"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[John HandCock]

Only been in the sport since July, and had a response back from a baby that has me conflicted so thought I would check with the masters on their thoughts. Contacted new profile about her info got standard answer, mutual beneficial relationship with help getting back on her feet. Then she asked if I had done this before and if so what was that deal as she was new to this and had no idea as to what to ask. I explained new to me too and gave her specifics of what I was looking for. She then stated quote You know some arrangements are illegal, just making sure your not a cop or anything".

This is the first time I have ever had a baby ask that so immediate thought was she is a pro, I asked her about response, claims she is not or ever been an escort and was just being paranoid, watches to much news. I dropped the subject and since she only has one pic of herself in jeans posted I asked for one of her in a dress, said she didn't send out pics. Anyway told her I would get back to her and set up a meeting and if after the meeting would she be available to play if things worked out or needed time to think about it. She said she could play right then and there, then she sent me her email address and said to email her when ready to meet that several people used the phone and she would get the message sooner this way. This was Thursday and haven't heard from her since.

Thoughts.

[FotoGuy1970]

Funny. I don't really see a lot of contributions from anyone anymore. I could PM a couple of SD's on here and never miss a beat. No real need to go on this blog.

Where are all the other reports? It can't be this bad. There are an awful lot of women out there in need of a stiff dick and some money.

Is there no one out there to service them?

Lets see some reports.

Revvo.

I can finally report something, as I've found a SB for the first time since July / August of this year.

I had a barely legal college girl from a city about an hour away reply to a CL ad. She is truly submissive, which brings out my dom qualities. She says she has never done this before (which I totally believe) but wants the sexual satisfaction as well as the cash assistance. We've seen each other twice: Once for a M&G, once for a play date. She's very attractive, very affectionate, very eager to please. So far she is very nearly the ideal SB.

[FyrGuy33]

First and foremost, I need to thank all you guys in here for the wonderful posts you have all added. I am not in Virginia, although I do visit frequently on business, but I am in New York. I guess now it is sort of my turn. I am a long time monger and a lurker for quite a while in this forum. I have been active in this hobby for around 30 years. Approximately 10 years ago I moved from dealing with Indy's and Agencies to utr's. Around 5 years ago I found SA and have been dabbling with that thru now. Here comes my dilemma. I have met a 26 why / o young lady from SA (I am 58). She is new to this SB thing. I am not the first guy she has met from the site. The other guys turned her off so much that I am now the "last attempt" at something worthwhile for her. She is stunningly beautiful and really a dream to talk to. We are really hitting it off. I met her Wednesday for a few hours at a local tavern for a cocktail, and again this afternoon. She is taking this slow and wants to build a "relationship" before we get intimate. She is not in this for the money do much. We have discussed that aspect and she knows I am not willing to do a monthly allowance. Seems she is ok with me just helping her out when she needs a few bucks for something. At this point I have $50 invested in bar tabs and I gave her $20 for some gas. I think this has tremendous potential, but I just don't want to be sitting here a month later wondering when I am going to fuck her. And yes, I am married for those that are wondering.

My question here is, how long should I let this play out like this before I tell her she has to get to the next level? We have discussed that she wants to take it slow. She doesn't want to end up feeling like a working girl and wants to have a connection before she does that. But really, how much time should I invest in this? If it works out it could be off the wall good. I don't want to blow this as she is not the typical SA girl. But, I don't want to waste my time either.

Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

[HollywoodGuy]

Saw my "Princess" (pictured in her thanksgiving day dress) 8 times and spent 1.3 k.. It's been a steady 8 months of twice a week visits so I rewarded her with an early Christmas at the mall.

My roommate has been a little distracted so it was a quiet month. Only 4 hookups. I am having withdrawal symptoms. LOL. 8 benjis

ATF MILF. Saw her zero times but sent her $$.25 as a retainer.

Did 7 M&G's for $.8 which resulted in only one hookup.

Did one booty call for $.

Plus $$$ in sugar alimony.

So another 3 k for the month. Only 14 hookups. Sometimes you got to go along to get along. Hoping for a better December.

[Colgado]

You've for that right. Since my almost fatal slip-up with the unexplained condom in the wash, everything is above the radar. I can still get out on the rare occasion, but she questions every minute that I am late, even legitimate work commitments.

Last weekend, I was up late using my smart phone to check out the latest posts on this forum and she accused me of being on line with my girlfriend. It was just a passing comment, but you could tell she was serious. She is definitely watching every move. I'm just lucky that she is not tech-savy enough to know how to track my cell phone location. I would definitely be toast.

By the way, for those of you that need to know your SO's location, the Find IPhone app is priceless. As long as she has her phone on, it will tell you exactly where she is while you are trying to discreetly entertain your SB. It is an added level of protection to avoid having the SO accidentally show up at the same location, especially if you occasionally take your SB out on the town for dining or drinks.

Hi Alias. That app only works if she doesn't know how to turn off the gps tracking on her phone. If she is non the wiser, you will know where she is, otherwise, you won't be able to pinpoint her.

[Revvo]

Tomcatt, Copper, Martinez and Scoop!

Gentlemen, welcome to the finest, most civil, intelligent and useful thread in this entire forum, but my question is why have you all not posted up before? This is a camaraderie of brothers with but one purpose. To land that most elusive of quarries: the true amateur. If you have tales / intel / wisdom / successes / failures to relate, please do so. Don't be shy; none of us will harsh on you, I am certain.

As for me, I am on parole at the moment, but still not brave enough to jump back into the Bowl in any significant way. I did have a lovely back-seat reunion with my ATF while my SO was out of town, but typically since then my little fish has gone to her secret holding spot, and I have not been able to tempt her out. I did also spend some quality time with my Skittish Baby on the aforementioned shore leave, but so far have not been able to get out from under the spotlight for a repeat visit. I envy you single brothers, I truly do. Being on a short leash is no fun whatsoever.

Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends here, and of course, don't forget to write!

Peace,

Scott.

Funny. I don't really see a lot of contributions from anyone anymore. I could PM a couple of SD's on here and never miss a beat. No real need to go on this blog.

Where are all the other reports? It can't be this bad. There are an awful lot of women out there in need of a stiff dick and some money.

Is there no one out there to service them?

Lets see some reports.

Revvo.

[Revvo]

Women are born with a 6th sense and a better sense of smell. We have no idea the extent we are being watched. When one whiff of reaffirmation comes along everything goes on steroids. We are never forgiven. The longer things go the more things add up.

There is truth here. Seems like they get more acute. So Golfcart it sounds like you speak from experience. Maybe you could share a little of your brush with death? Or actually getting caught?

Also I have often thought just to tell my SO to just back the fuck off. She has nothing on me and there are no loose ends. So short of hiring a private eye. What is she going to do? And even if she did catch me what is she going to do? She has it too good. She is not going to leave me.

Still be careful out there.

Revvo.

[Randytomcatt]

Tomcatt, Copper, Martinez and Scoop!

Gentlemen, welcome to the finest, most civil, intelligent and useful thread in this entire forum, but my question is why have you all not posted up before? This is a camaraderie of brothers with but one purpose. To land that most elusive of quarries: the true amateur. If you have tales / intel / wisdom / successes / failures to relate, please do so. Don't be shy; none of us will harsh on you, I am certain.

As for me, I am on parole at the moment, but still not brave enough to jump back into the Bowl in any significant way. I did have a lovely back-seat reunion with my ATF while my SO was out of town, but typically since then my little fish has gone to her secret holding spot, and I have not been able to tempt her out. I did also spend some quality time with my Skittish Baby on the aforementioned shore leave, but so far have not been able to get out from under the spotlight for a repeat visit. I envy you single brothers, I truly do. Being on a short leash is no fun whatsoever.

Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends here, and of course, don't forget to write!

Peace,

Scott.

Scott,

Found you guys about a year ago. Problem for me is lack of disposable income at this point. Until that changes, I will have to read in awe all of the great things you guys are doing.

[AliasSM]

Women are born with a 6th sense and a better sense of smell. We have no idea the extent we are being watched. When one whiff of reaffirmation comes along everything goes on steroids. We are never forgiven. The longer things go the more things add up.

You've for that right. Since my almost fatal slip-up with the unexplained condom in the wash, everything is above the radar. I can still get out on the rare occasion, but she questions every minute that I am late, even legitimate work commitments.

Last weekend, I was up late using my smart phone to check out the latest posts on this forum and she accused me of being on line with my girlfriend. It was just a passing comment, but you could tell she was serious. She is definitely watching every move. I'm just lucky that she is not tech-savy enough to know how to track my cell phone location. I would definitely be toast.

By the way, for those of you that need to know your SO's location, the Find IPhone app is priceless. As long as she has her phone on, it will tell you exactly where she is while you are trying to discreetly entertain your SB. It is an added level of protection to avoid having the SO accidentally show up at the same location, especially if you occasionally take your SB out on the town for dining or drinks.

[Golfcart]

I too am on parole and trying to squeeze in some playtime with my ATF. The risk is high but the rewards are amazing.

Women are born with a 6th sense and a better sense of smell. We have no idea the extent we are being watched. When one whiff of reaffirmation comes along everything goes on steroids. We are never forgiven. The longer things go the more things add up.

[FredMoore]

Tomcatt, Copper, Martinez and Scoop!

As for me, I am on parole at the moment, but still not brave enough to jump back into the Bowl in any significant way.
Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends here, and of course, don't forget to write!

Peace,

Scott.

I too am on parole and trying to squeeze in some playtime with my ATF. The risk is high but the rewards are amazing. I hope that things will settle down enough to get some kind of rhythm back. For you married brothers just realize that the discovery is inevitable and be prepared for it. Best case scenario is that your SO will actually want / need to stay married to you and that you will have to end or seriously curtail your activities. This is where brother Scott and I are at the present moment. Life in the sugar bowl will never be the same again unless our marital status changes. We can only hope for a scrap thrown our way when we aren't being monitored.

I don't need to explain the worst case, so be careful out there. My advice is don't be greedy when things are going well and seem easy. Go for the long haul instead of the max. Now you single guys I know have your issues but you are lucky not to have to watch your back too much.

[Showtime2020]

Well said and welcome Ltnric!


Showtime..what area are you bowling in....yours sounds like some of mine in the DC/MD/VA area?

BigTigg

BigTigg sorry for the late reply, but I'm in the DC / NOVA / MD area and after this week I think I will stay in a 20 mile radius of DC. Baltimore is just too far away and there are more than enough babes in this are for me to stay busy for a long time.

[F Scott]

Tomcatt, Copper, Martinez and Scoop!

Gentlemen, welcome to the finest, most civil, intelligent and useful thread in this entire forum, but my question is why have you all not posted up before? This is a camaraderie of brothers with but one purpose. To land that most elusive of quarries: the true amateur. If you have tales / intel / wisdom / successes / failures to relate, please do so. Don't be shy; none of us will harsh on you, I am certain.

As for me, I am on parole at the moment, but still not brave enough to jump back into the Bowl in any significant way. I did have a lovely back-seat reunion with my ATF while my SO was out of town, but typically since then my little fish has gone to her secret holding spot, and I have not been able to tempt her out. I did also spend some quality time with my Skittish Baby on the aforementioned shore leave, but so far have not been able to get out from under the spotlight for a repeat visit. I envy you single brothers, I truly do. Being on a short leash is no fun whatsoever.

Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends here, and of course, don't forget to write!

Peace,

Scott.

[Spitfire]

Gentlemen,

Please forgive me if this has been covered here. I don't have very good luck with searches here in the forum. I've had no firm results with google either.

How do the google voice number show up on your bill? Do they show up as the number you're dialing or as the google access number? Do incoming and outgoing show up the same?

It doesn't show up at all. It's data and doesn't count against your voice minutes.

[Makethescoop]

Gentlemen,

Please forgive me if this has been covered here. I don't have very good luck with searches here in the forum. I've had no firm results with google either.

How do the google voice number show up on your bill? Do they show up as the number you're dialing or as the google access number? Do incoming and outgoing show up the same?