"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**F Scott** · 10-06-11 16:21

Gentlemen,

I was recently browsing this forum as a whole when I came across a similar thread to this one in the Baltimore section. Apparently the hobbyists there are having a great deal of success posting their own ads on CL and BP. This tactic, I am aware, is nothing new. What was intriguing was that one member made reference to finding utrs on a website called Modelmayhem, which is a forum for photographers and models to showcase their respective talents. If this member can be believed, all one has to do is put up a profile masquerading as a photographer and contact any of the models who do nude or erotic shoots. He asserts that "most of them know what's up", especially if you tell them you are looking to do a POV shoot.

Is this bs, wishful thinking, or something one of you has had experience with? I will say that one of my sbs could also be found on the mayhem site, but I thought it was a coincidence. If anyone has experience with this approach, please share. I am thinking of setting myself up there, but it would entail some pretty sophisticated crafting to make the profile seem legit, including getting photos to put up as examples of my "work" that couldn't be traced back to the rightful photographer.

On another note, still no Lit? Has anyone heard from him?

Keep up the good work,

Scott

**NiceGuy804** · 10-05-11 12:20

Sugardaddie. Com doesn't specify part of state, but http://sugardaddyforme.com/ DOES let you do a search by zip.

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

Unfortunately not. It's always the first question when it comes to small talk."What part of XX are you in?"

**Magic Rat** · 09-30-11 12:21

Varoom. Amen to that. I never mention any of the websites I frequent to sbs or strippers even though I don't post names, locations, or a lot of details due to the possibility of them finding out. With age comes wisdom, or so I've heard.

Not much to report from here. Still seeing only the 1 sb. The HYB search was pretty much a failure, but I think that has to do with the shallow pool where I live. I also tried the nonpro approach as described in the Baltimore and a couple of LA forums. I've been emailing one there who is a possibility, but you never know. No big deal because I'm pretty satisfied with what I have.

Originally Posted by Varoom [View Original Post]

What comes to mind here is that if this and other SB's are astute and bold enough to be blogging about their adventures of the FC, and lack thereof, there might be a good chance that may have also seen this site too. So if you are dealing with a very tech saavy gal, keep that in mind before posting something here that could set her off potentially, meaning I wouldn't say anything here that you wouldn't feel comfortable saying to her face, without garnering a negative response and other potential consequences. Certainly this is the risk in sharing all this info online to begin with.

**BigTigger** · 09-30-11 07:47

Unfortunately not. It's always the first question when it comes to small talk."What part of XX are you in?"

Originally Posted by Hernando [View Original Post]

And a question for Big Tigger. I joined sugar daddie and found loads of girls but they are all statewide. Is there any way to narrow the search area once you join? Most sites have a search radius of your choice by mileage. Thanks.

**Varoom** · 09-28-11 18:56

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

I just discovered that my third On The Road sb, SB12, has a blog in which she describes, in a very humorous way, her dating exploits, which include boys her same age and obviously older men, some of whom come from cites other than her own. No names are mentioned, and no identifying details are given, so I have no worries that I will be outed.

[ edit delte ]. There are several of them out there, and they provide an interesting, and not always flattering-to-us insight into the mindset of an SB. I am sure there are useful bits of intel that will help us all increase our contact-to-fucking percentage.

Scott

What comes to mind here is that if this and other SB's are astute and bold enough to be blogging about their adventures of the FC, and lack thereof, there might be a good chance that may have also seen this site too. So if you are dealing with a very tech saavy gal, keep that in mind before posting something here that could set her off potentially, meaning I wouldn't say anything here that you wouldn't feel comfortable saying to her face, without garnering a negative response and other potential consequences. Certainly this is the risk in sharing all this info online to begin with.

**F Scott** · 09-27-11 19:29

Gentlemen,

I just discovered that my third On The Road sb, SB12, has a blog in which she describes, in a very humorous way, her dating exploits, which include boys her same age and obviously older men, some of whom come from cites other than her own. No names are mentioned, and no identifying details are given, so I have no worries that I will be outed.

Rather, much to my chagrin, I have not, so far, been written about, and it has been over two months! Should I be grateful, relieved, or insulted?

I found her blog by googling her email address, which, ironically, is what the past unpleasantness that caused me to boycott this thread for a few months was about. I know some of you thought I was stalking these little fish, but I assure you I was not; just trying to get as complete a picture as possible before I went any further. There are a lot of nutcases out there, and quite frankly I don't want to take my pants off and then find out I'm dealing with one.

Back to SB12's blog, I now check it every week or so, hoping to recognize my story in the post about 'Mr. Totally Hot Older Dude Who Made Me Cum Like 5 Times' or something like that. So far, no joy. If I do get mentioned, (but only in a positive way) , I will let the brethren know. In the meantime, take a minute and search sugar baby blogs. There are several of them out there, and they provide an interesting, and not always flattering-to-us insight into the mindset of an SB. I am sure there are useful bits of intel that will help us all increase our contact-to-fucking percentage. Let us all know what you find.

In the meantime, keep up the good work,

Scott

**Hernando** · 09-25-11 19:39

Welcome to the board DR. Did you come up with the $$.5 or did your SB ask?

And a question for Big Tigger. I joined sugar daddie and found loads of girls but they are all statewide. Is there any way to narrow the search area once you join? Most sites have a search radius of your choice by mileage. Thanks.

Re : BP DPS babe. Got a date this week and I really like the $ sugar for multipop all nighter. If we had access to a FC and didn't have to pay for a notel this game would be a lot cheaper.

I have a FC of my own but I can't risk using it for new talent until I trust them. Anyone got a FC they want to rent by the hour?

**Drock1234** · 09-25-11 14:34

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

Thanks for the report Drock. So what's the sugar damage?

BigTigg.

Sugar damage was $$.5

**BigTigger** · 09-24-11 11:34

Another Beautiful Latina. She lives many many states away. But that's cool as #10 is keeping me very busy here locally. Conversations have been great. She will replace one of my other far away SB who flaked out on me. I expect to see her within the next 2 months. She's cool with my type of sugar, where I cover expenses and enjoy the weekend.

Of course I'll keep the board updated.

BigTigg

**BigTigger** · 09-24-11 11:31

Thanks for the report Drock. So what's the sugar damage?

BigTigg.

Originally Posted by Drock1234 [View Original Post]

Long time lurker here. I decided to jump in and have been very successful. I started by rtff. Very good information. Joined SD4me. Used the suggested profile and WOW 15 hits. Met up with the first one this week.

I will call her sb1. 22 year old hot lady. Met for dinner first. Then set up next date. On next date went straight to chamber. What a night. Sb2 is setup for next week. Looks promising. 20 year old student. I will let you know. Sb3 is set up for the first week of Oct.

Thank you very much for the advice. Happy hunting.

**Drock1234** · 09-23-11 20:33

Long time lurker here. I decided to jump in and have been very successful. I started by rtff. Very good information. Joined SD4me. Used the suggested profile and WOW 15 hits. Met up with the first one this week.

I will call her sb1. 22 year old hot lady. Met for dinner first. Then set up next date. On next date went straight to chamber. What a night. Sb2 is setup for next week. Looks promising. 20 year old student. I will let you know. Sb3 is set up for the first week of Oct.

Thank you very much for the advice. Happy hunting.

**Golfcart** · 09-23-11 08:37

Originally Posted by Coolhand2 [View Original Post]

Now comes the moment of truth when she had to go. What to do about the sugar? It was not her fault that I was late. It was not her fault that I could not get a room. She came prepared to give up the pussy and had allocated sufficient time to do so. I was reluctant, but I slipped the full amount of the sugar into her pocket. Off she went on those stilts that served for legs and I'm left with a woodie and a empty wallet. She sent me a very nice email afterwards. She said she was glad to see I was a honorable man. That she felt good about her decision and she was thinking of all the things we could do when we met again. To be honest, I'm not sure if I did the right thing. Time will tell.

That was clearly a no-brainer. Cool did the right thing for the right reason. CSB12 saying she was glad to see Cool was an honorable man and she felt good about her decision gives a lot of insight into her.

**BigTigger** · 09-23-11 07:41

TB#3. We keep planning, but something keeps messing up the date.

TB#7. Have only hit it once, but we have a TiggaBounce date set for the first week of the month.

TB#9. Was my main squeeze, but life has put a squeeze on her. I have not seen her about a month now.

TB#10. It's amazing what being around someone so young can do for you. Seeing her at least once a week. Actually it's been twice a week since we got started. She let it slip that before she had her little one, she stripped for about a year. She didn't know how much of a "plus" that was! So for the last TiggaBounce, I got on the edge of the bed and she gave me the best naked_lapdance_fuck I've ever had. {I think it's my first actually} It was like what I'm normally dreaming of when I get a lapdance. Only this time she really was naked and she was working that TiggaStick over like a champ. To the point where she got 2 orgasms and was all sweaty when she was done.

She wants to see me once to twice a week and I'm consistently coming in less than $ each time. I even tested her with a cheaper hotel this last time and it didn't phase her at all. I'm going to ride this one fellas for as long as I can. We have a overnight trip scheduled coming up soon. I'll pick her up and drive to the next state over, hang out all night and come back the next afternoon. Speaking of some of the conversation about talking between. We do talk almost daily. If we don't talk, we definitely email. But we pretty much talk every day. It's been a blast.

I don't think I'm going to need the 12 step plan, we have been very clear with boundaries and limitations. She doesn't want a real boyfriend just yet. She's got a lot going on and this arrangement is really working for her. She gets to go out, have fun and not spend any money. The gas and sitter are always covered. So far so good!

I'm so glad I stumbled on this thread. I hope my reports have been helpful.

BigTigg.

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

It's been almost a month, here's the latest.

TB #2. Gone, gave some lame excuse. Just too flaky, I never got to taste the goodies.

TB #3. Still no luck yet, she had BF drama the night we were supposed to meet. I have some great photos, but have not tasted the goodies yet.

TB #4. Done.

TB #5. All Star! . Flew in, looked way better than pictures, banging body (especially if you like big butts!) The sex was off the charts. If she were closer, it would be in so much trouble. I tried to do as advised and give her a little sugar to go. But once she paid for the lunch on Saturday, I knew it would not go over well. She stated that since I paid for everything else, it's the least she could do. (I'm sitting there stunned). So she's more of a MILF / SB. I can't wait to get at it again. Even the cost of the hotel and flight $$$$ was worth the over 20 hours of time together. It was pretty much, whatever I could get in, during that time, so it was on when we were together.

TB#6. Have not heard from her. No time to follow up with her now. (I still have the Airline gift cards ready for use)

TB#7. Linked up with her for Dinner and Hotel date. Very nice, great body and great attitude. The sexy was very good, will get better each time I'm sure. She communicates daily and we are trying to link up again next week. Not sure if it's going to work. TB#9 has been taking up a lot of my time.

TB#8. She went out of town and didn't get in lots of contact when she came back. She's juggling a number of SDs. Not a high priority anymore.

TB#9. 32 Year old, beautiful African-American. Great Body, great attitude. She's more of the affair type as opposed to straight SD / SB. Works for me, nobody has asked for exclusivity. She's by far the one I've spent the most time with and enjoy the most. Mainly pay for gas, and a I've thrown in a little extra. Have yet to have any amount over $. So far. 4 Hotel dates (including 2 over-nighters) , multiple pops and 2 non-hotel dates. (One of the non hotel dates ended in HJ, so even that was surprisingly successful!)

So currently,

TB#9 is the main squeeze. Averaging once a week.

TB#7 is my main pay to play. Averaging once a month. Sugar was not negotiated, but the $, seems to be suffice.

TB#5 is my top choice, will probably see once a quarter.

-

Still have my normal two MILFs that I see once a month or every other month.

BigTigg.

**BigTigger** · 09-23-11 07:25

All my experiences have come from "Sugardaddie", lots of hotties and lots of areas covered.

BigTigg.

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Gentlemen,

Expanding a bit on Nando's observations, I have found, personally, that SA is the best producer of hot, high-quality babies in my area. I have had paid, all-access memberships on three other sites, SD4Me (2nd best, but fewer babies in my area) , Sugarsugar (nothing of real value there, and very few babies) and AM, which I agree is a sucky, total rip-off. All the contacts that came from there turned out to be shills for pay webcam sites. I believe every "sb"on that site is actually an Eastern European dude, just looking to get your credit card number. Nando, I'm surprised you even got as far as a meet with anyone.

Golf, you may be right. I wasted two hours in total yesterday checking my SD email account for a message from her, which of course did not come. She's just so hot, and the fucking is mind-blowing. I need to take a page from Lit's gamebook and fuck one or two of my other babies to get my mind off her. If that doesn't work, an intervention seems inevitable.

Keep up the good work,

Scott

**F Scott** · 09-22-11 15:35

I concur with Spit. Your observation that she came prepared to uphold her end of the arrangement is the thing to keep in mind. Also, she has two-thirds of the promised sugar still to go, so that will be incentive to her to come back and fulfill the deal. If for some reason it all falls apart, consider the lost sugar as the price of a lesson learned. Next time plan ahead for negative contingencies as much as is possible.

Keep up the good work,

Scott