Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**DonnnyBravo** · 09-27-25 16:49

Originally Posted by Hawg219 [View Original Post]

Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-db6a66a97eb7

I've seen Ashley in the past with mixed results. I was able to make a new SA account just to view profiles and saw she sent a DM, so I text her. All I got to say is that she's an underperformer and just wants money for nothing. If she isn't complaining about guys on SA degrading her, she says she has a terminal illness and that I everyone should be generous to her during this tough time. She does engage with demons as it's the family hobby.

If you decide to see her, it is def YMMV. She's a 30 yr old MILF and has to have someone watch her kid. She has a weird voice almost like a kid talking. She weighs more than her pics reveal. Lives with mom and brother that all have active warrants per ct judicial site. She will also likely ask if you can "help" her out. Don't do it. Shouldn't with anyone. She'll try to use her "illness" or a future meet as leverage to get immediate help.

**Chudakkad** · 09-26-25 22:27

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

After they increased the membership fees, I stopped using it, its too much even with a 20% discount they are offering.

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

The $40 a month extra is peanuts however the selection has gone downhill. Glen is you are reading this I saw Stephania (Soni) this week. Best of the Olita bunch for sure.

For me it is because I meet one SB in like 2-3 months so it adds up.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 09-26-25 11:36

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

After they increased the membership fees, I stopped using it, its too much even with a 20% discount they are offering.

The $40 a month extra is peanuts however the selection has gone downhill. Glen is you are reading this I saw Stephania (Soni) this week. Best of the Olita bunch for sure.

**DonnnyBravo** · 09-26-25 10:52

I don't have an acct since being banned, but I was passed along this one. She's been talked about before. Surprisingly, she met up same day she was passed to me. Great girl in the moment and plenty of fun and virtually no restrictions. Ppm was lowered without me asking. She said willing to go even lower on subsequent meets. Tried to set up a 2nd meet, but she delayed in responding a couple days but asked me what day works. I responded twice since but haven't gotten any responses. I know she has a normal job and college that can keep her busy. Just a note, do not mention this site / reviews or that you talked about her with anyone. Despite her allowing a friend to pass her number to me, she wasn't happy about it and almost didn't meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...b-e8edf2967e56

**Barebacker69** · 09-26-25 09:44

Looking for info on this one?? She looks like my type

Originally Posted by Barebacker69 [View Original Post]

Looking for any info on this one. Been talking for a bit seems shy but not sure if she's real. Ppm? What's on the table with her.. what are her rules in the bedroom

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-8e02b26cbda7

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**GlenBenton** · 09-25-25 22:19

Originally Posted by DiscreteGuy888 [View Original Post]

Seems like Abi has been pretty busy lately haha. I met her recently too. She said she has a 1st date rule where she won't do much but 2nd meeting was a lot of fun. She has a great body and very much up front about her availability. She will be added to my rotation for sure.

These birds getting blown out again and again. My first "date" with her was at a shitty motel and she did it all!

**Tommy13** · 09-25-25 20:52

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

After they increased the membership fees, I stopped using it, its too much even with a 20% discount they are offering.

I stopped using SA. I tried SDM because for the price of one month of SA you get three. But you get what you pay for. There is some overlap but if you find a girl of SA who is also on SDM or vice versa then you know you have a hustler on your hands so just plan accordingly. It's fun, and once in a while you find a gem. But honestly, it's also a frustrating experience as you constantly run into bullshit artists, but to be fair mongers aren't exactly paragons of virtue either so I can't fault them.

**Chudakkad** · 09-25-25 14:04

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

Haven't been able to log into this site due that damn 502 bad gateway error.

Anyway, been out of the bowl for months now.

You gents still having fun and unearthing gems?

Should I sign up and jump back in again?

After they increased the membership fees, I stopped using it, its too much even with a 20% discount they are offering.

**DiscreteGuy888** · 09-24-25 18:53

Originally Posted by LuckyCT [View Original Post]

Has anyone had any contact or seen this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-a1062dd11477

I saw this profile and immediately thought it was a dude. Can anyone confirm its not?

**LuckyCT** · 09-24-25 17:47

Has anyone had any contact or seen this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-a1062dd11477

**TopGun9** · 09-24-25 16:47

Haven't been able to log into this site due that damn 502 bad gateway error.

Anyway, been out of the bowl for months now.

You gents still having fun and unearthing gems?

Should I sign up and jump back in again?

**DiscreteGuy888** · 09-24-25 16:26

Seems like Abi has been pretty busy lately haha. I met her recently too. She said she has a 1st date rule where she won't do much but 2nd meeting was a lot of fun. She has a great body and very much up front about her availability. She will be added to my rotation for sure.

Originally Posted by RoughHouseCt [View Original Post]

I saw Abi recently as well and I'd concur exactly with this. Very easy to get down to brass tacks and none of the nonsense. A+.

I saw Sara a loooong time ago (she's been on that site for years under different names and profiles). We did hook up the first time but I agree with the vanilla comment, she also put on a lot of pretense when it was pretty clear what we were both there for.

Interested in Violet after GB's review, she favorited me last week but wasn't my usual type so I didn't respond. Might have to give it a run.

Kitty: https://members.seeking.com/member/e...0-1ff1d20461ec Extremely fun but slightly unhinged. Talked a good game about NSA etc and was a blast (her thing about liking dominant men is for real in the best way) but immediately started the "hey when can we see each other again, can we get dinner soon, I miss you" routine afterwards. One and done for me.

**RoughHouseCt** · 09-24-25 12:02

Originally Posted by GlenBenton [View Original Post]

Abi - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-663c0c94030a.

Single mom, fake rack and an ass built for sex. She's a bit business-like but I found that refreshing. No need for BS and no fear of encountering a stage 5 clinger. She's fun.

Sara - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-4c77f04398ed.

She's a cutie but wouldn't budge on "getting to know each other first.". Met for drinks twice before getting her naked. It was ok. She's pretty vanilla.

I saw Abi recently as well and I'd concur exactly with this. Very easy to get down to brass tacks and none of the nonsense. A+.

I saw Sara a loooong time ago (she's been on that site for years under different names and profiles). We did hook up the first time but I agree with the vanilla comment, she also put on a lot of pretense when it was pretty clear what we were both there for.

Interested in Violet after GB's review, she favorited me last week but wasn't my usual type so I didn't respond. Might have to give it a run.

Kitty: https://members.seeking.com/member/e...0-1ff1d20461ec Extremely fun but slightly unhinged. Talked a good game about NSA etc and was a blast (her thing about liking dominant men is for real in the best way) but immediately started the "hey when can we see each other again, can we get dinner soon, I miss you" routine afterwards. One and done for me.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 09-24-25 09:43

Originally Posted by Tommy13 [View Original Post]

Found her on SDM< but she is on Seeking as well.

All talk, no follow through. Turns out she has a lot of family court drama with her ex and she likes to talk about how she works in the courts and knows a lot of cops etc. As far as single moms go, she's desperate for cash and maybe will do whatever, but she told me she was getting $1000 for an hour. She stood me up 3 times and finally ghosted me so I am putting her on the no-go list but if you want to give it a shot, don't' say you weren't warned. Turns out we know some of the same people, had I known what I know now I would have never hit her up.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74129382

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-6d97fd3cc0c1

$1000 an hour, I would not even pay her $300 .

**Tommy13** · 09-24-25 00:37

Originally Posted by Tommy13 [View Original Post]

Found her on SDM< but she is on Seeking as well.

All talk, no follow through. Turns out she has a lot of family court drama with her ex and she likes to talk about how she works in the courts and knows a lot of cops etc. As far as single moms go, she's desperate for cash and maybe will do whatever, but she told me she was getting $1000 for an hour. She stood me up 3 times and finally ghosted me so I am putting her on the no-go list but if you want to give it a shot, don't' say you weren't warned. Turns out we know some of the same people, had I known what I know now I would have never hit her up.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74129382

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-6d97fd3cc0c1

I should add. Much to my embarrassment because I should know better. But for one of our planned dates, I asked if she had a certain piece of lingerie and she didn't so she said if I sent her $50 she would stop off at a store on the way. Well needless to say she ended up having to bail. Then on another occasion she asked me to spot her $50 for a bill and she would pay me back. I never expected her to and even said "don't sweat it" since I figured I was showing her goodwill. But that is just me being naive and I have stood by this rule of no money til we meet with hundreds and hundreds of previous women and it never failed me with anyone really worth it. But yeah, figured I would add that bit too.