"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[ChiGuy606]

I wanted to mention one additional item regarding my most recent encounter. I booked my hotel through an online travel site, and did not notice until later a rather curious error with the reservation system.

When I arrived at the registration desk, the agent could not find my reservation in the system at all. The hotel was completely sold out and of course panic started set in as I was on a very short timeframe before my baby was due to arrive.

Luckily I had my confirmation email with me and she was able to locate me via the conf number. It was then that we noticed the curious error. For sake of argument, let's say my real life name is 'Dick Longsteel' (of course it would be!). The booking website happened to truncate my name in the reservation system to 'Dick Lo'. When I initially approached the desk announcing "Mr Richard Longsteel has arrived to check into my jacuzzi suite with the heart shaped waterbed", she was not able to find my name in the system.

Now after we determined the error via the confirmation email, she was able to give me my room, and take my regularly named credit card for the incidental charges. HOWEVER, she said it was apparently IMPOSSIBLE to change my last name from 'Lo' to 'Longsteel' because I had "booked the room via a 3rd party site". Well my brothers, I tried to feign my disappointment in not being able to book the room under my proper surname, but the lightbulb certainly went off inside my head.

All paperwork for the room, the receipt, the bar tab, even the checkout system on the in-room TV had the incorrect last name associated with it.

You can bet that the next time I make a reservation, I will be sure to cut off the spelling of my last name to just one or two letters so that it will transfer to the hotel's reservation system that way. Just be sure that if you try this system yourself, that you actually bring a copy of the confirmation with you to ensure that you actually can get into the room.

Good luck!

[ChiGuy606]

Second date has been completed with my voluptuous blonde paralegal baby. I must say I really really am enjoying this one. She has been completely 'on the ball' as far as reliability, safety, and communication. One truly could not ask for an easier candiate to hook up with. She absolutely knows the game, and is about as accommodating as they come. It had been exactly 2 weeks since our first date, and she has corresponded with me on about 10 out of the 14 days.

In the days leading up to our last meeting, she virtually begged me via texts and emails for me to tell her all my deepest darkest fantasies so she can be the one to fullfil anything I could possibly desire. We built up quite a list (column header 'Semen Extraction Procedures for July 18, 2012' sorted by priority of course) and I must confess we made a valiant attempt to check as many off as possible last night.

I arranged another hotel room downtown near where we both work and left the office about 4:00pm to check in and get everything situated. Since it was 148f in the city yesterday, I took the opportunity to grab a quick shower as well, and get a few beverages from a takeout store.

She left the office at 5:00 and knocked on the door at about 5:15. She arrived in the room looking fabulous and we shared a quick hug and I let her in. I made her a drink and we chatted for a few minutes. We did not have much to say in person honestly since we had talked so much during the week. I tried relaying some humorous story to her about one of my recent travels when she interrupted me in mid sentence and said "I don't mean to change the subject, but why are your pants still on?". She then sat down in a chair that I had strategically placed in the room (and just happend to be standing in front of at the time) , unzipped me and proceeded to check off box #1 of the 'Semen extraction procedure List' appropriately labeled "Big sloppy wet blowjob!".

I am not going to go into all the gory details, but we spent about 3 hours of bliss with each other last night. I will however give a hint at list item #3. It was entitled 'Slip and Slide' and involved stripping the hotel bed, laying down all the bath towels, a bottle of massage oil, and Mr Happy finding a glorious place to hide in between those 38DDD's.

When our time was up, we both needed a shower, and I was getting pretty late for my checkin with the warden. The room was a bit of a disaster, so I just left a nice tip for the cleaning people. There was a very nice looking lounge in the lobby of this particular establishment, and I did feel the need to sit at the bar and have a cold beer by myself and partially reflect on the evenings activities before finally heading home.

All in all, this is really turning out to be something fun. She is very much having a good time as well, and I noticed today that she has deleted her SA account. She is still not my ideal body type if I were to have to pick the perfect woman, but she is so easy to work with, and so unbelievably willing and accommodating, that I am going to have to let this go for a while and see where it takes us.

Till then, I have a M&G date tomorrow after work with yet another voluptuous blonde (I am becoming a bit transparent it seems) who has recently moved to the city to go back to school after doing a stint in Las Vegas as a poker dealer. This one has been completely adorable to me in emails, sending silly electronic greeting cards, etc. The photos I've seen of her so far have been nice, but have not yet seen a full body shot. This of course is why we are doing a M&G, and I'll just hope for the best.

On the following Tuesday, I have one more potential cocktail meeting planned with a STUNNING 22 year old who seems to know what she's doing. She is a college senior finishing up her last semester at a school about 2 hours away, and is getting ready to move back home. My worry here is that babies of this caliber have traditionally fallen out of what my normal comfortable budget usually is, but I just may have to splurge for a while if this goes well.

Glad to see more traffic on this thread, and keep it up brothers!

[ChiGuy606]

Dodge,

FWIW, I can attest they are not all like that. Some are for sure, and I try really hard to steer away from the ones that are (as should we all).

But if you look long enough, you can certainly find the diamonds in the rough.

In the case of Mr Rat's POT, good riddance. You probably saved yourself a lot of headache by not pursing that one. Wow!

It's all business with these chicks and they are willing to exchange pussy for money. That's it. Their aim is to give as little out as possible while getting the maximum in return. If that means making some poor shlub feel like she has feelings for him so he'll come up off of more cash, then that's what she's going to do.

They're working girls, dude. It's what they do.

[Member #4183]

Yet another new experience from a Pot. I had decided I didn't want to pursue this one, not even for a M&G, so she tells me she thinks I owe her something for her time, which consisted of several emails and texts. I am continually amazed at the mindset of some of these women!

It's all business with these chicks and they are willing to exchange pussy for money. That's it. Their aim is to give as little out as possible while getting the maximum in return. If that means making some poor shlub feel like she has feelings for him so he'll come up off of more cash, then that's what she's going to do.

They're working girls, dude. It's what they do.

[Magic Rat]

Yet another new experience from a Pot. I had decided I didn't want to pursue this one, not even for a M&G, so she tells me she thinks I owe her something for her time, which consisted of several emails and texts. I am continually amazed at the mindset of some of these women!

[TravelinSD]

Hi Scott,

I wouldn't give up hope here. If I've learned anything from my last SB and the myriad of POT that I've seen over the last 6 months its that communications is not immediate among today's 20-somethings. Also, once a text relationship is established I don't even think about email. That is so over 40, haha. Text is the only way and I've found it is not uncommon at all to go three days without a response, even though I respond 90% of the time immediately to texts that I get. I've concluded it's just their mindset. So, be patient and you may find your phone chiming.

Good luck!

Drummer.

My brothers,

From this day forward, I am imposing an iron-clad 48 hour gag order on myself after meeting with any new, untested baby before posting anything. After our delightful (I thought) lunch yesterday, which ended in some very pleasant, mutual (I thought) kissing, my SNB has gone into hiding. I sent her a charming (I thought) text last night, and another equally charming one this morning via email, and nothing, nada, goose egg, bagel and so on. I just can't be so wrong about these little fish, can I?

We had already talked about the "arrangement" and she knew there would be sex involved, and was down with that, so she said, and I know I'm not a bad kisser, so WTF?

I hope it's nothing bad with her daughter.

Mystified,

Scott

[ChiGuy606]

Good Lord! The mind of a POT boggles the logical mind some times don't they? Has she had an arrangement before? If this was her first, perhaps the reality of it set in by the time she got home and cold feet ensued?

Most likely it is cold feet and perhaps an email ensuring her that you are only looking to have a mutual good time (mutual is the key word) and that since you like her so much you are willing to go slow (within reason of course, but don't tell her that) and that you will do everything you can to make her comfortable.

But hell, I don't need to be giving you advice. Just don't let it get you down, they flake out on the best of us!

BTW, this is being posted in the FC. Legally Blonde just went home. Report to follow!

Stay positive.

Chi.

My brothers,

From this day forward, I am imposing an iron-clad 48 hour gag order on myself after meeting with any new, untested baby before posting anything. After our delightful (I thought) lunch yesterday, which ended in some very pleasant, mutual (I thought) kissing, my SNB has gone into hiding. I sent her a charming (I thought) text last night, and another equally charming one this morning via email, and nothing, nada, goose egg, bagel and so on. I just can't be so wrong about these little fish, can I?

We had already talked about the "arrangement" and she knew there would be sex involved, and was down with that, so she said, and I know I'm not a bad kisser, so WTF?

I hope it's nothing bad with her daughter.

Mystified,

Scott

[F Scott]

My brothers,

From this day forward, I am imposing an iron-clad 48 hour gag order on myself after meeting with any new, untested baby before posting anything. After our delightful (I thought) lunch yesterday, which ended in some very pleasant, mutual (I thought) kissing, my SNB has gone into hiding. I sent her a charming (I thought) text last night, and another equally charming one this morning via email, and nothing, nada, goose egg, bagel and so on. I just can't be so wrong about these little fish, can I?

We had already talked about the "arrangement" and she knew there would be sex involved, and was down with that, so she said, and I know I'm not a bad kisser, so WTF?

I hope it's nothing bad with her daughter.

Mystified,

Scott

[Golfcart]

Well today I was supposed to have the m&g, and I did made it clear I expected more than just a glass of wine for the $300. The reply was."see it as a down payment for the monthly allowance" and it was insulting to her that I even suggested that."as you know time is$ in business". So I replied "buh bye"

I went to the 18 yr old "de-virgined" play mate who can't get enough now.

This girls sounds like a woman using money as punishment.

[JoesParty]

Doc, let me, too, welcome you to the club. You've gotten off to a marvelous start, though I also caution against booking more patients than you can reasonably accommodate. I had a wonderful little AA baby much like your Patient 1. She, too, told me she hadn't had sex in a year. And oh boy, was she eager in the FC. But I had over-committed myself, and I had to cut her loose after about 2 months. We parted on friendly terms, though, and I may just pick her back up (if she's available) in the future because . . .

The relationship with the ATF seems to be reaching a natural conclusion. I say "natural" because it's not what I want, but it's happening anyway. She is becoming more distant and our time together shorter and shorter. Given my emotional entanglement with her, I can't just let it wither on the vine, so I'll have to just walk away. I doubt she'll be the one to call it off, as she still likes the sugar. I'll just disappear.

I'll be taking some time to recharge both my emotional and financial coffers, though I will check in here from time to time, if only to keep abreast of the excellent reports from my brothers (and Mandy!). Keep on writing.

Regards,

Joe

[F Scott]

Gentlemen,

Well, my lunch with what I am pretty sure is going to be my SNB, Shiny New Baby, went swimmingly yesterday. I invited her to one of my favorite places, a gastropub in a very groovy part of town, that coincidentally has hotel rooms upstairs. It was a place I used to go with my ATF, so I was a little interested in how I would feel meeting someone else there. The answer - just fine! Traffic was not as bad as I feared, so I arrived there a little ahead of schedule, which allowed me to gently probe my feelings, and honestly they were nothing but happiness. Happiness for the wonderful times I had there with ATF, which will never be spoiled, happiness that I am back in the game and achieving success again, and happiness that I was waiting for a beautiful, funny, lively, interesting and sexy baby who has already declared her interest in a relationship, and who lives on her own!

As I sat at the bar, enjoying a beautiful glass of craft stout, I looked around the room at all the 20 and 30 somethings that were there, and realized that for me, at least, the Bowl offers an unparalleled opportunity to stay vital, interested and curious, plus have sex with women who are less than half my age! I felt like I often did when I was out with ATF: safe, secure, off the grid, invisible and excited for what lay ahead.

When the Irish GI arrived, we embraced warmly and proceeded to a table, where we sat for almost 4 hours this time, again talking, laughing and flirting non-stop. I finally had to break it up, since I had to be back in time to beat my SO home. GI Jane and I made plans to meet again this coming Monday, with precise details still to be determined. A funny thing happened while we were talking: she told me here real name, but assured me that she did not expect me to reciprocate, since I had far more to lose than she did if things went sour eventually. This started us talking about "honesty" in sugar relationships, and she agreed that there was something very liberating about being in such an affair. There was no need nor point in bullshitting or being less than direct, since the ultimate "goal" was understood by both parties, so no need to "trick" anyone into bed. The only thing left, then is openness and honesty in who you are as a person and what you are interested in having in this relationship.

I thought it interesting that she also seemed to grasp what we have been discussing here in the clubhouse. I told her she could tell me anything she wanted about whatever she wanted, and I hoped I could do the same, and there ensued a long tale on her part about why she joined the military, and it was not love of country. I felt honored that she shared with me, and told her so, which made her run her bare foot up my leg under the table, which I have to admit I enjoyed disproportionally. She also suggested that the next time we came to this restaurant, maybe we could get a room. "Ten-hut," said Scottie!

At this point, I think if I can find one other baby that I connect with, I will be content. Perhaps it is Brit, perhaps Polo. Who knows? What did Magic say,"ya just never know with this shit" or something like that?

Peace,

Scott

[EuroInCincy]

Not all aspects of EuroInCincy's situation are clear to me. I assume EuroInCincy and the girl have agreed to $300 behind closed doors; her view is they will meet for a M&G at which M&G she expects $300 and this occasion will not be followed by going behind closed doors. I would tell her the $300 is associated with behind closed doors time; a M&G for coffee is not behind closed doors time and is not compensable unless the two of you decide to adjourn to behind closed doors.

I agree with Scott. Being straight up about everying is the only way.

I don't agree with gift cards or anything not associated with going behind closed doors. If we start something like that we invite more of the same, ending with regrets.

Well today I was supposed to have the m&g, and I did made it clear I expected more than just a glass of wine for the $300. The reply was."see it as a down payment for the monthly allowance" and it was insulting to her that I even suggested that."as you know time is$ in business". So I replied "buh bye"

I went to the 18 yr old "de-virgined" play mate who can't get enough now.

[SbabyBlog]

Just wanted to say welcome to the sugar bowl and that I loved your "doctor" themed prose below. You seem to be off to a fantastic start. Since my most favorite SD is also a doctor, I found it quite enjoyable to read.

I hope any of our mid-western friends are staying in-doors. Scott is right, it's becoming unbearable. I'm happy I get to escape it this weekend to go to an east coast beach town with my Doctor. Hope you all have a great week!

Mandy

[ChiGuy606]

Fantastic Doctor! What a fabulous way to jump right in, and it is quite an accomplishment you pulled off there! I bet you slept like a baby that night.

I felt myself cringing at times while reading your story, because I was (and sometimes still am) guilty of the same 'biting off more than I can chew' scenario you are in. But I must say you handled it masterfully.

There is a certain kid in the candy store type of rush that can get you in trouble if you're not careful!

Again welcome & I'd be curious to hear what your metro area is & what your confirmed donation amount was (if you don't mind. PM is fine also).

Regards,

Chi

[F Scott]

Brothers,

I believe the good Doctor's recent post proves what I have been thinking for quite some time: this is far and away the most literate, well-spoken, and thoughtful thread on the entire forum, and I am proud to be a member of it. I enjoy your medical practice analogy, Doc, and look forward to reading more. Keep up the good work! I totally get not wanting to turn away any willing patients; you'll just have to work longer hours I guess. Keep an eye on establishing your "best practices" in terms of secrecy and safety, especially if the Head Nurse could run across some of your charts and revoke your license to practice.

In other news, I head out in an hour to have lunch with Irish GI baby. I really hope it goes as well as the m&g. I have set a goal of obtaining a few solid kisses at the end of the meal from her, so we shall see. As I said earlier, I'd like to take it a little slowly here, in case this proves to be something long term. I will, of course, file a report upon my return if there are any interesting developments.

Stay cool, my friends. Heat index in the Windy City set at 105! I hope I don't get to say that I was alive when the Great Midwestern Desert began. Yikes!

Scott