The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**MmceStep** · 07-26-25 22:59

Originally Posted by Aamogdem [View Original Post]

Reminder for everyone in this hobby, don't pay to meet for dinner LOL.

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1JWMUYsgXH/

Absolutely right. 2 nights ago, when I was traveling to a city I go to a couple times per month, I met a 19 yo for dinner and we had a good time. It was a nice place and I paid for her Uber to get there. I had told her ahead of time that it's my policy to not pay for M&G's, as we're interviewing each other for the right fit. When we were done, it was only 8:45 and told her that I didn't want the night to end, wanted to talk more. But she wasn't old enough to go to a bar, s0 _ I invited her to my room, no expectations. When we got to my room we were going at it within 20 minutes. She ended up staying the night. I made sure I wasn't selfish, and got her off (showed her some of my old guy tricks LOL). Anyway, we've been texting ever since. She's hot but not hotter than my regular GF's (although younger, LOL), so I'm not sure I want to retain her for an allowance. If she was a 10 instead of an 8. 5, I'd be forking out some cash to keep her in my orbit. She asked about an allowance on the phone last night. I told her I haven't decided what I want to do going forward with a SB. I thought she'd be pissed. I was surprised when she said OK, well when you come back to town, let me know. I'd love to stay with you again, no charge. Now obviously I'll be out $150 for dinner, but well worth it. I guess I have a 19 yo eff buddy now. If you guys don't act like johns or simps, they have a hard time putting you in that bucket. The key is getting them to accept going to dinner without payment. If they do that, just use your charms!

**Berol Loz** · 07-26-25 18:02

Originally Posted by South215 [View Original Post]

Gene0220.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=72722188

Anyone have any information on this one? Dms Open if you want to keep it private!

Noticed she says "blonde now! Curvy" - but all her photos are blood hair, so I'm guessing she's been on the site (or another sugar site before)? I do like that she's upfront about her wants, though I suspect you're going to have to beat a Bush to get through her inbox. Have you already started talking to her?

**South215** · 07-26-25 16:21

Gene0220.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=72722188

Anyone have any information on this one? Dms Open if you want to keep it private!

**NeedToSearch2** · 07-26-25 16:01

Anyone have info on this one? Quite aggressive out the gate but hot.

Thanks.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...d-e88bc95c2ce8

**Swimback** · 07-19-25 00:13

Originally Posted by Aamogdem [View Original Post]

Reminder for everyone in this hobby, don't pay to meet for dinner LOL.

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1JWMUYsgXH/

I'm not mad at her, I'm mad at those of you who allow them to get this comfortable with it.

**Aamogdem** · 07-18-25 17:21

Reminder for everyone in this hobby, don't pay to meet for dinner LOL.

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1JWMUYsgXH/

**Sanp420** · 07-16-25 22:26

Originally Posted by MmceStep [View Original Post]

I agree with you. I'm at least 70% sure as well. This is definitely something that would be wise for her to be more clear about.

Ok someone need to get those private photos to confirm LOL.

**MmceStep** · 07-15-25 19:50

Originally Posted by Swimback [View Original Post]

Experienced trans spotter here. At least 70% that person is trans. Dick tucking is a thing, post op is a thing. Skill you must have is you plan on going to South American cities or southeast asia.

I agree with you. I'm at least 70% sure as well. This is definitely something that would be wise for her to be more clear about.

**LikesGirls** · 07-15-25 18:44

Originally Posted by Swimback [View Original Post]

Experienced trans spotter here. At least 70% that person is trans. Dick tucking is a thing, post op is a thing. Skill you must have is you plan on going to South American cities or southeast asia.

She could also be using that tag to filter out intolerant candidates.

**Swimback** · 07-15-25 17:03

Originally Posted by Sanp420 [View Original Post]

I assume she's open to SD that's trans.

Experienced trans spotter here. At least 70% that person is trans. Dick tucking is a thing, post op is a thing. Skill you must have is you plan on going to South American cities or southeast asia.

**Sanp420** · 07-15-25 11:43

Originally Posted by GentleGiant78 [View Original Post]

Does anyone know anything about Evie? Her profile says seeking trans-friendly which would usually be a no go for me but she dances at Ricks which seems odd if she still has junk. Just curious if anyone has details. Feel free to PM if you don't want to share privately.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-be8f73039f93

I assume she's open to SD that's trans.

**GentleGiant78** · 07-15-25 10:33

Does anyone know anything about Evie? Her profile says seeking trans-friendly which would usually be a no go for me but she dances at Ricks which seems odd if she still has junk. Just curious if anyone has details. Feel free to PM if you don't want to share privately.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-be8f73039f93

**YourCCPimp** · 07-13-25 17:43

Originally Posted by GoodBoyce [View Original Post]

Yep she will invite you to RC and tell that you have to spend at least 3 for going out for a dream outside.

This gets to a much larger observation I've made the hard way. Stay away from strippers you meet on SB sites! It sounds nice in theory: someone who uses sexuality for a living and seems like they would be amazing partners in bed. What I find, though, is that they are stingiest when it comes to sex. They have learned the art of the hustle and that's what they do with every guy they meet. Get another dollar and keep moving the goalposts until eventually your wallet runs dry. Probably many of you found this out already but I guess I finally learned the lesson.

**MmceStep** · 07-13-25 14:03

Originally Posted by Swimback [View Original Post]

Some SB entire business model is paid meet and greets. They do one every day or every other day. Never have to put out. Stop perpetuating this with paid M&G. There are more stories of dine and dash than successes. Point of this forum is to share experiences and give us an edge. If they aren't DTF after a day or two of chatting it's onto the next. No time for games, it's a marketplace not a dating site. I'd rather eat dinner alone than pay for someone to eat dinner with me and I'd frankly like to enjoy my meal in peace than listen to gen z yapping.

This is absolutely right. I've also stated this position on the Reddit SLF sub. Never pay for Meet & Greets. These are two way interviews. You have no idea who or what she is before you meet her. I've had one that was 120+ lbs heavier than her pictures. I've had absolutely obnoxious chicks show up. I've had street skanks that I was completely embarrassed to be out in public with show up when their pictures made them look like upscale fashion models. If she needs to be paid for you to buy her dinner, she is no good. You want the girl that shows up and makes you long to want to get her in bed, to make you think she's worth more than she's asking for. The top talent will convince you at a M&G. Imagine if a job seeker was demanding to be paid to show up for a job interview. Why would a company pay for something that provided them no value, no return on investment? You'd probably think that candidate thinks they had no shot at getting the job anyway, right? You'd think they had no respect for the hiring manager, right? My standard response to this is "I have no shortage of beautiful women that can accompany me to dinner. What I'm looking for is to find an attractive, engaging woman to satisfy my needs in a no strings capacity. When I find the right one, my plan is to have this be a regular situation, which could be quite lucrative for you, and efficient for me. If you'd like to explore our compatibility first, before we are physical, I'm fine with that too and will pay for our meal and drinks, I just don't intend to pay for physical things when those services aren't being provided". If we all universally say no to this, it stops.

**Raider887** · 07-12-25 15:32

Originally Posted by AlphaQ82 [View Original Post]

Yea, she will tell you her SOB stories. I treated her to lunch and then also gave her a bit of cash to help her out. Crickets since then. Nothing mutual about that.

Yep she will invite you to RC and tell that you have to spend at least 3 for going out for a dream outside.