Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**Slow Hands78** · 09-08-25 00:47

Originally Posted by RalphReilly [View Original Post]

Let's see you see a sugar baby and decide that the most you would spend on her is $400 for PPM.

Do you:

A) Say you're interested in PPM, and offer $400 or less? If less, how much less?

B) Say you're interested in PPM, then let them make the first move on $, countering with $400 or less (and again, if less, how much less)?

At the risk of being a "market maker" and not wanting to make the first move, I've been hesitant to throw out the first number. 9 times out of 10, the ask from the SB is high of my threshold, and I have to back them down (to their disappointment). I'm debating leading with an offer (either at or below my threshold) that may be higher than their "lowest" PPM. Wanted to see if folks had a preferred method to get to an agreed price with the least amount of disappointment.

I spend some time just chatting first. A lot of the "real" girls on there don't have a "price". Yeah, maybe the last guy gave her WAY too much, but if you build some connection, they often take less if they actually enjoy your company.

It does get a bit awkward when you finally have to talk pricing. And you don't want to waste both of your time if she's looking for way more than you are willing to spend. So I don't wait too long. Kinda depends how flirty the conversation is going. If she has no redeeming personality traits, then I just transition right to price talk to either move on or cut her loose. If they say a number that is way off, I just respectfully say we are too far apart on that and wish them well.

I've actually never paid more than 250. And that was to bombshell college girl. Usually its much less. The girl I'm seeing now doesn't even want money.

So basically, you get a better deal if you treat them like a human. But there is always another girl out there so if the price isn't what you are looking for, just move on and don't be afraid about if you "played it right".

**RalphReilly** · 09-07-25 16:37

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

Were you seeing her?? And if so were you covered? There is no way I would not be covered with any girl except for oral. The Herpies comment was totally lame.

1 ppm when she was much less expensive. Still not worth it.

Covered (always for me) but I think she was more referring to the hypothetical skanks I'd be replacing her with.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 09-07-25 14:57

Originally Posted by RalphReilly [View Original Post]

Let's see you see a sugar baby and decide that the most you would spend on her is $400 for PPM.

Do you:

A) Say you're interested in PPM, and offer $400 or less? If less, how much less?

B) Say you're interested in PPM, then let them make the first move on $, countering with $400 or less (and again, if less, how much less)?

At the risk of being a "market maker" and not wanting to make the first move, I've been hesitant to throw out the first number. 9 times out of 10, the ask from the SB is high of my threshold, and I have to back them down (to their disappointment). I'm debating leading with an offer (either at or below my threshold) that may be higher than their "lowest" PPM. Wanted to see if folks had a preferred method to get to an agreed price with the least amount of disappointment.

I always ask them to name their price and then negotiate if needed.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 09-07-25 14:56

Originally Posted by RalphReilly [View Original Post]

She also doesn't take well to rejection. She told me to "enjoy getting herpies" when I mentioned I'd be going in a different direction at a lower price point. What a mess.

Were you seeing her?? And if so were you covered? There is no way I would not be covered with any girl except for oral. The Herpies comment was totally lame.

**RalphReilly** · 09-07-25 12:46

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...e-9a08efd267d2

https://tryst.link/escort/daphneaustin

Coffee Date introduction $250 $1200 for 90 minutes! So maybe she gets guys to pay this, IMO she is a $400 - $500 an hour escort max. There are girls.

That you can get for $500 an hour that look a lot better then she. Plus this girl has an attitude and GPS.

That coffee date Into better include a BJ!! .

She also doesn't take well to rejection. She told me to "enjoy getting herpies" when I mentioned I'd be going in a different direction at a lower price point. What a mess.

**RalphReilly** · 09-07-25 12:45

Let's see you see a sugar baby and decide that the most you would spend on her is $400 for PPM.

Do you:

A) Say you're interested in PPM, and offer $400 or less? If less, how much less?

B) Say you're interested in PPM, then let them make the first move on $, countering with $400 or less (and again, if less, how much less)?

At the risk of being a "market maker" and not wanting to make the first move, I've been hesitant to throw out the first number. 9 times out of 10, the ask from the SB is high of my threshold, and I have to back them down (to their disappointment). I'm debating leading with an offer (either at or below my threshold) that may be higher than their "lowest" PPM. Wanted to see if folks had a preferred method to get to an agreed price with the least amount of disappointment.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 09-07-25 11:14

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...e-9a08efd267d2

https://tryst.link/escort/daphneaustin

Coffee Date introduction $250 $1200 for 90 minutes! So maybe she gets guys to pay this, IMO she is a $400 - $500 an hour escort max. There are girls.

That you can get for $500 an hour that look a lot better then she. Plus this girl has an attitude and GPS.

That coffee date Into better include a BJ!! .

**TrentWilliams** · 09-04-25 22:04

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

Her profile says she is 18, hahahahahahhahaha!

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-094354dd0a74

Sorry to bump a 3 year old post but I hung out with her twice a few years back around the time you posted and she was indeed 18 at the time. Just turned 21 in Feb this year.

**Berol Loz** · 08-30-25 00:08

Originally Posted by BerolLoz [View Original Post]

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Anaisbabyy7, 29, Bethel (Latino).

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...68863773&nsp=1

"young single mother looking for something exciting". (single moms seem to be reliable)

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

Young single moms are most of my best fucks!!

Yeah, I don't know why it is, but yes they've definitely been good to me too. Something about them just gets me riled up LOL. She's been on the site recently if anyone is looking to maybe help a lady out with the rent due.

**Barebacker69** · 08-27-25 08:47

Looking for any info on this one. Been talking for a bit seems shy but not sure if she's real. Ppm? What's on the table with her.. what are her rules in the bedroom

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-8e02b26cbda7

**Gecko17** · 08-26-25 12:57

Originally Posted by Sutigel2 [View Original Post]

I've got plenty of experience with Allie. The first time I met her, it was with her friend "Cassie. " Fairly lame threesome. Got a cheap room and I think $100 a girl. She was ok. Nothing great. Then she started dancing. I was able to get BBBJ for $20 a dance in the lap dance room. BBFS was offered, but I prefer covered with these girls. By that point, I was well aware that she had a history with demons and had been a SW. I even saw her profile on SA once but didn't act on it. She didn't last long on there. Then she became aware of sites such as tryst and, next thing I know, she is charging $500+ for what I could have gotten for $20 or cheaper. When I brought this up on the forum a white knight sent me messages defending her prices. I mean, she's smart to look for big money but isn't worth it and never has been. Stay away.

(Also I think her FB is claiming she just became engaged LOL).

She got hitched this past weekend. Less open menu likely.

**Batman203** · 08-20-25 08:55

Originally Posted by Batman203 [View Original Post]

Thanks everyone for your responses. I am in contact with her, and going back-and-forth with her just chit chattin. Wow is it $1 k for like full on service?

I have not discussed numbers with her yet. Just trying to fill her out. I'll let you know how things go.

Has anyone actually met up with her and done the deed yet?

Is she pretty much open menu? Like bare back and all that?

Have not yet bit the bullet but looks like a cash grab kinda chick to me.

Thanks guys.

**TopGun9** · 08-19-25 15:22

Originally Posted by BerolLoz [View Original Post]

Anaisbabyy7, 29, Bethel (Latino).

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...68863773&nsp=1

"young single mother looking for something exciting". (single moms seem to be reliable)

Young single moms are most of my best fucks!!

**MustangGuy** · 08-18-25 22:40

Any info on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...3-d9d402282599

**PoolPlayInTool** · 08-18-25 18:19

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

How is Seeking supposed to weed her out? All she has to say is that she identifies as female. Game over.

If a trans person is going to put up a profile then they should not be listing as a female. It is irrelevant what they identify as, they should list as trans.

Usually a male trans is going to identify as a female, that's why they are trans in the first place. All these other adjectives that are now used to identify someone that is not a straight male or female is a bit much.