"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[F Scott]

Tomcatt, Copper, Martinez and Scoop!

Gentlemen, welcome to the finest, most civil, intelligent and useful thread in this entire forum, but my question is why have you all not posted up before? This is a camaraderie of brothers with but one purpose. To land that most elusive of quarries: the true amateur. If you have tales / intel / wisdom / successes / failures to relate, please do so. Don't be shy; none of us will harsh on you, I am certain.

As for me, I am on parole at the moment, but still not brave enough to jump back into the Bowl in any significant way. I did have a lovely back-seat reunion with my ATF while my SO was out of town, but typically since then my little fish has gone to her secret holding spot, and I have not been able to tempt her out. I did also spend some quality time with my Skittish Baby on the aforementioned shore leave, but so far have not been able to get out from under the spotlight for a repeat visit. I envy you single brothers, I truly do. Being on a short leash is no fun whatsoever.

Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends here, and of course, don't forget to write!

Peace,

Scott.

[Spitfire]

Gentlemen,

Please forgive me if this has been covered here. I don't have very good luck with searches here in the forum. I've had no firm results with google either.

How do the google voice number show up on your bill? Do they show up as the number you're dialing or as the google access number? Do incoming and outgoing show up the same?

It doesn't show up at all. It's data and doesn't count against your voice minutes.

[Makethescoop]

Gentlemen,

Please forgive me if this has been covered here. I don't have very good luck with searches here in the forum. I've had no firm results with google either.

How do the google voice number show up on your bill? Do they show up as the number you're dialing or as the google access number? Do incoming and outgoing show up the same?

[J Martinez]

...Anyone have any ideas? Is there a compatibility issue with iPhones and googlevoice?

Thanks,

Revvo.

I would give her the benefit of the doubt. And it sounds like you already have. Most love and appreciate these great communication technologies, nothing beats a face to face look her in the eyes.

[Copper Fool]

I have my LT baby my little girl next door and I have not heard from her for a week. I texted and called and no answer. Then all of a sudden today she emails me telling me that she misses me and is worried that something is wrong with me. Now my first inclination is she is up to something. But she has always been straight with me. Then I think maybe there really is a technical issue. She did attempt phone calls and I was able to call and talk with her after the email.

She seemed to be perfectly normal and even asked to meet today. Which I couldn't. Then I did remember she got upgraded from iPhone 4 to a 5. And I use googlevoice. Has anyone seen any issues with this? They do not show up on my phone or my online app.

Anyone have any ideas? Is there a compatibility issue with iPhones and googlevoice?

Thanks,

Revvo.

I have seen an issue with gv, where I and the other person who I was trying to contact were using gv. For some reason I would call them and they would not get the call, same with text. After a couple days it just cleared up. Not really sure what the problem was.

[Randytomcatt]

I have my LT baby my little girl next door and I have not heard from her for a week. I texted and called and no answer. Then all of a sudden today she emails me telling me that she misses me and is worried that something is wrong with me. Now my first inclination is she is up to something. But she has always been straight with me. Then I think maybe there really is a technical issue. She did attempt phone calls and I was able to call and talk with her after the email.

She seemed to be perfectly normal and even asked to meet today. Which I couldn't. Then I did remember she got upgraded from iPhone 4 to a 5. And I use googlevoice. Has anyone seen any issues with this? They do not show up on my phone or my online app.

Anyone have any ideas? Is there a compatibility issue with iPhones and googlevoice?

Thanks,

Revvo.

I have not noticed any problems with Google Voice. Use it a lot.

[Revvo]

I have my LT baby my little girl next door and I have not heard from her for a week. I texted and called and no answer. Then all of a sudden today she emails me telling me that she misses me and is worried that something is wrong with me. Now my first inclination is she is up to something. But she has always been straight with me. Then I think maybe there really is a technical issue. She did attempt phone calls and I was able to call and talk with her after the email.

She seemed to be perfectly normal and even asked to meet today. Which I couldn't. Then I did remember she got upgraded from iPhone 4 to a 5. And I use googlevoice. Has anyone seen any issues with this? They do not show up on my phone or my online app.

Anyone have any ideas? Is there a compatibility issue with iPhones and googlevoice?

Thanks,

Revvo.

[AllSeasonLv]

Thank you to the members of this forum who took the time to respond to my post about finding the elusive "unicorn". I'm out ahead of all your advice. My MILF SB and I are in full agreement about what qualifications we are looking for in the other female who will be sharing our bed. Also, she is the one actively looking. I totally agree with all of you that this should primarily be her call (but with mutual agreement on the final selection), otherwise she might have a negative feedback if it's someone that I have chosen. Plus, it's obvious that any POT unicorn is going to be far more comfortable being approached / contacted by the female of a couple looking for the FMF hookup.

We will keep on trying through the various avenues available and I will give the forum a full report when we have achieved success.

Happy hunting to all.

ASL.

[Showtime2020]

Thanks everyone for the warm welcome and the great advice. Here is what I have learned so far:

Showtime 2020/ Big Tigger.

- Based on your reviews I am assuming that we don't use the real name of the SB and instead give them codes is that correct? That is completely different on the escort forums.

Spitfire.

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I've only had one FC encounter thus far but here are a few things I've picked up from the forum.

1. I do not use their names on a forum because you never know if a lurker from in your city has his eyes on the same baby, he can use that info against you and take advantage of your hard work.

2. I have created a separate existence, you may not need this since you're single but for people in relationships this is essential.

3. I use an alias until I feel like I know the girl and then I only say my first name and do my best to never say my last name.

4. I have a separate email address that is on a totally different email site than my regulars, also the name is the same as my alias.

5. I do have a separate bank acct that I will use for all of my activities.

6. I have a burner phone, not google voice. This phone never enters my house and I shut it off at 7 pm everyday unless I have a planned activity. Even since you're single you should consider this anyway just in case you meet someone you don't want to talk to any more.

Sorry for being long winded but this far that's what I've gathered thus far. I've done my best to stay disciplined and not break my own rules.

[HollywoodGuy]

Looking at it this was puts you at a disadvantage. Never presume you can talk her into it. I don't want to!! Instead, OF COURSE sex is part of the deal. That's the definition of a SD / SB relationship!!

And there is is no girl that doesn't want it anyway. Just let them know "I am willing to pay (whatever) a visit for your time once we decide to start an arrangement (which could be the first date)." Feel free to plagiarize.

[J Martinez]

...When someone says they are not going to have sex, is that true or can they be talked into it. And yes I am going back and reading some of the older posts....

Looking at it this was puts you at a disadvantage. Never presume you can talk her into it. I don't want to!! Instead, OF COURSE sex is part of the deal. That's the definition of a SD / SB relationship!!

[HollywoodGuy]

MsLilMama has indicated that I can stop by and hit that whenever I like. I have settled in to $ per visit. Unfortunately I know she's not going to be too involved as she's very selfish in bed. But she has a great spinner body and makes great sounds.

Spinner body and makes great sounds. Sounds good to me. LOL.

[Ltnric]

Thanks everyone for the warm welcome and the great advice. Here is what I have learned so far:

Revvo.

- Yes I was getting a bad feeling about Felicity. The whole marriage / pimp is an issue for me and I feel like she is an escort so I think I will pass on this.

- Yes I will wait until we have gone out a few times before I bring her home. I guess I was just being a cheap bastard thinking the hotel would only add to the cost. But you guys are right better safe and spend a few more bucks than put my myself at risk.

Showtime 2020/ Big Tigger.

- Based on your reviews I am assuming that we don't use the real name of the SB and instead give them codes is that correct? That is completely different on the escort forums.

Spitfire.

- Good call on the definition of "dancing" I've got to change my mindset.

GolfCart.

- You are dead on, I already have a hard enough time understanding women in the real world so this SD / SB is even more confusing as hell!!

So far I have not had any M&G just confirmation from one potential to meet the week after Thanksgiving. I'll be more than happy to provide full report.

So far I have learned that there are women on here who want to get paid just to hang out with you. When someone says they are not going to have sex, is that true or can they be talked into it. And yes I am going back and reading some of the older posts.

Thanks guys and look forward to contributing to this fun, scary and exciting new hobby.

Stay Thirsty My Friends.

[BigTigger]

Ltnric, you've found one of the few places in the country devoted to the SB side of the hobby. This board is the authority. The others are pretenders.

Well said and welcome Ltnric!


Showtime..what area are you bowling in....yours sounds like some of mine in the DC/MD/VA area?

BigTigg

[BigTigger]

MsLilMama has indicated that I can stop by and hit that whenever I like. I have settled in to $ per visit. Unfortunately I know she's not going to be too involved as she's very selfish in bed. But she has a great spinner body and makes great sounds.

MsHipsNThighs has indicated the same. She "misses" me. We agreed on .80 per visit. She has all the skills, but her body is bigger than my preference, it's shapely, just big.

MsWhatABody has agreed to twice a week at $.25 per visit. But I'm not sure if I'm ready to make that commitment as she has her own place and I'll be wasting the money spent on the Tiggapad. Plus it would most likely be my entire budget. She was looking better when we met. So I'd move her face up to a 7.8. The body is still 10...wow!

MsSlimShorty (first time mentioned, 4'11, less than 100, short haircut) I tried to drop her as we've only chatted two to 3 times in the car. She basically said, she likes my personality and is fine being booty call friends. Works for me.

MsSlimCheerleader. Got sick on Thursday for our overnight date. She text sporadically, complaining of cramps / pains. Text me the next morning saying she was in the hospital. Then text me at 12 am on Friday night saying Hello,. At this point I do believe her. But only about 80%. It just seemed to be a big too convenient. We are supposed to meet again the Wed after Thanksgiving. Then again for Fri / Sat overnight. We'll see.

MsVanity- Is still on the list, but she's booty call only. I tried to get her out one night to just chat and get some drinks as she was on her period. She would not come out unless I persuaded her with money. So I said we'll wait until the period is over, LOL. So I had to move her down a rung as it's obvious she's not quite as relational as I like.

MsCelibate - Dumped me and thanked me for breaking her drought. I think I wasn't available enough and she didn't like the fact that I had a stable. She never said why and I never asked.

BigTigg.