"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**AllSeasonLv** · 04-30-13 12:54

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

SDFM has been entertaining for me Scott. My ATF came from there and was a HCB, highly educated, and a long term win. However, the site is replete with Nando1s, escorts, and dingbats. Also, the hotties mostly seem to want "sugar brothers " instead of Daddies. If you look at the age desired feature they rarely check the 35 to 80 box. In fact many check the 22 to 30. What? How many 20 yr olds can afford the sugar life? I guess we could ask the Facebook and Google CEOs LOL.

The other annoying fact are the out of towners and foreign nationals who inbox you. What? I am going to call some chick from Monrovia, Chech Republic and fly her and her "brother " over for a date?

Pros work that site heavily. One of my ATF escorts is on there regularly. And I wrote a cute youngster and got an email address for her pimp to send prepaid funds to secure an appointment.

In short, it is a skankier population but there are some jewels to be found there.

Good luck!

Fred,

You've put a voice to what I, and probably many others, have been thinking about that site ever since I first got on it. Everything from the known escorts to the contact by eastern Euros and pot SBs from the west coast who are looking for a SD! In fact, I was in contact with that same cutie who wanted an appointment application filled out and 100% up-front sugar. I told her she was crazy and that no sane SD would agree to that. She still IMs me from time to time. Guess she doesn't know what "no" means! But like you said, there are some gems to be found. Just takes time.

ASL

**FredMoore** · 04-30-13 10:51

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Gentlemen,

Interstingly enough, there have only been about 4 overlaps of babies with SA. I don't know what that means.

Thank you for any intel you supply. I'm sure it will be helpful to more than me.

Waiting,

Scott

SDFM has been entertaining for me Scott. My ATF came from there and was a HCB, highly educated, and a long term win. However, the site is replete with Nando1s, escorts, and dingbats. Also, the hotties mostly seem to want "sugar brothers " instead of Daddies. If you look at the age desired feature they rarely check the 35 to 80 box. In fact many check the 22 to 30. What? How many 20 yr olds can afford the sugar life? I guess we could ask the Facebook and Google CEOs LOL.

The other annoying fact are the out of towners and foreign nationals who inbox you. What? I am going to call some chick from Monrovia, Chech Republic and fly her and her "brother " over for a date?

Pros work that site heavily. One of my ATF escorts is on there regularly. And I wrote a cute youngster and got an email address for her pimp to send prepaid funds to secure an appointment.

In short, it is a skankier population but there are some jewels to be found there.

Good luck!

**F Scott** · 04-30-13 10:32

Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]

The best advice has already been given. But let me reiterate a few things.

1. Read the entire thread from beginning to end. It will help tremendously and it is very very entertaining. There were times when I could not put it down.

2. This hobby is work. This is not like picking up a phone and ordering an escort like a bucket of chicken. These babies do cost money, but there are many hoops you need to go through before you land a SB. Especially a good one.

3. Be ready to look at this like dating to a certain extent. I would even say this is more difficult than regular dating. In fact if I wasnt married I would not be doing this. I would go the conventional dating route.

4. Be very careful. You can run into some really crazy people out there. They can fuck your life up. Read the posts on security carefully. These are hard won lessons.

5. But when it is good. It is awesome. The connection, the sex, the non controlling with the right baby, can rock your world. No risk no reward.

Lets be careful out there.

Revvo

Well said, Rev.
Even for some of us veterans, it's good to have things spelled out simply and succinctly from time to time. Thanks!

Good luck, newbie, and don't forget to write!

Scott

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-29-13 20:29

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Hollywood,

I appreciate the info. I have a green dot card for just such contingencies, so I will sign up as a paying member, and see what happens. My card only has $50 on it, as I have learned my lesson with SD4Me before and how hard it is to cancel their ongoing billing.

I will, of course, report back with anything of value that I learn.

Scott

Just remembered. Only a gold member girl can reply to a non member guy

**Mr Strict** · 04-29-13 19:56

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

Sentance / sentence.

Puncuation / punctuation

I hate those tiny buttons and being blind. Sucks.

(Thanks Hollywood)

Strict

**F Scott** · 04-29-13 19:16

Originally Posted by Spitfire [View Original Post]

Also, you have to do the 'total access' thing if you want women who are non-members to have the ability to contact you.

Good grief, who knew it was so complicated!

Thank you, Spit! If only the babies were so prompt!

Scott

**Spitfire** · 04-29-13 19:02

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Hollywood,

I appreciate the info. I have a green dot card for just such contingencies, so I will sign up as a paying member, and see what happens. My card only has $50 on it, as I have learned my lesson with SD4Me before and how hard it is to cancel their ongoing billing.

I will, of course, report back with anything of value that I learn.

Scott

Also, you have to do the 'total access' thing if you want women who are non-members to have the ability to contact you.

**F Scott** · 04-29-13 18:58

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

SB's on SD4ME can not message you back through the system until you are a member. If you look in your out box you can see if they read your message or not. I just sent a test email to my roommates account with my email address in it. Its not blocked (but I am a member). But most girls initially want to reply through the site as it is much faster and easier. Also you don't have any street cred with them if you are not a gold member.

Hollywood,

I appreciate the info. I have a green dot card for just such contingencies, so I will sign up as a paying member, and see what happens. My card only has $50 on it, as I have learned my lesson with SD4Me before and how hard it is to cancel their ongoing billing.

I will, of course, report back with anything of value that I learn.

Scott

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-29-13 18:54

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Gentlemen,

In a fit of boredom, and perhaps to see what color the grass was in a slightly different yard, I signed up today for a 3 day trial membership with SD4Me. I know, I know, I was one of their harshest critics, but my motives were two-fold: I have met some outstanding babies on SA, have let my profile there expire, and don't really want to have them see me logging on just at the moment. Two of them are delicate little newbies, and I want to solidify my place (between their legs) before some other local shark comes along and messes it up for me. One of them, my potential new ATF, I know has already strayed from the sheltering pool that I created for her, got a glimpse of the depravity that lurks just beyond the drop-off, and has come swimming back at top speed. My other motive was to see if there were different, or the same, babies on both sites.

In any event, I signed up, as I said, for a 3 day trial run, using a gift card that had a few dollars left on it, and have been busily sending out messages to pretty much any baby that caught my eye, or Scottie's. In my text, I urge them to contact me at my yahoo Sugar email, but so far, no joy! My question to those who prefer SD4Me is this: if I only have a trial membership, can the babies read my emails? There was some language in the legal boilerplate about needing to upgrade to even be able to send emails, but that does not seem to be my issue. I look in my outbox, and there they all are, but none have been read, even to babies that the site states are ONLINE NOW! If I need to be patient, I can be, but I just want to be sure I'm not missing some fine point that will render me more successful.

Interstingly enough, there have only been about 4 overlaps of babies with SA. I don't know what that means, but I'll keep trying to figure it out.

Thank you for any intel you supply. I'm sure it will be helpful to more than me.

Waiting,

Scott

SB's on SD4ME can not message you back through the system until you are a member. If you look in your out box you can see if they read your message or not. I just sent a test email to my roommates account with my email address in it. Its not blocked (but I am a member). But most girls initially want to reply through the site as it is much faster and easier. Also you don't have any street cred with them if you are not a gold member.

**F Scott** · 04-29-13 18:44

Gentlemen,

In a fit of boredom, and perhaps to see what color the grass was in a slightly different yard, I signed up today for a 3 day trial membership with SD4Me. I know, I know, I was one of their harshest critics, but my motives were two-fold: I have met some outstanding babies on SA, have let my profile there expire, and don't really want to have them see me logging on just at the moment. Two of them are delicate little newbies, and I want to solidify my place (between their legs) before some other local shark comes along and messes it up for me. One of them, my potential new ATF, I know has already strayed from the sheltering pool that I created for her, got a glimpse of the depravity that lurks just beyond the drop-off, and has come swimming back at top speed. My other motive was to see if there were different, or the same, babies on both sites.

In any event, I signed up, as I said, for a 3 day trial run, using a gift card that had a few dollars left on it, and have been busily sending out messages to pretty much any baby that caught my eye, or Scottie's. In my text, I urge them to contact me at my yahoo Sugar email, but so far, no joy! My question to those who prefer SD4Me is this: if I only have a trial membership, can the babies read my emails? There was some language in the legal boilerplate about needing to upgrade to even be able to send emails, but that does not seem to be my issue. I look in my outbox, and there they all are, but none have been read, even to babies that the site states are ONLINE NOW! If I need to be patient, I can be, but I just want to be sure I'm not missing some fine point that will render me more successful.

Interstingly enough, there have only been about 4 overlaps of babies with SA. I don't know what that means, but I'll keep trying to figure it out.

Thank you for any intel you supply. I'm sure it will be helpful to more than me.

Waiting,

Scott

**Revvo** · 04-29-13 16:36

The best advice has already been given. But let me reiterate a few things.

1. Read the entire thread from begining to end. It will help tremendously and it is very very entertaining. There were times when I could not put it down.

2. This hobby is work. This is not like picking up a phone and ordering an escort like a bucket of chicken. These babies do cost money, but there are many hoops you need to go through before you land a SB. Especially a good one.

3. Be ready to look at this like dating to a certain extent. I would even say this is more difficult than regular dating. In fact if I wasnt married I would not be doing this. I would go the conventional dating route.

4. Be very careful. You can run into some really crazy people out there. They can fuck your life up. Read the posts on security carefully. These are hard won lessons.

5. But when it is good. It is awesome. The connection, the sex, the non controlling with the right baby, can rock your world. No risk no reward.

Lets be careful out there.

Revvo

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-29-13 15:25

Originally Posted by Mr Strict [View Original Post]

How about grammar, sentance structure and puncuation? Good grief.

Strict

Sentance / sentence.

Puncuation / punctuation

**F Scott** · 04-29-13 14:47

Originally Posted by Mr Strict [View Original Post]

How about grammar, sentence structure and punctuation? Good grief.

Strict

We are a fairly literary bunch, are we not? As always, newbies are encouraged to read the thread from the start. Most, if not all, answers are there.

Scott

**Mr Strict** · 04-29-13 14:13

Originally Posted by S2568 [View Original Post]

I see you guys reporting regularly I have been more into professionals would like to try this see if I am successful, have membership not paid in sb. Com site all I get is older, can I get some guidance need some college girls with out going bankrupt.

S2568

How about grammar, sentance structure and puncuation? Good grief.

Strict

**FredMoore** · 04-29-13 13:54

Originally Posted by S2568 [View Original Post]

can I get some guidance need some college girls with out going bankrupt.

S2568

College girls go to the head of the class (pun intended ). They aren't everyone's cup of tea but they generally are smart, cute, and unspoiled yet if you catch them before their pussies get plated with gold and silver. SA dot com seems to be the best consistent source of College SBs. They are marked and certified as such. My ATF ATF came from SBFM though so you never know where you will luck into a SB with the right attitude for you.

I am currently seeing my new ATF who is an elderly upper 20s. The only thing I see different from the 18 to 22 yr old group is a more mature way of looking at things. They look just as hot and young. There is less drama since she has her own place and there is no issue with flea bag notels. She uses my $$ for clothes, and she likes to dress up and go out to dinner.

I recommend 25 to 30 age group, never married, no children, gainfully employed, owns a car, has her own place / no room mates, and professes to need money for the "extras" in life rather than the necessities. Most of my SBs are not sex maniacs, which suits me fine. I like teaching them what I like and I don't want her to be trolling the sites to get her daily bang when I am not available for her. Nymphos are fun but they need more than most guys can give them. In fact, these girls I like are usually size 0 to 2 and all are tight. I have to be very slow and gentle to start or I seem to hurt them.