical benefits. But a friend nonetheless.

Whats your motivation?"

I have noticed that talking about money appears to be difficult for some SD's. This letter will help get the conversation going but will still require a lot of follow up. In my letter I clearly state what I am willing to pay to get started. But I have a lot of girls in my area and dont care if most of them blow me off. Your area may require a little more cultivation or grooming upfront so as not to lose out due to the limited number of prospects.

[HollywoodGuy]

I resubmit this as a pre-screening intro message. I don't really use this anymore as I have a more nuanced intro letter tailored to my specific needs and personality. Although this is me in a generic way.

"Hi. Every girl on here is looking for 3 things to varying degrees.

1 - financial support.

2 - physical support.

3 - emotional support.

The greater the need for reason 1, the less attention is paid to reasons 2 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 2, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 3, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 2.

I try to provide a balance between all three reasons as a basis to meet someone. Enough money to say I am not trying to get something for nothing. Real Chemistry. And I also have an understanding and giving nature combined with years of experience in taking care of girls and anticipating their needs.

I don't judge what anyone wants and I don't pretend to be able to meet everyones expectations. I use SD4M as more of a regular dating site but to meet younger girls that want some help with their bills, have sexual needs and fantasies that can be spontaneously explored in a safe and nurturing environment, and with someone that could be a real friend even if its mostly for the financial and physical benefits. But a friend nonetheless.

Whats your motivation?"

I have noticed that talking about money appears to be difficult for some SD's. This letter will help get the conversation going but will still require a lot of follow up. In my letter I clearly state what I am willing to pay to get started. But I have a lot of girls in my area and dont care if most of them blow me off. Your area may require a little more cultivation or grooming upfront so as not to lose out due to the limited number of prospects.